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Archives for January 2014

“I didn’t walk past that spot again”

January 24, 2014 By Contributor

This summer my mom and I were out walking in the woods. It was warm outside and a couple of guys my age were sitting by the lake. As we passed they started catcalling, commenting on my ass. “Can you wiggle your ass a little bit more?!” was just one of the things they shouted.

I was humiliated, especially since my mom heard it all. For the rest of the summer I didn’t walk past that spot again because I was scared they would be there.

– Anonymous

Location: Sweden

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USA: Safe Streets and Reproductive Rights

January 22, 2014 By Correspondent

Heather Frederick, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Via http://www.wwmt.com

Today is the 41st anniversary of Roe vs. Wade, the Supreme Court ruling that legalized abortion in the United States. As the U.S. waits for the Supreme Court to issue a ruling on the “Buffer Zone” laws regarding how close to an abortion clinic entrance protesters can be, I was struck by the fact that I have never heard anyone describe what goes on outside these medical facilities as street harassment. I know that abortion is a difficult and controversial subject but what we’re talking about here is the right to exist in public free from violence.

Women and their partners, clinic workers, and even delivery drivers get yelled at as they enter offices where abortions are performed. Even if we completely disregard the fact that anti-choice protesters take pictures of patients, post employee names and personal information (license plate number, address, phone number, picture, etc.) in public forums ripe for digital harassment, and write threatening letters to businesses that provide services to clinics, just the yelling alone makes everyone uncomfortable. And let’s not forget that most clinics do not only provide abortion care, they provide cancer screenings, breast exams, birth control and all manner of reproductive healthcare, including abortions.

In his dissent against the Buffer Zone law passed in 2000 Justice Antonin Scalia seemed disgusted at the“unheard of right to be let alone on the public streets.” If this is the mindset of one of the men whose decisions shape not only the law of the land but public opinion in the U.S., we’re screwed. Even if what protesters are yelling is not violent or mean, even if they are yelling that they will pray for you, even if the signs they are holding are of Jesus and not aborted fetuses, they are harassing women in public spaces. Stopping street harassment is about respecting everyone’s bodily autonomy, as is the Reproductive Justice Movement.

News outlets around the country failed to remain unbiased in their reporting on this issue. Many prominent news sources like The New York Times and NPR interviewed “cheery” old ladies who try to convince women that they aren’t making the best choice for themselves. The truth is anti-choice groups like Operation Rescue, of which NPR’s interviewee Eleanor McCullen is a member, are domestic terrorists, responsible for verbal and physical assaults, bombings and murders. Her suggestion that she “should be able to walk and talk gently, lovingly, anywhere with anybody,” just makes my skin crawl.
No, ma’am. You should not be able to walk and talk in any way anywhere you want to with whomever you want to. People have a right to be left the hell alone! When we speak out against street harassment and claim we want the streets to be safe for all people I hope that we mean safe for women seeking abortions, sex workers, women of color, disabled women, trans* folk and women whose religious expression is in the minority too. Every single individual deserves to be able to move through the public safely and without fear. It’s our job to make it happen.
Heather Frederick works a Supervisor for The National Dating Abuse Helpline, www.loveisrespect.org. Her passions include intersectional feminism, reproductive justice, languages, travel, blogging at www.FeministActivism.com (@FeministSNVA) and bringing an end to human rights abuses.
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Scotland: Single Woman Policy

January 21, 2014 By Correspondent

Rocío Andrés, Scotland, SSH Blog Correspondent

Via Muslim Village

It´s almost one year since Hollaback! Edinburgh conducted a survey asking young people (12-25 years-old), mostly females (85%), about their experiences of street harassment. The study aimed to answer questions like where the street harassment usually took place, what type of experience was or how they felt after the incident. The results were wandering around in my head for a few months.

On average, 60 to 85% of the respondents had been harassed by being shouted at, whistled at, told remarks about their appearance, made unconfortable by harassers being too close, told obscene gestures, touched with no consent or had their way blocked.

The consequences of such experiences had been great. For example, more than 50% of them avoided going out at certain times, more than 70% avoided specific places and 80% avoided eye contact.

In other words, street harassers transform habits and behaviours.

