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Archives for May 2012

Share Stories, End Street Harassment in Kabul & DC

May 30, 2012 By HKearl

Noorjahan Akbar and Chai Shenoy

Kabul, Afghanistan, and Washington, DC, have a lot in common when it comes to gender-based street harassment. Last night, the co-founders of two organizations working to end street harassment spoke about it at a great event in Washington, DC: Chai Shenoy of Collective Action for Safe Spaces (DC) and Noorjahan Akbar of Young Women for Change (Kabul).

These amazing women shared how gender-based street harassment is similar and how it differs in the two cities and their activism initiatives.

In both cities, street harassment makes public places less safe for women. It makes them feel less able to go places, and, especially in Kabul where there is so much groping and extreme forms of street harassment, it can deter women from going to school and work and make them more dependent on the men in their families or on their husbands.

Street harassment is a symptom of larger gender inequality and gender violence in both countries. As long as street harassment occurs, we know that broader issues of gender violence are occurring behind closed doors, in schools and in workplaces.

In Kabul, it’s especially dangerous for women to speak out on this issue and Noorjahan shared how she’s regularly called an American spy and worse for daring to be female with an opinion and a voice.

Both organizations are addressing street harassment in similar ways: collecting and sharing stories, organizing marches and art exhibits, and asking politicians to do more about the issue. When asked what people could do to help, this is what they shared:

Chai: 1) Share your experiences, this is integral to breaking social norms. 2) Attempt to get involved in some way. Build a community of bystander intervention. Learning strategies is helpful for both women and men. There’s so much we can do to learn from each other and help each other feel safe.

Noorjahan: 1) Men can speak out against the victim-blaming of women (in Kabul, women are even blamed for causing the harassment based on how large their sunglasses are or how high their heels are on their shoes!). 2) Women can speak out louder. Individual women may face personal attacks but if there are are many voices speaking out from all over, it’s more effective.

Both organizations are entirely funded by donations, so please, help them continue their work by donating $5-10 today. Young Women for  Change | Collective Action for Safe Spaces.

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What happens to men who leer in parking garages…

May 30, 2012 By HKearl

Street harassers annoy us, anger us, humiliate us, and scare us…and when they’re harassing us from behind the wheel of their car or truck, they can also be dangerous.

Usually they prove dangerous to others through their distracted driving (e.g. hanging out windows or yelling stuff at us while they’re driving, spacing out and stopping suddenly because they’re staring, etc), and they’ve even killed women through their carelessness.  For example, three years ago as two women were walking home from work, men harassed them from a truck. The driver lost control of the vehicle and both women were hit and one was killed.

One of the popular Allstate “Mayhem” commercials even portrayed the danger of driving street harassers. However, I took issue with it because instead of labeling the man driving and crashing the vehicles as mayhem, they labeled the woman jogger whom he stares at as the problem.

When you deal with street harassment a lot, it can be hard to find any humor in it, but watch this gif and you’ll see how a driver brings danger upon himself when he leers at a woman walking by. I bet you’ll laugh, or at least smile!

If only that happened to more of them, maybe they’d stop.

(Thanks, ‏@jet_set for the gif tip.)

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I told him, “That’s disgusting. Keep it to yourself.”

May 29, 2012 By Contributor

Today in New York is was about ninety degrees out. Like any other girl in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, on such a hot day, I was wearing short shorts on my way out to start the day. I would say this outfit isn’t any more revealing than any other girl’s outfit, but because I’m curvy I guess it just magically looks more lewd on me. I seldom let this fact sensor my sense of style though.

The first guy to harass me was dressed like a construction worker and just sat on a stoop, smoking a cigarette. He started making graphic and disgusting noises and motions at me and said something about my legs. I told him, “That’s disgusting. Keep it to yourself.”

Not even a full block later, a skinny crack head with no shirt begging for money stopped his charade completely in order to say some grotesque and graphic things about what he’d like to do to my body. Infuriated, I again told him, “You disgust me. Keep it to yourself!”

Well, as the platitude dictates, three is a charm: on my way back home, ice cream cone in hand, another man–in fact, he may have been the first man again–started making kissy noises at me while he was on the damn phone with one of his “homies” and told me to “watch out, baby,” which to me sounds like a threat. So I turned around and yelled, “Don’t you EVER sexually harass me or any other woman again, you pig! I can tell sexually harassing people like a CRIMINAL has gotten you real far in life, huh?!” I don’t even remember what else I yelled at him, and all he did was break eye contact and look really annoyed and embarrassed. I hope what I said stuck with him. He’s lucky–last time the third guy harassed me in such a short span of time, I creamed him in the face with a piece of vegan jerky. Damn, my aim is good.

