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Archives for March 2014

“His companion began to shout a long string of obscenities”

March 19, 2014 By Contributor

While the occasional lewd greetings from the homeless in Ann Arbor are common enough, today I experienced one of the few incidents that gave me real concerns for my safety. Departing my workplace at the corner of Huron and State streets, on my lunch break, two large middle aged men had just gotten off the bus and we proceeded to walk toward each other on the sidewalk. One was familiar, a vagrant and panhandler who occasionally loiters at the picnic table located on my office’s property. Noticing their attempts at eye contact I took out my phone when the familiar one’s companion spoke.

“Hey baby, wait a minute.”

I had passed him in the time it took for him to utter the sentence and was sandwiched between him and the familiar panhandler who stood in my way also attempting to get my attention.

I mumbled an, “Excuse me,” and went around the familiar person as his companion began to shout a long string of obscenities including but not limited to, “STOP WALKING YOU F***ING BITCH I’M TALKING TO YOU.” I proceeded a block down state street and turned onto Washington as he continued to swear at me in escalating rage, following from a distance. I even heard his friend, the one I had seen before, attempting to calm him down as I reached my destination.

– Anonymous

Location: Ann Arbor, Michigan

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6 ways individuals can join International Anti-Street Harassment Week

March 18, 2014 By HKearl

“I’m one person, can I participate in International Anti-Street Harassment Week?”

YES! While there are a growing number of events scheduled for International Anti-Street Harassment Week, March 30 – April 5, many people do not live near one.

So how can you get involved in the week as an individual? There are lots of ways!

1 – Share a street harassment story or talk about the issue with a family member, friend, colleague, classmate, or neighbor. Most people do not realize this is such a common problem and talking about it can raise people’s awareness and may prompt them to do something about it. You can also share your story online for inclusion on our blog.

2 – Share images or video clips over social media. This can also bring awareness to the issue.

3 – Join one of the six Tweet Chats happening across the week! Check out the schedule.

4 – If you have a smartphone, download the free mobile app “Safetipin” and during the week, use it to say if you feel safe or unsafe in different spots in your community and why. The founders of the app have agreed to make a special report out of all of the individuals reports made that week — so take 5 minutes and add your voice and experience!

I wrote this message in my neighborhood

5 – Read the new book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers to get ideas for dealing with harassers you see/face. Then share the book with someone else or donate it to your library.

6 – Put up a poster or flyer in your community (such as a bulletin board at a library or post office or on a campus, or put it up in a bus shelter) or write a sidewalk chalk message proclaiming safe spaces for everyone.

There is no action too small to make a difference!

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World Bank Report: Gender and Transportation in Nepal

March 18, 2014 By HKearl

The World Bank just released a new report, Gender and Public Transport in Nepal. They found that 83% of Nepali women work outside the home and one-third take pubic transportation. The main reasons women gave for using public transportation were to go to work and school and they preferred riding the nilo (blue) microbus.

Via World Bank:

“Whatever the mode of transport used, the number one problem for all commuters is overcrowding. In their quest to maximize profits, drivers cram in passengers who are forced to endure “disgusting and sweaty” journeys. Overcrowding is blamed for personal insecurity which ranks second among commuters’ concerns. One in three women and one in six men feel insecure on public transport. This includes the fear of pickpockets, sexual harassment and personal injury.

Young women aged 19-25 years are more than twice as likely as all other age groups of women to specifically relate their feelings of personal insecurity to fear of ‘inappropriate touching’ with 43% noting this concern. In fact, one in four young women aged 19-35 years had had direct experience of this in the previous twelve months. The main perpetrators are middle aged men and more than half of all women surveyed said they would avoid standing or sitting next to a middle aged man while travelling.

Inappropriate touching is not only a problem for women however, as one in ten men who mentioned insecurity as a concern had also experienced inappropriate touching by other men. Men are also twice as likely as women to have directly experienced pickpockets and abuse from drivers and conductors.”

The study was conducted from September to December, 2013 with funding from Australian Aid.

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Nepal: Today’s Harasser, Tomorrow’s Rapist

March 18, 2014 By Correspondent

Kriti Khatri, Nepal, SSH Blog Correspondent

Some people who participate in disrespectful behaviors towards women in public spaces also commit severe crimes like rape, attempted rape and sexual violence.  How a person develops physiological enhancement to commit sexually oriented crime can be answered based on his moral boosting from past behaviors towards women. What he learns from his upbringing and from the society where women are objectified for their dressing, body images and social presence influence him to develop his way of understanding woman’s role as a person. Once a guy can pester a woman in public and no one takes any action to stop it, he may get encouraged to develop his culprit activities into more severe crimes.

Globally we have seen various forms of sexual violence against woman. We try enforcing hard legislation against the perpetrators  to ensure justice to survivors of sexual violence. However in the long run, what we need to consider is that if a person is discouraged from his harassing behavior in the first place, many violence incidents against women can be prevented. Anyone involving in activities like eve teasing, whistling etc, if discouraged to do so, he might not excel his activities. The growing environment and person’s upbringing has to do a lot to determine his social attitude. One who has seen women disrespected and treated as object will develop similar attitude towards the female gender. If a person is encouraged to respect women through social behaviors, then it will set moral code for every social component to treat women with respect and equality.

