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Archives for September 2014

News Round-Up: Sept 6, 2014

September 6, 2014 By HKearl

Check out the new group “Random Acts of Harassment”

Once again there have been a lot of really good street harassment articles lately. Here is a sampling:

Egyptian Streets:

“Colette walked down the Kasr El-Nil bridge, secretly recording with an iPhone. She held it by her mouth with headphones plugged in and pretended to talk on the phone. She pretended to be deep in conversation, looking straight ahead of her. Whenever she felt eyes on her, she turned the phone slightly towards them. The clip was filmed in a single 5 minute walk around sunset, as people often gather on the bridge after the temperature cools down.”

“I’m Polite, Middle-Class and Harassed By Police. Here’s Why.” American Prospect

“If we were really trying to do something about diversity and inclusion why wouldn’t you start young? Why not include diversity as a core part of the early learning curriculum?

After the police killings of Eric Garner on Staten Island, New York, and Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri, people have been talking again about diversity training for police officers. That may soothe the public’s perception of the problem, but that won’t solve the problem of police profiling of non-whites.

Teaching these principles to children while they are young might counteract negative beliefs. We try earnestly to believe now that it doesn’t, but these recent reports of police brutality show that we have yet to gain that gold star. If children are given the space in school to properly navigate diversity within the peers that they interact with, we might finally have a chance at building that post-racial society.”

“One Woman’s Lessons from Living on the Streets.” NPR

“Lesson One: Don’t Look Like A Woman

“It’s not easy to be a woman on the streets, OK?” Susan says. “We tend to hide our features. In other words, we will wear more than one sweatshirt to look more like a man than a woman.”

When darkness falls, Susan pulls out her dark and bulky clothes.”

Think Progress:

“Two pieces of content from Playboy.com have been noticed by the feminist blogosphere over the last week, garnering praise from an otherwise skeptical audience. One is an article about leaked nude photos of celebrities, entitled, “Jennifer Lawrence Is Not A Thing To Be Passed Around.” The other is a flowchart demonstrating when it is acceptable for a man to cat-call a woman. (The answer: never, unless you have her consent.)…

But the  company’s senior Vice President for digital content Cory Jones says the publication didn’t mean to rebrand with a feminist bent. “I never even saw that as a feminist flowchart, I saw that as a human decency flowchart,” he said in a phone interview. “Like, guys, don’t be jerks. Stop yelling at women on the street. It’s kind of depressing that that’s the state of feminism, that we say don’t yell at women on the street and that’s considered feminism.”…

But there’s historical — and current — skepticism over whether Playboy can successfully bridge the barrier between sexualizing women and empowering them, and it’s still really unclear whether Playboy.com can become a site that overcomes the jokes about being read ‘for the articles’ and actually be, well, read for the articles. FORCE’s Rebecca Nagle thinks that one thing that would help is if the magazine continued on its current trajectory and really embraced women’s empowerment — not just how it’s defined by men.”

Yale Gazette:

“For students who choose residence off campus, street harassment might be the final frontier of a still-skewed sexual climate at Yale. Because the issue typically flares up beyond campus boundaries, it’s easy to excuse this kind of activity as not within University jurisdiction or concern. But many Yalies do engage with the surrounding neighborhood; of those who don’t, few make it through four years without a Stop and Shop run or dinner at Sally’s Apizza. Street harassment is essentially an issue of a woman’s ability — or inability — to comfortably navigate the campus area. That makes it a Yale issue….

Yale still has a long way to go in repairing our own sexual climate, and the relationship between Yale and the New Haven community is complicated as-is — so addressing these microaggressions around campus will be no small task. But if we intend to make real changes when it comes to the safety and comfort of women and LGBTQ students, we can’t afford to leave street harassment out of the conversation.

Today’s Zaman:

“In İstanbul, women have to deal with harassment on a daily basis. Men feel that it is acceptable to make comments as women pass by. On public transportation, women are stared at and made to feel uncomfortable and unsafe. They are subjected to groping hands in crowded metros, buses and trams. Walking down the street, women must deal with even more stares and comments, as well as cars that slow down as they pass, with men often hanging out of their car windows to make insulting, indecent and sexist comments.”

The Gazette:

“Stella Hart, a student at Drake University in Des Moines, was walking to class in 2010 when someone leaned out of their car and yelled something at her.

‘I don’t remember what they said, but I remember feeling really threatened by that and uncomfortable,’ said Hart, now an Iowa City resident.

