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Archives for February 2011

“A male ally in the construction industry!”

February 28, 2011 By Contributor

I live in Sydney, Australia, and for 98% of the time I can walk the streets feeling very safe. I’ve never had more than a drunkard say, “Woah, look at them breasts!” but have never been physically threatened/touched. And at my 5ft height, that isn’t a hard thing to do. However, I always get the good mornings and hellos from groups of men that my gut instinct says are up to no good, with that long and lingering glare while they look at my body. I feel violated.

When construction for a new apartment building began next to mine, I felt ill. Each morning walking to the train station I’d walk as fast as I could. I’d wear jackets even if it was too warm to do so just to give the men less to look at. Then the “Good morning’s” started by two particular groups of men. I’d cross the road if I saw them and they’d simply laugh knowing they got to me, so a couple of times I stopped and stared them down. It worked, for a few mornings, until they got the guts to wave back as I stared.

One morning I had enough, I was furious so I wrote a letter of complaint to the development company. That was last Friday afternoon, and this Monday morning I was stopped by the foreman and he politely let me know that he will speak to the men and have them stop the harassment and that if it happens again to seek him out or contact the company again. He was very gentlemanly, well-spoken and non-threatening and I repeatedly thanked him. A male ally in the construction industry!

I wondered how I could complain about men simply saying, “Good morning,” and then laughing as I ignored them… how do you complain about a hunch that they are not respecting me?

After finding this website and global movement, I was given the confidence and words to use to strongly construct a good letter. I had obviously done it though, and I hope my morning walks to the station can be enjoyable once more! I will let you know how it all goes.

– Anonymous

Location: Sydney, Australia

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Four tips for Anti-Street Harassment Day

February 28, 2011 By HKearl

You may have heard by now that March 20 is the first annual International Anti-Street Harassment Day. I hope you’re considering participating, even if it’s as simple as sharing your stories online or in person.

Here are a few tips to help you as you prepare:

  1. 10 ideas for what YOU can do
  2. Inspiration for your activism
    • More than 50 videos, documentaries & PSAs
    • More than 60 articles & books
    • More than 120 images
  3. Graphics (in 6 languages, see below), fact sheets & fliers. Download, post & share them widely and/or adapt them to create your own.
  4. A central place to share and to find activism. If you’re organizing an event in your community or doing something solo please post what it is here: http://antistreetharassmentday.crowdmap.com/ And if you’re looking for an event in your area, check it out too in case someone’s posted an event.

If you are participating in International Anti-Street Harassment Day and you’re on FaceBook, be sure to RSVP to receive updates. And of course, please spread the word! This is going to be historic.

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“I felt like at any moment he might pounce on me”

February 28, 2011 By Contributor

I was waiting for a bus after a business meeting in Midtown one morning and I was wearing a pencil skirt and heels. A short but respectable-looking middle-aged man in a suit walked up to me and, practically panting, said, “You know, you have really nice legs…” as he lecherously looked me up and down.

I just gave him a disgusted look and hoped he would go away, but instead he sidled up really close to me and continued asking questions. “What’s your name? How tall are you? You’re really tall.”

I tried to ignore him and whisper one word responses in hopes he would just leave me alone, since I wasn’t in the mood for a confrontation. Finally he said, “We should really have lunch sometime,” and when I replied that, “My boyfriend really wouldn’t like that,” he finally left me alone, of course muttering as he walked away, “He’s a really lucky guy.”

It’s not so much what this guy actually said, but the way he said it – I felt like at any moment he might pounce on me, which was nauseating. He invaded my personal space and privacy and just didn’t know when to back off. What a pathetic old creep.

– Anonymous

Location: 45th & 6th Ave., New York

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Street harassment snapshot: February 27, 2011

February 27, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog
  • HollaBack Atlanta
  • HollaBack Buenos Aires
  • HollaBack Chicago
  • HollaBack DC!
  • HollaBack France
  • HollaBack Israel
  • HollaBack London
  • HollaBack NYC
  • HollaBack Portland
  • HollaBack SoCal

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

  • PBS News Hour, “For Egypt’s Women, Harassment Remains Part of Daily Life“
  • CNN World, “Revolution signals new dawn for Egypt’s women“
  • The Baltimore Sun, “Man involved in semen attacks on shoppers gets probation“
  • Project Q, “‘Hollaback!’ on the go against street harassment“
  • Femininisting, “Quick hit: International Anti-Street Harassment Day“
  • The Citizen, “We should borrow a leaf from Egyptian women“
  • Los Angeles Times, “Egypt’s women face growing sexual harassment“
  • Pune Site,”Helpline for women commuters receiving 8 to 10 complaints daily“
  • El Paso Times, “Man allegedly exposed himself to 17-year-old girl“
  • Bleacher Report, “Egyptian Soccer Stadiums Emerge as Venue for Sexual Harassment“
  • Y Observer, “Yemeni women expose sexual harassment by taxi drivers“
  • UPI.com, “Egyptian women suffer sexual harassment“
  • The Times of India, “Savage attacks on girls on a rise“
  • Where is your line?, “Badass-Activist Friday presents HOLLY KEARL of stopstreetharassment.com“
  • O, Pioneers!, “Being Watched, Being Seen, and Walking Alone“

