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Archives for April 2013

“He started stalking me down the street”

April 29, 2013 By Contributor

I was walking down back to my friend’s house with my friend after buying a few things and eating out. When we were just 2 streets away from her house, a guy stopped in front of us and lowered his window. We crossed the street because we didn’t want trouble. He lowered the other window and shouted to me, “You’re looking hot.”

I ignored him and carried on walking and he started stalking me down the street and stopped in front of us again he said, “Do you want it?” and he winked.

I said, “What?’

And he said, “I’ll give you it good for free, want it?”

I said, “No!” angrily and started walking quicker.

He stalked us part-way down the street and then turned.

– A

Location: Oldbury, West Midlands, UK

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After #EndSHWeek, What Do We Do Now?

April 29, 2013 By Contributor

Hawaii

By: Talia Weisberg, SSH Correspondent

Earlier this month, women and men across the globe commemorated International Anti-Street Harassment Week. Whether it was through tweetchats, webinars, self-defense classes, sidewalk chalking, leaflet campaigns, or numerous other activities, Anti-Street Harassment Week marked the raising of the world’s consciousness against street harassment, an insidious form of sexism that is too often ignored by society.

Now that Anti-Street Harassment Week is over, those of us who understand the negative implications of street harassment and want to eradicate it for good face a dilemma: what do we do now? What can and should we do to keep up awareness and fight against this social phenomenon during the rest of the year?

I believe that it is imperative not to lose the momentum that we gained during Anti-Street Harassment Week. We can’t just throw out our leftover leaflets and stop going to those self-defense classes we signed up for. Everything we did and all the gains we made will have all been for nothing if we let activism fall to the wayside and ignore the pressing need for eliminating street harassment.

We also have to continue to schedule events like sidewalk chalkings and Take Back the Nights. Although it’s certainly easier to encourage attendance and participation during a week dedicated to awareness of street harassment, it’s imperative that we organize them anyway. After all, street harassment happens every day, and its victims are just as horrified by it during Anti-Street Harassment Week as during the rest of the year.

Another thing that we, as activists, must do is to talk about street harassment and share our stories about it. The most effective way to raise awareness on any issue is to speak with our best friends and grandfathers and third cousins and hairdressers and people we see once in a while in the dog park about it. That way, we spread knowledge of this issue as far and wide as we can. Many people who have experienced street harassment don’t even know that it has a name, and are therefore incapable of recognizing the extent of how problematic it is. Once we’ve raised the consciousness of those who have suffered at the hands of street harassment, we’ve got ourselves a veritable army of women and men who want to make the streets a safe place for every individual.

I truly cannot wait until this day arrives.

Talia Weisberg is a Harvard-bound feminist hoping to concentrate in Studies of Women, Gender, and Sexuality. Her work has appeared in over 40 publications and she runs the blog Star of Davida blog (starofdavida.blogspot.com).

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Digest of Street Harassment News: April 28, 2013

April 28, 2013 By HKearl

Via Collective Action for Safe Spaces

After a two month (!) hiatus due to a lack of time, the weekly round-up post is back!

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Street Harassment Stories:

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Stop Street Harassment Blog

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Many of the Hollaback sites

Everyday Sexism

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* The Grio, “Street harassment: No, it’s not flattering“

* Daily News Egypt, “99.3% of Egyptian women experienced sexual harassment: report“

* The Yorkshire Times, “Bradford Residents Urged To Speak Out Against Street Harassment“

* JC Sterns, “Talking to Strangers“

* Youth Communication Magazine, “Street Harassment Is No Compliment“

* Washington Blade, “Fighting back against street harassment“

* DNA India, “Mumbai ladies’ coaches a canvas for perverts“

* Jalopnik, “Japanese Man Accused Of Slashing 1,000 Tires To Pick Up Women“

* Campus Progress, “Moving Beyond Awareness, The Conversation On Street Harassment Continues“

* The Province, “When commuters take back the bus from an abusive passenger, is it part of a growing movement?”

