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Archives for January 2012

Book Review: Why Loiter?

January 13, 2012 By Contributor

This is cross-posted with the author’s permission from MetroBlogs.

The book Why Loiter? Women & Risk on Mumbai Streets aims to map the exclusions and negotiations that females of various age groups and economic classes encounter in their everyday lives in urban spaces in the city of Mumbai. Authors trio, Shilpa Phadke, Sameera Khan and Shilpa Ranade have based this book on their 3 years of qualitative research and conclude that women’s presence and participation in public spaces and events has certainly increased but reserve that the city still does not offer equal claim into the realm of public safety in urban streets and spaces.

Why Loiter? Women & Risk on Mumbai Streets embarks on a significant journey on how a radically transforming city with respect to infrastructure and rapid construction, still continues to grant women only a status of secondary citizen by denying them complete safety at any time of the day. Provision of safety in urban spaces encompasses different understanding for women belonging to different economic classes. Woman travelling in a private vehicle from destination A to destination B has different safety level offered than another woman travelling from same destination A to B in a public transport.

As presented in the book, low visibility areas, poorly lit spaces, deserted streets and public transportation after sunset all consitute for unsafe environments. To counter, women alter their movement and restrict accessing urban spaces, maintaining a compromise. The book presents scenarios where this aspect of women in public spaces is so deeply entrenched that it becomes their second nature to modify their behavior. Examples like covering their chest with a book, file or dupatta, walking while gazing down and pretending to be on the phone while moving swiftly away into private spaces are common glimpses.

What is curious about the book is that investigates various economic and communal settings and how each is unique in providing different degree of freedom and social constraints. So a city, essentially an amalgam of various faiths and religion and cosmoplitan in its claim, provides a different level of freedom in varied communities. And women are not let loose from the clutches of moral policing in the name of safety. She can be letched, eve-teased, groped, stared and made to feel voilated, possibly anywhere. On the other hand, the same does not apply for men, as the authors point out. Men move about and expand their access to urban spaces more vigorously and more importantly any time of the day. Thus enabling more choices with respect to jobs they take up or engage in various social gestures.

This book presents scenarios of Mumbai’s changing landscape and how this emerging urban fabric could be flawed from equitable development and equal access to all citizens. And this is where I see authors blurring issues of gender humiliation to urban development. The two are distinct issues and a very organic development devoid of zoning has not been a solution either, as suggested by the researchers. Women’s safety in a city is not an unique Indian issue. Its rampant here could be a case of cultural baggage of gender hierarchy and its related perils.

Pallavi Shrivastava is an architectural designer with a keen interest in human ecology and sustainability in the built environment. She currently lives in Mumbai and works as a Country Manager for a Singapore Design Consultancy firm and pursues her academic research interest on sustainable and equitable urban development. She currently serves as the Mumbai Correspondent for World Architecture News. Pallavi holds a Masters degree in design from Arizona State University and has worked on several notable design projects both in India and USA. She is an Evidence Based Design Accreditation Certified (EDAC) and is also an USGBC LEED Green Associate.

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: mumbai, Pallavi Shrivastava, Sameera Khan and Shilpa Ranade, sexual assault, Shilpa Phadke, Why Loiter? Women & Risk on Mumbai Streets

Harasser yells he knows where she lives

January 12, 2012 By Contributor

I get harassed in some way at least once a day living in London, but today’s encounter was extra special.

As I was outside the door to my flat I heard a car pull up behind me and someone hollering at me (“Yo bitch” – etc.)

I turned around to see a man probably in his mid-20s, with two females in the back, sticking his head out the window and asking me, “What’s up” and if I want to “come for a ride”.

I rolled my eyes and turned around to walk in my door…

Of course as soon as I do this things change and the guy starts calling me a “fucking bitch” and a “stupid cunt” and that now he knows where I live.

Brilliant.

– AB

Location: London, UK

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It’s easy to street harass if you think women are worthless

January 11, 2012 By Contributor

I was sitting on the patio at a local coffee shop, enjoying a chai, reading the paper, and waiting for my massage appointment. I was alone on the patio until two men and one woman came out and sat at the next table. I didn’t think much until they started getting into a conversation about women in general. They talked about how all women were worthless (remember, there was a woman sitting with them and she was laughing along with them) and were generally just being disrespectful.

At about that time, a woman crossed the street in front of us and one of the men wolf-whistled at her. She ignored it and kept on walking. A minute later a woman riding a motorcycle went by and that elicited another round of rude comments.

I was very uncomfortable. There was one part of me that really wanted to confront these guys and castigate them for their behavior and then there was the other part of me that didn’t feel safe doing so.

I opted to leave, feeling bad.

– Kelly

Location: Main St., Downtown Ventura, California

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“[Street harassment] is like a bubble I constantly try to escape from”

January 10, 2012 By Contributor

A takeout guy on a bicycle kept looking at me inappropriately, then tried to get my attention me as I passed him. “Hola,” he said. I walked faster.

“HOLA!” he cried harder, as if I would stop because he said it louder. I almost ran across the street in my rush to escape him.

At the train station right after, I was followed by a creepy middle-aged man who kept trying to whisper in my ear. I tried to walk away to different parts of the train station, to get away from him and blend in more with the crowd. He followed me wherever I went.

I finally yelled, “Leave me alone!” He tried to act all innocently and say, “Who me?” with a smug smirk on his face. I stared back at him and said, “Yes, you.” He finally stopped following me, since he had been humiliated in front a crowd of people.

Some days, the harassment in my neighborhood is so invasive and frequent it’s like a bubble I constantly try to escape from. I have had a middle-aged man follow me to the library. One time, a guy was handing out pamphlets and asked whether or not I spoke English just because I chose to ignore his pestering me by saying “you’re beautiful, what are you 18?”

Another time, a guy rudely asserted that I shouldn’t wear headphones on the train, as he sat down right next to me in an empty train car, because I should listen to him say good morning. Um, no thank you.

Screw street harassment. Screw the foolish, rude, disgusting, ugly on the inside at the very least, street harassers. I hope one day they learn to respect women and not treat them as if they’re entitled to their attention. When you harass, even if you gaze intensely, you become an ugly pathetic version of yourself. I hope they realize that one day.

– SpeakOut

Location: New York, NY
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Dancing toward change in Israel

January 10, 2012 By HKearl

Image via Jerusalem Post

Remember the ultra-Orthodox Jewish men who called an 8-year-old a whore as she walked to school in Israel? That terrible incident illustrates how many men treat girls and women across the country.

In response, on Friday, January 6, a group of 250 women from  Bet Shemesh held a Flashmob in the city square.

“[They] decided to raise their voices against the exclusion of women from the public domain by holding a mass public dance in the city square. The women, residents of the city from all ages and sectors, religious, traditional and secular, gathered together in a flashmob dance, in the city square and started dancing towards a change.” – via YouTube


Via the Jerusalem Post:

“Dance organizer Miri Shalem said that the event was organized in protest of the violent extremist actions of “the group of crazies,” and to show that there is another side to Beit Shemesh. “Today the women and girls demonstrated our unity in public and I hope we will continue to do this in the future in order to improve our city,” she said.”

“We wanted to express our feelings in a unique way and highlight a different face of Beit Shemesh,” said Brenda Ganot, a flashmob organizer and Beit Shemesh resident.

“We love our city and want peaceful coexistence between the different sectors of the population; however, we will not sit quietly and let a group of crazy extremists set the tone for our city.”

Way to go!

(H/T to Hollaback for the link to the video)

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: bet shemesh, street harassment

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