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Archives for 2011

“It is hard to stand up for myself time after time with no support”

October 18, 2011 By Contributor

I’ve dealt with sexual harassment since the beginning of high school. I am in my last semester of college and recently, it has been more frequent and worse.

At my school, I am constantly harassed when I go out by cat calls and demeaning comments from my male classmates. I have had classmates of mine contact me via facebook to hook up and have sex. When I am out with my friends, men have grabbed my ass.

A couple of weekends ago I went to ISU to visit my friend’s sister. When we went out I was disrespected by three different men. The second said derogatory statements and called me a bitch. The third tried to shove food in my mouth and when I refused to let a stranger shove food in my face, he took the food and threw it in my face while telling me to suck his dick.

I was devastated after that weekend.

I feel uncomfortable dressing up and going out at colleges and universities. I am suffering greatly from this constant abuse . People know me to be a very strong person and it is hard to stand up for myself time after time with no support.

– Alpha

Location: ISU and SJC

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Street Respect: Grocery store kindness

October 17, 2011 By Contributor

This is part of the Monday series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

I’m 31 and have experienced awful street harassment in the past. I was at the checkout stand late one recent evening at a supermarket, the kind of store where you pack your own groceries. As I was paying the cashier, I turned and saw two young men quietly packing my groceries. No creepy looks, no winks, no leering — just a kind deed. I thanked them with a smile, and they told me, “You’re welcome.” And that was it.

I smiled as I left, because it reminded me that there are decent, respectful people in the world.

– SB

Location: Visalia, CA

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Street Respect: Construction workers who work instead of harass

October 17, 2011 By Contributor

This is part of the Monday series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

There are four construction sites within a two block radius of my house. As you know, that leaves plenty of opportunity for being harassed. I must say, though, that these particular crews of men don’t resort to the usual staring, whistling and commenting that women within their sights tend to experience, despite the fact that three of these sites are right by the local gym and scores of women in shorts and form fitting workout gear pass them by daily.

Kudos and much respect to these men for acting like mature, polite, well raised men. As the women walk by, there may be an occasional glance or two, but no more…. there’s no extended leer or stare. They keep their attention more focused on the job at hand. No whistles, no lewd comments…if there’s anything, it’s just a quick smile. Bravo!

Other construction crews could learn from these guys!! They should give a class on how to behave when you’re in someone else’s neighborhood working, seriously! Anyhow, I just wanted to shed light on these four crews working in my hood being respectful of all who pass and not creating an uncomfortable climate, unlike others have in the past. It’s refreshing and much appreciated! 😉

– Yvonne

Location: 30th Ave and 38th St. in Astoria, Queens, New York

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news & tweets: October 16, 2011

October 17, 2011 By HKearl

(Better a day late than not at all, right? 🙂

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

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Street Harassment Stories:

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Hollaback

Hollaback Berlin

Hollaback Birmingham

Hollaback Chandigarh

Holla Back DC!

Hollaback Israel

Hollaback NYC

Hollaback Philly

Hollaback West Yorkshire

From XO Jane

In the News, on the Blogs:

* Spartan Daily, “Catcalling should not be acceptable in our society“

* Coffee Talk, “Police advise girls not to wear school uniform skirts on public transit“

* xo Jane, “It Happened to Me: I Was Groped“

* ABC 7, “Victor McEachin charged with stabbing Metro bus driver“

* The Guardian, “Guatemalan women hail single-sex buses“

* Al Arabiya News, “Moroccan activists launch campaign against sexual harassment“

* The Times of India, “Bikers slash girl for protesting eve-teasing“

* Ses Turkiye, “Turkish women organise against harassment“

* The Financial Express, “Unbearable rise in ‘Eve teasing’“

* Reuters, “”Fight Back” phone app to protect women in India“

* The Good Men Project, “Men May Never Truly Understand a Day in the Life of Women. But Shouldn’t We Try“

* Jezebel, “Girls Told To Stop Wearing School Uniform Skirts To Ward Off Perv“

Announcements:

New:

* Donate to Students Active for Ending Rape so they can mentor and teach students to advocate for safer campuses!

* If you’re in London, help a Ph.D. student out with her dissertation research by meeting to share your street harassment stories.

Reminders:

* Two weeks ago Stop Street Harassment launched a new weekly “Street Respect” series highlighting the type of stories we want to see instead of street harassment stories!

* Call for men to share views/stories about street harassment

* Sign Mend the Gap’s petition to address subway harassment in Delhi, India

* Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers

* Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

1. k_mukai Too many gals (me included) ignore street harassment. Kinda proud I just heard a lady say, “im not interested. go away or I will mace you”

2. nelldrik Nothing starts the day off right like a double dose of street harassment! #ohwait

3. UrbanBedu does co-ed education help men develop emotional maturity and in effect help reduce sexual harassment on the street?

