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Archives for July 2012

Street Harassment Campus Talks!

July 10, 2012 By HKearl

James Madison University's Sister Speak Group brought me to their campus in Virginia

My first year of college was a rude awakening to the commonality of street harassment. While I’d faced incidents before, in college, street harassment became a nearly daily experience. I faced honking, whistling and comments from men when I walked, ran, or took the bus. A few weeks into my first semester, a man groped me on the street two blocks from campus as I stood outside a friend’s house at night. It was very upsetting.

Sadly, my experiences are not unique. Street harassment is a problem on and around college campuses nationwide.

Over the past two years, I’ve given talks about street harassment on more than 20 college campuses, from Stanford in California to Central Connecticut State University, from the University of Iowa to Georgia College & State University. I even gave a talk at the University of Alaska, Anchorage, and it’s a problem there! At every campus, students share story after story about the harassment they’ve experienced. We talk about why it happens, the impact it has on our lives, and ideas for activism.

Here is an excerpt from a newspaper article about my talk at Pacific Lutheran University in Washington state this past February:

“Sophomore Kate Pritchard said she had never experienced street harassment before coming to PLU.

“Coming to college,” Pritchard said, “I’ve experienced a lot of it, and so this is something that’s relevant, I felt, to the PLU community.”

During the lecture, Kearl discussed techniques for addressing street harassment and emphasized telling harassers their actions are offensive.

Sophomore Katie Giseburt said she found these techniques for handling street harassment particularly interesting because ‘it just would be very startling and then you could follow up with, you know, ‘Don’t harass women.’ Just having those tools and knowing them already and being able to mentally prepare and visualize is extremely helpful.’

Sophomore Jessica Simmons said the lecture taught her street harassment can lead to sexual assault.

‘It’s not just something that we can ignore and say, ‘Well, you just need to deal with it or buckle down or walk away as fast as you can,’’ Simmons said. ‘It is something that we need to really confront. Everyone needs to take a stand and say, you know, ‘This isn’t okay. You can’t do this.’”

If you’re interested in bringing me to your campus this year for a talk or to lead a workshop, let me know! I can focus on the topic generally, look at international issues, and/or focus on activism and ways to respond.

I have many more examples of activism that works after my own experiences this spring helping bring an anti-sexual harassment campaign to the Washington, DC Metro system and using a Change.org petition to bring down an offensive pro-street harassment sign at a mall in New Jersey. Also, I organized International Anti-Street Harassment Week in March and more than 100 groups from 21 countries participated in some way and can speak about why the week is important and what different groups did to raise awareness in their communities.

So do reach out if you’re interested in a campus talk about street harassment this year!

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Participate in “Recall” — Your First Memories of Street Harassment

July 9, 2012 By HKearl

Anti-street harassment group Blank Noise in India invites you all to participate in their initiative Recall, “An online event that asks individuals to recall and share their first memory of street harassment.”

They invite you to participate in the following ways by July 13:

1. Recall your first memory of street harassment and send it to us via the online form (scroll down).

2. Announce the event to your friends — share it on your Facebook wall, twitter, mailing lists, and blog. Let Blank Noise know if where you post it so they can link to it from their blog.

All testimonials will be published here on the  weekend July 14/15th.

So, what was your first memory?

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Street harassment in Libya makes leaving home a “risky experience”

July 9, 2012 By HKearl

Nafissa Assed, Image via Libya Herald

Libyan Nafissa Assed wrote a powerful article about street harassment for the Libya Herald. Here is an excerpt:

“…Libyan verbal harassment is not just offensive or annoying, it is sexually explicit, undignified and potentially scarring. No woman, adolescent, rich, poor, fat, attractive, veiled or ugly, is spared. Libyan men continually harass women because they simply can do so, without suffering any consequences. In fact, if a Libyan woman were to report an incident to a policeman, it is very likely he would harass her as well. The Libyan authorities have largely turned a blind eye to this, backed in part by a bedouin mentality that still views women outside the home as sluts. The situation is so bad that leaving the home can turn into a risky experience….

