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Archives for December 2015

USA: Engaging Male Allies to End Violence Against Women

December 14, 2015 By Correspondent

Meghna Bhat, Chicago, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

A few months ago, I came across Emma Watson’s brave efforts to promote gender equality. Her interview with Malala Yousafzai highlighted the need to address feminism and how this movement should include men as allies. As Watson correctly pointed out, “Let’s not make it scary to say you’re a feminist. I want to make it a welcoming and inclusive movement. Let’s join our hands and move together so we can make real change. Malala and I are pretty serious about it but we need you.”

It’s our collective responsibility, especially male allies, to create awareness about gender violence, prevent and intervene this vicious cycle.

My experiences growing up with positive male role models/allies and Watson’s message resonates with the research and advocacy of Dr. Jackson Katz. He is an educator, author, filmmaker and cultural theorist who is a pioneer in the fields of gender violence prevention education and media literacy. His 2013 speech on TED talk titled, “Violence against women—it’s a men’s issue” showed that domestic violence and sexual abuse, which are often labeled as “women’s issues,” are often “intrinsically men’s issues” and he “shows how these violent behaviors are tied to definitions of manhood.”

According to a report by the New York State Department of Health, research has consistently shown that a majority of men are conflicted about violence against women. Most of these men may not even “recognize when it is happening nor know how to stop it”. Another factor that can make men defensive and doubtful of participating in the efforts to end gender violence is “treating [or stereotyping] males as potential perpetrators.”

There are many social service agencies and organizations promoting and practicing this model of engaging men as allies to prevent and intervene gender-violence. Have you watched the powerful documentary “The Mask You Live In” by The Representation Project? I highly recommend it. I have found this film to be educating, inspiring and an eye-opening experience that needs to be screened to our children and youth.

This film focuses on boys’ and young men’s struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity. Young children, especially boys, need to feel safe to be themselves and express their emotions without the fear of being bullied, labeled, mocked, or rejected by other children and adults. They must not feel pressured to fit within the problematic binary roles or other rigid frameworks of masculinity our society expects them to claim.

If you need further details of how these programs and agencies implement this model of engaging male allies or men as partners in combating gender violence, I have listed a few of the examples and resources that I have come across and found to be useful (including as teaching resources):

  1. Mentors in Violence Prevention: A program intended to create public awareness about men’s violence against women, challenge how the mainstream society thinks, and initiating community dialogues between men and women to identify long-term tangible options.
  1. Coaching Boys into Men: The only evidence-based prevention program designed to train high school coaches to teach their male athletes healthy relationship skills and that “violence never equals strength.”
  1. Men as Partners: At EngenderHealth, this program includes working with “men to play constructive roles in promoting gender equity and health in their families and communities”. Through their interactive skills -building workshops and enhanced health care facilities among other services, they strive to confront negative stereotypes about being men and provide men with quality care.
  1. Men Can Stop Rape: Works towards mobilizing men for creating cultures free from violence, especially men’s violence against women through their strengths and sustainable initiatives.
  1. Movement against Sexual Violence: At the University of Illinois at Chicago, I am fortunate to have colleagues who represent and lead the Men against Sexual Violence, now called as the Movement against Sexual Violence. This student group aims to engage and involve people, especially male-identified allies to join in the fight against sexual violence. Through their workshops such as ‘Reimagining Masculinity’ and events, they encourage us to challenge the negative stereotypes and images of gender roles. Although I haven’t got an opportunity to attend these events myself, I am looking forward to being a part of these important and powerful dialogues and community conversations next semester!

Dr. Katz calls out to all men and women to stand up and advocate for changes to end violence against women. He further raises these very critical questions that we all need to think about:

“How can we do something differently? How can we change the practices? How can we change the socialization of boys and the definitions of manhood that lead to these current outcomes? These are the kind of questions that we need to be asking and the kind of work that we need to be doing?”

If you want more ideas for what men can do to prevent gender violence, click here.

Meghna is a doctoral candidate in the Criminology, Law, and Justice program at the University of Illinois at Chicago, with a specialization in Gender and Women Studies. She is currently working on her dissertation, which focuses on representations of violence against women in a widely viewed form of Indian popular culture, Bollywood cinema.