As a woman, you know you must dodge shortcuts or parks at night. You should not obviously be listening to your iPod and should systematically look over your shoulders every two minutes to see that no one is following you. You should cross the street if you happen to see a group of overly drunk and/or overly loud guys. And if you can’t avoid being near them, you will never look at their eyes. You just set them on the horizon or perhaps lower your head to watch your almost military pace.

They also said those experiences had made them feel sad, disgusted, scared, nervous, unsafe, embarrassed objectified, disrespected, angry and horrible.

Last Christmas a campaign promoted by Colin Keir, the Edinburgh Western MSP, indicated that things have not probably changed much this year.

Basically in response to the unsafe situation for women, TAXI and some private firms agreed on establishing a system in which women travelling alone would have preference. Even some firms were already offering a single woman policy. Of course, this is a very much appreciated gesture. You want to get home safe, not to be harassed, not to feel fragile and not to be alert, which is the same as to be anxious.

In any case, the bad guys are still around. And also, sometimes you just want to walk the streets late, so what?

All this brings me back to a recent study carried out by the University of Michigan´s Institute for Social Research on how people in Muslim countries prefer women to dress in public.

In it, you can see that people are very happy with women who are fully covering their hair, although not necessarily their face. And that leads me to Egypt, where street harassment occurs on a daily basis whether you obey the conservative norm of hijab/niqab (head covering/full face and body veil) or not and which last November was also considered the worst country in the Arab world for women.

Thus, what I think. You can veil your women, you can reserve seats exclusively for them in the bus, entire subway cars, you can tell them not to walk in the Meadows when it´s dark, you can give them a cab, keep them in a box if you want and still, street harassment happens. What´s more, even considering sexual assaults, the very truth is that, as Jacq Kelly, the chair of anti-street harassment campaign group Hollaback! Edinburgh, pointed out, any measure to protect women is welcome, however most women are assulted by someone they know.

In brief, short-term solutions often help to relieve the reality but often as well without combating the authentic issue. This is the case. Out there, women are yet vulnerable, susceptible of sexual harassment and maybe potentially more open to self-blaming – I wish I had taken that taxi…

Inevitably, the urgent need involves prevention through information-(re)education and solely by promoting public awareness campaigns and by implementing in-depth educational programmes which kill traditions, stereotypes and cultural norms, gender-based violence and, extensively, inequality will be eradicated. See some examples here.

Rocío Andrés holds a Bachelor´s degree in Audiovisual Communication, History of Art (both Universidad Complutense de Madrid, Spain) and a Master´s in Education (Universidad Rey Juan Carlos, Spain, 2010). She has six years experience as a TV and advertising producer.

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EDIMBURGO: POLÍTICA DE “MUJER SOLA”

Va a hacer un año desde que Hollaback! Edinburgh condujera un estudio en el que se preguntaba a jóvenes (12-25 años), mayormente mujeres (85%), sobre sus experiencias de acoso sexual en la calle.

El estudio intentaba responder a preguntas como dónde el acoso tenía lugar normalmente, qué tipo de experiencia fue o cómo se sintieron después del incidente.

Los resultados se pasearon por mi cabeza durante algunos meses.

Básicamente, los ticks decían que, entre un porcentaje del 60 al 85%, las encuestadas habían sufrido acoso mediante gritos, silbidos, comentarios sobre su apariencia, gestos obscenos, cuando alguien estaba demasiado cerca, siendo tocadas sin consentimiento o porque se les había bloqueado el camino.

Las consecuencias de tales experiencias fueron también reflejadas. Por ejemplo, más del 50% evitaba salir a ciertas horas, más del 70% evitaba lugares específicos y el 80% evitaba el contacto visual.

En otras palabras, los acosadores “de calle” transforman hábitos y comportamientos.

Como mujer, sabes que debes esquivar atajos o parques por la noche. Obviamente, no deberías estar escuchando tu iPod y deberías, sistemáticamente, darte la vuelta cada dos minutos para comprobar que nadie te está siguiendo. Deberás cruzar la calle si ves a un grupo de tíos demasiado borrachos y/o haciendo demasiado ruido. Y si no puedes evitarlo, nunca les mirarás a los ojos. Miras al horizonte o, quizás, bajas la cabeza para observar tu paso, casi militar.

