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Archives for 2011

TONIGHT: NYC, Shine the Light on Domestic Violence

October 12, 2011 By HKearl

Domestic violence impacts 1 in 4 women (and many men). Like street harassers, perpetrators of domestic violence engage in the harassing or violent behaviors not because of anything their target has done but because of their desire to exert power over the person. And most abusers, just like most harassers, get away with it, in part because of our culture of gender inequality and disrespect for women and the lack of prevention methods or penalties for abusers.

Fortunately, many organizations, people, and even governments speak out against domestic violence and work to make it unacceptable. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and the government of New York City is taking action.

Tonight, you can help the Manhattan Borough President’s Office Shine the Light on Domestic Violence at Times Square in New York City. Meet there at 6:30 p.m. to hear speakers and receive information on what domestic violence is and what to do about it.

Stop Street Harassment is one of the many co-sponsors of the event and two of SSH’s male allies/volunteers (who each wrote male ally blog posts earlier this year: Alan Kearl | Nick W) will attend and help pass out informational packets, so look for them and say hello!

 

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Filed Under: Events Tagged With: domestic violence, manhattan borough president's office, shine the light, street harassment

Street harassment keeps her home

October 11, 2011 By Contributor

I live on a busy high street and experience some level of sexual harassment pretty much everyday. Sometimes I find it so depressing it stops me from leaving the house. There is a butchers right next to my door, and the men who work there always like to leer and comment when I walk past.

One time I was walking on my own, in the day time, through a park nearby, and was confronted by one of these men who insisted that ‘he knew me’ and would not leave me alone. I responded, as I largely do, by ignoring him, which left me feeling frustrated and powerless. Luckily on this occassion he did not pursue me, but I still felt vulnerable and somewhat violated.

Sometimes I lose it, and have formerly told street harassers to ‘fuck off’, but that only seems to instigate some sort of self righteous or aggressive response where I get called a bitch or told that it was just a compliment.

To be honest I never really know what to do, and find myself walking on with my head down, humiliated. Recently at a party I was chatting to a man who found my stories of sexual street harassment completely incredulous, asking me in a bemused fashion ‘what? these can’t be English men…’.

I have experienced sexual harassment from every kind of man imaginable- of course including English men- alone and in groups. It is a male-wide epidemic. The lack of comprehension as to the daily experiences of so many women seems completely inaccusable to me, and I full heartedly support any endeavour that aims to not only stamp out street harassment, but educate men as to the full implications such behaviour have upon women.

– Anna

Location: London, UK

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Street Respect: Language check

October 10, 2011 By Contributor

This is part of the Monday series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

I was waiting at a bus stop (a layover en route to university) near a hospital in a nice enough part of town. Two gentlemen joined me at some point. Based on their conversation and demeanor, it seemed they had some recent experience in jail or maybe prison. At one point, one of them cursed and his companion responded, “Watch your mouth. There’s a lady present.”

As a sociologist, I know that social decorum is sometimes lost (if not simply rusty) after time spent “inside.” I was warmed in that regard . . .

– MCM

Location: 1201 West 38th Street, Austin, TX 78705

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, & tweets: October 9, 2011

October 9, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

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Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog | “Street Respect” stories

Hollaback

Hollaback Berlin

Hollaback Buenos Aires

Hollaback Chandigarh

Holla Back DC!

Hollaback France

Hollaback Israel

Hollaback London

Hollaback Mumbai

Hollaback NYC

Hollaback Philly

Hollaback Puerto Rico

Hollaback Queretaro

Activism High-Fives:

* Safe Streets AZ in USA

* The Pixel Project in Malaysia (they have an international scope)

* Gawaahi in Pakistan

In the News, on the Blogs:

* Splatter Zone, “On Street Harassment“

* Nicole Clark, “Street Harassment Stops When Men Says it Stops“

* Pink News, “Transgender woman tells of street abuse“

* NPR, “Violent Attacks On Transgender People Raise Alarm“

* The Age, “Sexual harassment in clubs seen as ‘normal‘”

* Venus Genus, “Is Street Harassment a Punishable Crime? Yes it is“

* Daily News & Analysis, “Mumbai girl stabbed for resisting eve-teasing attempt“

* Black Feminists, “Street Harassment Part 1?“

* The Gloss, “NerdGlam: How to Shut Down Street Harassers“

* But I Love Me More, “Street Harassment“

* Women News Network, “INDIA: Mumbai college women shame men who perpetrate ‘eve-teasing’ – sexual harassment“

* NDTV, “‘Offended’ eve-teasers try to abduct girl“

* Sketchbook Radical, ““Hey Baby/Bitch/Slut-” or, I Wish I Could Say Hello To Strangers (Part 1)*triggers*”

* D for Dalrymple, “Picture This“

Announcements:

New:

* Congratulations to Liberian President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, women’s rights activist Leymah Gbowee from Liberia, and democracy activist Tawakkul Karman of Yemen for being awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for their women’s rights activism!

