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Archives for April 2012

“I was shaking inside, but so glad that I’d made a stand”

April 24, 2012 By Contributor

I was sitting in a central line Tube train, on the way to work in the morning. It was fairly busy (usual rush hour crowds), and two men got into the carriage a stop after me.

I was sitting in one of the window seats and they came and stood by me. They weren’t speaking in English but every now and then would say the word ‘sex’ loudly and then look at me, laugh, and then carry on talking. It was plainly obvious that they were talking about me, and this coupled with their staring made me more uncomfortable than I have been in a long while (I’m afraid I’ve gotten used to the odd lingering stare on the trains).

I waited for a bit to see if they would stop. They didn’t. I then made eye contact with the man nearest, and it was fairly stern eye contact as I wasn’t very happy! This seemed to make him laugh and they carried on.

I thought about getting off the train and then decided that there was no way they were going to make me leave. I turned to the one nearest to me and asked in a strong tone what his problem was. He replied ‘nothing’ to which I said ‘good, then you can stop staring at me’. I asked the other one the same question and he too made an excuse and said he’d been staring into the carriage behind me. I asked them to stop.

They stood there for about another minute or so and then slowly shuffled away into another part of the train.

I was shaking inside, but so glad that I’d made a stand. There were a couple of men on either side who would probably have heard me but they didn’t intervene or even ask if I was okay. Oh well, I stood up for myself and of that I’m proud! Maybe they’ll think again before they start harassing someone else. I hope.

– SM

Location: Central Line tube between Gants Hill and Leytonstone, London, UK

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New Hollaback Sites

April 23, 2012 By HKearl

Hollaback launched 8 new sites in various locations worldwide today:

Berkeley, CA
Brighton, UK
Brussels, Belgium
Dresden, Germany
Gwynedd, Wales
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Portsmouth, UK
South Africa

Meet the site leaders:

Welcome to Hollaback! April 2002

It’s great to see more and more places address street harassment!

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“The veil would never protect anybody from getting harassed, not even niqab. As long as they [men] know that under that niqab or under that veil, there is a woman, they will sexually harass you”

April 22, 2012 By HKearl

Via Tunisia Live

This is a really great, thorough article about street harassment in Tunisia. I’m including an excerpt and encourage you to read it in its entirety.

Via Tunisia Live:

“…With a progressive Code of Personal Status, Tunisia is commonly regarded as the Arab world’s most advanced country in terms of women’s rights. Yet sexual harassment exists in Tunisia, too. Unlike in Egypt, sexual harassment has not entered the arena of public discourse in Tunisia, and is often dismissed as a non-issue.

A recent survey conducted by the Tunisian National Office of Population and Family (ONFP) found that physical violence against women was most commonplace, followed by psychological violence, sexual violence and last, economic violence. While the survey found that violence against women was most common in the private sphere, it also revealed that violence against women in the public sphere is sexual in 21.3% of cases, psychological in 14.8%, and physical in 9.8%.

Sexual harassment is not just physical – but includes gestural, and even verbal, harassment. According to UN Women, sexual harassment can be, “making sexual gestures with hands or through body movements,” “hanging around a person,” “sexual comments,” or “unwanted sexual looks or gestures” – not to mention rape, pressure for sexual favors, etc.

For Meriem Manar (whose name has been changed to protect her identity), a student of business and English in Tunis, sexual harassment is a daily reality. “You cannot avoid it. Men are in the street with you, and you have to go to school, you have to go to work. Because it is in our daily life, because it is our every day experience, we end up accepting it. You leave your house mentally prepared. You just deal with it,” she said.

But this comes at a certain price to her liberty. “There are places that I cannot go alone, like parks…because I know I might be not just sexually harassed, but even raped…If you walk on Avenue Habib Bourguiba at night, you will not find a single female on the street. If you are alone at night and walking in the street, and somebody sees you, they will have the idea that you are going to a nightclub, or that you are meeting your boyfriend…that you are doing something your family would not be proud of.”

For Meriem, taking public transportation can often become unbearable. The everyday hassle of public transport turns into a nightmare for women in Tunis – regardless of their age, and their dress. “The veil would never protect anybody from getting harassed, not even niqab. As long as they [men] know that under that niqab or under that veil, there is a woman, they will sexually harass you,” says Manar. While no statistics exist for Tunisia, a study conducted by the Egyptian Center for Women’s Rights, in conjunction with the United Nations Population Fund and the European Commission, found that in Egypt, 72.5% of surveyed victims of sexual harassment were veiled.

