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Canada: Judging the Book by its Cover

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By: Lisane Thirsk, Ottawa, Canada, SSH Correspondent

I have a habit of holding off on consuming popular culture and trends. Only once the hype is over do I go back and indulge to see what the craze was about.

By the time I’m in the middle of whatever it is I resisted (Harry Potter, Pinterest, Breaking Bad, etc.), people tend not to be eager to chat about it, since by then it’s old news and has already been analyzed to death. Yet I enjoy being able to evaluate what I really think about the latest book/TV show/film/technology with less of the mainstream hype around it.

A few weeks ago I needed another book for my commute to downtown Ottawa, so, in a typical move, I picked up a tattered copy of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo from the Thrift Store.

On my way home from work the other day I was reading my new-old book on a bench while waiting for a transfer bus. Suddenly, I was on my guard after a young man sat down too close to me on the long and otherwise vacant bench.

As buses pulled up and I glanced over to see if it was my bus, I caught glimpses of my seat neighbour. He was a teenager, maybe seventeen years old.

Suddenly he turned to me and said, “Can I ask you something?”

At this point I admit saying in my head: No, I don’t feel like making small talk because you’re bored and feel entitled to interrupt me with a comment about my appearance. No, I don’t care to justify the fact that I enjoy reading. No, you can’t have my phone number, little boy.

I closed my book and turned to him with a somewhat icy look in anticipation of what I thought was coming. Still, I said, “Sure.”

“On a scale of one to ten, how good is that book?”

My shoulders relaxed. As a matter of fact, I’d just been pondering how I felt about it.

I gave it a four and explained why. I watched him closely as I gave him an earful of a response, throwing out references to other guilty-pleasure thriller reads from the past few years, which he caught.

We talked a little longer about bestsellers from past years before he got on a bus that pulled up.

The chat actually improved my mood for the rest of the trip home. I interpreted this particular encounter as positive, despite my initial unease with him sitting so close.

What had I been expecting, based on my experience in similar situations? Street harassment.

No matter which city I’m in, it’s not uncommon for men and even boys I don’t know to intrude on my space and time in a way women never do. This is especially true on and around public transit in all the cities I’ve spent time in.

And I’m usually supremely annoyed by men who use what I’m reading in public as an excuse to start a conversation that quickly becomes unwelcome. In my opinion this is generally solid advice: See a Woman Reading? Leave Her Alone.

At the same time, I like people watching and I’m always interested in strangers carrying around books instead of e-readers (and why I adore the Underground New York Public Library project). My commute is more interesting when out of the corner of my eye I see someone reading an unexpected title.

This particular day, based on a combination of factors, I felt it was acceptable to be interrupted with that question; I was happy to spend a few minutes chatting about a paperback bestseller from a few years ago.

Why not celebrate interactions with strangers that make life enjoyable? That’s why I love the Street Respect Stories on the Stop Street Harassment blog. The brief conversation with a teenager at a bus stop was neutral, if not pleasant, compared to what I had braced myself for.

The relief I felt at not having to deal with harassment during my commute that day was anything but neutral, of course. It was based on my personal experiences, gendered socialization, and the power dynamics present in all street interactions.

The bottom line, though, is that it’s time for street respect to be the rule, not the exception for women reading – or doing anything – in public.

Lisane works in the non-profit communications sector and supports local anti-street harassment advocacy through Hollaback! Ottawa. In 2012, she completed a Master’s in Socio-Legal Studies at York University in Toronto, where she wrote her Major Research Paper on gender-based street harassment. She holds a B.A. in Latin American Studies and Spanish from the University of British Columbia.

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USA: Hollaback! Boston Releases State of the Streets

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By: Delia Harrington, Massachusetts, USA, SSH Correspondent

“I Hollaback because I shouldn’t ride my bike in order to avoid harassment.” – Nai

Hollaback! Boston released their State of the Streets report today, based on data collected from over 500 Bostonians during the month of August.  A startling 88% of respondents had experienced street harassment, proving that there is absolutely a place in Boston for the work of organizations like Hollaback!, Everyday Feminism, and of course Stop Street Harassment.

