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Archives for April 2015

“I just needed help. Those men were following me”

April 24, 2015 By Contributor

I was 20 and in Philadelphia for summer break. I was walking down the city street on my way to have lunch with my dad at his office around 11:30 in the morning. It was a summer day and I had a skirt and shirt on. I had gotten a couple looks so I put my cardigan on and tried to make myself look smaller. Then I noticed this group of guys kept following me down the street. It was a residential street not super busy but plenty of apartments with stoops. The men started talking to me in Spanish saying really horrible things (they didn’t know a blonde girl could speak Spanish). I felt them getting close and close and the their words started getting louder.

I suddenly saw a group of women, maybe in their 30s, talking on a stoop saying goodbye to each other. I walked up to these strangers and said loudly, “Hi, it’s SO good to see you guys sorry I’m late,ʺ and joined them on the steps away from the street and the men. They looked at me like I was crazy and said ʺhello?ʺ Once the men past us I turned to them and said, ʺI’m so sorry I just needed help. Those men were following me.ʺ

They could tell that I was scared and offered for me to sit with them for a few minutes to calm down. I later went to lunch with my dad.

I wish I didn’t have to ʺcover upʺ to avoid being bothered. I wish our society told men to just KNOCK IT OFF and have some self control instead of telling women to take responsibility.I wish I lived in a world where I didn’t need to come up with creative solutions to avoid being harassed. I wish it just didn’t happen in the first place.

– MAC

Location: Philadelphia, PA

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USA: No, Anti-Harassment Laws and Policies Don’t Violate Your Constitutional Rights

April 24, 2015 By Correspondent

Emily Gillingham, Washington, DC, USA, Blog Correspondent

DSCN4790Every now and again, someone in a newspaper editorial, blog post, or conversation will argue that a law or policy restricting street harassment violates Americans’ First Amendment right to free speech. Though these people’s dedication to their desire to hurl sexual remarks at strangers or defend those who do so is admirable, here’s why that assertion is way off-base.

The First Amendment to the United States Constitution reads in pertinent part, “Congress shall make no law . . . abridging the freedom of speech . . . ” This is about things that Congress does; an easy way to think about it is whether the government is restricting the speech.

The First Amendment protection against government abridgement of free speech is not absolute. While the First Amendment has been found to protect rights to things like the speech of protestors outside of abortion clinics, it has been found to not protect “speech” like public school students holding a banner at a school event that reads “BONG HITS 4 JESUS” and unsolicited mailing of graphic brochures advertising pornographic books. For how often the old adage that the First Amendment doesn’t protect falsely shouting “fire” in a crowded theater is brought up in free speech arguments, no such set of facts was ever before the US Supreme Court, and in fact the case from which the concept sprung has since been overruled. But the basic premise remains: First Amendment rights are not absolute.

The U.S. Supreme Court has upheld laws restricting public place speech before. For example, in Chaplinsky v. State of New Hampshire, a man was convicted of violating a state law that read, “No person shall address any offensive, derisive or annoying word to any other person who is lawfully in any street or other public place, nor call him by any offensive or derisive name, nor make any noise or exclamation in his presence and hearing with intent to deride, offend or annoy him, or to prevent him from pursuing his lawful business or occupation” for standing outside City Hall in Rochester, New Hampshire and saying things like, “[y]ou are a God damned racketeer” and “a damned Fascist and the whole government of Rochester are Fascists or agents of Fascists.”

The Supreme Court upheld the constitutionality of the state law over Chaplinsky’s argument that the law violated his First Amendment rights because the law was limited in scope, Chaplinsky’s words lacked social value, and the law did not “unduly impair liberty of expression.” The Court wrote that Chaplinsky’s words “by their very utterance inflict injury or tend to incite an immediate breach of the peace.”

First Amendment cases use several different rules and rationales because they are so heavily fact-dependent. And we don’t have a Supreme Court case directly on this issue to compare. But one line of cases focuses on whether the restriction focuses on the content of the speech, or instead the “time, place, or manner” of the speech, which is scrutinized under a less stringent standard. This line is drawn in several Supreme Court cases.

An anti-street harassment law which regulated the content of speech, like a law that prevented shouting “compliments” at strangers in public, might fail. But a law that prohibited a certain manner of speech, like unwanted verbal contact with another person on public transportation, should pass constitutional muster. Not to mention, street harassment can sometimes be prosecuted criminally or civilly as hate speech, sexual assault, threats, defamation, intentional infliction of emotional distress, “fighting words,” intimidation, or obscenity, which receive limited or no First Amendment protection.

Street harassment is about exerting power over others who dare to enter a public space to go to work or the grocery store. The man who rode his bike dangerously close to me to force me to make eye contact and then hissed “I WANT TO TASTE YOUR PUSSY” was not trying to pay me a compliment. He was not trying to make friendly conversation. He was not informing me about a political issue he’s concerned about. He was not asking the time. He was not letting me know that I dropped a glove a half block back. He was not wishing me a good morning or remarking on the weather. His speech was not designed to convey an idea; it was intended to intimidate, dehumanize, and subjugate me.

Street harassment impacts what I wear, how I travel to work, how late I stay out, and whether or not I feel safe outside. Would educating and persuading street harassers to change their ways be a preferable course of action to legislating against that type of behavior? I think so. But that isn’t going to change attitudes overnight, and frankly, certain people, like “TASTE YOUR PUSSY” guy, probably aren’t going to change short of a criminal or civil statute giving him a reason to change that he cares about (because intimidating strangers is clearly not enough).

