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Archives for September 2015

Street Respect: “I admire you”

September 14, 2015 By Contributor

I was going for a run, and it was windy and rainy and cold. A woman walking her dog in the other direction smiled at me and said, “I admire you.”

– KG

Location: Dunedin, New Zealand

This is part of the series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

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USA: Hey Baby! Unhinged

September 11, 2015 By Correspondent

Hannah Rose Johnson, Tucson, AZ, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Hey Baby! Art Against Sexual Violence is an exhibition series that uses art as a vehicle and tool to end street harassment and sexual violence. After participating in this year’s shows, in April and May, I wanted to know more about this art movement. I wanted to know more about the people I passed in my office hallway, who I breezed by on 4th Avenue, who were doing this work. I wanted to piece together a genealogy. So I sat down with Wendy Sampson, an organizer who originally brought Hey Baby! to Tucson, and Manuel Abril, a current Hey Baby! organizer (and SSH board member).

Hey Baby! Art Against Sexual Violence show 2015.
Hey Baby! Art Against Sexual Violence show 2015.

This is what I learned: (it’s not linear and it’s not a history).

Rewind to 2010. Hey Baby! was a copycat of an event that happened in North Carolina, which Sampson’s friend suggested they organize in Tucson. Sampson said, “The one in North Carolina was a one-time event and we just planned a one-time event as well. We were like oh, this was a good idea, we should do it here.”

Sampson presented a really interesting analysis on the relationship between street harassment and intimate partner violence. She said that complacency with a culture of street harassment infiltrates our relationships with each other. That if we are willing to treat one another like shit on the street, we are willing to behave like that in intimate settings. But she also said people can more easily rally around street harassment; that “people have a tangible reaction [to street harassment] and are steady in that reaction than intimate partner violence, which is messier and complicated and drains you in a different way.”

Putting on Hey Baby! provided a break amidst the emotional exhaustion of the intimate partner violence work that she was doing. Sampson said, “I remember being excited about the art we had. I remember feeling that ANGER, that can get drown out through exhaustion, and to share it with other people was really rejuvenating.”

No one knew that it would get taken up again by other activists or be institutionally grant funded for a while, and eventually come out again on its own, unhinged. After Wendy organized the event she left Arizona. For four years. She admitted that she didn’t remember much about the actual event because she was so exhausted from the accountability processes. Though she did say, “I remember putting art up…I remember someone doing poetry…there was a lot of art being laid out and a lot of things people could take home, like posters…”

2014 Hey Baby art in Tucson
2014 Hey Baby art in Tucson (Abril is two in from the left)

I asked Abril to fill in the gaps. What he said about the ebb and flow of transitions actually isn’t the most relevant. We’re talking about a genealogy here, a series of connections that produces something that may mean something else depending on the timing and environment. And Hey Baby! got taken up with organizers, non-profits, and sexual violence prevention educators at different times and places.

What he did say that I thought was interesting was about the show this year: “We wanted to recapture the feeling of connecting with a kind of playfulness where we didn’t feel suffocated by everything that could go wrong.” The kind of wrong that comes from building a complex analysis that isn’t easily palatable.

Messiness.

Abril said that before inviting people to participate this year, “We told ourselves that we are going to f**k up and that’s going to be a part of our process…we wanted stuff that was messy and that didn’t have a predictable outcome in terms of how people were going to receive it…. And a lot of came from that…[artists and organizers] felt relieved not having to tell people what we already knew. Like depart from the place where we know rape culture exists, and pull in the other things, conditions that we live in that are socially or institutionally imposed. And try to make connections to those.”

Organizing against street-harassment is complex because when we examine the conditions of sexual violence we enter a multi-dimensional zone. Hey Baby! Art Against Sexual Violence brought together art as resistance, art as distance, and as a creative strategizing tool. We wrote, painted, collaged, sculpted and performed new narratives that exposed the intricacies from where sexual violence departs from and seeps into. Pieces that examined street harassment, catcalling, rape, date-rape, partner violence, state-violence, mental illness, incarceration, abuse within activist communities, victim-blaming, and challenging perfect-victim narratives.

After talking with Sampson and Abril, I had more questions. Curiosities about anti-street harassment movements, art as activism, and where are these people in North Carolina who organized the first event? [Editor’s note: My 2010 book on street harassment features the North Carolina event!]

I had some more tracking down to do.

For more information about Hey Baby! Check out www.facebook.com/HeyBaby.Art or www.heybabyart.tumblr.com

Hannah Rose is writing from Tucson, Arizona and Lewiston, Maine (US) as she transitions from the Southwest to the Northeast for a career in sexual violence prevention and advocacy at the college level.  You can check her out on the collaborative artistic poetic sound project HotBox Utopia.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, correspondents, street harassment

“It’s disrespectful and inappropriate”

September 11, 2015 By Contributor

I was on a college campus and parked at the parking garage near the library. The area isn’t the best on campus, but I had never felt unsafe before, and besides, it was the middle of the afternoon when I went.

Anyway, I parked, and as I was walking out of the parking garage, some guy called from his truck, “You walk by me too quick, hon!” I never saw him because I just kept walking and pretended I hadn’t heard him, but I felt my face flush and my heart beat faster with a little fear. This was the first time I had ever been catcalled or street harassed, and I just felt like I was in danger.

A guy that is willing to call out to you might be willing to do other things, you know? A week after this happened, there was a news story about someone who was raped in that area. I just wish that people could walk through public places and feel safe from the threat of verbal, physical, or sexual assault. It’s disrespectful and inappropriate. I want someone to find me attractive, but it should be someone I know and care about, not some random guy in a parking garage.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Around campus we have police boxes that have buttons that connect the speakers to 911. I think that these would be valuable to have in many places, especially secluded public spaces like parking garages. We also have an safety escort service, which has two people pick you up and take you home if you want. This too would be a great idea for off campus as well. Obviously we can’t forcibly keep people from calling out lewd things, but we can put safety precautions in place to help potential victims take control of the situation.

– Anonymous

Location: Indiana, USA

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See the book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers for more idea

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New Anti-Harassment Cards

September 10, 2015 By HKearl

Girl World Chicago‘s Red Cards are available for download (pictured are two examples).

“With six different options, you can use these double-sided cards to respond to your harasser and let them know what they did is NOT OKAY; or give the “All The Fed Up Ladies” card in solidarity next time you see someone experience harassment.”

your compliments are creepy card to hand to harassersStop & Think: you are disrespecting me card to hand to a harasser

 

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New Legislation for Safe Access Zones in Melbourne

September 10, 2015 By HKearl

Victoria (Australia) Parliament Member Fiona Patten’s office reached out to me about a new initiative relating to street harassment (read about what Patten did in April). Her Senior Electorate Officer Nevena Spirovska told me:

“In Melbourne, and around the world, women seeking fertility treatments are often harassed as they try to access services that are legally performed at the clinics. The street harassment can take the form of verbal abuse, blocking entrance to the clinic, praying or attempting to offer “curb-side counselling” to women, their families and workers – in one instance, a security officer at a Melbourne fertility clinic was shot dead by a religious fanatic.

Fiona Patten has now introduced a Bill in Victorian Parliament that will create a Safe Access Zones of 150m around fertility clinics. Protestors can still be present and have the freedom to assemble, just as long as they do not enter the Safe Access Area [or buffer zones].”

You can read more in this article.

This is an important and under-discussed form of street harassment (our blog correspondents have written about it in the USA and the UK) and I hope she is successful in getting the bill passed!

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: Australia, reproductive rights

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