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Archives for October 2010

Using stand-up comedy to raise awarenss about street harassment

October 6, 2010 By HKearl

I love hearing how people are using their talents and expertise to speak out against street harassment. Lucé Tomlin-Brenner is speaking out and raising awareness through stand-up comedy.

If you’re in the DC-area, see her TONIGHT at “Bellylaughs in Bethesda” at Caddies on Cordell in Bethesda, MD, 8-10 p.m.

She explains:

“I’ve started doing stand-up comedy recently here in Washington, DC, and my material is all based on different times I’ve been harassed on the street or Metro, and I wanted to share my most recent video…I have battled lots of anxiety since I’ve moved here over just leaving the house because not a day has gone by that I haven’t been harassed, and most of it happens on Metro.

About a month ago this dude and his friends sitting across from me on the red line around midnight on the weekend kept making all of these blowjob insinuations about the bottle of water I was drinking. When I put on my headphones and ignored them they started talking about me being a bitch and just making fun of me in general.

I was really freaked out about it since I was alone and they were in a group. It got even scarier when the further out of downtown we got (I live in SS) they were not getting off the train and I was convinced they were going to follow me off when I got to my stop.

Luckily they got off one stop before mine, but I was so shaken up by it I was anxious my whole walk home. The next day I started writing these bits about the experience and I found being able to make fun of him and all the stupid things he said to me felt really empowering. I eventually polished these jokes into one whole bit that I performed at RFD in Chinatown about a week ago.

I was nervous about the crowd’s reaction because it was made up of mostly males… But to my surprise and delight the crowd loved it and lots of dudes came up to me afterward to compliment my writing and original material. It was so empowering to make fun of this asshole who harassed me in front of a room full of people and have them laugh and agree with me.

I think humor is a great way to show some more light on this issue because when done well comedy has the ability to set societal norms. Just think of how the average college Freshman still puts Animal House posters in their college dorms, and how that film has narrated Greek life on so many campuses to this day. Talking to all the dudes after my show about the material, many of them said they didn’t realize how much that kind of interaction affected or upset women. It was totez awesome to reach all these guys that never think about feminist issues.”

Way to go, Lucé!

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, Events, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: "Bellylaughs in Bethesda", Caddies on Cordell, Lucé Tomlin-Brenner, stand-up comedy, street harassment

Op-eds, new websites & street harassment on TV

October 4, 2010 By HKearl

With the fall weather finally setting in, it seems like there are fewer harassers on the street, and fewer stories for the blog.

In the meantime, here are a few anti-street harassment bits of news:

  • HollaBack launched a new website, check it out!
  • Comedian/Actress/Writer Giulia Rozzi has a great article about catcalling in the Huffington Post today.
  • A few weeks ago Stop Street Harassment ally Elizabeth Mendez Berry wrote a great op-ed for El Diario and she just got word that it prompted NY city council member Julissa Ferreras to plan a hearing on the issue in December. Articles can prompt change! (More info on this to come)
  • “30 Rock” is a tv show I watch each week and I was disappointed with how Tina Fey addressed street harassment in last week’s episode. I haven’t made time to write about it, but HollaBack DC! did today.

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Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, street harassment Tagged With: 30 rock, Giulia Rozzi, sexual harassment, Stories, street harassment

Weekly Round Up: October 3, 2010

October 3, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

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  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: 2 new stories from women in Minnesota and El Salvador/Costa Rica.
  • HollaBack DC!: 2 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 2 new stories
  • HollaBackLDN: 4 new stories
  • HollaBack PGH!: 1 new story

In the News, On the Blogs:

  • KTVB, “Man arrested, accused of taking pictures under women’s skirts“
  • Timothy McSweeney, “Sticks and Stones“
  • Care2, “Virtual HarassMap Helps Egyptian Women Fight Street Harassment“
  • UK Anti-Street Harassment Campaign, “Ken Livingstone supports the campaign“
  • HollaBackLDN, “Street harassment is a criminal offense“
  • The Ugly Duckling, “Sometimes I wish I were invisible“

Announcements:

  • Is the book Stop Street Harassment at your library? If not, request it! You can also buy it online at Amazon or Barnes & Noble.c
  • HollaBack NYC is hiring a Program Director
  • HollaBack DC! is looking for a graphic design intern
  • The London Anti-Street Harassment Campaign is growing so much that it’s now the UK Anti-Street Harassment Campaign. Find out how you can get involved. ASH campaigns will be starting soon in Belfast, Edinburgh, and Manchester.
  • New HollaBacks will be launching soon in Los Angeles, Buenos Aires (@iHollabackBA), San Jose, Philadelphia, Berlin, and Paris!
  • @rosieswash Women, I’m organising an anti-street harassment meeting for Oct. please email me rosie.swash@guardian.co.uk if u want 2 join
  • RightRides is looking for interns & volunteers in NYC

Upcoming Events:

  • Oct. 12: HollaBack NYC is co-hosting a happy hour with Envision Williamsburg and Feministing in Brooklyn, NY
  • Oct. 12: Street harassment book talk at the Red Cross building, Pasadena, CA, 7 p.m.
  • Oct. 13: Street harassment book talk at Village Books, Pacific Palisades, CA, 7:30 p.m.
  • Oct. 14: Street harassment book talk at University of California, Santa Barbara, CA, 4 p.m.
  • Oct. 16: Street harassment book talk at the library of the University of Alaska, Anchorage, 4 p.m.

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • Elderta I just love that the guys at the automobile shop have taught their parrot to catcall women as they walk by. NOT.
  • khanyisile Street harassment. RT @Yo_lin: These guys called me names last time, now they wanna talk to me.. Mxm.. I wish there was another route home
  • SuzBomb I am so unimpressed with the kind of Vancouver street harassment &assaults I keep hearing about from friends/witnessing myself
  • msmagazine RT @Anti_Intellect: Sexual harassment on the street virtually never happens 2 me. #MalePrivilege You’ll get over it
  • rightsandwrongs So my pitbull was a victim of #streetharassment by a man in a car making kissy noises & yelling “what’s the matter, boy?” What.
  • DianeMassage to the man in the livery cab on washington and st marks, do not make me stop my bike to tell you to stop catcalling me! #streetharassment
  • HKearl & your sons not 2 harass rt @sfxmaven @mkylemiller It’s never too early to train your daughter about what to do about street harassment.
  • clembastow @ruminski plenty of men seem to think unwanted attention/street harassment is “okay” if they’re “polite” about it.
  • notesandrainbws Was wondering if dying my hair bright red would increase street harassment…yep. Decidedly yep. Ugh.
  • BLANK_NOISE attn GUYS! did you intervene? tell us how. we want stories of guys intervening to stop street sexual violence/ #eveteasing #bnguy
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Filed Under: Events, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: hollaback, street harassment

“I like young girls and have flashed them for the past four years”

October 1, 2010 By HKearl

Wow, this Japanese guy simply has no shame. From Japan Today:

“A 24-year-old man was arrested on Wednesday for flashing an 18-year-old high school girl in the corridor of an apartment in Katsushika, Tokyo, police said Friday. Akihiro Fujita was arrested after flashing the girl around 3:20 p.m. when she was coming home on the 2nd floor of the apartment block. The girl called police and Fujita, who was loitering in the area, was arrested.

Fujita was quoted by police as saying, ‘I like young girls and have flashed them for the past four years to release my stress. I also get a kick out of seeing the surprised look on their faces.’

Police said 40 similar cases have been reported in the neighboring area this year, but Fujita has only admitted to nine cases.”

So many harassers are repeat offenders like this guy and that’s why reporting them can be such a powerful step toward ending this problem. Think about it, one guy alone has harassed/traumatized at least nine girls, has probably made all of their friends frightened or nervous too, and obviously he has no intention of stopping. Hopefully whatever his punishment was (this article is actually several months old) will deter him in the future….

Oh and, 40 reported cases of flashing in that neighborhood in a year?! That’s definitely when it’s time for some community action to stop it and make the neighborhood safer!!

Image via Japan Probe & does not depict the news story

Related: in looking for an image to go with this post, I came across a blog post about crime prevention for school girls:

“Summer vacation is about to begin, so the school and local police held the [screaming] contest to help teach the girls to make some noise if they run into suspicious individuals. A little gadget measured the decibel levels of their shrieks and shouts for help. (According to the report, a 90 decibel scream is required to scare off an attacker.)”

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: flashing women for fun, japanese flasher arrested, street harassment

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