Dijeron también que esas experiencias les había hecho sentirse horrible, tristes, asqueadas, asustadas, nerviosas, inseguras, avergonzadas, cosificadas, irrespetadas y enfadadas.

Las navidades pasadas, una campaña promovida por Colin Keir, miembro del Parlamento Escocés, indicaba que, probablemente, las cosas no han cambiado demasiado este año.

Básicamente, TAXI y algunas compañías privadas acordaron establecer un sistema por el cual las mujeres que viajaban solas tuvieran preferencia. Incluso algunas compañías ya estaban ofreciendo esta política de “mujer sola”.

Por supuesto, se aprecia el gesto. Tú quieres llegar a casa a salvo, no ser acosada, no sentirte frágil y no estar alerta, que es lo mismo que estar nerviosa.

En cualquier caso, los tíos malos aún andan por ahí. Y, además, a veces sólo quieres caminar por la calle tarde, ¿y qué?.

Todo esto me remonta a un reciente estudio llevado a cabo por el Instituto de Investigación Social de la Universidad de Michigan sobre cómo la gente en los países musulmanes prefieren que las mujeres se vistan en público.

En él, puedes ver que la gente se siente muy feliz con mujeres que se cubren completamente el pelo, aunque no necesariamente la cara. Y esto me lleva a Egipto, donde el acoso sexual en la calle ocurre a diario tanto si obedeces las normas conservativas de hijab/niqab (cabeza cubierta/cara y cuerpo completamente velados) como si no y el cuál, el pasado Noviembre, ha sido considerado el peor país del mundo árabe para la mujer. 

Así pues, lo que pienso. Puedes ponerle velo a tus mujeres, puedes reservar asientos exclusivamente para ellas en el autobús, vagones enteros de metro, puedes decirles que no se paseen por las Meadows cuando está oscuro, puedes darles un taxi, guardarlas en una caja si quieres y, aún, el acoso en la calle sigue sucediendo. Lo que es más, incluso considerando agresiones sexuales, lo cierto es que, tal y como Jacq Kelly (jefa de campaña anti-acoso sexual en la calle del grupo Hollaback! Edinburgh) apuntaba, cualquier medida para proteger a las mujeres es bienvenida, sin embargo, la mayoría de ellas son asaltadas por alguien que conocen.

En resumen, soluciones a corto plazo a menudo ayudan a aliviar la realidad, pero, a menudo también, sin combatir el auténtico problema. Este es el caso. Ahí fuera, las mujeres son aún vulnerables, susceptibles de acoso sexual y puede que, incluso, potencialmente más abiertas a auto-culparse – ojalá hubiera cogido ese taxi…

Inevitablemente, la necesidad urgente implica prevención a través de información-(re)educación y únicamente promoviendo campañas de concienciación pública e implementando programas educativos en profundidad que maten tradiciones, estereotipos y normas culturales, la violencia de género y, más ampliamente, la desigualdad serán erradicadas. Puedes ver algunos ejemplos aquí 

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Digest of Street Harassment News: January 20, 2014

January 20, 2014 By SSHIntern

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Street Harassment Stories:

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Bijoya in Bangladesh

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

The Hollaback sites

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* Hollaback, “Week In Our Shores: Getting the Word Out Edition!”

* Hindustan Times, “Street art takes on sexual harassment”

* Al-Monitor, “Sexual harassment in Egypt still widespread”

* Authint Mail, “In Kasmir, parents of victim girls seek punishment for “drunk” eve-teasers”

* The New Indian Express, “Were You Asking to be Eve-teased in That Dress?”

* EurasiaNet, “More Reflections on Azerbaijan: When Will the Catcalls Stop?”

* RH Reality Check, “PSA Raises Awareness of Street Harassment in Egypt”

* CBC News, “Sexual harassment on the rise on transit, say police”

* Greater Greater Washington, “Raising awareness can curb street harassment”

* Jezebel, “Philly Has a Street Harasser Who Drapes His Dick in Swiss Cheese”

* Huffington Post, “Here’s The Best Way To Holler At A Woman On The Street”

* Hollaback, “Street Harassment and Internet Harassment: One and the Same?“

Announcements:

* We’re collecting stories about the street harassment of LGBQTAI people for a new web section — please consider sharing yours, if relevant!

