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Archives for December 2011

“Systematic sexual violence against women in Egypt”

December 19, 2011 By HKearl

12/20/11 update, from the New York Times:

“Thousands of woman marched through downtown Cairo on Tuesday evening to call for the end of military rule in an extraordinary expression of anger over images of soldiers beating, stripping and kicking a female demonstrator on the pavement of Tahrir Square….

The event may have been the biggest women’s demonstration in Egypt’s history, and the most significant since a 1919 march led by pioneering Egyptian feminist Huda Shaarawi to protest British rule. The scale was stunning, and utterly unexpected in this strictly patriarchal society. Previous attempts to organize women’s events in Tahrir Square this year have either fizzled or, in at least one case, ended in the physical harassment of the handful of women who did turn out.”

Marvelous.

Image via Al-Jazeera

Visit the website HarassMap or follow the hashtag #EndSH on Twitter and you’ll find documentation of street harassment and sexual assault in Cairo, including Tahrir Square.

Journalist Mona Eltahawy is outspoken about this atrocity, and last month she brought attention to the sexual assault she and other female journalists experienced while covering protests at Tahrir Square.

Today on CNN, Eltahawy spoke about the brutality of the Egyptian military against protesters. She brought attention to the treatment of women in particular (especially the woman dubbed “Blue Bra Girl“):

“…I hope she survived…I hope she is able to recover… I cannot even begin to imagine what she went through…what this woman went through is incredible on so many levels. I salute her first of all for her courage in being there. And second of all, I think what she does, and especially this picture you are seeing right now, is it exposes once and for all and kills any denial about the Egyptian regime whether it was under Mubarak and now under the military and the use of systematic sexual violence against women in Egypt. It is a shame, it has been denied for too long and we must expose it at every level. And unfortunately, her tragic case has allowed us to do that very publicly…”

As many others have said before, there can be no true revolution until the sexual harassment and violence against women ends.

Update: Eltahawy just spoke to the BBC, too.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: Blue Bra girl, Egypt, Mona Eltahawy, sexual assault, street harassment, Tahrir Square

Consequences for street harassers

December 19, 2011 By HKearl

One reason why street harassment is so pervasive is because street harassers rarely face consequences for their actions. But lately, more and more harassers ARE facing consequences, sometimes from the women they target and sometimes from the police.

1 – In Kuwait, after nine men sexually harassed young women at a shopping mall, the police shaved their heads and made them sign a pledge of good conduct in public.

2 – After a soldier groped her, a store clerk in India threw rocks at him on the street, cheered on by passers-by.

Boston groper, via the Boston Herald

3 – When a man groped her on the subway in Boston, a woman took his photo and reported him to the police. He was charged with indecent assault and battery on a person over the age of 14.

4 – A street harasser in Bellingham, Washington, approached two women on a street, making offensive slurs. After one of them said they didn’t want to talk to him, he caused $600 worth of damage to their car. One of the women tackled the man and held him down until a bouncer from a nearby bar came to help. The harasser was was arrested and taken to jail for investigation of malicious harassment, which is a hate crime.

5 – After groping a woman on the street in Romania, a street harasser was chased away by the woman.

YES!

Read 16 other memorable responses to street harassment from this year.

Hopefully each of these harassers will be deterred from harassing again because of the consequences they faced. There’s less incentive for them if they know they could have their head shaved or be chased or hit or jailed.

What kinds of consequences do you want to see street harassers face?

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: consequences for gropers, groping, sexual assault, street harassers

Snapshot of Street Harassment Stories, News, & Tweets: December 18, 2011

December 18, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week.

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Share your story! You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

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HarassMap Egypt

Resist Harassment Lebanon

Many of the Hollaback sites

In the News, on the Blogs:

* Boston Herald, “Cellphone photo aids arrest in T groping“

* Seattle PI, “Police: man accused of slurs pinned to ground“

* Gulf News, “Kuwait: Nine men get hair shaved for harassing women“

* News Night 20-20, “Girl Beats Up Indian Soldier For Molesting Her“

* The Hindu, “Taking back the streets“

* L’Orient Le Jour, “Harcèlement au Liban : Dans la rue, les femmes inversent les rôles“

* UpTown, “The cloak of anonymity is about to be lifted“

* Notes from an Aspiring Humanitarian, “The People Who Inspire Series: Holly Kearl“

* Heather Hollywood, “Street Harassment: A Verbal Hollaback Call to a Few Good Men“

* The Nation, “Occupy the Holidays“

Announcements:

New:

* The 5th edition of the prestigious textbook Women: Images & Realities, A Multicultural Anthology is now available. For this printing, they included a few pages about street harassment! (see #143)

* Students living in Bangor, Gwynedd, Wales, are encouraged to take a new street harassment survey. The survey is organized by Cymdeithas Y Merched Bangor Women’s Society.

* Attention NYC-based organizations: “Cornell-ILR is partnering with Hollaback! on a research project that includes a survey of NYC-based organizations that seeks to measure the extent to which their clients and staff report street harassment; how they typically respond to reports of street harassment; and whether there’s a perceived need for the development of methods to counteract street harassment”

* Young Women for Change has a lecture and discussion session on street harassment of women on Thursday, December 22nd. More details will be available on their site soon.