She called her mom, who told her to take it as a compliment. But Hart couldn’t understand how a compliment ‘could feel so awful.’

After hearing countless stories from friends with similar encounters, the 24-year-old said she wants to do something about it. Hart has organized an ‘End Street Harassment in Iowa City’ forum on Sept. 3 at the Iowa City Public Library where people can come to share their experiences with harassment.” More.

Women’s Web:

“This week, two teenage girls in Haryana, Nikita and Madhu, committed suicide by consuming poison.

Venue – their coaching class [in India].

Reason – they were being stalked.

The stalkers? – Some young men of the vicinity who were following them ( on two wheelers, at times), as they left the coaching class.

Action taken – some boys have been arrested now, after the suicides”

Huffington Post:

“Sometimes it’s hard for even the most empathetic of men to understand the level of street harassment most women face. So if you ever need to explain it to someone, this comic may come in handy.

Ursa Eyer, an artist based in New Orleans, was inspired to create a piece about catcalling after she had a particularly frustrating exchange with a male peer.

catcalling

“I made this comic in response to a conversation with a young man I met at a party,” Eyer told The Huffington Post in an email. “We ended up having the same conversation I’ve had a hundred times over, part of which includes the detriment of catcalling… I was inspired to illustrate my personal history of catcalling to show what it actually looks and feels like to someone who may have never experienced it before.”

University of Hamburg:

“Awesome Comebacks to Street Harassment” (In German)

Open letter to the gaming community

“We believe that everyone, no matter what gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religion or disability has the right to play games, criticize games and make games without getting harassed or threatened. It is the diversity of our community that allows games to flourish.

If you see threats of violence or harm in comments on Steam, YouTube, Twitch, Twitter, Facebook or reddit, please take a minute to report them on the respective sites.

If you see hateful, harassing speech, take a public stand against it and make the gaming community a more enjoyable space to be in.”

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Australia: The Slippery Slope of Street Harassment

September 6, 2014 By Correspondent

Corina Thorose, Melbourne, Australia, SSH Blog Correspondent

Street harassment is a hot topic at the moment. It seems like everywhere I look, people are discussing it. What it is, who commits it, whether it is an offence, or whether it is actually a compliment. I watched a segment on a panel show the other day, when the subject came up, and to my surprise, every single one of the women on the panel, declared wolf whistles to be a compliment. The women in question ranged from forty to seventy years of age, and each one said that they wish they still got whistles, that at this stage in their lives, they were no longer appreciated as being attractive, or deemed worthy of a cat call.

Well, this was food for thought.

I’m in my late twenties, and it’s never occurred to me what it would be like to be someone who doesn’t turn heads. What it must feel like to be undervalued because of your age. I felt bad for not considering every angle. But then something else happened.

One of the women asked, “Why do we have to pester men to change all their behaviour?”

Why?

Because f*ck you, that’s why.

Because the first time I got whistled at, I was twelve years old. My breasts had just come in, and maybe I looked a little older, but I can’t explain the feeling of shame that came over me as I heard that holler for my body.

Because the second time I experienced street harassment, I was thirteen. A road worker leered at me for so long, I felt frightened, even though he didn’t say anything to me. Did he know how young I was? Did he care?

Because when I was fourteen, a carful of teenager boys pulled over and asked me if I wanted a lift. What on earth possessed them to do that? What part of their brains told them that that was a good idea? And what would have happened to me if I had said yes?

Because when I hear a whistle, or am the subject of a look that lingers way too long, I feel devalued. Great, you think I’m attractive. I’ll file that under things I don’t give a f*ck about and move on. By all means, take a look. I looked at you. We’re programmed to notice members of the opposite sex, or even members of the same sex if we are so inclined. But we are not programmed to behave like horny animals. We don’t grunt and mark our territory. We have evolved.

Let’s say we stop “pestering the men about their behaviour.” Let’s say we okay the wolf whistle. If we okay that, let’s okay the the comment on my skirt. Let’s okay the narrative on how hot my tits look today. Let’s okay the guy who touched my arse because I’m wearing tight pants. Let’s okay the guy who won’t take no for an answer because he bought me the drink and I had a cheeky pash with him.

It’s a slippery slope. Street harassment is not a compliment. It needs to stop being the norm. It is a crime.