* Meet SSH’s newest board member, Patrick Ryne McNeil, who specializes in the street harassment of gay and bisexual men.

* Welcome SSH’s spring intern Kendra Corbin!

* SSH’s first Blog Correspondents cohort of 2014 launched this month. They will write monthly articles through April.

10 Tweets from the Week:

* @Dontharassmebro “Hey mama, why are you angry? You’re beautiful. How about a smile?” 1. Not your mom. 2. No one asked your opinion. 3. No. #streetharassment

* @itnlpolitical “Ohh, I really want to marry that guy that whistled to me from his car!” .. said no girl ever. #streetharassment

* @sadiasmusings #lifeofamuslimfeminist #streetharassment listening to drunk white men catcall me as Muslim men on the side do nothing

* @rrachaelrae @EverydaySexism walking with boyfriend wearing shorts and a t-shirt, guy driving past yells at me “SLUT!” #everydaysexism #streetharassment

* @Sharon_Haywood when I askd my harasser if he was talking to me he said no-after getting over the shock that I actually have a voice

* @hollabackmumbai I was walking with my dad & a guy casually walks past us & knocks his elbows on my breasts #stories #harassment #endSH

* @msbrandiebrown Wish I was paying attention and said/did something 🙁 #EndSH #MBTAcreeps

* @maria_delrio I’ve just been catcalled in Catalan. It is still not ok. No matter the language you use, its discomforting and intrusive #EndSH

* @RSwirling Obviously we’re all obliged to listen to #streetharassment too – it’s their free speech rights to call me a whore all day

* @manda4444 Catcalling and street harassment is just that–harassment. Telling someone to take it as a compliment is ignorant and degrading.

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A Message to Street Harassers

January 20, 2014 By SSHIntern

By Kendra Corbin, SSH Intern

Via Hollaback!

As a young woman, I’ve experienced my fair share of street harassment. I’ve been dealing with it for most of my life. For a long time, I tried to blow off the whistles and “hey baby” comments as just part of being a woman. Now I know better. Despite the lackluster belief that “it’s not a big deal,” it IS a terrifyingly big deal.

My most frightening experience happened when I was only 13-years-old. My older sister was 16 at the time. She had offered to drive my friend and I home late at night. We accidentally locked ourselves out of the car in an empty parking lot. As we waited for my parents, a group of men in a truck began to drive around us in circles while they honked, whistled, and laughed. Frightened and alone, we huddled together while we waited for them to lose interest and leave.

In retrospect, it disgusts me that those men found amusement in harassing terrified children. I also find myself growing angry, but I become angrier because I recognize that my experience is not uncommon. Street harassment is a subject that most women can relate to because they’ve experienced it themselves. Whenever I bring the subject up with friends or acquaintances, the conversation seems to flood with stories that all begin with, “Well, this one time…” In honor of these stories that have been shared with me, I would like to acknowledge just a few of the harassers that either I or my loved ones have encountered.

The man that yelled, “I didn’t know they made tits that big” to me as I walked to class, then demanded that I show him that “cherry pie under there.”

The man that tried to yank up my friend’s skirt while she was visiting DC.

The man that leered at my sister, then commented on her “nice ass legs.”

The boy on my school bus who was dared to grope my breasts when I was 14 (who was not successful because I promptly shoved back into his seat).

The man that slapped my friend’s behind as she walked to the beach.

The group of men that thought it would be hilarious to pretend to masturbate as they drove by sister.

The young men that held a sign on the highway to my mother and other female drivers that read, “Show us your hooters.”

And finally, that very first man that honked and whistled at me when I was only 11-years-old.

To all of these harassers and the many others out there, we have a clear message: We are not required compliment your male ego. Your advances are not welcomed. Your words are not flattering. Your behavior is intolerable.

To every woman that has had her day interrupted by rude comments, uncomfortable gazes, unwanted touching, or any other form street harassment, you are not alone. Familiarize yourself with ways to respond to street harassers. You’ll thank yourself for it later when you’re prepared with a witty response for someone’s barbaric behavior.

Please share your story.

Kendra Corbin is senior at Shenandoah University. She is majoring in Mass Communications and minoring in Women’s Studies.

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