* The Temple News, “Carr: Silence not useful against street harassment“

* Huffington Post, “Hollaback!: Finding Effective Solutions to Street Harassment“

* Gulf News, “Women-only bus trialled in Egypt to curb sexual harassment“

* Bangor Daily News, “Do you catcall women as they walk down the street?“

* News Track India, “Egyptian party launches ‘safe’ women-only buses to ward off rampant sexual harassment“

* WNYC, “Not Taking it Anymore: One Woman Talks Back to Street Harassers“

* Women in the World, “Dear Catcallers, Go Home“

* Sugarbelly, “Nigerian Men, Entitlement, and Street Harassment“

Announcements:

New:

* View photos from International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2013!

* Sign the Change.org Petition to Lego about their pro-street harassment kids sticker.

* Check out @TheeKatsMeoww‘s video on street harassment.

10 Tweets from the Week:

* @TaraBrookeB I find it really sad how almost every girl I know has been a victim of street harassment.

* @chaneldubofsky  street harassment makes getting dressed complicated for me. i know, it’s fucked up. #patriarchy #streetharassment #sexistbullshit

* @sadcypress Street harassment awareness signs on SEPTA? Awesome. http://tmblr.co/ZVSiEyjTRAEG

* @lucyliz  I am getting SO SICK of street harassment. It’s not flattering or complimentary, it’s revolting.

* @hollabackWY #streetharassment witnessed last night, Duncan Street Leeds.Group of men smoking outside pub whistling & shouting at woman walking past

* @La__Rain Street harassment should be banned before 10am. Like, it should obvs be banned altogether but I need to at least have had breakfast y’know.

* @Karnythia I just have to ask why is it more important that women be nice to strangers than that they be safe from #streetharassment?

* @sirjamesa12 What’s crazy in this society is the failure of the education system to educate us on street harassment and patriarchy.

* @BKMovement Have you seen the first of @HarlowProject‘s anti #streetharassment videos? Check out Lindsay’s story http://youtu.be/hhAKmOKGlKk  #bedstuy

* @sassycrass I enjoy being a woman. I DON’T enjoy street harassment, higher rates of sexual assault/violence, and 77 cents for YOUR every dollar.

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It’s Neighborday!

April 27, 2013 By HKearl

Gay rights activist Harvey Milk said, “If we wish to rebuild our cities, we must first rebuild our neighborhoods.”

Do you know your neighbors? Too often we live in places where we may only know a handful of neighbors, or not at all. But what if we did know all of our neighbors? Would there be less street harassment?

Today is a good day to find out because it’s Neighborday – time to go meet a new neighbor! Learn more.

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Lego: Stop Teaching Kids that Street Harassment is OK

April 26, 2013 By HKearl

UPDATE 5/1: Here’s another – better – update from Josh about Lego’s response. “We would not approve such a product again,” they said and Josh said, “That is an important statement, and I think it constitutes a real win.”

UPDATE 4/29: Read the update Josh Stearns posted on his Tumblr account after Lego responded about his concerns.

Photo by Josh Stearns

Street harassment is normalized in our society, in part because it is regularly portrayed as a compliment, a joke, or no big deal in kids’ cartoons, television shows, comedy routines, movies, commercials, product packaging, and even in kids toys, like these stickers by Lego that are aimed at kids, particularly boys.

Journalist Josh Stearns took this photo and wrote, “My son is just getting into Legos, so I thought he’d love these stickers. Then I took a closer look and saw that one of the construction workers (the only one wearing “cool” sunglasses) was labeled “Hey Babe!” I was stunned…Needless to say, I didn’t buy the stickers.”

Horrible. The stickers perpetuate the idea that street harassment is only done by construction workers and it’s only “benign” comments like, “Hey, babe.”

In reality, street harassment is perpetrated by people of all backgrounds and it ranges from leering, whistling and “hey baby” comments to sexually explicit comments, gender policing, demands for a smile, following, groping, and public indecency.

Street harassment is not a compliment nor is it acceptable behavior and we shouldn’t teach kids – or anyone else – that it is. Instead we need to teach respect on the streets!

You can let Lego know your thoughts by contacting their offices or tweeting a message to them, @LEGO_Group. You can also sign the Change.org Petition.

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