Reminders:

* Last Monday, Stop Street Harassment launched a new weekly “Street Respect” series highlighting the type of stories we want to see instead of street harassment stories!

* Call for men to share views/stories about street harassment

* Sign Mend the Gap’s petition to address subway harassment in Delhi, India

* Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers

* Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

15 Tweets from the Week:

1. grrrlrevolution *sigh* i love how, without fail, i go from “sexy” to “bitch” in the span of five seconds as soon as i stand up for myself #streetharassment

2. LikeaStar1032 When men catcall/make lewd comments they’re generally trying to assert dominance. When you bring yourself to their level they lose interest.

3. msorvam: also…i find that being “plus sized” street harassment comes w/the attitude of “you should be happy to be getttin ne att”

4. nawaf11g @MunaAbuSulayman in Saudi we need a secret police that handles street sexual harassment. Secret police that doesn’t look religious.

5. grrrlrevolution writing to @hollabackdc about my street harassment experiences really does make me feel better and more empowered. Thanks!

6. ruthie_dee Oh lovely. The builders outside my window have just realised I exist and started making crude gestures. Street harassment in my own room!

7. TeslaDethray Note to people driving around at night: Don’t catcall the running woman all by herself. It makes her feel very vulnerabile. *sigh*

8. vawmonth: Day 8- Our topic for today is Street Harassment and Eveteasing. #VAWAM #takebackthetech #Pakistan

9. Hollaback_DSM #Top10Lies Street harassment is flattering to women.

10. KimFoxWOSU Today was a milestone: walked through the Khan el Khalili by myself and didn’t get sexually harassed! A-maze-ing! #Cairo #Egypt #EndSH #wwpw

11. debzalebz The best thing about cycling is it reduces street harassment and limits opportunities of eating junk food.

12. ConnellAnnie Dear dirty ass man on the street, just because you’re giving me compliments doesn’t mean it’s not verbal harassment #getthefuckouttahere

13. thetrudz @AsiaBrown I face less street harassment when I wear makeup; it’s not the lie that men don’t like it b/c harassment isn’t about “liking.”

14. Salencita Three run-ins with street harassment in two blocks. This is not okay.

15. mishsolomon “Rape culture is street harassment and groping on public transportation…”

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Safe Streets AZ gathers info, creates network of support to end harassment

October 8, 2011 By HKearl

Safe Streets AZ is a pilot program of Southern Arizona Center Against Sexual Assault that launched in July to address public harassment, particularly harassment aimed at lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer-identified youth and young adults. Stephanie Arendt is the Senior Prevention Educator at SACASA and agreed to talk to Stop Street Harassment about the new program.

Stop Street Harassment (SSH): Hi Stephanie! Before we begin, please tell us a little bit about yourself.

Stephanie Arendt (SA): I have been actively involved in violence prevention in one form or another for the past eight years, and my main passion is in creating youth-driven primary prevention. Since graduating from Northern Arizona University I have interned with the Feminist Majority Foundation, worked in crisis response and advocacy, and developed programming for various youth populations, including high-risk and LGBTQ youth. In my role as Senior Prevention Educator with the Southern Arizona Center Against Sexual Assault (SACASA) I implement youth-focused programs based on Peer Educator models, and am constantly seeking and creating opportunities to integrate art, social media, and technology into our violence prevention efforts.

SSH: What is the goal of Safe Streets AZ and how does it work?

SA: The ‘big picture’ goal is a shift in the way that people think about and respond to public harassment. We want to instigate the move towards a culture where sexual violence of any kind, including street harassment, is not only not tolerated but unthinkable. Safe Streets AZ is one of the first steps toward that goal in that it gathers information about public harassment and builds readiness. It provides a platform for community members to share their stories, get support, and –together- help end public and street harassment.

Safe Streets AZ is a program of the SACASA and funded by the Alliance Fund Queer Youth Initiative. The program is two-fold: 1) gathers information and 2) creates a network of support. Although geared towards LGBTQ youth and young adults, anyone who has experienced public harassment of any kind can share their story –publicly or anonymously—and connect to local and national resources, including crisis advocacy services.
They can also connect to Safe Sites; a growing web of partner businesses and organizations where anyone experiencing harassment can go to feel safe and get resources. Safe Sites are mapped along with reported incidents on an interactive Google map, making them readily identifiable and accessible.

SSH: Did anything particular spark/inspire the creation of Safe Streets AZ?

SA: For me, it was the surprising lack of information and data about public and street harassment that really propelled me into helping to create Safe Streets AZ. We had a lot of anecdotal information and our cursory focus groups and conversations told us that public harassment is a recurring safety issue in our community, particularly for LGBTQ and female-identified people. But when we looked at the local and state level for data and resources specific to street and public harassment we came up blank. There is little to no information that speaks to the prevalence of public harassment or its impact, particularly upon minority communities.

