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Archives for March 2012

Just another day in Delhi

March 23, 2012 By Contributor

Editor’s Note: This is cross-posted with permission from Bell Bajao’s site for International Anti-Street Harassment Week:

This past weekend, on my way to meet up with friends for an evening of food and live music, I stopped at a popular phone recharge stand in M-block market. After going through the usual motions, I waited for the confirmation text before paying the store worker. Just last week I had 100 rupees stolen this way at a different place, so I knew better than to pay and walk off.  After five minutes and no message, the man called me back to the counter. I explained to him that I couldn’t pay him because the balance on my phone was still at zero. He began to yell, “Give me 100 rupees” and I knew at this point I should leave.

As I stormed out of the door, he ran in front of me and began demanding the money again. I explained to him, once more, that without a confirmation text, I could not pay him because that meant the transaction had not gone through. But he did not seem to care. I pushed past him and walked onto the street. As I did, he yanked my wrist and tried to drag me back into the store. At this point, I was the one who yelled, “Do not touch me! I will call the police!”

My body began to shake and I couldn’t steady my voice but I kept yelling and fighting him off. In that moment of fear, I recalled what many residents of Delhi have told me in the past: if you’re being assaulted or harassed in a public space, people will watch, a crowd will gather but no one will intervene. I panicked and struggled harder.

That’s when I saw a hand, and then a body, come between us. A young woman and her friend saw what was happening and stepped in. The speed of their Hindi meant I couldn’t comprehend a word of the exchange but I knew they were scolding the man and trying to defend me. The louder their voices grew, the larger the crowd became.

Within two minutes, there were thirty or so people surrounding my assaulter and just before the crowd swallowed him from view, I saw two men grabbing him by the arms. That’s when the woman who originally stepped in turned to me and in kind voice said, “Go home.”

I walked home in fear trying to steady my hands. But by the time I reached my apartment, ripped off my jacket and slumped down onto the couch, the only emotion I felt was gratitude.

I wish that I could tell you that this was the first traumatic incident that I’ve had in India. Two months ago in Delhi, I had an auto rickshaw driver grab me by the arm when I refused to pay him more than the price we had negotiated. Last summer, while on a train to Varanasi, I woke up to see the man in the berth opposite mine masturbating while staring at me. I screamed and the other passengers began to shame him. But this evening was different because it was the first time a man had actually placed his hands on me in such a violent and persistent way.

Almost every woman I know in Delhi could rattle off a similar incident ranging from harassment to attempted abduction. If you speak to enough people, you soon begin to accept that we are in the throes of a global pandemic of violence against women. And despite taking so many precautions, it seems we still find ourselves in scarring situations. So what more can we do?

After I was assaulted, all I wanted to do was stay home where I felt safe but I took a deep breath and headed to dinner. I realized that if I allow myself to fear public spaces, then violence wins. While I’m a strong proponent of women heeding safety concerns and making smart judgments, simply saying, “avoid going out” is not the answer.

I realized that if I allow myself to fear public spaces, then violence wins.As is, women are largely absent from public spaces in India. You can walk around Delhi and wonder why there are so many more men than women. What we need is for women to be brave, be outside and carry on with their lives so we become a natural part of the environment.

More than that, what we really need are more people like that crowd in M-block market. If we learn to see strangers as brothers and sisters and step up to act on their behalf when they need our help, accepting what consequences may come, then we begin to assert the sense of human decency and respect this city is lacking.

If perpetrators of violence see day in and day out that their actions will not be tolerated, they will be the ones who begin to feel fear. And we will reclaim our neighborhoods and finally live in the kind of place that we all deserve.

The thing about activism is that it really starts with you. Brush away the overwhelming scope of the problem and you’ll realize it’s honestly that simple. If we vow as individuals to right wrong where we see it and shape our actions toward others in a compassionate, loving and considerate way, then we have already succeeded.

We need parents who will raise their daughters to be strong and unwilling to accept the inequalities and restrictive norms thrust upon them from birth. We need parents, especially mothers, to raise their sons to respect women in a culture which quickly encourages them to do otherwise.

I sincerely wish that I could thank that crowd, not for physically stepping in, but for preventing me from being alone in my victimization. And I hope they are not alone in their courage.