As readers may know, Hollaback! was co-founded in New York City by Emily May, and has since become a worldwide movement.  The organization strives to end street harassment; conducting workshops and campaigns, and empowering those affected by street harassment by gathering and sharing their stories.

The Boston chapter was co-founded by current leaders Britni de la Cretaz and Kate Ziegler in 2011.  While each branch operates autonomously, they share strategies with one another.  According to today’s Report, the Boston branch was inspired by Hollaback! Ottawa’s own fact-finding.  Similarly, some recommendations mention the successes of other Hollaback! branches.

The report details how Bostonians define harassment, where and how often they experience it, how it makes them feel, as well as recommendations moving forward from Hollaback!  According to the report, Hollaback! Boston decided to collect information not only to see the scope of the issue in Boston, but also to educate others.  While the site leaders hear stories of street harassment often, many others don’t.  As they say in the report,

“We wanted to find a way to communicate this fact to people, especially people that may not think that street harassment is really a problem or people that don’t experience street harassment themselves. We wanted to put the reality of what we face when we walk out the doors and out onto the streets of Boston in black and white.”

Respondents to the survey were overwhelmingly women (86%) and  people in the LGBTQIA community (31%).    Of those respondents, 87% were female-identified,  90% were LGBTQIA-identified, 94% identified as a person of color, 96% identified as both LGBTQIA & POC,  and 90% identified as being a person with a disAbility, reported experiencing street harassment.  This supports the notion long held among those attempting to end street harassment that POC, LGBTQIA folks and those with a disAbility experience particularly high levels of street harassment.

“I Hollaback because I have the right to feel safe. And you need to know it.” – Becca

Harassment is largely taking place on the street (97%), on the MBTA (63%),  in bars or clubs (37%),  in public parks (32%), and at  school (14%).  Not surprisingly, those respondents experiencing harassment said it made them feel angry (85%), nervous (80%) , annoyed (78%), disgusted  (72%) , and scared (64%).   And for  those who claim street harassment is enjoyable for the victim, or that it is not a big deal, only 14% of respondents said  they were ‘flattered’, and only4% said street harassment ‘didn’t bother’ them.  While the report refrained from editorializing, I’d like to note that while some respondents were flattered or not bothered, it is impossible to tell whether the person you’re seeing on the street will be nervous or flattered by the attention, so it’s best to err on the side of caution (and the numbers) and treat everyone as though they wouldn’t like it.

Like many working in this space, Hollaback! Boston sees bystander intervention as a key tool to combat street harassment.  Unfortunately, only 14% of respondents reported an instance of someone intervening on their behalf.   As a result, Hollaback! suggests the, “creation of a public education campaign that focuses on tangible ways that people can safely intervene.”

The data is likely unsurprising to readers of this site and fans of Hollaback’s work, but it is incredibly valuable to have hard statistics to show to potential partners moving forward.  For example, given that 63% of respondents reported feeling harassed on the MBTA, the report’s suggestion of an ad campaign (similar to that created by Hollaback! Philadelphia and run on SEPTA trains), training for MBTA employees on how to respond to street harassment, and an awareness campaign (à la “See Something, Say Something”) about available reporting mechanisms may all be seen as higher priorities by MBTA officials.  Moreover, while Hollaback! makes several suggestions moving forward, they are all constructive and include next steps for themselves as an organization.  Hopefully this approach will continue to be successful as they use their model of presenting a problem and a potential solution that includes their assistance at the same time.

I hope that other Hollaback! branches and similar organizations are able to conduct a similar survey in the future, so other cities can wield statistics that accurately reflect the unique picture of street harassment in their area.  I hope Hollaback! Boston continues to receive good local press coverage, which could pressure businesses and city officials to prioritize street harassment.  Congratulations to Hollaback! Boston, and we look forward to the implementation of the recommendations.

Delia Harrington is a recent graduate of Northeastern University and calls Boston home. In recent years, she has found herself studying, working, and volunteering in Egypt, Cuba, France, Benin, the Dominican Republic, Turkey, Germany, and Greece.  You can read more of her writing on her blog, or follow her on Facebook and Twitter, @deliamary.