4. 01_gav In other news, today my friend & I got some low-level homophobic street harassment. Slightly baffled: I don’t think we looked like a couple.

5. AlizaySteinberg One of the reasons I take cabs is so I can avoid street harassment when walking home at night. Sucks that instead, I get cabbie harassment.

6. EndStHarassment Burlington, VT – Guy wolfwhistled at me from his truck on my walk to work. Left me raw and feeling unsafe all day. #EndStreetHarassment

7. thetrudz Sometimes when ppl are really rude to me I am really polite. Like call a street harassment dude “Sir” and watch his puzzlement.

8. rosefox @divakarssathya The day women engage in street harassment is the day I stop generalizing about men being harassers.

9. beenasarwar Unacceptable. RT @nongenderous: RT @coracalliope: I hate it when people dismiss #streetharassment by saying “boys will be boys.” #sheparty

10. HannahHaniya Later I was catcalled by a middle-aged white man in a newish sedan. Easy to forget street harassment is not restricted to developing world.

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“Anita Hill stood up in 1991 and we can all stand up in 2011.”

October 16, 2011 By HKearl

Charles Ogletree, a professor at Harvard Law School and the lead counsel for Anita Hill in 1991 spoke those words yesterday at the moving conference Sex, Power and Speaking Truth: Anita Hill 20 Years Later at Hunter College in New York City.

I agree. We all can stand up today as she did then. But, as I discuss in the latter part of the post, the knowing how to stand up in a way that will be effective and have a lasting-impact is often challenging.

The Conference

Throughout the conference, renowned lawyers, academics, and activists offered history lessons focused on what happened 20 years ago, commentary about the impact it had on current events and organizing efforts, and ideas for addressing sexual harassment in the future (though I thought the latter was a bit light on realistic ideas.)

We watched a compelling clip from Sex & Justice showing what happened 20 years ago and participated in lunchtime discussions on sexual harassment sub-topics.

If you missed it, you can watch most the conference online at C-Span.org.

To give you a taste of the day, here are some of my notes from two of the three panels and from Hill’s keynote address:

1. Charles Ogletree, Harvard Law School spoke first. He represented Anita Hill in 1991.

“What she stood for in 1991 still resonates with us…she’s in a class with Susan B. Anthony, Rosa Parks, Eleanor Roosevelt, Fanny Lou Hamer…”

Despite all of the backlash he and Hill faced, his then 12-year-old daughter told him on the phone, “I believe Anita.”

2. Lani Guinier, Harvard Law School

She talked about how Anita Hill made people “deal with the ambivalence and ignorance of the question: ‘Are you black or are you a woman?'”

“Many of us realized that not all women are white, not all blacks are men, and some of us, like Anita Hill, are very brave.”

3. Judith Resnik, Yale Law School

She examined the context of the hearing…how the male Senators on the hearing committee didn’t want to let Hill speak and then cut her defense short. While Thomas should have been on trial, they made it so Hill was.

It’s with the work of Hill and others who stood up for her and spoke out against sexual harassment that “things that are seen as ‘the way things are’ become intolerable”

4. Catharine A. MacKinnon, University of Michigan Law School

She’d been speaking out against sexual harassment since the 1970s and wrote the first book on it in 1979. During the hearing, she gave commentary on NBC.

The hearing was a “massive consciousness raising session” on an issue she’d been trying to raise awareness about for years..the hearing “made sexual harassment real to people” in a way her 1979 book did not, the EEOC guidelines did not, etc…only Anita Hill did.

“Women identified with Anita Hill…they believed her with ferocity and more said so as time and heat passed. They realized what happened to them was often as bad as what happened to her and if she could do it, they could do it too.”

“Sometimes it’s important to stand up and do the right thing, even if you lose,” she said about the DSK-Diallo sexual assault case.

5. Jamia Wilson, Women’s Media Center

“I am not Anita Hill but I could have been and that scares the crap out of me.”

Thelma & Louise + Anita Hill introduced her to victim-blaming and rape shaming. She witnessed the hearings become “a modern day witch hunt rather than the high tech lynching, as Thomas said.”

She feared she could be marked a traitor [against her race] for one day speaking out. The hearing was “intersectionality 101” for her.

6. The keynote address was a conversation between Patricia J. Williams and Hill. Here are a few notes from it:

Anita Hill spoke about the death threats, bomb threats, sh*t people mailed her and how she had to go to the grocery store knowing 7 in 10 people thought she had perjured herself…and how her family and friends helped her through it.

She talked about wanting to get her life back and resented that things didn’t go back to normal after the hearing ended. She said once she let go of that (about 6 months later) and realized she had a different life and she had to decide what shape that life would take, then she was able to move forward and also recognize that while it was an important event that shaped her life, it was just an event.