I came back to Delhi this September to work at a human rights NGO because I want to dedicate my career toward building the kind of world each of us deserves to live in.

Veronica Weis is an AIF President William J. Clinton fellow in Breakthrough’s Delhi office.

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The New Jersey 7: “It gets better for whom?”

March 23, 2012 By Contributor

Editor’s Note: This is cross-posted with permission for International Anti-Street Harassment Week from The Public Intellectual.

By Laura S. Logan, PhD Candidate, Sociology, Kansas State University

Several African-American lesbians who fought back against an alleged attack spent time in jail and prison after being convicted of crimes related to the incident. Laura S. Logan looks at how press coverage of the group, dubbed the New Jersey 7, shaped a narrative about the women that portrayed them as predators rather than victims – a story at odds with how we usually think about LGBT people who’ve been harassed. In light of a recent popular campaign to end the bullying of LGBT people, Logan says, this case begs the question: It gets better for whom? Laura is a Ph.D. candidate in sociology at Kansas State University and managing editor of the journal Gender & Society.

A few young friends, all lesbians, all African American, waited at a bus stop near Newark’s Penn Station on May 13, 2003. It was 3:30 a.m., and they were returning from a night of fun in the West Village. Two African American men approached the small group of women, which included 15-year-old Sakia Gunn. The men made sexual advances. Gunn and her friends identified themselves as lesbians and rejected them. Shortly thereafter, one of the men, Richard MuCullough, stabbed Sakia Gunn in the chest, killing her on the street.

Three years later, in August 2006, another group of African American lesbians from Newark were harassed on the street, this time while they were still in the West Village. Dwayne Buckle, an African American man selling DVDs on the sidewalk, allegedly propositioned them as they walked past him. Buckle’s first remark was directed to Patreese Johnson: “Let me get some of that.” Thinking he was homeless and hungry, Johnson said, she asked if he wanted some of her friend’s soda. “No, some of that,” she recalled Buckle replying, pointing to below her waist.

Several of the young women yelled at him, and told him that they were lesbians and not interested. Buckle allegedly continued his harassment, adding homophobic threats and taunts. He said would “fuck them straight,” according to reports and court testimony. He threw a cigarette at one woman and spit at another, according to the women, leading to a brief physical altercation. Afterwards, the women turned to leave; a video camera from a nearby business shows them walking away. The same film shows Buckle following them. He continued to taunt them with anti-lesbian slurs, the women said, grabbed his genitals through his clothing, made explicitly obscene remarks, and threatened them –leading quickly to a second fight.

Buckle grabbed the women by the neck or hair, according to reports. They tried to defend themselves, but as they would free one woman from his grasp, Buckle grabbed another by the hair or throat, according to the women’s reports of the incident. Throughout the attack, Buckle yelled homophobic slurs and threatened them with sexual assault, they said. Much of the incident was caught on film by the nearby video surveillance camera, though a portion of the view was blocked by a pillar. At one point at least two or three male bystanders can be seen joining the fight in defense of the young women.

When the incident ended, the women were hurt: three had hair pulled out of their scalps, one had a bloody lip and two suffered neck injuries. Buckle was stabbed and required surgery for a lacerated liver. He spent five days in the hospital. At trial, Buckle was unable to identify who stabbed him. The prosecutor alleged that the woman who wielded the knife was Patreese Johnson, who did indeed have a knife that night (although her knife had no blood on it). The defense suggested that one of the bystanders stabbed Buckle. None of the bystanders, all men, were ever apprehended and none stepped forward to identify themselves.

All but one of these women, dubbed the New Jersey 7, were convicted for the incident. One of them remains in prison today. The women, their advocates, family and friends, and their attorneys say that the New Jersey 7 were unfairly prosecuted and too harshly sentenced and that the women’s self-defense was criminalized. All of the New Jersey 7 either knew Sakia Gunn personally or knew that she had been murdered in a street harassment incident three years earlier. The media, they say, helped foster an environment that made it easy to mischaracterize the women’s acts of self-defense.

