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Archives for February 2011

It’s time to audit your city, Washington, DC!

February 22, 2011 By HKearl

On Sunday, I declared March 20, the First Day of Spring, to be Anti-Street Harassment Day. Already more than 120 people have RSVPed to participate via Facebook, plus many more via Twitter. I hope you will, too. I’m excited to reveal what I’ll be doing on March 20 and I invite everyone who lives or works in Washington, DC, to participate, too!

What’s happening?

HollaBack DC! and I are organizing the FIRST Community Safety Audit to be conducted in Washington, DC, and the first to be conducted in the US in the past 15 years. This means we are organizing groups of people, training group leaders, and giving everyone a checklist of items to look for as they walk a few blocks in DC. Participants will be looking for specific items that will help indicate if the area is safe and inclusive for everyone.

In order to conduct audits in all 8 Wards, we need at least 80 volunteers. The time commitment is about two hours on March 20 and two hours on March 23.  Please sign up and ask your friends, neighbors, family, and co-workers who work or live in Washington, DC, to sign up too.

Where did this idea come from?

Women in Tanzania who conducted a community safety audit

When I attended an international conference on safe cities for women held in India last November, I learned about the community safety audits and immediately wanted to bring the initiative to the USA. People have conducted Community Safety Audits since 1989, when the Metropolitan Action Committee on Violence against Women & Children (METRAC) developed it in Toronto. Since then, they’ve been conducted in cities across Canada and internationally in cities in Russia, the UK, India, South Africa, and Tanzania. Our audit is adapted from METRAC’s.

This is your chance to be part of history!

Please sign up to volunteer for this important initiative in March. We want volunteers from all demographics and we will work to ensure that individuals with special mobility needs and/or childcare needs can participate.

The outcomes of the audit will be used to make recommendations to the DC City Council and other local decision-makers.  In April (date TBD) we will announce those asks at an anti-street harassment rally, which we hope will lead to the first ever DC City Council hearing on street harassment, following in the footsteps of New York City. So participating in the community safety audit is an opportunity to be part of history and to help establish a model for other cities to use.

Let’s all work together to take a good look at our city and see what we’d like to fix!

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: community safety audit, hollaback dc, METRAC, safe cities, street harassment, UNIFEM, women's safety

40-year-old perv to 16-year-old on subway, “You like to dress slutty like that. I’d love to give you an orgasm.”

February 21, 2011 By Contributor

I was on the Q train going downtown. I was out with friends but alone on my way home at like 1 a.m. I got on the third car and sat in the corner. The doors were about to close and this guy gets on and looks at me right away. We were the only 2 people on the train and he sits right across from me.

I’m 16 and this guy was probably like 40 attractive and well dressed. So he starts talking to me saying, “Wow you look really good, do you want to go out for a drink?”

I’m 16, duh…Then he’s like, “No, you you don’t look good, you look sexy. Do you have a boyfriend?”

I am ignoring him at this point.

Then I notice he has his phone pointed right at me and i got really pissed and scared. We got to the next stop and he got up like he was going to get off the train but he didn’t. The doors closed then he is standing up right in front of me and he puts his camera right in front of me.

He’s like, “Baby you look so good. You like to dress slutty like that. I’d love to give you an orgasm…Does your boyfriend get you off?” I notice he is rubbing his dick with his other hand and flicking his tongue at me. I got up and stood by the door. Then he goes, “Well be that way you little c*nt. I thought you were a whore the way you were dressed! Does your dad know you go out like that you little whore”

I got off the train and he still had his phone pointed at me and was flicking his tounge at me as the train pulled away. WTF is wrong with people. I mean he looked so normal. Does he like go home to a normal family? He had a wedding ring on.

Can I not look nice and be out in public in this city? I am so angry this morning…This guy was blond like 6 feet and had glasses on. He had on all black a wedding ring and a Rolex. I know because I saw it when he had his phone right in my face. What as ass.

– Marissa

Location: Q train, NYC

Share your street harassment story today and help raise awareness about the problem. Find suggestions for what YOU can do about this human rights issue.

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: disgusting, perv, sexual harassment, street harassment

Mark your calendars for International Anti-Street Harassment Day

February 20, 2011 By HKearl

I hereby declare March 20, 2011, the First Day of Spring, to be International Anti-Street Harassment Day.  I invite YOU to participate in a national day of action to challenge street harassment and demand its end. (Facebook RSVP Page)


Street harassment occurs year-round, but, without fail, each spring the warmer weather and longer daylight hours bring an increase in street harassment. With spring, we see more men congregating in public places, sitting on porches or door stoops, lingering at bus stops or street corners, and driving with their windows down. Too many of these men think it’s okay to whistle, hoot, hollar, follow, and grab the girls and women they see. During spring, Mardi Gras, Spring Break, festivals and parades are all used as excuses for harassing women.

This is unacceptable.