Corina is a journalist who is currently in a Masters’ program in Professional Writing. Follow her work on social media: @BrandosBride, www.facebook.com/theirownbells, instagram.com/theirownbells

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“I shouldn’t have to fight anyone off”

September 5, 2014 By Contributor

I was out one evening at a local pub, enjoying some live music with friends. We were off in a corner by ourselves, doing our own thing, dancing, and having a good time. A man came up to me and started dancing behind me. I sort of swayed for a minute while I debated my options and then I stepped forward and away from him. He grabbed my arm and pulled my back against him, pinning my arm to my chest. I pulled against him again and tried to pull away and he held onto my rest. Finally, my friends noticed what was happening and one of my male friends pulled me away from the guy and forced the guy to leave.

I’m not sure what I would have done had my friends not been there. The guy was drunk and wouldn’t let me go. I had bruises on my arm the next day and I was angry. What gives anyone the right to touch me without my consent? The fact that I’m a foot shorter than you, that I’m smaller than you, doesn’t give anyone the right to manhandle me.

It made me realize that I need to learn to protect myself, because I can’t use strength alone to fight someone off. The saddest part is, I shouldn’t have to fight anyone off. There is so much disrespect in putting hands on someone that never gave you permission to and it makes me so angry!

– ET

Location: Florida/Pub

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Meet the Third Cohort of Blog Correspondents of 2014!

September 5, 2014 By HKearl

Meet the Blog Correspondents of the Third 2014 Cohort!

Katie Bowers, NY, USA

Katie is a social worker and community educator interested in ending gender-based violence, working with youth to make the world a better place, and using pop culture as a tool for social change. Katie holds a B.S. from Cornell University and an M.S.W. from Hunter College. Katie found her footing as a feminist and activist through her work as a Student Area Coordinator with Amnesty International and as an intern with Girls for Gender Equity and Make the Road New York. When not working with in real life young people at her professional gig, Katie volunteers with the Harry Potter Alliance, an organization that utilizes the power of the internet and popular stories like Harry Potter and The Hunger Games to make activism accessible and engaging. Check out her writing at the Imagine Better Blog and geek out with her on Twitter, @CornishPixie9.

Daniel Burdick, CA, USA

Daniel remains a longtime activist for peace, the environment, and social equality. During his otherwise unremarkable childhood, he experienced firsthand the profound effects public harassment made on his friends and family. While the alternatives of the late 1960’s were being explored, the rebellious although impressionable teen stumbled upon early feminist literature; resulting in his adoption of its core philosophies. An active participant in the 1980’s “Myth California USA” movement ( a counterpoint to the national beauty pageant in Santa Cruz, California), he soon embraced a lifetime commitment with a Women’s Studies UC graduate. Daniel is also the parent of two independent, high-achieving female offspring; and continues to offer creative strategies in transportation and recycling issues regarding climate change, wildlife preservation, and the social ethics of media and technology. He currently works as a design engineer and is an avid bicyclist.

Laura Bustamante, Lima, Peru

Laura ha estudiado Administración en Turismo en Universidades de Perú y Barcelona, y Estudios de Género en la ONG Flora Tristán. Orgullosa feminista que le encanta escribir, viajar y comer, con un gran interés en activismo para igualdad de género, mujer y la comunidad LGTB. Actualmente realiza un taller con niños y niñas en una escuela pública para que se comprometan con la igualdad entre mujeres y hombres, asimismo rechacen toda forma de violencia, discriminación y/o desvalorización de la mujer/niña. Apasionada al arte, la danza y el diseño. La puedes seguir en Twitter en @laeureka

Laura has studied Tourism Management in Universities of Peru and Barcelona, and Gender Studies at the NGO Flora Tristan. A proud feminist who loves to write, traveling and food, with a strong interest in activism for gender equality, women and LGBTcommunity. She is currently conducting a workshop with children in a public school to commit them on gender equality by rejecting all forms of violence, discrimination and devaluation of women and girl. She is passionate about art, dance and design. You can follow her on Twitter at @laeureka

Sarah Colomé, IL, USA

Sarah is a progress-focused educator and advocate dedicated to building strategic coalitions centered on creating social change. Previously serving as the SOARS Booking Director for A Long Walk Home, Inc., Sarah now serves as an adjunct professor in DePaul University’s Peace, Justice and Conflict Studies department, teaching on issues of multiculturalism, identity, and social justice. Her passion for feminism and multicultural justice was ignited in college, where she began her own exploration of identity. Sarah sits on the Board of Directors for Chicago Women’s Health Center, and volunteers as a Medical & Legal Advocate empowering sexual violence survivors on behalf of Rape Victim Advocates, in Chicago. Having traveled both nationally and internationally as a competitive collegiate public speaker, Sarah acts as a consultant, coaching collegiate debate, and providing trainings on issues of equity, justice, and advocacy across the country. Her writing has been published in Fair Observer, F Bomb, and Brazen Life, and you can follow Sarah’s updates on Linkedin or hear her perspectives on Twitter.