There are obvious similarities between the Sakia Gunn murder and the New Jersey 7 incident. The big difference in the case of the New Jersey 7, however, is that the women who were allegedly harassed and attacked on the street fought back and all survived. This is how one of the 7′s prosecutors described it at trial: “They didn’t run away. They were not fearful. They were emboldened.” (NY Post 6/15/07).

This case resulted in a flurry of sensational headlines, such as this one from the New York Post: “ATTACK OF THE KILLER LESBIANS: MAN ‘FELT LIKE I WAS GOING TO DIE’” (4/12/2007), and this one, also from the Post: “GIRL GANG STABS WOULD-BE ROMEO” (8/19/2006). Television media also sensationalized the case. Bill O’Reilly titled a segment about the case on his Fox News show “Violent Lesbian Gangs a Growing Problem.” The Southern Poverty Law Center noted in response that “there is no evidence the women are members of a criminal gang, and O’Reilly failed to report that the attack was prompted, according to the New York Daily News, by Buckle spitting, cursing, and flicking a cigarette at the women after one of them rebuffed his sidewalk sexual advances” (Intelligence Report, Fall 2007, Issue 127). In spite of this, the women were charged and most of them convicted of felony gang assault.

Despite these mostly local lurid headlines, however, the New Jersey 7 case attracted little sustained attention from the media. Even so, the framing of the incident is disturbing. Media reports illuminate the intersecting social inequalities in this case – that is, how it matters to be Black and lesbian and from a poor/working class New Jersey neighborhood and to be harassed and attacked on the street in New York City by a Black heterosexual man.

Moreover, the assault against these lesbians, the consequences they faced, and the relative public silence about the case stand in stark juxtaposition with the thriving – and largely white and middle-class – movement against the bullying of LGBT youth and the “It Gets Better” campaign – a campaign inspired in part by the suicides of several young gay men.

The Angry Black Woman, Transformed

I analyzed all of the thirty newspaper stories about the case from U.S. newspapers, and found that advocates for the New Jersey 7 were correct. The media did help to foster a context where reading the women’s actions as self-defense was very difficult. These stories presented the 7 as wild and animalistic, playing to our worst stereotypes about “angry black women.” The stories also had an odd and disturbing narrative arc – after their convictions and sentencing, some of them stunning in their length and severity, the media re-imagined the 7. They were transformed from rampaging beasts to weepy young girls, suggesting that in their punishment for self-defense, they were redeemed and no longer dangerous.

The angry black woman, prone to impulsive acts of random violence, is a longstanding racialized stereotype. In accounts of this case, that image was hammered home again and again. In addition to characterizing the women as furious and out of control, news reports repeatedly emphasized that the New Jersey 7 were lesbians, and used animal imagery and language to describe them and their actions. The women were referred to as “a gang of angry lesbians” (NY Daily News 4/13/07); “tough lesbians from New Jersey” (NY Daily News 4/19/07); “bloodthirsty young lesbians” (NY Post 4/12/07); “a gang of four tough-as-nails lesbians” (NY Post 4/019/07); a “gang of seven rampaging lesbians” (NY Post 6/15/07); and, “a pack of marauding lesbians” (NYT 4/14/07). One headline exclaimed, “A FURIOUS LESBIAN raged, ‘I’m a man!’” and went on to describe the incident as a “wild seven-on-one beatdown,” (NY Daily News 4/13/07).

Overall, almost two-thirds of the articles characterized the women as angry lesbians in one way or another, and nearly half also used animal imagery or language. They were “wild,” a “wolf pack,” and a “she-wolf pack.” The women “pounced,” “growled,” and “roared,” they “preyed upon” the victim – and several of the articles used such terms more than once. The message is that these women were dangerously wild, masculinized monsters.

