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Archives for February 2014

Nepal: “Public transportation, a hesitation to women”

February 26, 2014 By Correspondent

Kriti Khatri, Nepal, SSH Blog Correspondent

Street safety and its relation to women’s independence is connected, from the perspective of women’s mobility. However, rarely has there been an effort to create Safe Streets precisely from the perspective of concerns about women’s mobility. Our street is symbolic of free spirit and freedom itself, but for women the street remains a place to get victimized from various kinds of harassment activities and women have to go through traumatizing experiences of sexual and emotional harassment. A woman being more vulnerable towards various kinds of harassing activities their safety during travel is important.

While we raise voices against street harassment, one important aspect to concentrate on is harassment activities on public transportation. Reports showcase that harassment on public transportation on buses, trains, etc is more frequent for women than on the streets.

Horrendous acts of physically and mentally harassing women via gesture, touch, grabbing, verbal abuses or even constant gazes make taking public transportation a big hesitation for women. In thickly stuffed buses or other means of transportation like trains and metros, women get easily victimized from physical touching, grabbing etc. And since the crowd is a good excuse, it rarely get noticed or exposed. Sexual harassment activities make women feel emotionally left out and drained. As a consequence, women can develop negative attitudes towards their relationships with their male partners and family ties as well. Psychologists says harassment activities not only make women feel raged with the male genre, but also go through mental irritation concerning their body image and social behavior which in the long run can cause depression and other emotional issues.

A report conducted by Astitwa foundation shows that about 90 % of women has been suffered from street  harassment activities among which harassment in public vehicles is the most encountered in Kathmandu. Such harassment activities have been found occurring on school buses, by bus staff, public buses and other travel means. As per the report, most women have been found to experience uncomfortable touching and sexually explicit behavior. While women share their stories of harassment activities, in terms of response, most of them seemed silent. Respondents to the topic of harassment in public vehicles were hesitant about reacting to such activities. Many women seem to remain quiet about this issue by either adjusting in the crowd or dropping in nearby bus stop as their immediate self protection act.

“As for talking we can say I will take immediate action but when such incident happens, we go through emotional hold back, I felt raged but helpless and disgusted when the fellow passenger make uncomfortable gestured towards me, here I can say I wanted to slap him but at that time all I wanted was to get out of the bus.” — a 25 year old school teacher from Kathmandu.

Sexual harassment in public vehicles has been an issue raised by many social organizations in international level. With ever raising incident of harassment activities which has even lead to cases like gang rape and murder of women in public vehicles, this issue has been a concerned area in relation to women safe mobility and independence.

Concerned with the growing number of harassment activities, Nepal Police has initiated strict monitoring of the public transportation system. As per the Nepal police, travel safety of citizen and especially women is on their top priority after getting multiple reports filed against sexual harassment in public bus. According to the information of the Nepal Police, cases regarding public bus harassment are registered more than any other kinds of street harassment cases. As of now, women police are allocated in various bus stations to check inside bus which at least give a chance for victim to complain or make people aware of their act. In future Nepal police aims to monitor bus activities via closed caption cameras. There has also been initiation from nongovernmental sectors to make legal reformation against harassment activities collectively under violence against women in which there should essentially be strict provisions regarding street harassment.

Apart from the legal provisions, effort should also be from bus-driver, conductors and fellow passengers to discourage such activities in the vehicles.  Their effort can demoralize the doer, at the same time make women feel safe and comfortable.

“I was standing on the bus and a guy happen to stand right beside me with his hand around my shoulder from backside, the bus driver saw that and ask the conductor to make him step out of the bus saying that such cheap activities won’t be tolerated in his vehicle, It really felt so nice to find  bus drivers with such attitude towards activities going on his vehicles.” — 23 old employee who make 14 km of bus travel every day for her job in Kathmandu

The act of harassment and violence against women is more of a moral matter than legal. Unless individual understands that harassment activities against women are immoral, eliminating such acts won’t be easy with just legal threats. Women free conduct in the street or elsewhere is only possible when there is assurance of Safe travel and such safety can only be assured in morally governed society and justice run state system.

Kriti Khatri is student of MSc chemistry. She is engaged in different social organization in Nepal and currently she is working on anti-street harassment issues with the Astitwa Foundation. Find more of her writing on her blog.

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“It REALLY hurts, sisters”

February 26, 2014 By Contributor

Ordinary whistles or stuff doesn’t bother me. What scares and insults me are the youths and even small boys who roam around my area in Berlin, at twelve years old already bigger and heavier than me, from Muslim families (I’ll complain about the Germans later, don’t worry!) who follow me around, make remarks, pretend to run into me, then swerve and just touch me, call me names they think are derogatory, walk extra slow to block my way, wriggle their tongues, while the police are standing by – WHILE the police I call are telling them OFF!! Once they tried to get my attention, I told them to leave me alone and they peed in the bushes right above me. Then the penis rubbing guys – not nice.

Then, the cross-cultural pissing all over the place. Men just whip out their thing and pee right in front of you at the street corner. You see their member, you smell their urine. If you say anything – it begins to feel dangerous. Others find it normal to tell you how they just threatened some girls, who were being a nuisance they would rape them if they didn’t stop. Makes me sick.

Now the German guys that bug me – mostly a bit older, in their twenties to forties. A group of guys following me in their boat, while I walk by the river, very openly and disgustingly making advances and insulting me. Some older guys sitting al fresco in my street (busy inner city tourist hot spot) making super stupid remarks, standing up, touching me, trying to make a fool out of me, laughing, jeering just because I was so stupid to humour them in the beginning. Then the people insinuating things like “I’ll put k.o. pills in your drink” – It’s just – I hate it!

BUT! More often GIRLS AND WOMEN make me feel bad. They are less dangerous, of course, but their daily meannes really gets to me. I’m a dancer, And naturally I have toned legs. I have a small waist. I have breasts. I am a dreamer. Apparently that makes their boyfriends give me fleeting, unconscious looks of approval. So the girls and women give me the evil eye – all the time. Every day. It REALLY hurts, sisters.

– Anonymous

Location: Berlin, Germany

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New Film about Street Harassment in Yemen

February 25, 2014 By HKearl

This short film about street harassment in Yemen recently received a UN award.

The filmmaker Abeer Salllam writes, “Through the film we met harassers and harassed women in Sana’a, and the filmmaker highlights the emotional and social restrictions being victim of harassment places on women in their everyday life.”

H/T Safe Streets Yemem

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San Francisco Bay Area: Please Take Survey!

February 24, 2014 By HKearl

Via Don’t Harass ME Bro:

ATTN ALL RESIDENTS, WORKERS, AND/OR VISITORS OF THE SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA: Please take our survey to statistically record and report your story of street harassment in this area. We will use this data for reporting purposes only and your identity will not be used. If you experienced street harassment here, even once, please take this survey!

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New York Times wants YOUR stories

February 24, 2014 By HKearl

This is great news! Via NYTimes:

“Let’s consider this the beginning of what we hope will be a continuing conversation.

For a coming series of articles and first-person accounts, City Room would like to hear your stories of street harassment and subway harassment.

How has harassment or the fear of harassment affected your life in New York City? Please share your stories in the comments.

Some questions to consider as you write:

How safe do you feel in New York City? Have you been harassed, and how do you define harassment? Does it occur often? How have you dealt with this? Whom did you talk to about it, if anyone? What questions do you have about safety? How have safety concerns changed how you navigate the city?

If you are uncomfortable with posting your story here, please share your experiences with us at metro@nytimes.com.

We will follow up with you shortly if we select you as a potential interview participant.

You can read one Brooklyn woman’s story here.”

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