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UN Conference on Ending Violence Against Women

December 13, 2015 By HKearl

Global conference on ending violence against womenFrom December 9-10, 2015, around 300 people from 70 countries came together in Istanbul, Turkey for the Ending Violence against Women: Building on Progress to Accelerate Change conference. It overlapped with the final days of the global 16 Days of Activism to end Violence against Women.

It has been 20 years since the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action – Violence against Women, was adopted by 189 countries in 1995. One of the meeting objectives was to review our progress and our challenges since the Beijing Declaration. Also, with the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) adopted by world leaders in September 2015, another meeting objective was to hear government leaders commit to ending violence against women.

The conference brought together high-level government ministers from Turkey (including the Prime Minister Ahmet Davutoğlu) and 16 other countries, along with practitioners, experts and civil society to assess progress, share data and good practices, and identify challenges.

As a UN summary of the conference says, “Calling for zero tolerance and immediate action to end the global epidemic of violence against women, officials urged that existing laws protecting women be vigorously enforced, and emphasized prevention, survivor services, the need for reliable data, and the importance of engaging men and boys to stop violence against women and girls.”

Safe Cities Panel
Safe Cities Panel

I was part of a breakout session panel on safe cities. Laura Capobianco, policy specialist for safe public spaces, UN Women, talked about the Global Safe Cities Initiative that launched in five cities in 2010 and is now in 23 cities. Suneeta Dhar, the director of Jagori in India talked about their awareness-raising work to address sexual harassment in public spaces. I spoke as a UN consultant about the Microsoft-funded project I worked on regarding women’s access to mobile phones and how the phones may be used to prevent, document or respond to sexual harassment and related forms of sexual violence in urban public spaces.

I took a lot of notes throughout the conference. Here are some of the highlights, broken out by session or panel. **Most of what I write is paraphrasing what the speaker said unless there are quotation marks.**

 

A Sampling of Statements from UN Leaders:

Ban Ki-Moon, Secretary-General of the UN (The UN director in Turkey read his statement):

He’s been working to rally men through the #HeforShe campaign, UNiTE campaign, and his male network. But he says we must all do more to stop all forms of abuse.

He is very upset about extremist violence against women, like the Taliban shooting Malala in Pakistan, the kidnapping of school girls in Nigeria, and the systematic rape of women in Syria by ISIS members. Women are more than victims however, they are agents of change.

The Sustainable Development Goals can only be achieved if we end VAW.

 

Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women

“Violence against women and girls remains one of the most widespread and tolerated violations of human rights — but it is not inevitable, and we can prevent it. We are here today to say that this is enough. Now is the moment for coherently executed, decisive action to eliminate violence against women and girls for good.”

She also talked about how 135 laws on domestic violence and rape were passed in countries since Beijing, but we need to make sure the laws are enforced. She said we need to change the norms as beliefs go deep. We need to emphasize prevention efforts and focus on changing attitudes. We need zero tolerance of VAW from our leaders.

She also said that girls need our special attention. They are the bridge to the future, but currently are bearing the brunt of violence. And lastly, she talked about how VAW is at the center of the Sustainable Development Goals and it is an obstacle to achieving them. We need boys and men rallied to help end VAW.

 

Dr. Babatunde Osotimehin, Executive Director of UNFPA:

He talked about women and girls he’s met: the girls who are harassed and grabbed on their way to the public toilet; girls married off at age 13; young women raped on university campuses; and the 800 women who needlessly die each day from childbirth, which he also sees as a form of VAW because they are denied proper medical attention.

“There is no country where there is not violence. Women and girls can’t change it alone. We need men and boys to stand up and say no….There are around 59 million 10-year-old girls in the world. What can we achieve if they all can go to school, earn a living, and live free from violation and violence?”

Twenty-five percent of countries’ budgets go to defense, but who are they defending if the people are facing violence at home? Governments need to allocate more money in their budgets to address issues affecting women. The best asset of a country is its people, especially women and girls. Their needs must be prioritized.

 

A Sampling of Statements from National Leaders:

Turkish Prime Minister Ahmet Davutoğlu

“We will take all the measures to prevent the violence against women. This is our duty as we are the law makers, but laws are not the only and precise solution against violence. It’s very important how we position ourselves as human beings. The mentality is the key point. The way of removing violence from life is to close the ways that goes to violence from the start.”