Every time I bring up the subject, people say: “Just pretend they don’t exist and keep doing whatever you’re doing. We’re used to this”.

I totally disagree! Opting as many women do, to just ignore a man’s sexual harassments over and over again by pretending they do not exist is not the solution. Men often persist no matter how long I ignore them until the situation becomes so annoying that I finally will have to acknowledge it by giving them some words of my own.

At this point, the man will not hesitate to attempt to hit me.  And he knows in advance that if he does he will not face any consequences.

This scenario is repeated on a daily basis and many women in Libya do not feel safe walking alone in public places, driving their own cars, or using public transport….

It is terrifying that nothing is done about it. I wonder if the acts of sexual assault will ever become legally punishable in our new brand Libya….

Libyans are working together to build a whole new system, and people are changing their attitudes dramatically every day, but when it comes to attitudes of sexual harassment of women, nothing will change unless the government imposes tough rules against such behaviour.

If Libyans are seriously trying to strengthen the country’s economy and reverse its former pariah image, it should first improve conditions for the Libyan woman in a practical manner and place rules that protect her rights within the Libyan society. They have to be rules that are not enforced by social pressure, but by law.  Doing so would also put foreign investors—some of them women — at ease.

Besides, talented Libyan women would feel happier about contributing to their society. It would increase the willingness of those living and working oversees to fulfill their long held dream to come back and serve their country.

Societies do not change overnight. But they can progress when governments enforce the laws they has put in print…”

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: July 8, 2012

July 8, 2012 By HKearl

Nefsi chains against sexual harassment in Egypt

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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Street Harassment Stories:

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HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* International Herald Tribune, “A History of Mob Violence“

* The Guardian, “Sexual harassment on public transport must stop“

* Gradient Lair, “Me. Black Men. Street Harassment. White Audience.”

* Mercury News, “Opinion: Egypt’s new president faces a test on violence against women“

* Sapphire Unbound: A Black Womanist Scholar Speaks her Mind, “Sexuality and Hair: The Day I became unwomanly and a butch“

* Trust.org, “Health and Science – The unromantic truth about ‘Eve-teasing’”

* Pygmy Loris, “Intimidation should not be a normal part of a woman’s daily routine“

* The Hindu, “Police to take steps to curb eve-teasing“

* The Nation, “Eve teasing in public parks on the rise“

* The Daily Star, “Egypt women speak up against sexual violence“

* Gradient Lair, “6 Common Derailment Tactics Used In Conversations About Street Harassment and Sexual Assault“

* Pro-Feminist Bro, “Street Harassment“

* XO Jane, “It happened to all of us: why casual sexual assault needs to stop being ‘just one of those things‘”

* Grazia Daily, “From Cat-Calling to Groping, Street Harassment is Everywhere…And It Happened to Me“

* Capitol Hill Style, “Discuss: The Catcall Conundrum“

* Al Jazeera, “Sexual violence rises in Egypt’s Tahrir“

* Al-Ahram, “Speaking up and speaking out“

* Egypt Independent, “Egypt women speak up against sexual violence“

* Ahram Online, “Breaking the silence: Mob sexual assault on Egypt’s Tahrir“

* Global Voices, “Egypt: Protest Sends Message Against Sexual Harassment“

* Heather is Desperate for Something, “Street Harassment”“

* Daily News Egypt, “Protest against sexual harassment encourages public dialogue“

* Bikya Masr, “Cover up, he can’t help himself“

Announcements:

New:

* Write about your first street harassment experience as part of Blank Noise (India)’s Recall event.

Reminders:

* If you’re in London and are willing to share your street harassment experiences, contact a student doing research there! INFO.

* @RapeCrisisSth New research project on #streetharassment for the women off South London. Interested? Contact @rosie_ts or visit http://bit.ly/LabScF

* If you’re in Winnipeg, Canada, take this survey on street harassment.