Articles that focused on the women’s reactions to the verdict, however, represented the 7 as the polar opposite of the angry black woman. The killer lesbians were transformed into tearful docile girls after their convictions. The women become wounded little girls or delicate submissive waifs. They are called “crying convicts,” “sobbing friends,” and “weepy women.” Several news stories describe the women as “led sobbing or hysterical from the courtroom” (Star Newark 4/19/07). One reporter described part of the trial: “The young women sobbed and wailed ‘No-oo!’ ‘Mommy!’ and ‘I didn’t do it!’” (NYT 4/19/07). The New York Post wrote:

The pint-sized ringleader of a gang of seven rampaging lesbians collapsed shrieking in a Manhattan courtroom yesterday as a judge sentenced her to 11 years in prison for the brutal beat-down and stabbing of a man who promised to turn them “straight” in Greenwich Village last summer. “Noooo!” 4-foot-11, 95-pound Patreese Johnson wailed after learning her startling sentence – the highest several defense lawyers had ever heard of for a nonfatal stabbing. “No!” she sobbed. “Please! Nooooo!” Johnson, 20, fell to the courtroom floor and was carried out kicking and screaming.(6/15/07)

This is how the New York Times put it: “As they were sentenced, the young women wept and wailed, one of them crying, ‘I’m a good girl!’” (6/15/07). These media accounts are a sort of Greek tragedy with dueling choruses, one joyously chanting, “You are girls after all!” the other taunting, “You are not so tough now, are you ladies?”

Another way to look at it: after passing through the criminal justice system, the wild animals are reformed, changed from bad lesbians who acted like masculine monsters to docile little girls, crying for their mothers.

It gets better for whom?

One of the most striking facts about this case is how little attention it received beyond a few lurid accounts. The New Jersey 7 incident and the circumstances of Sakia Gunn’s death suggest that a Black lesbian who has the misfortune of encountering sexualized street harassment be virtually ignored if she dies and will be punished if she lives.

There’s a sharp contrast between reaction to these cases and attention to bullying in schools. The “It Gets Better” Project has drawn substantial public attention to this issue; there are now more than 400,000 members of the movement. While it is unquestionably important to address bullying, we must also acknowledge that it takes on different forms in different contexts. Street harassment – certainly a type of bullying – is an incredibly common experience for women across almost all social categories, but particularly affects urban women, including woman of color and those who are poor.

It won’t get better for the New Jersey 7. The group included at least two couples, now felons who can no longer associate with any other felon, including each other. The women with felony convictions cannot vote, adding them to the growing rosters of disenfranchised African American voters in the U.S. Others lost physical custody of their children while in prison, and several must now navigate a depressed job market with a felony gang conviction on their records. All of which begs the question: It gets better for whom?

We need to make sure that it gets better for people who aren’t middle class, white or male. It will get better when we address inequalities, starting with those who are the most oppressed. It could get better if we put the brakes on a voracious criminal justice system and if we stop criminalizing survival. And it will get better when a group of young African American lesbian friends can walk down the street knowing they are safe from sexual harassment and threats of violence.

Suggested readings:

Chesney-Lind, Meda and Nikki Jones, eds. 2010. “Fighting for Girls: New Perspectives on Gender and Violence.” SUNY Press.

INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence, ed. 2006. “The Color of Violence: The Incite! Anthology.” South End Press.

Miller, Jody. 2008. “Getting Played: African American Girls, Urban Inequality, and Gendered Violence.” NYU Press.

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“I won’t hesitate to protect myself if I need to”

March 23, 2012 By Contributor

I frequently have to get the train home from work at night, along a busy line that sometimes has drunks and other rowdy types. There are often situations where I feel unsafe as a solo woman (despite reassuring my boss that I’ll be fine and that I do this all the time) and the only reason that I don’t feel like a target is because I’m in my work uniform – a very unglamourous button up shirt, work pants, and steel cap boots. If I see guys leering at me or staring at me on the train, I always remind myself that if they touch me, I can give them a swift kick to the jewels with my boots. It sounds awful, but I won’t hesitate to protect myself if I need to.

– Anonymous

Location: Perth, Australia

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Street harassment started when she was 10 years old

March 22, 2012 By Contributor

Wow! share my story hmmmm! for many years I have had a lot to say on this subject among close friends or just within my own thoughts. The start of my Street Harassment started around the age of ten.

I attended a private school for girls in Brooklyn, New York. Our class was on the way to Manhattan for a class trip. Unlike the public schools that had their own yellow buses for transport we had to take the New York Subway.  We were a class of at least 24 girls with one adult in charge, our teacher a Nun.

We marched lined up paired with a partner according to height. I was the tallest and for me most times I had no partner. This, I felt, left me more available for the wolves to harass.