[Read an article about his speech.]

 

Turkey: Dr. Sema Ramazanoğlu, Minister for Family and Social Policies

“Violence against women is a barrier to sustainable human development. Governments should have zero tolerance for violence against women and girls.”

 

Japan: Miki Yamada, Parliamentary Vice Minister for Foreign Affairs

They are promoting comprehensive measures to address VAW, such as recently increasing the counseling centers for domestic violence from 73 to 261. They have a national action plan around VAW and they donate money for other anti-VAW efforts, such as in the DRC.

 

Georgia: Tea Tsulukiani, Minister of Justice

Many people in Georgia feel that domestic violence should be kept as a family matter. The government is trying to change that attitude. Another challenge is ending forced early marriages. They’ve increased the penalty against parents who force girls to marry young but it’s hard to enforce it. Girls may already have children by the time something is done and then that complicates things. Thus the implementation of laws is a challenge. Impunity and implementation can only be effective if there’s a cultural shift.

 

Republic of Moldova: Nighina Azizov, Deputy Minister of Labour, Social Protections and Family

They adopted a domestic violence law in 2008. They are working on ways to encourage more victims to seek help. Right now, domestic violence is a silent problem. They have a law that promotes a 40% leadership quota for women as it’s crucial to have more women in politics. If there were an equal number of women and men as leaders, they believe it would be a more human society.

 

Ukraine: Serhiy Ustymenko, Deputy Minister of Social Policies

They are trying to design real mechanisms to address VAW. They’re trying to do gender-oriented budgeting. They expect there will be an increase in domestic violence rates as soldiers come home with PTSD and other baggage that may make them more violent. Thus, domestic violence will be a focus of the government.

 

Indonesia: Yohana Yembise, Minister of Women Empowerment and Child Protection

They have a VAW law and eight female ministers, but still there is a lot of domestic violence. In looking at mapping and data, there are a lot of incidents of sexual abuse across the country. It’s hard to change mindsets.

 

Albania: Bardhylka Kospiri, Deputy Minister of Social Welfare

They have increased the number of women leaders in government, including the Minister of Defense. They have a commitment to end domestic violence and support the empowerment of women’s rights. “We must involve all partners if we want to see results.”

 

India: Lalitha Kumaramangalam, Chair of the National Commission on Women

At the local village government level, there is a 33% quota for women leaders. At first these women were family and relatives of male leaders but now, more than 50% are women and many are leaders in their own right. They are more focused than men on issues like sanitation, water supply, education and other projects that will help communities. Health issues used to be last on the list but now as there are more women leaders, it’s becoming a priority. Also, six women are senior leaders at the national level, including the minister of finance.

 

Costa Rica: Alejandra Mora Mora, Minister of Women’s Affairs

There are more laws on VAW and quotas for women in leadership, but they haven’t seen much progress in the implementation of the laws. No matter how much the laws have changed, it does not mean an improvement on social issues. These are cultural, deeply rooted norms. We have to reach out to men. Some progress has been achieved but more needs to be done. We need to talk to young men and women in schools.

 

Democratic Republic of Congo: Jeannine Mabunda, Personal Rep of the DRC Head of State on Sexual Violence in Conflict and Child Recruitment and Member of Parliament

The conflict in the country that ended in 2013 had a lot of collateral damage, including the rape of women. Congo was depicted in the media as complacent about VAW, but they changed that tone at the highest level. They pushed for the application of laws and she personally sat in courts across the country to set the tone that this was important. The message to the military was that they would be held accountable for raping women. In 2013 they signed an action plan with the UN on addressing VAW in the military. It’s important to change the tone in a country and address VAW at the highest level.

 

Afghanistan: Simar Samar, Chair of the Afghanistan Independent Human Rights Commission

Fifteen years ago women were imprisoned in Afghanistan but now a lot has changed. They have a right to equality under the law and there is a 25% quota for women in parliament. They ratified CEDAW in 2003. They have special prosecutors on VAW in some provinces. They’re in a training phase. After 38 years of war, she feels optimistic.

 

Liberia: ??

Addressing female genital mutilation (FGM) is a challenge. They tried including it in a 2011 Children’s Law that prohibited all forms of violence against children but didn’t specific FGM. Now they’re trying to add it to a domestic violence bill because FGM is done by family members.