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Kyrgyzstan: Construction Worker Harassers

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By: Salidat Hamilova, in collaboration with Aikanysh Jeenbaeva, Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan, SSH Correspondents

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Image via http://kloop.kg/

Among the many forms of street harassment in Bishkek, the one that deserves special attention is harassment by workers at the city’s numerous construction sites. Bishkek is currently experiencing a construction ‘boom’ (or to be more precise – a construction bubble) and the central part of the city is being rapidly developed with new ‘elite’ residential buildings, shopping malls and business centers that make these neighborhoods inaccessible to common inhabitants and push out people who have been living and working there for decades. However, this is another topic for later.

Every time you pass near one of the buildings under construction, you can count on receiving an unwanted share of attention from workers sitting above you at the level of a 3-6th floor. Upon seeing a female passerby, they express their agitation with shouts, squeals, sexist remarks, obscene gestures and sounds. You are walking along the fence separating you from the building to the accompaniment of whistles and shouts and all you want to do at that moment is for the earth to swallow you up and block out the sounds and the satisfied faces leering down at you. Actually, no. What you want at that moment is for the building to collapse and bury the harassers under its ruins.

What can explain this urge of construction workers to harass passing women and girls beside the usual sexist attitudes and beliefs? Probably, the feeling of impunity and inaccessibility granted to them by the height at which they are working. Indeed, it is highly unlikely that you would attempt to climb up the scaffolding to punish the harassers.

I am not trying to accuse all construction workers of harassing women and girls, as I am perfectly aware that many builders would never behave in such a way. Nevertheless, this kind of harassment happens regularly to the majority of women and girls. When sharing their indignation over the behavior of construction workers with me, my sisters told me that some builders even throw pebbles and pieces of rubble at them and, sometimes, splash the girls walking below with dirty water. One is forced to give these spots a wide berth to keep one’s nerves, my sisters admitted.

There are plenty of these stories: any girl/woman can talk about tens/hundreds/thousands of similar instances of harassment on the streets. However, we often simply swallow insults, suppress our anger and humiliation and try to forget about it as quickly as possible. In the end, universal suppression and disregard make street harassment invisible and thwart the fight against it.

We must stop keeping silent and running away from yet another “complimenting pebble”, we must stop avoiding “unsafe” places and limiting our space and the right to the city. Fighting against harassment on one’s own is extremely hard, therefore, Bishkek, we need to unite!

Salidat is an undergraduate student at Kyrgyz National University and a dedicated volunteer at the Bishkek Feminist Collective SQ. Aikanysh graduated from the University of Freiburg with a degree in European Literatures and Cultures and recently from the Diplomatic Academy of the KR with a degree in International Relations. Aikanysh is a co-founding member and coordinator of the Bishkek Feminist Collective SQ.

Bishkek Feminist Collective SQ was founded in 2012 by activists from various communities of Bishkek city. Follow BFC SQ on Twitter, @bish_feminists and on Facebook.

 

Russian version

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Среди многочисленных видов уличных домогательств в Бишкеке стоит особо выделить домогательства со стороны работников на стройках города. В Бишкеке сейчас идет строительный “бум” (точнее пузырь) и центральная часть города стремительно застраивается новыми “элитными” жилыми домами, торговыми и бизнес-центрами, таким образом делая эти районы недосягаемыми для простых обывателей, а также постепенно вытесняют из центра людей, которые жили и работали там десятилетиями. Но это – другая тема и о ней позже.

Так вот, каждый раз, проходя мимо очередной стройки, можно смело рассчитывать на то, что ты не останешься без ненужной доли внимания со стороны незнакомых рабочих, сидящих где-нибудь на уровне 3-6 этажа. При виде очередной прохожей они выражают свое возбуждение криками, повизгиванием, сексистскими замечаниями, непристойными жестами и звуками. А ты идешь вдоль забора, отделяющего тебя от стройки под аккомпанемент этого визга и свиста и больше всего тебе хочется провалиться под землю, чтобы ничего не слышать и не видеть эти довольные, ухмыляющиеся лица. Хотя нет, больше всего тебе хочется, чтобы здание тотчас же рухнуло и придавило всех этих крикунов под своими руинами.

Чем можно объяснить такое стремление работников строек приставать к проходящим мимо девушкам и женщинам, помимо обычных сексистских убеждений? Возможно, оно усиливается чувством безнаказанности и недосягаемости, которое дает им высота. Действительно, ведь не полезешь по лесам на верхние этажи, чтобы надавать идиотам по лицу?