Events:

  • March 4: Why Loiter? book launch, Kitab Mahal, 4th Flr., 192 D.N.Road, Fort, Mumbai 400001, 6 p.m.
  • March 8: STARS Speaks: Featuring Hollaback!, MU Women’s Center, G108 MU Student Center, 4:30 p.m.
  • March 10: Town Hall & Community Forum on Mass Transit, NYC, 6 p.m.
  • March 20: International Anti-Street Harassment Day – happening all over the world! 

Announcements:

New:

  • Participate in the first annual International Anti-Street Harassment Day on March 20!!!
    • Watch the YouTube video announcing the day
    • RSVP on the FaceBook Event page
    • Find out what others are doing in your area and list your plans
    • Download graphics in six languages

On-going:

  • Participate in a new study for Dr. Kimberly Fairchild
  • Have an encounter with gender-based violence on NYC mass transit to share? http://tinyurl.com/transitstory (via RightRides)
  • If you live in Washington, DC, take a street harassment survey for HollaBack DC!
  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • KaylinSnailin Truck full of street harassers #yeg #streetharassment http://yfrog.com/hsc9okhj
  • staceyannchin Between Abortion rights, Domestic Violence, less pay for women, and sexual harassment on the street – we have soooo much work to do!
  • AmakaWho ima write a long post about black women &street harassment in honor of street harassment awareness day on 3/20
  • EliGrullon As soon as Spring comes, especially in Minneapolis, my sundresses come out & so does all the #streetharassment I HATE that!
  • WriteAboutIt @natalieraymond I got meowed at yesterday in Duane Reade. Why do catcallers think we’re house pets? #streetharassment
  • ShelbyKnox @hkearl I’ve been barked at! Dude bared his teeth & barked. Of course it was threatening but it was also so dumb it was funny.
  • dollfacekilla Street harassment is a global problem for women of all cultures: http://bit.ly/h8wgXl “girls are asking for it if they wear jeans”
  • jesssolomon Documentary “Back Up! Concrete Diaries” by @Nijla1 is back: http://ht.ly/40mBa (I share my experience w/ #streetharassment)
  • RightRides Help serve ALL Manhattan neighborhoods http://fb.me/I36lv24F #safety #women #nyc #lgbt #woc #fundraising #fem2 #feminism #rape
  • iHollaback Just got the awesomest email ever from Nicola Briggs. Swoon! She’s my hero. http://youtu.be/iIlObKYwUyI
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: street harasssment

Car tries to run over woman, passengers yell, “We don’t stop for ugly bitches!”

February 27, 2011 By Contributor

I have been harassed an infinite amount of times. The most painful, however, are the occasions where instead of “complimenting” my appearance, the men criticize it.

Just a few days ago on my campus, I was crossing at a crosswalk. A car that was idling rather far down the street suddenly sped up and tried to hit me; as I looked over my shoulder, I saw two male students leaning forward and smiling as they nearly hit me.

I was shaken, but tried to not lose my cool. I continued walking as the car sped away. After a couple minutes, I reached the next crosswalk and heard a car pull up and stop: it was the same men. They had seen that I was headed for the next crosswalk and had waited for me. I motioned for them to pass but they gestured for me to go. I was furious at this point, but noticed that other cars had began to line up behind them and didn’t want to make others wait. I began to cross the street and the car charged me again, yelling out their window, “We don’t stop for ugly bitches!” and holding down their horn, making a spectacle.

I dodged the car and it sped off. As I walked away, I was more distraught to realize that the people surrounding me (almost entirely male engineering students working on projects in the park), were laughing uncontrollably.

I called to police once I got home, and the male police officer took down my report incredulously. I called back later to see if anything had been found on the men (I had a description of the car) and was essentially laughed off.

I haven’t left the house in days, I feel too ugly to be in public… or, or that matter, to live. I don’t have a car so I need to walk places and it feels like a punishment. I just want a mask to wear on my face so no one can judge it as ugly and try to run me over. I feel no protection from others, neither the police nor my peers; no one will stand up for ugly girls.

– Anonymous

Location: On Campus

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