They’re trying to be strategic in how they ban FGM.

 

The State of Palestine: Daoud El Deek, Deputy Assistant, Ministry of Social Affairs

They are under Israeli occupation and try to demand full protection for all citizens. They have a national strategy for combatting VAW. They are developing a social protection system, building up forensic evidence and efforts to prosecute VAW and increasing data collection on VAW.

 

Sudan: Mashaier Al Dawalab, Federal Minister of Welfare and Social Security

They have a five year strategy plan on good governance and the rule of law. After the Darfur conflict, the government had a committee to declare zero tolerance on VAW. They’re developing a nation plan of action coordinated with UN agencies.

 

PANELS AND ROUNDTABLES WITH EXPERTS:

Global Trends and Practices on Ending VAW –
Where have we come since Beijing and what do we need to do?

Dr. Hijran Huseynova, Chair, State Commission for Family, Women and Children Affairs, Azerbaijan

After the Beijing conference, she helped create the national department on women and children affairs to address issues raised at the conference. By 2005, they had adopted national laws against domestic violence, for gender equality, and raised the legal age of marriage up from 12 years to 16 years. They have special trainings for judges and at universities to try to help the laws be enforced properly.

When the moderator asked her specifically about forced early marriages, she said that parents who arrange them often do so to secure a “good fate” for their children. So to disrupt that cultural norm, they show them that early marriages create problems instead of solve them, such as unhealthy babies born to girls too young to be having them. There are many NGOs across the country working on changing these cultural norms.

 

Dr. Joy Ngozi Ezeilo, Faculty of Law, University of Nigeria and Executive Director, Women’s Aid Collective

In her country, the Beijing conference helped move women to a place of having a voice. Laws began to address gender equality issues, such as revising inheritance laws to be fair to women. For the first time women had a voice in the constitution. In Nigeria there is backlash against women’s progress, however, including kidnappings, rapes, and sexual slavery of female students by Boko Haram. So they are working on making schools safe for girls because “the girl child’s education is essential.”

 

Suneeta Dhar, Director of JAGORI, India

The 2012 Delhi gang rape brought about more consciousness about VAW because of the activism by students and ordinary people. While a lot had happened in the country since Beijing, it had not addressed all types of VAW, such as acid throwing, stalking and sexual harassment in public spaces, which are everyday experiences of women and girls. We need to recognize the continuum of violence: in the home, on the streets, in schools and the workplaces, in refugee camps, etc.

While we work to change mindsets, we need the highest political commitment on VAW. We need to improve access to justice.

The moderator asked the panelists about whether or not cultural norms were a barrier to seeing a shift.

Ezeilo: Yes, there is reluctancy over modernization. Some people say women’s rights is a form of Western values being focused in African countries. And not all leaders help, with some committing or condoning VAW.

Huseynova: Yes, women are the main people who raise boys and girls and they are instilling the culture. Women need to respect ourselves and stand up. In families where women are educated and have their own income, they have authority, dignity and their sons are more likely to respect women. We need to have equal rights in families. Many girls are thriving in schools and universities but struggle in their professions because if they have a family, the roles are still unequal.

Suneeta; We need more discourse on bodily integrity. We need types of masculinity that is healthy. This is everyone’s issue and we all have a role to play.

 

Panel on the Prevention of VAW

Ashufta Alam, VAW and Girls Team Leader, Inclusive Societies Department, Policy Division (UK/DFID):

DFID has increased their investment in ending VAW by 60% over the past two years. DFID has committed to building an evidence base. A “What works to prevent VAW” project is well funded and interventions are being tested at the community and family level.

 

Lara Fergus, Director of Policy and Evaluation “Our Watch,” Australia

Their work focuses on improving responses to VAW. Over the last 20 years, despite the efforts in place, Australia has the same high prevalence of violence. So we “need to turn off the tap. We need to change the practices and attitudes that allow it to happen.”

Over the past five years, they’ve run pilots and pulled together the results to look at policies on how to prevent men’s violence and better understand what attitudes drive VAW. There is information in the new report “A Framework to Underpin Action to Prevent VAW.”