Meriem yearns for a car reserved for women, like in the Cairo metro. But according to Chiao, segregation is not the answer. “I ride in the women’s car. But I think that as a policy or a solution, it establishes very bad norms. It promotes this idea that if a woman is riding in the men’s car, then she is looking for harassment, or that she brought it unto herself.”

The Legislation

Since 2004, sexual harassment has been punishable by law in Tunisia – with one year in prison and a fee of 3,000 dinars. Halima Jouini, a founding-member of the Tunisian Association of Democratic Women (ATFD) and a volunteer at the Center for Listening and Orientation of Women Victims of Violence, qualified this law as “limited” and “incriminating” for women.

“We launched this law in 2003…it was the ATFD that led the campaign. It was relatively successful – for the first time, sexual harassment was recognized as a crime. But still we are not satisfied – the law does not protect women,” she said.

At the time of the interview, Jouini was just returning from the tribunal in Tunis, where she had been defending the case of a rape victim. The woman in question was a housekeeper, who had been raped – sodomized, in fact – repetitively by her male boss. Upon confessing this to his wife, the housekeeper agreed to film the crime as evidence to take the man to court. But once this evidence was obtained, the wife pressed charges against both her husband and the housekeeper for adultery. The man, who possessed a Canadian passport, fled the country, leaving the housekeeper in prison – where she had been held for a month as of late March.

According to Jouini, the 2004 law’s definition of sexual harassment is limited in scope – as it delimits sexual harassment as strictly a repeated action. It is currently defined as “persistence in the harassment of the other by repetition of actions, words or gestures.” Citing the case of a woman who quit her job after she was harassed once in the workplace, Jouini pointed out that some women do not put up with the harassment, and choose to put an end to it after the very first occurrence. Jouini further explained that this makes it harder to collect evidence – as it is not always easy to prove that the harassment was repetitive.

The law further provides no protection to the plaintiff and witnesses, but instead explicitly states that if a case is declared nolle prosequi, or if the defendant is acquitted, then the defendant can ask for reparation, and sue the plaintiff for defamation.

Jouini questioned why this was recalled in the body of the law – when this principle underlies all laws included in the Penal Code. “This principle exists for the whole Penal Code, but to recall it in this very article is a way to say, ‘be careful women’…it is incriminating for the plaintiff.”

The Tunisian Association of Democratic Women (ATFD) calls for a comprehensive law on sexual harassment – one that would not only be included in the Penal Code, but also in the Tunisian Labor Code. Jouini pointed out that this was already the case in Morocco. The ATFD is also lobbying to include an article against discrimination and violence in the new Constitution – Jouini added that this has happened in several countries that underwent recent transitions, like South Africa and some Latin American countries.

Last but not least, the law against sexual harassment is couched in a moralizing rhetoric – it claims to discourage the “infringement of good mores and sexual harassment.” According to Jouini, sexual harassment is “a patriarchal discriminatory practice…You can’t justify this by good mores, or the lack of….”

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: April 22, 2012

April 22, 2012 By HKearl

via Post Noon

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read street harassment stories on the Web at:

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HarassMap in Egypt

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

In the News, on the Blogs:

* The Times of India, “Child rights panel takes up cases of sex abuse of street children“

* Tunisia Live, “Talk is Cheap: Addressing Sexual Harassment in Tunisia“

* Mama Mia, “Is wolf whistling sexual harassment?“

* Deccan Herald, “Woman power hits back with ‘girlcott’“

* Sunday’s Zaman, “Is harassment cultural?“

* Jeddah Mind Trick, “Walking While Covered“

* RH Reality Check, “Dispatches from AWID 2012: Arab Spring Becomes a Chill for Women, But The Organizing Continues“

* The Washington Examiner, “D.C. bill targets gropers and flashers on Metro“

* Nieuwsblad Brussels, “Met stoepkrijt ten strijde tegen seksueel geweld“

* BBC 4 Radio, “My Name is Not ‘Hey Baby’“

* Chicago Tribune, “Neighbor thwarts assault on woman“

* The Times of India, “Hounded by eve-teasers, girl ends life“

* Rookie, “All Locked Up“

* Bell Bajao, “Do we dare to wear what we want?“

* Washington Post, “Man sexually assaulted near National Gallery of Art“

* Times of India, “Male passengers forcibly occupy women coaches in mainline electrical multiple unit trains“

* Bougie Black Girl, “My and probably your experience with Street Harassment.“

* Reston Patch, “It’s Trail Season – Be Careful Out There” | My response blog post.