* Activists in South Africa launched a new website about street harassment

* The anti-sexual harassment public service announcement signs are now up in several Washington, DC metro stations!

* Help fund a new film about street harassment

* The Stop Street Harassment book is available in paperback for $15.

* Submit art about street harassment for the VoiceTool Product exhibit in San Francisco, CA

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

20 Tweets from the Week:

1. @PsteinND Ladies, if you get in a taxi in #Cairo & the driver has a broken middle finger, get out. Was just groped in #Zamalek, he deserved it. #EndSH

2. @YLigtelijn . @monaeltahawy The only way men stop SH is when public and political leaders openly and firmly denounce it and punish aggressors. #EndSH

3. @sotsoy brilliant! “@IbnLarry: The Egyptian government should establish the same program #endSH http://yfrog.com/ocrn6ngj”

4. @ClareBonnet when will people GET that ‪#streetharassment‬ is a violation and it is not acceptable? will it be in my generation? or will my future kids

5. @SuzeMarsupial I think pub harassment is probably as endemic as ‪#streetharassment‬ . Just cause we’re making merry, doesn’t mean we deserve it.

6. @MaduduzoR Policemen harassing women on the street!! ‪#streetharassment

7. @HollaBackBmore Wanna tell the MTA about ‪#StreetHarassment‬ on the bus? ‪#RateYourRide‬ call or text: 410-205-4559. http://ow.ly/c2M8f

8. @ghazalairshad Pls RT & help @noornoor1 find the Egyptian sexual harasser who drives a navy VW Jetta w/plate # ط ق ل ٧٨٤ https://www.facebook.com/noor.ayman/pos … ‪#endSH‬

9. @sallyzohney To avoid harassment and wear her sleeveless shirts my friend pretends 2 b a foreigner and it works! Men let her be. Insane ‪#endSH

10. @NihalSaad male: I am a human being, not an animal female: I am a human being, not a bra. ‪#ENDSH‬ pic.twitter.com/CXi1JYZb

11. @michabalon Don’t tell me its my clothes and don’t tell me its hard for ‘them’ to get married and don’t tell me it doesn’t happen. It happens. ‪#endSH

12. @suzeeinthecity Anyone blaming ‪#egypt‬ sexual harassment on religious conservatism should take walk on Tripoli streets &experience the theory refuted ‪#endSH

13. @cliffcheney ‘Safe Tahrir for Women’ Protest begins chanting. ‪#endSH‬ ‪#Egypt‬ ‪#Tahrir‬ ‪#cairo‬ http://twitvid.com/KIC0B

14. @michabalon Standing with a gun filled with pepper spray in ‪#Tahrir‬ against sexual harassment. ‪#endSH‬ pic.twitter.com/1Lly5TrJ

15. @marxroadrunner Oh joy men trying to out macho each other and deciding to use street harassment as a way to do so.

16. @HermasFawzy For years, Egyptian ‪#women‬ have put up with ‪#sexual‬ harassment, simply for walking down the street. no more silence !!

17. @aliciapees so this just happened on fb. my reply didn’t post. probably lucky it didn’t tbf… ‪#streetharassment‬ ‪#MISOGYNY‬ pic.twitter.com/RcZY4o1i

18. @Nicole_Pandolfo Also, why does it seem like sexual harassment on the street is accepted by society as a fact rather than being seen as totally outlandish?

19. @ShareefaEnergy Love this street harassment placard held by a woman in Libya, this applies internationally http://yfrog.com/odhmhgbj

20. @Mkpinbrooklyn It starts early, and it is not a compliment ‪#streetharassment

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M Train Harasser

July 7, 2012 By Contributor

This man was masturbating on the M train last night. I told the police and filed a report.  Also sent the pic to NY1 News.  People need to be aware of this pervert.

– BL

Location: M Train, New York City, USA

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