So while it’s an easy cop-out to blurt “BUT MAH ‘MERICAN FREEDOMS” when the government acts to prevent people from making others feel unsafe, the First Amendment argument falls flat. If this topic interests you, I’d strongly suggest reading Cynthia Grant Bowman’s wonderful Harvard Law Review article on the subject and articles and a book by Dr. Laura Beth Nielsen.

Disclaimer: this article is an opinion and is not intended to be used as legal advice.

Emily is a 3L at Michigan State University College of Law, and the president of her school’s chapter of LSRJ. Follow her on Twitter @emgillingham.

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“I was afraid of sharing and feeling shame”

April 23, 2015 By Contributor

I was 12 years old and when I was returning back from my school, a man came straight at me and touched my breast. I was silent because I was unaware that it was harassment and at that age I was afraid of sharing and feeling shame. Similarly, when I was traveling by bus I faced the same problem. An unknown person touched my body. At that moment I couldn’t speak up or shout because I was really afraid that maybe people would say something about me or my character. It made me feel so weak and I was depressed thinking about why it happened. I was psychologically affected. Now I know the meaning of harassment so I raise my voice wherever this kind of thing happen.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

People should be aware about the harassment that they may face in the street/ somewhere else. Due to a lack of awareness people do not know if they are facing harassment or not. We also need strict rules and regulation and the people who make people suffer should be punished.

– Sunita

Location: Bus,on the way, and chinema hall

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“I feel degraded, disgusted, and unsafe”

April 22, 2015 By Contributor

I bike to work in Los Angeles. It is a short ride, about two miles, and only 15 minutes. Every single time without fail I am harassed, often multiple times in one trip by different men. Cars will slow down to follow me and men will purposely step in front of my bike. Whether it’s someone commenting on my looks, asking for a smile or hello, or even a ride on my bike, I feel degraded, disgusted, and unsafe. I feel that these men are asserting power over me and that I can’t escape their comments.

I often shout back profanities and try to degrade these men for how disgusting they are, making them feel badly about themselves in the quickest way possible. Either they laugh in the satisfaction that they got a reaction or they look very angry, and I am left feeling fearful for the rest of the trip.

– Sarah

Location: Los Angeles, CA

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Wrap-Up from #EndSHWeek 2015

April 21, 2015 By HKearl

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Gracias, شكرا, धन्यवाद, Danke, хвала, Merci, THANK YOU!

Thank you for rising to the occasion and taking a stand against sexual harassment in public spaces last week! Groups in 40 countries took actions online and offline, from rallies and marches to workshops with youth, from Tweet chats and Google hangouts to sharing images on social media. We made a big splash both online and offline, reaching millions of people. Congratulations on all you have helped achieve!

– Holly, founder of the week

I just wanted to thank you so much for participating in #EndSHWeek this year. It was such a thrill to see what everyone was planning – your actions were so creative and inspiring! As you may have noticed, this event is growing every year – if you have any feedback on how we can improve for next year, I would love to hear it! Thanks for your activism.

– Britnae, online manager for the week

 

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View nearly 600 photos of actions | View a smaller album with one image per country.

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Please let us know what YOU did so we can include it in our wrap-up report.

HIGHLIGHTS:

* Anti-harassment transit campaigns launched in London, Los Angeles, and Vancouver and a new study about harassment on the transit system in France found that 100% of women have been harassed

* Fiona Patten, a member of Parliament in Victoria, Australia, raised the issue of street harassment in Parliament

* Women in Afghanistan and Iran shared their street harassment stories on the SSH Blog

* Six main hashtags were used across the week on Twitter: #Endsh #Endshweek #plutotsympa #everydaysexism #AcosoEsViolencia #NoAcosoCallejero

* The UK-based international group Everyday Sexism. Founder Laura Bates said that on April 16 alone, 45,000 people tweeted about sexism, including street harassment, using the hashtag #everydaysexism.

* In France, after a business woman tweeted that getting whistled at is nice, thousands of people shared their street harassment stories using the hashtag #plutotsympa. The hashtag trended for part of the day on April 16

* Numerous tweet chats and google hangouts took place. Read the recaps or watch the videos:

Reporting street harassment | Practical solutions to street harassment | Global Tweetathon | Street harassment across the world

The NOW Young Feminists & Allies virtual chapter hosted a google hangout about street harassment and multiculturalism.

Me=You: Sexual Harassment Awareness held a Google hangout Q&A with SSH board member Erin McKelle

* In Latin America, NGOs in Chile, Argentina, Brasil, Colombia, El Salvador, Nicaragua, Peru, Ecuador and Uruguay took photos with anti-harassment, pro-respect messages and posted them on social media.

* For a taste of the range of actions, here are four examples of activism that took place in Nepal, the Netherlands, India and Italy

* New street signs about street harassment went up in New York City, Philadelphia and Toronto. The USA-based sign sparked dozens of news articles, including this news story featuring SSH board member Maliyka Muhamad and my article for Feministing.com.

* Many teenagers spoke out against street harassment. Not only did they participate in offline actions like workshops and rallies in countries like Cameroon, Egypt, India, and Nepal, but they also wrote about their experiences. For example, “Don’t ignore the street harassment stories of young girls” by a 17-year-old in California, Chloe Parker and teenagers in Fort Walton Beach made a video about street harassment.

* SSH is based in the Washington, DC-area and we organized or were part of five offline events and actions across the week

* There were at least 80 media hits in at least 10 countries.

The week may be over, but our work is far from done. Wherever we are, we must continue to challenge the status quo, the discrimination against all women, members of the LGBT community, persons of color, persons with disabilities, and others who are marginalized. We must strive to make public places safer for all.

With gratitude for the risks you take to speak out, for the determination you have to make change,

Holly

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