– Kendalle Fiasco

Location: Brooklyn, New York, USA

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: May 27, 2012

May 27, 2012 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* Guardian, “Four in 10 young women sexually harassed in public spaces, survey finds;” Mail Online, “Catcalls, wolf whistles and groping: How 40% of young women in London have suffered sexual harassment in public places;” MSN UK, “Sexual harassment ‘common’ in city;” The Independent, “Catcalls, whistles, groping: the everyday picture of sexual harassment in London;” itv News, “Sexual harassment ‘common’ in London;” The Independent, “Only 4 in 10? We should speak up about harassment;” Guardian, “Sexual harassment is no laughing matter;” International Business Times, “Sexual Harassment of Women in London at Shocking Levels“

* The Independent i Editor’s Letter: “No means no”

* The Independent, “Why do some men consider the street as a female meat market?“

* Ireland Independent, “Laurie Penny: Why do so many men harass women on the streets? it might seem funny, but it’s not“

* The Times of India, “Kolkata organises ‘SlutWalk‘”

* Global Voices, “Bangladesh: Using Blogging to Expose ‘Eve Teasing’“

* IRIN, “NEPAL: Women demand end to sexual harassment“

* Rookie, “It Happens All the Time“

* Taking the Lane, “Street harassment: Anatomy of a pain in the ass“

* ESPN-W, “Hollaback! helps women fight harassment“

* Guardian, “Indian women turn to firearms against threat of violence“

* Queen Stardust, “It Happens All the Time: Street Harassment“

* Seek New Travel, “Is Street Harassment Ever Ok?”

* My San Antonio, “Schlitterbahn custodian busted for photographing women“

* Jezebel, “How Do We Make Street Harassment Go Away?“

* Midsummer Adieu, “A Middle-Aged Man Leered at Me Yesterday“

Announcements:

New:

* Activists in South Africa launched a new website about street harassment

* The anti-sexual harassment public service announcement signs are now up in several Washington, DC metro stations!

* If you’re in DC, come out for a FREE event about street harassment in Kabul, Afghanistan and Washington, DC, on Tues, May 29, 5:45 p.m. at the MLK library.

Reminders:

* In NYC on June 2 — “Queerocracy presents QRASH Course: Queers Resisting All Street Harassment“

* Help fund a new film about street harassment

* Change.org petition: Tell VisitPhilly.com: Please place advertisements that reflect the true value of our city.

* Read a report about the events of Anti-Street Harassment Week 2012.

* The Stop Street Harassment book is available in paperback for $15.

* Submit art about street harassment for the VoiceTool Product exhibit in San Francisco, CA

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

15 Tweets from the Week:

1. @dechanique Walking to Rosette’s. 40’s Latino man leans in close as I pass by & whispers “Que sabrossa” (how tasty). I was disgusted. #streetharassment

2. @froovyjosie got harassed again today. summer sucks. can’t wear a skirt without idiots bothering you. #streetharassment

3. @vicky_simister @MiniMapuche I’ve heard “Boys will be boys”, but that implies men can’t control themselves, another implausible reason #streetharassment

4. @defense4women @hkearl Clothing is just another excuse men use to make unwanted comments or advances.

5. @HollaBackBmore #BestThingInLife: A day in a sundress without any #streetharassment! Let us live our summer lives in peace!

6. @selise3 @froovyjosie @hkearl Sadly, it doesn’t matter what you wear– I’m never in shorts or skirts, yet often harassed. 🙁

7. @selise3 I’m not a jerk, but if you want to start a friendly chat, opening with, “Oooh, yeah, BABY!” is not the way to go about it. #StreetHarassment

8. @londonfeminist Clue: if your flirting is mistaken for street harassment, you’re doing it wrong. HTH.

9. @SarahGraham7 I don’t think I know a single woman who didn’t experience it in Paris, and I don’t know many who haven’t at home. #streetharassment

10. @Emilie_V Just talked to a (male) friend abt #streetharassment stats- his immediate response ‘women ask for it by wearing short skirts’.

11. @EVAWhd Do YOU call out sexual harassment when you see it in the street or public transport? Speak out against #streetharassment

12. @beckypants The fact that I happen to be female is public does not make me public property. Grrrr #streetharassment

13. @beatrzcm #Streetharassment isn’t a joke, it’s violence against #women http://ow.ly/b9b8c and we are standing up against it @iHollaback #VAW

14. @BlackWomensBP #Streetharassment contributes to #rapeculture

15. @saltyfree Who wants to help me start a non-profit that provides headphones & sunglasses to girls to help avoid street harassment?

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Arse grabber in Leamington Spa, UK

May 27, 2012 By Contributor

I was in a shop at the counter waiting to pay when a man’s voice hissed in my ear, “Gorgeous.”

I thought I’d been mistaken, looked around, and no-one was close or gave me eye contact, so I shrugged it off.

I left the shop and a man left with me, followed me down the high street, and I started to get a bit panicked, scared. Across the road I saw a friend and walked over to her. Safety.

He hesitated then crossed the road after me, walked over towards us and grabbed my arse on his way passed. My friend didn’t even notice and she was right in front of me.

This happened at around 2 p.m. on a busy Saturday afternoon in a small town in the UK, I’m 45 years old, he was in his twenties. I was scared during and afterwards. I didn’t tell anyone, I felt stupid.

– Anonymous

Location: Leamington Spa, UK

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