Я не стремлюсь обвинять всех строителей Бишкека, так как знаю, что среди них есть и те, кто никогда не позволят себе такое поведение. Но, тем не менее, домогательства со стороны строителей происходят регулярно и почти со всеми девочками, девушками, женщинами. Моя сестренки, делясь со мной своим возмущением по поводу строителей, рассказывали, что некоторые из них кидаются камешками и мелким строительным мусором и обрызгивают проходящих девушек грязной водой. Приходится обходить эти места во избежание траты своих нервов, признались сестренки.

Таких историй полным полно: любая девушка/женщина может рассказать о десятке/сотни/тысячи случаях домогательства на улицах. Но очень часто мы просто проглатываем обиду, подавляем злость и унижение и пытаемся поскорее забыть о происшедшем. Всеобщее замалчивание и игнорирование, в итоге, делают домогательства невидимой проблемой и крайне затрудняют борьбу с ними.

Мы должны перестать молчать и убегать в то время как в нас летит очередной “камень-комплимент”, прекратить обходить «небезопасные места», ограничивая себя в пространстве и праве на город. Бороться с пониманием домогательства как нормы в одиночку очень сложно, поэтому, Бишкек, давай объединяться!

Салидат, в сотрудничестве с Айканыш.

 

 

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UK: Freshers Week… AKA Intro to University Sexism 101

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By: Levi Grayshon, Manchester, England, SSH Correspondent

Freshers’ Week. Image via The Badger

Ah, university. The time in a person’s life when she or he is dropped off at their university halls by worried parents, armed with nothing but Ikea bed linen and a bottle of value vodka, ready to tackle student life. But often, for female students, that first week can prove a tough one.

It’s no secret that “LAD Culture” is rife amongst UK universities, something which I myself have noticed becoming more and more prominent as I progressed through my three years at university. In my first year, I was rarely bothered on a night out with friends. During Freshers’ Week (orientation week) my third year, however, it was a completely different story.

During “One Night,” a popular event run by the university, I was in queue and a group of men harassed me by taking photographs of me, and mocked me when I requested that they deleted them. Inside the club, they found me and groped me, calling me “crazy” when I told them to leave me alone, and I was fed the line “he’s a footballer, he does what he wants” – a line which I heard them repeat to another girl in the club.

Later in the night, another LAD-type groped me, and shouted aggressively in my face when I pushed him away and told him to leave me alone, which, naturally, his friends found hilarious. All of this happened within the space of around an hour and a half, which caused me to leave early, furious and disappointed.

Events like these are not uncommon, and, going by what has been uncovered by Laura Bates from the Everyday Sexism Project lately, pretty mild. Female students have reported being pinned against railings, being rated by their appearances in nightclub queues, and being told that “being spiked is lucky.”

Even worse than this, some universities are fuelling this behaviour. Recently, Cardiff Metropolitan University came under fire for using an image of a student wearing a t-shirt with a rape joke written on it in order to promote a club night. Last year, a pamphlet promoted by my own university was put under scrutiny after perpetrating misogynist abuse towards women who engaged in one night stands, claiming that they were “dirty,” yet it applauded the male students who engaged in such activities.

As reported in The Independent last year, universities also hold club nights with sexist themes, such as “Geeks and Sluts” and “CEO’s and Corporate Hoes”. The same article reported that 68% of female students had been sexually harassed whilst at university – are sexist club nights to blame for this high percentage?

On the other hand, some universities are doing their best to combat the harassment suffered by their female students. Edinburgh University banned the Robin Thicke song “Blurred Lines”, which has been criticised widely for its lyrics that “promote non-consenual sex.” Four more universities (Kingston, Derby, Leeds and West Scotland) swiftly followed suit.

Additionally, numerous universities are joining the NUS Zero Tolerance to Sexual Harassment campaign to work toward becoming a safer place for female students. I hope many more will follow suit.

Levi graduated from university with a degree in Film and TV screenwriting this summer. As a freelance writer, she has been writing for The F-Word and Gamer-UK. You can follow her rants and ramblings on Twitter, @part_heart.

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