Siel Devos, London, England

Siel is currently doing her master’s degree in Middle Eastern studies with a major in contemporary Islam at SOAS University in London. She has spent a year in the Middle East to study Arabic and to gain insight in the Islamic society, and where she experienced the reality of street harassment in the Arab world. In addition to trying to fight gender issues in the Middle East and beyond, she writes her own fashion blog Mademoisielle.com, and she’s also starting up an online fashion, lifestyle & relationships magazine for muslim women. If she still has some spare time left, Siel likes SATC re-runs, the occasional pilates session or cooking up anything that involves avocado. Find her on twitter and instagram under @mademoisielle for way too many selfies and general over-sharing.

Vanessa Diakides, London, England

Vanessa works on the Youth Programme at FORWARD UK and is currently finishing her MA in Women and Child Abuse at CWASU. Her professional interests and experience include supporting women and youth to access education and employment opportunities, direct support work with women experiencing homelessness, substance misuse issues, forms of gendered abuse (including sexual violence, domestic violence and FGM) and those involved in street sex work, research into issues affecting BAMER women and youth, intersectionality between gender, race, disability and religion; and campaigning, lobbying and outreach. She is committed to promoting inclusion and combating poverty and discrimination in all its forms. All views are her own.
Angie Evans, Washington, DC, USA

Angie is a community organizer and social worker. She started her career in the progressive movement during her teens, coordinating punk rock shows and community events in order to create space for youth in her small town. After completing her Masters in Social Work and “getting her feet wet” in Missouri politics, she moved to DC to work on health care reform and economic inequality. At the Center for Community Change she did everything from fill congressional hearings with bales of hay to train new organizers in the South. Most recently she helped grow and mobilize a coalition of 1,900 national, state, and local groups advocating for low-income programs with the Coalition on Human Needs. Last year she quit her job to travel around the world with her husband. They have just returned and are continuing to write about travel and adventure at http://whereisseangie.com

Menusha Gunasekara, Matale, Sri Lanka

Menusha is a recent graduate of Asian University for Women, Bangladesh and holds a B.S in Public Health. She is an advocate for Peace and Human Rights, Women Issues and Environmental Protection. She is also an ambassador for UN My World Survey and a Rising Star at WEDU leadership development program. Recent chaotic incident of street harassment in Sri Lanka inspired her to join SSH and play an active role. By joining SSH, her goal is to educate and raise awareness about the harassment that takes place on the streets of Sri Lanka which has been tolerated by women silently. She enjoys yoga, meditation and walking in green areas and tasting dishes from different cultures. She can be reached via LinkedIn.

Andrea Flores Hernández, Santa Cruz, Bolivia

Andrea is in her second year of university, studying Social Communication. She loves languages (She is currently studying French at L’Alliance Française in Santa Cruz), she is into photography, and she is passionate about the books. Like many other women, she has suffered street harassment, even in the street where her house is located; but that does not stop her optimism and her belief that this type of harassment can be eliminated. Currently, she is part of a program in her city that improves citizen journalism. You can follow her on Twitter: @AndreaFlores116

 

Diana Hinova, Sofia, Bulgaria

Diana has experienced life as a woman on the streets of Bulgaria, Russia, the Untied States, and Nepal. She has a Master’s in Public Policy from Georgetown University and works as a consultant to INGOs on topics generally unrelated to gender, while making efforts in her spare time to engage others in dismantling the norms that permit gender violence. Traveling and eating well also rank among her priorities. Get in touch or see what else Diana is up to @dialeidoscope or letnimletni.blogspot.com

Monica Ibrahim, Cairo, Egypt

Monica is the communications manager of HarassMap, an Egyptian initiative aiming at ending social acceptability of sexual harassment. Monica is also a Cairo-based reporter published in several local and international media outlets: The GlobalPost, Scripps Howard Wire and Al-Shorouk newspaper among others. She is also the winner of GroundTruth Fellowship to report on youth unemployment in Egypt and has been previously community manager at “Open Elections Egypt”, a news platform launched by Stpryful and Google to provide live updates on Egyptian elections in 2014. Monica has a degree in Mass communication and journalism from Cairo University; she also studied human rights at Beirut Arab University and Women Leadership at Kansas University. She has a special interest and focus on entrepreneurship and culture. You can follow her on twitter or her personal blog.