Reminders:

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign launched a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a new helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

* Find 6 ideas for holiday gifts that promote safe public spaces.

* You can purchase the Stop Street Harassment book for 50% off right now!

10 Tweets from the Week:

1. ramymamlouk I just stopped 2 OnTheRun employees from harrasing a woman with their eyes. #SayNo to sexual harrassement to #endsh

2. KaylinSnailin Spent the night dreaming about teaching street harassers why street harassment is wrong. I’m not feeling rested, just angry.

3. hipcrit I think the kind of street harassment I hate the most is getting honked at. It’s so startling and loud.

4. Hollaback_DSM Question for our beatifully inked followers: How often do you get #streetharassment based on your tattoos? xojane.com/relationships/…

5. mernathomas #endSH is a call from women to women to end sexual harassment. No one is going to hand u ur rights on a silver platter. #Egypt #womenrights

6. senorita_ex Audio: Shady Hawkins, “WRATH” It’s a song I wrote about street harassment. It’s only a demo, and I might add… tmblr.co/ZJ0yWyDEs0HV

7. KZiegs #streetharassment tally over 4 miles: 3 honks, 1 whistle, 1 8yo yelling “Nice ass, jogger. Don’t stop!” out a school bus. @HollabackBoston

8. nualacabral Just had a productive meeting with an inspiring & brave young woman photographer, Hannah Price: hannahcprice.com/cityofbrotherl… #streetharassment

9. HollabackOttawa Although the weather is getting colder, there seems to be no end in sight for #streetharassment in #ottcity….

10. maps4aid Dadar, Kurla & Andheri are Mumbai’s worst spots for women: Zero Tolerance & Maps4Aid Initial Survey ow.ly/7XMf7 #StreetHarassment

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Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up

Abduction not publicized in news

December 17, 2011 By Contributor

One week ago in our city, a woman was abducted while crossing from the exit of the mall to the bus stop & held at gunpoint. Her abductor dragged her to his car and drove her a few blocks away with the intention of raping her.

Luckily she was able to fight him off when he put the gun down (to unzip his pants) & she got away.

Even though it was reported on the news that evening, there was no description given of the criminal and no arrest has been made. There was also nothing regarding this in the paper the next day even though lesser crimes are listed daily.

It is frustrating that the law & the press protect rapists by not listing descriptions or showing sketches. They have no qualms releasing that information if it is a fast food joint or gas station having been robbed.

And then if a woman gets raped, they blame the victim???

This happened in broad daylight. This happened in a small city in an area considered “safe”.

– Anonymous

Location: Illinois, USA

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An Occurrence in Bucharest, Romania

December 15, 2011 By Contributor

Editor’s Note: This story was transcribed and translated from Romanian by the woman’s daughter. The mom’s story is the text outside of the brackets and the daughter’s comments are in brackets.

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The mom, 40 years ago

In Bucharest, Romania, Boulevard 6 Martie had a large portion in which many movie theaters were close together. Trolleys passed through the center, and it was very busy. [This was about 40 years ago during the Communist era.]

I was wearing high heels and carrying a very large, elegant purse in my hand. I was walking along, very proud of my appearance, my youth, and the way my long legs looked in their attractive black patent leather heels. A dark-skinned male gypsy [Rom] appeared close by at a crosswalk, and suddenly grabbed one of my breasts and squeezed it so hard I saw stars of pain. I screamed at the top of my lungs and began running after him, beating him in the head with my large purse, swearing and yelling at him.

People were laughing, because they knew he must have done something to me, but nobody helped or got involved. At some point I kicked off my heels because it would be easier to run after him that way. At the time, shoes were extremely expensive and hard to find, and I was sure I would have lost them forever. However, a nice elderly gentleman gathered them up and brought them to me and I thanked him from my heart.

[The fact that the man is a Rom is significant, and I left that in because it shows a few important things. First, if he had been a white Romanian man, people might not have been so tolerant of my mom running after him and beating him. I can’t know this for sure, but most people have a bias toward a “respectable” appearance and have a harder time believing those people did anything wrong.

Second, in Romania, anti-Rom discrimination is among the worst in Europe and is still ongoing. When a group of people are oppressed, sometimes men in that group try hard to live up to some standard of masculinity and spread the oppression around to make themselves feel less helpless and emasculated. It’s part of a huge messy culture where people can both be victims and oppressors. In this case, my mom was a victim, and one who had every right to fight back and defend herself. However, I can’t help but think how people might have reacted if she was a Rom, and her harasser was white, and if she would even feel like it was ok to defend herself at all then.

My mom feels some shame because she used violence and swore at him. I told her she was entirely justified and that men are responsible for their own actions, so if they assault her, they have to deal with the consequences. I think a lot of the shame is due to feeling that fighting and swearing is somehow immoral or low when women do it.]

Location: Bucharest, Romania

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