• About Us
    • What Is Street Harassment?
    • Why Stopping Street Harassment Matters
    • Meet the Team
      • Board of Directors
      • Past Board Members
    • In The Media
  • Our Work
    • National Street Harassment Hotline
    • International Anti-Street Harassment Week
    • Blog Correspondents
      • Past SSH Correspondents
    • Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program
    • Publications
    • National Studies
    • Campaigns against Companies
    • Washington, D.C. Activism
  • Our Books
  • Donate
  • Store

Stop Street Harassment

Making Public Spaces Safe and Welcoming

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Twitter
  • YouTube
  • Home
  • Blog
    • Harassment Stories
    • Blog Correspondents
    • Street Respect Stories
  • Help & Advice
    • National Street Harassment Hotline
    • Dealing With Harassers
      • Assertive Responses
      • Reporting Harassers
      • Bystander Responses
      • Creative Responses
    • What to Do Before or After Harassment
    • Street Harassment and the Law
  • Resources
    • Definitions
    • Statistics
    • Articles & Books
    • Anti-Harassment Groups & Campaigns
    • Male Allies
      • Educating Boys & Men
      • How to Talk to Women
      • Bystander Tips
    • Video Clips
    • Images & Flyers
  • Take Community Action
  • Contact

Archives for March 2010

Harassed in Nepal

March 16, 2010 By HKearl

Image from My Republica

My Republica has an interesting/infuriating article about how common an experience street harassment is for teenagers and young women in Nepal. An excerpt:

“Twenty-year-old Dolma Choden remembers how one day she came across this one guy who, at first, seemed pretty decent.

“He was a normal-looking guy -the kind you meet every day on the road. He sat beside me on the microbus and the fifteen minutes next to him were the scariest moments of my whole life,” says Dolma.

Choden remembers how at first he talked to her and slowly put his hands across her shoulder and then began to caress her back.

“I asked him to move away but the microbus was too crowded. He even took out a ring he was wearing and forced me to wear it,” Dolma recalls.

Dolma then asked the microbus to stop and walked down. She says she walked for the next forty minutes but did not have the guts to get on another vehicle. She did not even have courage to lodge a complaint to the police.”

My Republica published an article about the high rates of harassment on public transportation last year. It’s very frustrating to hear about the commonality of street harassment throughout the world. When will girls and women be safe and have equal access to public spaces?

Share

Filed Under: News stories, public harassment Tagged With: my republica, Nepal, sexual harassment, street harassment

Weekly Round Up March 14, 2010

March 14, 2010 By HKearl

Stories:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • On this blog, one woman shares three different harassment stories that happened to her this week in Georgetown, Washington, DC, a woman in NYC is harassed on her way to jury duty, and a woman in MA is harassed in an elevator at her workplace.
  • On HollaBack NYC, a woman shares how a compliment from a man on the street turns into him stalking her!
  • On HollaBack DC! a woman wishes she had verbally confronted men who harassed her and pulled on her arm and another woman talks about a man who followed and harassed her and her sister.

In the News:

  • Women-only taxi cabs are introduced in Cairo because of male harassment
  • One of the women in the first same-sex couple to marry in Washington, DC, mentions street harassment in an article about it.
  • Three teens recently died because of male harassers and predators.
  • An op-ed about the need for the legal regulation of street harassment appears in the Huffington Post (written by yours truly)

Announcements:

  • If you’re in the UK, check out the new anti-street harassment group, the LASH Campaign.
  • Be the first to test out the HollaBack! phone application when it comes out!
  • Blank Noise in India is looking for new logo submissions
  • RightRides/New Yorkers for Safe Transit is hiring
  • HollaBack DC! has dubbed March as Public Transit Awareness Month

Resource of the Week:

  • One Angry Girl has many shirts and bumper stickers with anti-street harassment slogans

Share

Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, Resources, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: hollaback, sexual harassment, Stories, street harassment

In the Huffington Post

March 13, 2010 By HKearl

Check out my Huffington Post op-ed about how public sexual harassment/street harassment should be illegal.