Ngwentah Berlyne Ngwalem, Buea, Cameroon

Berlyne is a Cameroonian-based women’s human rights activist, passionate and determined to put an end to social injustice of any kind. She has been an activist long before she came to know who an activist was and what activism really means. She has a BA in Literature, English Language, Performing and visual arts from the University of Buea, Cameroon. She talks about women’s rights, social injustice, and the importance of emotional wellbeing at any given opportunity. Her method of activism is very spontaneous and has no specific place or time to create change. She adores social media activism because it gives her the opportunity to get people’s point of views from across the globe and equally share what it is like living as a Cameroon woman living in a patriarchal Cameroonian society. She loves singing, spending time with her family or chilling at the beach. You can find her on twitter @Luvequalityrule and Facebook.

Yvonne Ní Mhurchú, Limerick, Ireland

Yvonne graduated last year with a BA degree in psychology and philosophy. She volunteers as a SATU (psychological support) worker for her local Rape Crisis Centre and is an advocate for women’s issues and equality. Her belief is that education is hugely important in fighting inequality, harassment and sexual violence. She has previously been published on stop street harassment, ihollaback and is a regular contributor to the website fem2pt0. This year Yvonne started a feminist group, the Limerick Feminist Network which is growing stronger every day. She has also recently coordinated an anti-harassment campaign aimed at night life venues in her area called Good Night Out and is currently working with other feminist groups to help them start the campaign in their regions. You can follow her, her feminist group or her anti-harassment campaign on twitter: @YvonneNiMhurchu, @lmkfeminist and @GNOLimerick.

Khiara Ortiz, NY, USA

Khiara is a recent graduate of New York University with a BAS in Journalism and Psychology. Though she currently works as an assistant in the contracts department for Hachette Book Group, a publishing company, and is passionate about writing, language, and literature, she has increasingly become interested in the feminist movement, specifically in ending street harassment. Living in New York City and experiencing this type of sexual oppression first-hand has made her become aware of the degree to which it is still a problem in societies across the world and just as much of a crisis as heightened forms of sexual violence. Khiara hopes to organize an awareness event during next year’s Sexual Harassment Awareness Month in April 2015. If you also live in NYC and would like to collaborate with her, please feel free to contact her at KhiaraOrtiz@gmail.com.

Pamela Segura, NY, USA

Pam recently graduated from Manhattan College with a degree in English and music. She writes for SciArt in America, an online magazine that focuses on the connections between science, art, and technology, and the music website Pancakes and Whiskey. Before her senior year of college, Pam completed a 117-page grant-funded research paper on the relationship between gender performativity and sexual violence. That project compelled her to continue exploring the social, political, racial, ethnic, and biological factors that construct and deconstruct gender. She is also a volunteer at Groundwork Hudson Valley, an environmentalist nonprofit based in Yonkers, New York. When she is not rambling on about her love of feminism or the English department at her alma mater, Pam writes nature poetry, goes on runs, and plays the blues on her guitar. You can follow her on Instagram or Twitter @pamlivinlovin.

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“I refrain from exercise to avoid it”

September 4, 2014 By Contributor

Let me start with that I’ve recently lost a lot of weight, so I dress to flatter myself, not to gain attention. I’m finally comfortable in clothes and I feel good.

I went out for a jog tonight and was only out for about 30 minutes, but in that 30 minutes, 3 different people decided it was appropriate to honk, yell, or brake next to me. The guy that honked scared me, because I was focused and I just about face planted on the sidewalk, so that was the first man.

As I kept running, a man on a scooter pulled up alongside me and told me that “I was looking good!” When I ignored  him long enough, he finally kept driving and pulled over into a gas station in front of me. I booked it through there before he had a chance to talk to me.

The last guy slammed on his brakes and didn’t say anything, just stared until traffic pushed him along. Here’s my thing, I run because I want to be healthy. It’s for my benefit, not for anyone else’s, and I don’t appreciate being uncomfortable doing that or being at the gym. It’s dangerous for me to have people breaking my focus and concentration when I’m jogging or lifting weights by making stupid, sexist comments. I’m not trying to impress anyone, I’m trying to improve my life and it makes me angry that people take that away from me by making me uncomfortable enough that I refrain from exercise to avoid it.

– ET

Location: Florida/Gym/Sidewalk

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