We knew that before we could start looking to solutions, we had to get a better understanding of what is going on in our area, and Safe Streets AZ grew out of this need. On a personal level, I am also deeply inspired by the ground-breaking work of other activists like Emily May of Hollaback! and the ability to connect to and learn from a greater, growing movement against street and public harassment.

SSH: Gathering data is always an important first step toward creating solutions. I’m intrigued by the “Safe Sites” program, can you please tell me more?

SA: In creating the program we quickly realized that gathering and mapping stories –although a key way to raise awareness and build readiness- would not be enough. Opportunities needed to be available now for community members to step up and address the issue.

We created the Safe Sites component so that local businesses, organizations, and the individuals that work in them have a hand in creating a safer community. Prior to launching the program I met with several local businesses to get their feedback, and I know that their perspectives and buy-in has really contributed to the success of this aspect of the program. The result is a web of partner sites throughout the community where someone experiencing harassment can ask for help/identify that they are being harassed, and receive resources and short-term safety. This last part is especially important for youth and young adults who are being harassed because they can access Safe Sites and wait in safety for a short period –until their ride comes, until they feel it’s safe to leave, etc- without fear of being asked to leave due to ‘loitering’.

The degree to which local businesses and organizations have not only supported but embraced Safe Streets AZ has been unexpected and completely inspiring. So far Safe Streets AZ has been endorsed by the Pima County Small Business Commission, the Southern Arizona Chambers of Commerce Alliance, Pima County Public Libraries, Friends of the Pima County Public Libraries, and several locally-owned businesses. We also have partnerships with other non-profits and agencies, including Wingspan, Tucson’s LGBT Community Center, which are critical to shaping the program.


SSH: That’s amazing! What would you say the community response has been to Safe Streets AZ overall?

SA: The response on this program has been incredibly encouraging. About two days after the first story on Safe Streets AZ aired on KOLD 13, I received the most heart-warming phone call. A parent of an openly LGBTQ middle-school student in one of our districts called just to thank me and SACASA for Safe Streets AZ. She told me about how her 12 year old daughter has been harassed on multiple occasions in and out of school –some of them because of her sexual orientation- and was happy that resources are available.

The question I do get the most from community members and some of our Safe Site partners is, “adults and people of all sexual orientations and backgrounds are harassed – is this program also for them?” And the answer is, “of course.” Women, youth, and LGBTQ-identified individuals are more frequently the targets of public harassment, but as we expand the program we also want to expand the message that Safe Streets AZ is for everyone, and anyone can share their story, connect to resources, and join the movement.

SSH: Wonderful. What aspect of Safe Streets AZ is most interesting/exciting to you?

SA: The most exciting aspect is that Safe Streets AZ connects the gaps between private and public spaces. In schools as well as the workplace, there are policies in place specifically geared towards protecting individuals from harassment. How well these are enforced varies, but similar protections are not available for most public spaces. There are no clear cut channels to address the kinds of street and public harassment that are committed on a daily basis. The Safe Sites aspect of the program brings businesses into the mix to start bridging those gaps, and allows us to incorporate available technologies from blogs to QR codes.

SSH: Where do you hope to see the program in a year?

SA: Over the next 6 months the primary plan for Safe Streets AZ is to gather as much information as we can regarding the frequency and kinds of public harassment being perpetrated in our community, and then take a really good look at what the information is telling us.

The next step is to meet with law enforcement, public officials, and service agencies and use this localized data to start developing specific ways to address public and street harassment in Arizona. I also hope to see the Safe Site aspect of the program grow to include more business partners as well as an active bystander intervention training component. The goal is to empower community members of all ages to share their experiences and to call out harassment how-and whenever possible.

SSH: Anything else you’d like to add?

SA: One of the biggest benefits of programs like Safe Streets AZ is that it helps us start making connections between street and public harassment and other forms of sexual violence. Until recently, street and public harassment have not been included in most sexual violence prevention efforts, even though the majority of street harassment is rooted in (perceived or actual) gender, sex, sexual orientation, and sexuality of the perpetrator as well as the person being harassed. By continuing to connect these issues we can make stronger cases for primary prevention programs and solutions that address violence on multiple levels.

Find Safe Streets AZ on Facebook.

Stephanie is right on about the lack of information on street harassment, the need for more data, the need for businesses and local community groups to become involved in creating solutions, and in the need for traditional sexual violence prevention efforts to include street harassment. Well done, Safe Streets AZ and Stephanie!! As they continue forward, their work has the potential for being a model other cities can use to effectively track and then address street harassment on the local level. A multi-layered, community response is the only way street harassment has any chance of ending.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews Tagged With: LGBQT, safe streets az, Southern Arizona Center Against Sexual Assault, stephanie arendt, street harassment

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