At first it seemed that the comments were harmless. They came from older men that reminded me of a father or grandfather. Saying little comments like good morning, where are you going today, can I come with you.

But I wasn’t a clueless child. I was also a ten year old who was developed and was already wearing a bra. My early development added to the harassment.

I never liked their attention I was young but smart enough to know it wasn’t right. The things I was told or asked was purely sinful. Always annoyed, I hated to go on school trips if we had to use public transportation. Most of all I never told anyone not even my teacher.

The classmates that heard the comments, well some laughed it off and others paid no mind. The comments that came from those men were horrible for a ten year old girl to have to hear.

I remember wanted to scream at them and ask them,”How would feel if their own family member, their own daughter had to deal with this.”

I was forced to grow up very early because of this. This story was just the beginning of many experiences due to Street Harassment. No one should have to deal with Street Harassment, no one.

– HCH

Location: Brooklyn, New York

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Day 5 – Anti-Street Harassment Week

March 22, 2012 By HKearl

It’s very exciting to see the momentum continues to build on Day 5. Here is a sampling of events occurring today and some that happened yesterday!

Some of the events occurring today:

* In Montréal, Canada, Hollaback Montréal will host a screening of “War Zone” and “Walking Home” at 7 p.m. INFO.

* A screening of War Zone will take place at Santa Monica College, CA, at 5:30 p.m. INFO.

* A forum about harassment on the transit system at 5:30 p.m. in Washington, DC. INFO.

* Stop street harassment discussion at 3:30 p.m. at Western Illinois University, IL. INFO.

* A campus discussion on street harassment at 6:30 p.m. at the University of Toledo, OH. INFO. PDF Flier.

Miss Representation screening in Istanbul

Some of the events that occurred yesterday:

* In Istanbul, Turkey, Hollaback Istanbul held a screening of Miss Representation and then a discussion about its connection to street harassment.

* From Nuala Cabral: “[It was a] great turnout at tonight’s event [in Philadelphia, PA]! We watched films, shared spoken word and testimonies. We discussed street harassment, gender policing, sexual identity, racial profiling, anger/love and community. It was a beautiful night.”

A Long Walk Home's Girl/Friends

* From A Long Walk Home: “Girl/Friends teen girls [in Chicago, IL] created a youth led march in the area that they often experience street harassment, their school community. Girl/Friends made t-shirts and signs for the march. During the march the youth gave out anti-street harassment materials and created awareness on the streets about street harassment.

 

* From Sarah Harper: “The Meet Us on the Street San Francisco, CA, event was a success! Our crew of activists, students, and

San Francisco, CA

community members spoke with a variety of passersby at the 16th St. BART station on the issue of harassment. We engaged many in dialogue about the effects of harassment as a reality in many women’s daily lives.  We also provided fliers for passersby (in English and Spanish) so that they may share the information with others.  The fliers included quick “how to’s” for dealing with harassment in-the-moment:  effective body posturing and phrases victims and witnesses may use to remain empowered while keeping themselves safe. The fliers also detailed what constitutes harassment, so that potential harassers may begin to identify and change their harassing behavior.”

 

MICA students with their artwork

* At the Maryland Institute College of Art (MD) last night, Hollaback Baltimore worked with students to brainstorm about how to end street harassment, and they designed images and slogans to fight back against it.

* George Washington University students and faculty in Washington, DC, talked about their research on the street harassment of LGBQT individuals both on- and off-line. (You can watch videos of their presentations via a post tomorrow.)

GWU discussion about the street harassment of LGBQT individuals

Another piece of news for today is that Hollaback launched their new “We’ve Got Your Back Campaign.”

“We’re partnering up with the bystander program Green Dot to help you intervene when you see street harassment happen – and to celebrate and document your success using our website and apps.  Starting March 22nd, you’ll be able to map your bystander intervention stories in green dots on our site.  Your story will inspire others to provide real-time solutions to street harassment.   You’ll also find our new “I’ve Got Your Back” button under each story. You can anonymously click the button and the person who shared their story will receive an email saying the number of people who have their back! With each click, you will give others in the Hollaback! community the support they need to keep holla’ing back.”

Engaging bystanders and having them speak out is crucial and can help take the onus off harassed persons to always be the ones to end a situation or get away safely. Try it out!

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