Thanks Op-Ed Project and my mentor-editor for all the help!

Share

Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: huffington post, op-ed, sexual harassment

“Yes, you are my baby” Ew!

March 12, 2010 By Contributor

Damn! This is my third harassment submission this week. The warmer weather has brought the fools out full force.

Right when I get off the bus to head to work this morning, this scrub leans into me and says “Good morning, baby.” I respond with “I’m not your baby!”

Then he says “Yes, you are my baby!” Ew!

Frustrated, I pull out my phone in an attempt to snap his photo, and he yells “Aw, shit!” and starts running, but not without yelling “Bye, bitch!” as he turns left off of M and onto Wisconsin Avenue, thinking he was going to get away.

“Ignorant!” I snapped. “I am not a bitch!”

Though I refused to run, I followed him. He continued running down Wisconsin, heading south towards K Street.

He makes a left turn into some alley, and unfortunately I lost him. I make a left turn into where I thought he went, which was near a place I believe was called the Georgetown Ministry. I believe this was a homeless shelter. I asked the people waiting in front of it if they’d seen him, giving a description of him (middle-aged Black male, average height, above-average build, wearing a red hockey jersey that said “blazers” in white on the back), but unfortunately they hadn’t.

“Are we supposed to be looking out for him?” one man asked. I didn’t know what to say.

“Uh, he’s just someone who’s no good,” I said. I thanked them and walked off.

I’m so upset right now I just don’t know what to do. I was originally upset that I wouldn’t have time to run for my morning coffee. Then I was upset that this idiot ruined my day by calling me his “baby” then calling me a “bitch.” I was also upset that I couldn’t get his photo and he got away with demeaning me. To top that off, I was late for work and my boss doesn’t like me, she being one who completely ignores me and looks at her feet anytime I come her way (even if I try to be pleasant and talk to her), and when she did that to me this morning, I nearly lost it.

I stopped talking to family and friends about my harassment because they tell me to “accept a compliment,” ignore them and not to react. They’re going to say “you shouldn’t have followed him” and stuff like that. How the hell are they going to tell me how to feel and react when they don’t go what I go through?

I feel that today’s harassment incident was a domino effect of negative events, and not a great way to start the beginning of what was such a warm and beautiful morning.

– anonymous

Location: Georgetown, Washington, DC

Share your street harassment story today and help raise awareness about the problem. Include your location and it will be added to the Street Harassment Map.

Share

Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: georgetown, Stories, street harassment

Ogling like a cartoon character

March 11, 2010 By Contributor

My story today did not happen on the street, but at work. I was getting ready to get out of the elevator when the elevator door opened and in stepped a man. He immediately began to ask how my day was, and I noticed that his eyes were constantly glancing up and down my body. As I walked out of the elevator, I heard the man whisper “wow”.

I turned around to catch him sticking his head out of the window almost cartoon-like, staring at my butt. He mumbled a quick “sorry” and the door closed, but it is not enough. I’m so mad about this. I can’t be safe from anyone’s nasty thoughts in even the most secluded, quiet workplace. I’m furious and feel disgusted.

– LJ

Location: Danvers, MA

Share your street harassment story today and help raise awareness about the problem. Include your location and it will be added to the Street Harassment Map.

Share

Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: sexual harassment

« Previous Page
Next Page »

Share Your Story

Share your street harassment story for the blog. Donate Now

From the Blog

  • #MeToo 2024 Study Released Today
  • Join International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2022
  • Giving Tuesday – Fund the Hotline
  • Thank You – International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2021
  • Share Your Story – Safecity and Catcalls Collaboration

Buy the Book

  • Contact
  • Events
  • Join Us
  • Donate
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Copyright © 2026 Stop Street Harassment · Website Design by Sarah Marie Lacy