I’m all for friendly hellos and mutual, gender-neutral public interactions (that can lead to mutual flirting and hoookups), but spring street harassment is out of control. It is demeaning. It is annoying. It’s sometimes threatening and scary. Evaluating women, making sexually explicit remarks or demands, groping, stalking, public masturbation, persistently asking for a date after being told no, leering, and whistling HAVE GOT TO GO.

Too often our stories and experiences with street harassment are silenced, dismissed as trivial annoyances, or portrayed as a compliment. Too few government agencies or elected officials acknowledge this problem or do anything about it.

On March 20,you can do something to challenge street harassment and its social acceptability and to let everyone know that street harassment is not okay. Take part in anti-street harassment activities on the same day as women and men all over the country. Let’s remind everyone that spring is no excuse for harassing women.

Ten Ideas for What YOU Can Do!

You have one month to get ready for International Anti-Street Harassment Day. Whether you decide to do something small or big, know that every action counts and every person can help make a difference.

  1. Share your stories to break the silence. Please share a street harassment story with a family member or friend. Share it online. Tweet it using #streetharassment. If you do nothing else, share your story.
  2. Respond to Harassers: Use assertive responses, report them, ask them to fill out the Catcaller Form, or hand them an anti-street harassment handout.
  3. Hand out or post anti-street harassment information. Print and post fliers, handouts and signs around your neighborhood, office, campus, school, or community center to raise people’s awareness about what street harassment is and why it is unacceptable. (Examples of fliers, posters or signs (click on link for street signs) and another street harassment poster).
  4. Use your talents to raise awareness about street harassment. Write/perform songs (see The Astronomical Kid‘s and Emily Swash‘s songs); do stand-up comedy (see Lucé Tomlin-Brenner’s stand-up comedy routine); make a cartoon (see Liza Donnelly‘s, Barry Deutsch‘s, and Jerrod Koon‘s); write a poem (see Fiona Lowenstein‘s and Bif Naked‘s poems); put on a show (see Leah King’s one woman show “Can I get a smile?“); or make a fun online awareness-raising item (see Atozinco’s slideshow, à la garconnière’s street harassment invoice, and Scary Godmother’s Bingo sheet)
  5. Hold an event or rally about street harassment in your community or on your campus. Ask people to share street harassment stories and brainstorm how to address it in your community. Show an anti-street harassment documentary. Make it an open mic or art event where people can share their poems or art work on the topic. Hold a self defense demonstration.
  6. Conduct a community safety audit in your neighborhood. Build a small team and find out what could make your area safer and more inclusive for women. Take your ideas to your local elected officials.
  7. Learn more about street harassment. Watch an anti-street harassment documentary or read an anti-street harassment article or book. Request the Stop Street Harassment book for your library, so anyone in your community can read it for free.
  8. Write an op-ed: Write and submit an article or op-ed about street harassment and your experiences with it to a magazine or newspaper. An op-ed that journalist Elizabeth Mendez Berry wrote in the fall of 2010 led to the first ever city council hearing on street harassment in New York City!
  9. Survey and map harassment: Survey your friends and family, classmates and coworkers about their experiences with street harassment (you can do so for free with SurveyMonkey). Map where you and they face harassment (google earth offers a free tool to do so with a tutorial) to track any patterns about where it occurs. Take your information and ask the police, elected officials, or local businesses to do something about the harassment in those areas (show them your results when you talk to them).
  10. Start campaigning: Organize or participate in an anti-street harassment campaign, like the UK Anti-Street Harassment Campaign and the Don’t be Silent Speak Out Campaign. Ask your elected officials to address this issue. Ask for an anti-street harassment Public Service Announcement campaign. Ask that schools address street harassment in their curriculum.

Add your name or organization’s name to the comments if you’re participating.

Also, please share what you did for the First Annual International Anti-Street Harassment Day and it will be highlighted on the blog and the Stop Street Harassment website. Share photos!

Please contact me if you have questions or need help with any of these ideas. Please add your own ideas to the comments section and we will work to make next year’s even better!

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: anti-street harassment day, holly kearl, march 20, spring, stop street harassment, street harassment

Street Harassment Snapshot: February 20, 2011

February 20, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog
  • HollaBack Atlanta
  • HollaBack Buenos Aires
  • HollaBack Chicago
  • HollaBack DC!
  • HollaBack France
  • HollaBack Israel
  • HollaBack London
  • HollaBack Mumbai
  • HollaBack NYC
  • HollaBack Portland
  • HollaBack SoCal

