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Archives for November 2009

Gropers Caught in Boston!

November 4, 2009 By HKearl

Earlier this week, a 52-year old man allegedly groped a young woman’s butt on a subway platform in Boston. She asked the man’s friend if he groped her and he said no. The alleged groper then chimed in saying it was him and that he bet she liked it and that he liked it and he was never going to see her again, so what did it matter.

The young woman reported him to police, who thankfully took her report seriously and arrested him. Good for her, good for the police. BOO to the stupid groper. I wonder how many other women he’s groped?! Hopefully she was the last. [Wordpress won’t let me embed it, but follow this link to see a short news clip about the story.]

Also that same night in a separate incident, police arrested another subway groper. A 37-year-old man groped a woman and then verbally harased her until she got off the train and reported him.

Last weekend MBTA launched more anti-sexual harassment ads on subways and buses, including this one:

Given how many men grope women on subways and buses in major cities around the world, other cities would do well to pay attention and perhaps start their own campaign and educate their MTA workers and police officers how to handle reports correctly, the way the officers did in these two incidents. Good job, Boston!

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: arrest, Boston, bus, groper, sexual harassment, street harassment, subway, the T

“Ya Just Gotta Laugh Sometimes”

November 3, 2009 By Contributor

The other day I was walking home from an evening class down a fairly busy street toward a 4-way junction. It was just after 6 and the sun had already gone down, so it was night-time by then. As I was walking a truck load of about 10 men passed by me and exclaimed a loud “WOOO!!!” and everyone on the street and at the junction looked around.

Usually I’m anywhere between mildly annoyed to pissed off at being harassed in public… but that was so funny, so unexpected and so harmless that I just laughed.

Sometimes you have to have a sense of humour about these things.

– QT

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: catcalling, sexua harassment, Stories, street harassment

More PSAs in Boston

November 2, 2009 By HKearl

A year and a half ago, Boston’s MTA started an anti-sexual harassment ad campaign on the subways and buses. The campaign has led to a 40 percent increase in the number of harassers police have arrested.

Now, MBTA is preparing to launch hundreds more anti-sexual harassment posters on buses and subway cars throughout Boston in an increased effort to curb such harassment and encourage more people to report it.

I applaud MBTA for taking sexual harassment on public transportation seriously. My main concern with their ads is that while it’s useful to have info informing women of their right to report harassers, it would be nice if there was also some message about respecting women and not harassing them!

UPDATE (11/4/09): I just read an article that talks more about the increased efforts by MBTA to fight groping etc on the subways and buses and there are some new ads aimed at harassers, notably this one, so now I support their efforts even  more!

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Filed Under: News stories, public harassment Tagged With: ad campaign, Boston, bus, MBTA, MTA, public transportation, sexual harassment, subway

Downtown Seattle

November 1, 2009 By Contributor

I live in Seattle, and comparatively the street harrassment by men is not as bad as some cities. We don’t have a lot of overt violence and groping, but men here act in passive-agressive ways that can be very annoying on a daily basis. I see it every day, all day, on the downtown streets here. Men walk around with their hands in the pockets and leer at women – almost any women that walks by. They stop at corners and turn around and stare at women walking their way. They stop in the middle of the sidewalk and block the path of a women walking by – anything to try and get attention.

It is pathetic – but I have come to view it as pathological and just as harrassing as groping. I feel incredibly uncomfortable walking alone downtown – at 8am, noon or 5pm. I never walk after dark. The only strategy that I have found works here – is headphones. Obvious Head Phones. It sends a message that you want no communication. It does not stop them all – but many get the message.

– anonymous

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Filed Under: Stories Tagged With: seattle, Stories, street harassment, Washington

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