Ultimately, VAW is drive by gender inequality. Attitudes that women are inferior lead to an increase in VAW. We can’t just do awareness raising. It’s not enough. We need to shift deeply held attitudes by shifting structures. Women’s economic empowerment is crucial. We can’t do any single, short-term projects. We need to collaborate across governments, schools, sports groups, and faith-based organizations in long-term ways with outcomes we can measure.

You can find more information at www.ourwatch.org.au.

 

Natsnet Ghebrebrhan, Raising Voices, Uganda

Raising Voices has a toolkit on how to prevent VAW and HIV/AIDS. There are four phases to the kit: start, awareness, support and action (SASA). SASA is effective because its process focuses on bringing behavior changes by exposing communities to new ideas and attitudes and then they can decide to change. Power imbalances cause VAW. SASA helps everyone know they have the power to change.

SASA engages in local activism, media messaging and advocacy, publications and trainings. They help community members create their own change and help women and men engage in peer-to-peer leadership and influencing.

Raising Voices studied people who were exposed to SASA compared to a control group, both in Kampala. The study found SASA was very effective, including by reducing the acceptance of intimate partner violence (76% said it was unacceptable versus 26% of the control group). SASA helped reduce levels of intimate partner violence by 52% in the previous year.

The research gave them hope that violence can be prevented within a single generation.

SASA is now used in 20 countries by 60 organizations. It takes three years to go through the four phases of the program so there is a need for long-term commitment from donors and others to seeing it work.

 

Nguyen Thi Nga, Ministry of Labor, Invalids and Social Affairs, Vietnam

VAW is a serious issue, but there is not much national data. After the Beijing meeting, laws were passed, such as a Gender Equality Law (2006), Domestic Violence Law (2007) and a law on human trafficking (2011). There are many groups and agencies working on these issues in various ways, including policy dialogues, street music and flash mobs so they can reach a range of audiences. They have a project called Safety School, Friendly and Gender Equality. It’s at 10 secondary and 10 high schools in Hanoi. “VAW can be ended if we have collaborations.”

 

Panel on VAW – Data and Evidence

Dr. Rashidah Shuib, Centre for Research on Women and Gender, University of Science, Malaysia:

She said we need to conduct mapping and a better understanding of what’s going on with VAW. The 1995 Beijing platform called for evidence. It took many countries a long time to do anything about it, including in Malaysia. Her research department collected data on VAW for the first time.

 

Dr. Claudia Garcia Moreno Esteva, Team Lead for Sexual Health, Gender, Reproductive Health and Research, World Health Organization (WHO), Switzerland:

WHO developed methodology that’s a gold standard for research on VAW.

Before the Beijing meeting, she personally saw VAW as a women’s health issue and she faced backlash for having that viewpoint. At Beijing, there was a section on health that included VAW, which caused an important change. 1996 was the first WHO meeting on VAW and they discussed the health links.

One recommendation from the meetings was to find scientifically sound data that could confirm what women’s groups were saying about VAW. WHO set up a multi-country study on domestic violence and related issues. They had no money and it took two years to raise the funds to implement the study. They began it in 1999 and published the results in 2005. They set out to develop and test new instruments to strengthen the link between women’s organizations and policy makers.

They created the first ethical and safety recommendations for researchers working on these topics, recommendations which are widely used today.

Their latest 2013 report includes 81 countries and territories. The number of studies on VAW prevalence has increased since the mid-2000s and now 100+ countries have data on domestic violence and some forms of sexual violence but not other forms. There are still gaps.

“Getting data is instrumental in getting countries to acknowledge these issues. We need all countries to generate the data.”

 

Dr. Ilknur Yuksel Kaptanoglu, Project Director “Research on Domestic Violence against Women in Turkey,” Institute of Population Studies, Hacettepe University, Turkey

Her department oversaw two large nationally representative studies on domestic violence in 2008 and 2014, using the same questions and methodology, though the 2014 study included stalking. They followed the WHO survey, adapting it for Turkey. They trained nearly 200 interviewers. In 2008 they surveyed 24k households and 15k in 2014. About half of all participants were female. They used complex samples to gather accurate data for policy makers. They had financial support from the ministry of family and social affairs for the 2014 study. The steering committee includes government groups, NGOs, and academics.

