I’d like to share my story to show that it happens to men as well. I’ve actually experienced it several times since I moved here. And I don’t mean the “faggot” or “queer” kind of catcalling that many gay men experience – that doesn’t seem to be an issue in most parts of this city.
As a runner, I’ve often had men – often homeless – jeer and compliment my “juicy ass,” and, while it has been bothersome, nothing has come close to what happened yesterday. I was walking home in a hoodie and gym shorts (so I definitely wasn’t “asking for it” – whatever that means) and this guy screams “nice ass” out of his car window. I didn’t even realize he was talking to me until I saw him waiting at the corner.
He rolled his windows down and began jeering and blowing kisses while licking his lips. It just so happens that I live at that corner and very stupidly ran inside. He waited outside for about 5 minutes, backing up to peer in the windows and laugh while I cowered in fear. I’m kicking myself for not wearing my glasses, so I couldn’t get his plate.
Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?
Make the discussion less gendered – it happens to everyone
– D
Location: Washington, DC
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