Activism Announcements:

New:

* Siobhan Benita is an Independent candidate for Mayor of London and she put street harassment on her campaign agenda

* In Washington, DC, Ward 4 City Council Member Muriel Bowser introduced legislation that will make it easier to prosecute people who expose themselves in public (e.g. public masturbators and flashers)

* @fluffmuffin10 I’m looking for interviewees for street harassment research. Email me for further info! emma.lovell10@googlemail.com

* Submit art about street harassment for the VoiceTool Product exhibit in San Francisco, CA

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

Reminders:

* If you’re in the New York City area, take this survey about harassment on public transportation.

* Gay and bisexual men, take this survey about street harassment (you can be in any location).

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

20 Tweets from the Week:

1. @bianchisoul Walking down street, 2 guys lean out of car and subject me to unprovoked, vile and sustained barrage of verbal sexual harassment #feminist

2. @garnethenderson Had a man try to touch my leg on the subway and got catcalled on my walk home all in one night. #streetharassment

3. @pilotbacon Some guy just yelled “get in my car” at me & I got insulted that he didn’t compliment me first. C’mon bro, that’s a command, not a catcall.

4.  @ThisIsBlueKid What if everytime I get a catcall or an ‘aye mami’ I licked that person’s face? Best/worst social experiment ever?

5. @Make_it_nASHty “The street harassment needs to stop” #whoisthisdude

6. @LDRphotography The amount of street harassment we women have to put up with in this town is outrageous. Worse place I’ve ever lived

7. @DracoDoza #Street #harassment makes me want to punch people in the face. Repeatedly. Because I endure it, repeatedly.

8. @RidiculousMegan First street harassment incident of my move to #Toronto so not cool.

9. @EFLI_LiFe Safe street campaign: “Let’s change social acceptability of sexual harassment!” why is it ok? Babies say: don’t harass my mom! #awidforum

10.  @sarahofaoh Street harassment is a daily thing for me whenever I’m in cities. Ugh. So happy I have headphones.

11. @chaneldubofsky what if everyone who saw the #street #harassment called the person out on doing it? instead of ignoring it? #accountability

12. @sparksf Egypt: take blame away from women- her dress, the time of day she is on street- there is now a sticker for anti-harassment biz #awidforum

13. @enf_2 walking home alone at 11:20 pm, some guy yells out his truck window, “you’re —-ing smoking hot.” #leavemealone #streetharassment

14.  @blasianallie #YouKnowWhatAnnoysMe? #streetharassment.

15.  @lucyswope Over-the-shoulder finger to “damn, boo, look at the hips on that.” #streetharassment

16. @thleenzo Told @gallo_extreme that #streetharassment is the #1 reason I don’t wear revealing clothing. Now he wants to know how he can help stop it.

17. @vanillawindz Just being a women walking on the street regardless of whether in Sari or shorts invites sick comments from cheapsters #streetharassment

18. @Melissa_Higgs On TFL Northern line: man deliberately walking into women walking on the left towards him to get a grope, then grinning #streetharassment

19. @iHollaback “No means no means no. In the bar, a bedroom, and the STREET.” Biden on VAWA. Think he knows about hollaback?

20. @thekateblack Police are looking for this L train masturbator for targeting me and a gradeschool aged girl. http://pic.twitter.com/G5X6MekW

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Young woman in India commits suicide because of harassers

April 21, 2012 By HKearl

This is tragic.

Deeksha Sharma, a 21-year-old student at Mahatma Gandhi College in India committed suicide this week. In the suicide note, she said it was because of the constant sexual harassment she faced by four men near her college. She’d complained about them across several years. It wasn’t completely clear from the article, but I gather nothing was done to stop them or help her.

Via Times of India:

“We have arrested all the four accused. We are investigating their role to find if they could also be implicated for outraging the modesty of the girl,” said Satyaveer Singh, superintendent of police.

Sadly, the belated actions of the police won’t help this young woman. But maybe they will prevent other young women from facing harassment by these young men. So that’s something.

Rest in peace, Deeksha Sharma.

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