Both studies showed that 4 out of 10 women had experienced interpersonal violence. They found that women knowing their rights and the laws doesn’t increase the change they will access services. The bureaucratic procedure appears as an obstacle in combatting VAW and gender-related norms and beliefs justify male authority and VAW.

Her advice is if you do multiple studies, spread them across 10 or more years to see if policies have helped.

 

Francesca Grum, Chief, Social and Housing Statistics Section, UN Statistics Commission (UNSC)

UNSC has been involved in measuring and monitoring VAW since 2006. They have developed indicators to assist countries in measuring the breadth of VAW. In 2008 UNSC created indicators and adopted them in 2009. In 2015, an inter-agency group worked on the sustainable development goals and they will be presented to the statistics community in 2015 to review and agree on.

The sustainable development goals include 17 goals, 169 targets, with 28 member states working together since June 2015. Two plenary meetings and various online discussions have taken place. The current list has 220 indicators and 160 are green, and have full agreement from 28 states, and 60 are gray and are still under review. The SDG indicators related to VAW will have prevalence questions about violence by an intimate partner and sexual violence by a non-intimate partner. There are new questions proposed, including ones about physical and sexual harassment by perpetrator and place (e.g. streets by strangers! School by classmates!), human trafficking, homicides, and young people 18-24 who experienced sexual violence by age 18. The SDGs will be finalized in March 2016.

 

Panel on Challenges and Emerging Issues for the 2030 Development Framework

Ramiz Alakabarov, Programmed Director at UNFPA

After the 2010 earthquake in Haiti, he went into a maternity ward and found it destroyed and full of acts of violence. Groups of men were raping women in the maternity ward, stealing food from the mothers and babies. UNFPA brought in security and vans to take women to other health services. They offered them legal help (even if they were illiterate). Women were identifying gang members and then in retaliation gang members murdered some of them. He realized ending VAW would require a cross-collaboration.

This panel focused on Goal 5 of the sustainable development goal (SDG) and the 9 targets. Full implementation matters. We must address structural barriers and aim to end VAW and discrimination in all sectors. Agenda 2030 is global and we can’t leave any women behind. We must act now to achieve lasting gender equality. We must recall our accountability and UNFPA is committed to monitoring and closely supporting countries as they implement the SDGs.

 

Purna Sen, Director of Policy Division, UN Women:

Today is Human Rights Day and the 16th day of the 16 Days of Activism. Violence is ubiquitous across the world. We are endlessly creative in how we abuse women. That’s the concern that brings us together.

 

Karima Bennoune, Special Rappourteur in the field of cultural rights, Women Living Under Muslim Laws

Her father was from Algeria and he was a university professor who spoke out against extremism. What was happening in the 1990s in Algeria is similar to what is happening now with ISIS, including sexual slavery and rape. What if the world had listened to women’s rights activists then in Algeria and Afghanistan? But now extremism has spread. We now must learn from other countries.

This extremist violence (abduction, rape, sexual slavery, the murder of women’s rights activists) is the implementation of fundamentalist dogma. If we’re to end violence we must tackle the disease itself and the underlying issues. We need a human rights strategy in accordance with human rights laws. Women must be at the core of ending extremism. We need to listen to and empower women, especially those fighting at the front lines. Women’s rights defenders are too often left out of the bargaining. They should not be added on but should be a core of the fight.

Human rights are central to the SDGs. We need all countries to be part of it. It’s about all forms of VAW. We must think about those left behind and put them first. Think about the most unwanted and stigmatized, the women who are locked at home, women who are marginalized by disability, race, caste, etc, and put them first.

The biggest risk factor to vulnerability is being born female. It’s in our collective efforts that we make progress.

Human Rights law says neither culture nor religion justifies VAW. Culture can be a tool of empowerment for women and we can frame the message as women are taking back their right to culture. Extremists claim to be the only ones who can dictate culture but we need to let women decide what culture they want to support.

 

Yohana Yembise, Minister of Women Empowerment and Child Projection, Indonesia

The president has committed to supporting SDGs. They are launching the #HeforShe campaign on December 22, which is Mother’s Day in their country. They have some laws but need to find the root of the problem. They need more research on why there is VAW. Why is it hard to stop, to change people’s mindsets? “We can’t let culture hold us back.”