Today’s harasser might not turn to be a rapist always, but there is a chance. Our society have never taken street harassment as a serious crime. Even more, street harassment is not even listed as one  among the various “forms” of violence against women.

The impact of street harassment might be considered nominal in comparison to brutal rape and other physical violence; however, harassing activities impart long term consequences to women.  Moreover, street harassment activities are a big question mark to gender equality. How can it be a gender friendly society where women get easily victimized by any one in the street? She is abused verbally, physically and sexually as if she is an object. In such social trend, can true respect be ever experienced by women? Again, while we are trying to end violence cases against women in global scenario, can we avoid street harassment considering it as a common social pattern?

What I believe is that, without taking significant step with participatory social input to abolish harassing street behaviors towards women, respectful presence of women will never be possible in our society. A woman should be respected both inside and outside her house to ensure a gender friendly environment. True equality only comes when woman are treated with equal respect which is only possible when we ensure an environment of social justice.

Holding the same message, Atitwa foundation organized a wall painting themed on the slogan “Today’s Harasser, Tomorrow’s Rapist” in cooperation with National Alliance of Women Human Rights Defenders (NAWHRD) and 35 other NGOs working on gender issues. The program was organized as part of National Anti Rape campaign on the precious occasion of women’s day at March 8th.The aim of the program was to raise awareness about how street harassment can be preliminary steps to all kinds of sexual violence against woman that occurs in public places.

With successful completion of the program, the campaign against street harassment has got more attention and support from the people. Such awareness campaigns is bound to make positive impact on our society which will help abolish street harassment.

Kriti Khatri is student of MSc chemistry. She is engaged in different social organization in Nepal and currently she is working on anti-street harassment issues with the Astitwa Foundation. Find more of her writing on her blog.

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Digest of Street Harassment News: March 17, 2014

March 17, 2014 By SSHIntern

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Street Harassment Stories:

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Bijoya in Bangladesh

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

Everyday Sexism

HarassMap in  Egypt

The Hollaback Sites

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

* LA Magazine, “Street Harassment’s #1 Enemy Rolls into Town“

* Hollaback Boston, “Race, Street Harassment and Identity“

* iDiva, “Fear, Pain, and Life in a Big Metro“

* Times of India, “Women’s group strips tempos of music systems“

* The Guardian, “Sexual harassment is ‘normal’ in clubs, but are things about to change?“

* Ahram Online, “Fighting sexual harassment“

* BuzzFeed, “11 Films That Make Sexual Harassment A Joke“

* The Dakota Student, “Catcalls less than complimentary“

* Daily News & Analysis, “This Holi ride safely, traffic police on a lookout“

* The Stranger, “Responding to Street Harassment: A Bystander’s Guide“

* The Daily Beast, “Laws Protecting Women From Upskirt Photo Assaults Fall Short“

* The Hindu, “Look in the mirror“

* Community Times, “One woman seeks to reclaim public space for all women in Egypt“

* Gradient Lair, “Racism IS Relevant In Street Harassment. But Not In the Racist Way Regularly Assumed“

Announcements:

New:

*Thanks to so many generous donors, the national street harassment survey was completed last week and the national report will be released in May.

Reminders:

* If your group, organization, or campus plans to participate in International Anti-Street Harassment Week, please contact Holly (hkearl @ stopstreetharassment.org) and we can add you to the list of participating co-sponsors.

10 Tweets From the Week:

* @tamzinrose: it’s kind of amazing how much more street harassment i get when i am wearing a dress (with opaque tights) vs when i am wearing jeans

* @carolynlb: Now up to 3 incidents of #streetharassment this weekend. #endsh What I’d like to do to every creeper: http://media.giphy.com/media/za0WewKzFf0ME/giphy.gif

* @sarrusophones: why is street harassment still a thing? like, who actually thinks that it’s ok or that girls are flattered by it

* @Karnythia: mind you, when my locs were long I almost couldn’t hack the uptick in street harassment that comes along with being femme & black in Chicago.

* @UraidahH: The sun is out, let the #streetharassment begin. Sigh… walking to brunch @StopStHarassmnt #nyc

* @slowdumbshowman: Guys, if a woman reveals that she is a survivor of sexual assault or street harassment, do not respond with, “Not all men…”.

* @emzeymp: @jennygadget I would hope we acknowledge this often. Every time I’ve been SH’d, it has been by a man at least double my age. @StopStHarassmnt

* @courteousholBir: Please relay the message to boys that catcalling is never a good thing and they shouldn’t do it

* @allyrhodesmusic: reminder that catcalling is not meant to flatter women, its only purpose is to make us feel unsafe

* @asti_spumante: I like reading books about @HillaryClinton in public. It keeps annoying, ignorant men from catcalling/harassing you. that’s right, run away.

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