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

  • Deccan Herald, “‘There is no respect for women‘”
  • India Today, “Delhi: Man killed for shielding daughter from harassment“
  • Fox News, “Hollaback! at Harassment“
  • New American Media, “Letter From India: An “Eve-Teasing” Tragedy Stirs Outrage-and Shame“
  • After the harassment and sexual assault of CBS correspondent Lara Logan i Cairo became public, there were many articles and blog posts about street harassment in Egypt and beyond
    • Stop Street Harassment, “Street harassment in Egypt and Lara Logan“
    • Ms. Magazine, “Lara Logan and Egypt’s Next Revolution“
    • CNN, “Egypt’s harassed women need their own revolution“
    • Washington Post, “What happened to Logan was unacceptable“
    • The Daily Beast, “Egypt’s Women Rally Behind Lara Logan“
    • Guardian, “Adding insult to Lara Logan’s injury“
    • The Boston Globe, “No rights for women, no freedom in a nation“
    • Women’s E News, “Logan Attack Doesn’t Brand the Entire Middle East“
    • NPR, “Why Have many Comments About The Attack on Lara Logan Been Removed?“
    • Washington Post, “Egyptian women’s issues highlighted by Logan case“
    • HR Reality Check, “Women’s Human Rights in Egypt: Cautious Optimism and the Way Forward“
    • The Atlantic, “Street Harassment is Everywhere“
    • Huffington Post, “Egypt’s Ongoing Problem with Sexual Harassment“
    • Slate, “Why Lara Logan’s Sexual Assault is Demoralizing for Egyptian Women“
    • All Headline News, “CBS correspondent latest victim of sexual harassment, assault in Egypt“
  • The Times of India, “Eve-teasers thrash bus driver, conductor“
  • Washington City Paper, “The Needle: Valentine’s Play Edition“
  • Clutch Magazine, “Next Time a Street Harasser Bothers You, Hit Him With This“
  • FreshOutlook, “Street Harassment in the UK“
  • Herald Scotland, “Cat Steward on…hollaback, girls“
  • Ms Magazine, “At Last, SoCal Women Can Holla Back“
  • Next Magazine, “Under Siege Under Ground“

Events:

  • Feb. 24: Stop Street Harassment Book Talk, James Madison University (VA), 6:30 p.m., Miller 1101
  • Feb. 26: HollaBack Atlanta’s launch party
  • Feb. 26: BLANK_NOISE’s #actionheroes college network meeting in Bangalore, India
  • March 10: Town Hall & Community Forum on Mass Transit, NYC, 6 p.m.

Announcements:

New:

  • If you’re in London, submit street harassment stories for inclusion in the publication Langdon Oglar
  • Participate in a new study for Dr. Kimberly Fairchild
  • Check out the Catcaller Form by The Riot
  • htownhollaback Remember, we’re giving away a copy of @hkearl ‘s book “Stop Street Harassment” once the Facebook [group] hits 50 members! http://tinyurl.com/4n25j2h

On-going:

  • Have an encounter with gender-based violence on NYC mass transit to share? http://tinyurl.com/transitstory (via RightRides)
  • If you live in Washington, DC, take a street harassment survey for HollaBack DC!
  • If you’re a queer woman of color in New York City, please take this survey about your street harassment experiences for Kimberlynn Acevedo’s work on the topic
  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • kintoall I’m a bit concerned about the hooplah re-abuses of Muslim women & on street harassment. Come to the USA, & you will see the same. sorry2say
  • SarahDobbs Oh, good, street harassment. I thought this day wasn’t going shittily enough.
  • HitchDied Nice weather doesn’t make me hate running any less. Street harassment makes me hate it much, much more.
  • femmeniste “Damn girl. Mmmm.” Oh, great… looks like #StreetHarassment season came early. #Gross #NYC
  • natalieraymond I’d almost forgotten how much worse street harassment gets as soon as the big puffy coats come off.
  • Muhammad_J http://bit.ly/fI4yKT ‘Up to 100% of American women suffer street harassment.’ So let’s not bash #Egypt Arab/Muslims for Logan’s ordeal.
  • SparkerPants I usually chase aftr thm, proposng marriage. RT @GuyKawasaki: A questionnre 4 men who catcall womn http://is.gd/a1VTsh
  • hollyface Wow, in a 10 minute walk I got sleazed on twice. Street harassment is NOT COOL!
  • Alyssa4602 The prevalence of sexual harassment and sexual assault in #Egypt is one of reasons a revolution was needed.
  • Cairo_On_a_Cone #thistimenextyear THERE WILL BE NO SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN THE STREETS OF #EGYPT #Jan25 #tahrir #womenrights
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, Resources, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: Egypt, eve teasing, hollaback, Lara Logan, sexual harassment, street harassment

“My Name Ain’t ‘Yo'”

February 18, 2011 By HKearl


“My Name Ain’t ‘Yo‘” is another site where you can vent about street harassment. From their website:

“Holler FAILS are a part of most women’s daily lives. We walk down the street and find ourselves accosted by men who are in some way, shape or form totally outside of what we would consider entertaining. Perhaps he’s out of line or disrespectful…Vent to us. We are here to listen.”

*Thanks to regular blog reader Golden Silence for the website tip

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