Peter Mladenov, International Coordinator in Charge of Advocacy and Partnerships, Youth Peer Education Network, Bulgaria

He became a peer educator at 14 years old and he saw what the empowerment of people means. He works to promote reproductive health and rights and to engage young people on the grassroots level. SDGs are the first time grassroots, on the ground people are having their voice heard. We must recognize the importance of youth participation, which means listening to them and hearing their needs and what they want to achieve. SDGs 3, 4, and 5 all affect young people. Gender equality is crucial for the development of society.

 

Olivier Adam, Deputy Regional Director for Europe and the CIS, UNDP

How do we create momentum to enforce the SDGs? We need more and better coordination among groups. We need less money for war and more money for empowerment. We must bring in new financing sources and collect national data in every country. The commitment should be to leave no one behind.

[[During the Q&A, one audience member suggested that if Superheroes are being created by ISIS etc as recruitment tools, we need to create our own Superheroes, including women.]]

 

Panel on Engaging Men and Boys to End VAW

Edouard Munyamaliza, Executive Secretary, Rwanda Men Resource Center, Rwanda:

More than one-fourth of the country suffers from PTSD after the genocide. They have to work to overcome gender and social norms regarding VAW. “Men are compassionate human beings, why are they mean to those whom they love the most?”

 

Erkin Latipov, Vice President, Tajikistan’s Taekwando and Kick-boxing Federation, Tajikistan

They use sports to empower girls and change gender norms for boys and girls.

 

Nodar Andguladze, Georgian Rugby Union, Georgia

He’s a former professional rugby player and he and other players have a Men Against Violence effort and hold discussions with men across the country. Men must help build a better future for our kids. Men commit most violence against women and men. “It’s time to speak out and speak loud and alongside women’s organizations and others who are not always heard.”

 

Sophie Dataushvilli, Co-Founder, We Care, Georgia:

In Georgia, it’s a patriarchal society and women are seen as subservient in the family. She and a friend began an organization to encourage fathers to be involved with their children. They had campaigns like “Dad, Read me a Book” and recorded videos with famous fathers in the country. They did Fathers for Fathers with famous men photographed holding messages to other fathers to be involved with their children. They asked famous fathers to write letters and created a book of them. UNDP gave them funds and they created “reality tv” series where a famous dad has to take care of his kids all day one day to show viewers that men can do all aspects of the childcare. All of their campaigns have been popular.

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“I’d just been harassed for the first time”

December 11, 2015 By Contributor

So one summer I was hanging out with my best friend for a day. Keep in mind, I was 15 at the time. It was pretty hot out that day, so I had on a fairly light outfit: a pink sundress that fell right between my knees and my fingertips lengthwise, a wide-brimmed sunhat, and a pair of plain white flip-flops.

Her mom came by my apartment and picked me up so I could go over to her house (she lives a little ways out of town, definitely not within walking distance) but they needed to stop at the grocery store first. I went in with them, since I was kind of hungry and had some money on me, with the intention of buying some snacks. They took a little while, since they had a whole list of stuff to get, but all I picked out was a package of brownies from the bakery and a couple candy bars that were on sale. Since they had a full cart and I only had three things, I decided to just go into the express lane while they went through the normal one next to me.

As I was putting my stuff on the counter, though, this creepy guy who had to be 50 or 60 or so with this huge, scraggly beard got in line behind me (there were three other lanes open) and started putting his stuff on the conveyor without putting up one of those divider sticks first. Naturally, the cashier got confused and asked me, “are you two together?” I know she meant PAYING together, and I just looked over at him for a second, looked back to her, and said no.

But this guy, this creep who was literally probably as old as or older than my grandpa, just looks at me with this creepy suggestive smile and says, “I wouldn’t mind if we were.” Like, this couldn’t have been the only time he’d done this. It just felt too planned. At this point I could literally just FEEL his eyes glancing all over me and checking me out. It made me want to lose my lunch right then and there.

My friend was still in the next checkout aisle over with her mom watching this all go down, and I could see her eyes go wide as I glanced over at her. It registered with me immediately that I’d just been harassed for the first time.

And although I was absolutely petrified on the inside, my face and voice remained completely deadpan as I looked over at the creep and said “I’m 15.” At this point even the cashier was giving the guy the “are you kidding me” stare.

