When I was about 21-years-old, I was at the mall down the street from my college looking for a new pair of pants. I had spent probably a good half hour in the same store humming and hawing about what to buy when suddenly an older women runs up to me and sticks a piece of paper in my hand. She whispers, “Read this” before walking off.
Feeling like I was in a spy movie I opened the paper. It read:
“There is a man following you. White shoes, blue jeans, grey t-shirt.”
In shock I looked up immediately and frantically begin looking for the man. Sure enough, there was someone about 20 feet behind me…and when I made eye contact he hid behind a pillar.
I immediately grabbed my things and ran over to the area to confront the person but he was gone. Shaken up, I went to the security desk at the Mall, and told the two men working there what had happened.
They responded, “Yeah. It happens all the time/”
The complete apathy of the ‘security’ appalls me even to this day. And if it happens all the time…maybe something needs to be done about it?
Either way…I went home as quickly as I could, taking as many turns as possible to make sure I wasn’t being followed.
– JaguarGrin
Location: Oakville Place. Oakville Ontario, Canada
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Concealed Weapon says
If someone was robbing them, and it “happened all the time”, would they let it go?
beckie says
You were very smart to report and to watch your back, and what a kind lady to notify you. I will try to be more like her now because of your story. I am so sorry this happened to you though.
Lindsay says
Oh my god, this story terrified me, just the thought of being followed in general is terrifying, as any woman will know. I live near where this happened and that terrifies me even more. That is a great woman to help, it would be even better if she stayed with her until she knew it was safe. Gosh this just frightens me so much as a young college student similar to the author. It really is appalling that we women have to go through our lives constantly in fear of these types of things, constantly having to take precautions to be safe and alert to ensure we don’t get raped or kidnapped :/ What a terrible world we live in