In her new book Reimagining Equality: Stories of Gender, Race, and Finding Home she writes about home and also the housing crisis in the USA.

Some of the last things she said related to her work on sexual harassment as she “helps people find their voice, talk about the issues that keep people from living full lives of equality…we should imagine a future where sexual harassment no longer exists”

7. Kimberlé Crenshaw, The African American Policy Network (You can read her speech in the current issue of The Nation).

She spoke a lot to the issue of intersectionality of race and gender.  She said the message still is “just get over it” re: sexual harassment, but “until we say it’s over, it’s not over.”

8. Virginia Valian, Hunter College

She shared stats on sexual harassment in the workplace…they’re the same today as they were 20 years ago.

She said there are several calls to action, including: 1) be smarter about how we influence people in power and how we get them into power. educate judiciary, lawyers, lawmakers, and be more systematic in our efforts 2) Form rapid response teams so we can influence the media and get the correct facts out. Giving good info to the people in power immediately.

9. Gloria Steinem

She talked about the DSK case and how the work of Hill and others allowed Nafissatou Diallo to come forward to report him. Both lost in the courts but they won in public opinion…Most importantly, this is the legacy of Anita Hill: “Thomas is on the Supreme Court but DSK will never be president of France!”

“We have the strength to go forward”

10. Devon Carbado, UCLA School of Law

“What have we learned from the Thomas-Hill hearings? That our anti-racism needs to be tied to a robust feminism and our feminist interventions must be infused with anti-racism.”

11. Julie Zeilinger, FBomb

“Gender conditioning and gender stereotyping allow sexual harassment to continue.”

“Our work isn’t yet done, plenty of us are willing to continue the fight and take Anita Hill’s legacy and run with it.”

It was a day I will never forget. Especially after I had the huge honor of meeting both Steinem and Hill at an evening reception. I got to meet Hill with Joanne Smith, founder and ED of Girls for Gender Equity and one of her organizers Jodyann. Jodyann was determined to get to meet Hill and was overcome with emotion when she did. It was moving.

I’m still feeling the adrenaline and awe f meeting two feminist icons in one evening on top of meeting and reconnecting with amazing current activist/future feminist icons.

L to R: Holly Kearl, Jodyann of Girls for Gender Equity (GGE), Anita Hill, Joanne Smith the ED of GGE

What to Take Away

The conference is over. What now?

Let’s look back to Ogletree’s quote. “Anita Hill stood up in 1991 and we can all stand up in 2011.”

If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to (and do) stand up against sexual harassment—especially the kind that happens in public places—and ideally, you’d like to do so to the same extent that Anita Hill stood up against workplace sexual harassment.

But, if you’re like me, you may find that figuring out what actions will work, what efforts will be effective, and what kind of collective organizing will create long-term change is challenging. It’s especially challenging since “street harassment” is not a universal term and it’s not seen as a legitimate problem by most people. We’re still at the consciousness-raising and education stage.

To help with that stage, sites like HarassMap, Hollaback and mine collect individuals’ stories of resistance to street harassment, people write articles, tweet, and post stories on Tumblr, and numerous groups and people organize community anti-street harassment efforts. But I just don’t think they are enough to really turn street harassment into an immediately-recognized issue that is treated as seriously as workplace sexual harassment, or at least not any time soon.  There must be more we can collectively do about street harassment that is inclusive, appropriate, and effective; or one major action we can rally behind to raise awareness as people rallied behind Anita Hill. But what  is it?

Something I’m taking away from the conference is a better understanding of the workplace anti-sexual harassment movement and I hope that as I reflect on all that I’ve learned, I may come across ideas for effective, inclusive ways we can stand up against street harassment.

A related conference take away for me is a desire to learn even more about the general anti-sexual harassment movement and see what messaging, campaigns, and laws work. I know a lot of people still treat sexual harassment as a joke and it’s still a big problem at work and schools, but at least you don’t get blank stares from decision makers, academics and regular people when you bring it up (as happens with street harassment).

While learning about the anti-sexual harassment movement is not new to me, I’ve never delved very far into it. As my first step, I’m half-way through Carrie Baker’s fascinating and well-documented book, The Women’s Movement Against Sexual Harassment. Attending the Anita Hill conference was another step and now, for my next step, I plan to connect with scholars and activists I heard and met there.

Questions for You

If you attended the conference, what are your takeaways?

And, a question for anyone, do you have thoughts about what we in the anti-street harassment “movement” can learn from Anita Hill and related efforts to end workplace sexual harassment?

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Filed Under: Events Tagged With: 20 years later, anita hill, clarence thomas, girls for gender equity, gloria steinem, hunter college, joanne smith, sexual harassment, street harassment

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