And this guy’s expression didn’t even change, really. I mean, the news obviously came as a surprise to him, but he still looked intent on flirting with me. What a pervert. “You don’t look 15,” he said back to me.

Now I was really torn between just walking away and letting it go or just straight up slapping the guy, but I was inside a store, and my friend and her mom were literally right in the next aisle over, so I didn’t want to start up some big scene. I ended up just paying for my snacks and walking over to my friend (and kind of hiding behind her a little because my skin was crawling at this point) to wait for their cashier to finish ringing them up. My friend consoled me and tried to calm me down as we left, and thankfully I was feeling pretty much better when we got back to her house.

Seriously, though. Not only should that guy not have been hitting on me in a public place like that in the first place, but he should have at least stopped when I told him I was 15. I mean, come on. I’m a child, dude. And you’re, like, at least 50. That’s just sick. That was the first time I’ve ever been publicly harassed, and I have a feeling it won’t be the last.

– Abby

Location: Checkouts at the grocery store in town

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Croatia: Map the Violence, Break the Stereotypes

December 10, 2015 By Correspondent

Marinella Matejcic, Croatia, SSH Blog Correspondent

CroatiaMapToday, information is everything. The possibilities are endless: by using your computer, you can check the weather in a village behind the seven seas, read about growing carrots in a jar or, in some countries, check what’s the crime ratio in your neighborhood by clicking a couple of icons.

Yes, the last one is the topic of today’s blog post: is it possible to map violence? Sure it is. You just have to know how and where to look for the data.

In the early spring of 2015, a group of volunteers from two organisations – Hollaback Croatia and Code for Croatia – decided to join their forces to produce a website that would deliver information on the numbers of different crimes that happen in the Republic of Croatia. The initiative is aware that there is a strict and proper frame for combating violence in the family or the workplace, but that does not stand for street violence and/or harassment. They’ve recognized the possibilities of technology and wanted to change things. “The initiative works with zero funds and on the entirely voluntarily basis” – Miroslav Schlossberg from Code from Croatia told us.

One of the goals of the project was to raise the transparency of work of the bodies of public and state administration. As Croatia has a good Law on the right to access information and the Ministry of the Interior is open to cooperation, they started collecting information on crimes that occurred in the last five years. Ana Maria Filipovic Grcic, a volunteer from Hollaback Croatia said, that the idea itself was nothing new: similar things already exist in other countries. Per instance, India has the most criminal maps like the Croatian team is developing, except that they’ve already made an app that refreshes the data in real time. After all, India, unfortunately, is one of the countries with highest sexual violence and harassment ratio, and this is one of the ways that the community decided to fight it.

Hollaback! Croatia is already mapping citizen’s personal experience of harassment in public space. The team that develops Croatian application believes that by joining more sources of data (the official ones, from the police, and the data submitted by citizens) they will be able to provide a more reliable service. For that matter, they are collecting the general data, without names and details, just plain facts: when and where, and what the qualification of the crime is from both the Ministry and the citizens. The initiative is interested to find out how often do the particular crimes occur and what is the general safety level of the cities they are collecting the data for.

By mapping and providing the information on the crime rates in the capital of Croatia, Zagreb, and the rest of the country, it would be easier to learn what the real problems are and why is that violence happening after all. With an information sheet like that, it would be possible to conclude what can be done by the municipalities, do prevent the crimes from happening. It is important to highlight that the a map like this would help break the stereotypes on some neighbourhoods’ reputations and to show that the attacks are happening all over the country, and it’s not related to the time of the day and a particular public space.

The biggest part of the project is carried by the expert group Code for Croatia with help from the HollaBack initiative. There are five people on the team, but they are always looking for an extra pair of hands and a source of reliable financing. Mapping the violence is a significant joint project, which is a substantial evidence that, for starters, good will, time and experience really can change the world.

Marinella is a freelance journalist/writer, feminist activist, and soon-to-be administrative law student. She writes for Croatian portal on gender, sex and democracy called Libela.org and covers CEE stories for globalvoicesonline.org. Follow her on Twitter @mmatejci.

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16 Days: Human Rights Day (Day 16)

December 10, 2015 By HKearl

Today is Human Rights Day and also the final day of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. That’s because violence against women IS a human rights violation. Everyone should live lives from from violence.

Ministers and Deputy Ministers from 17 countries talk talk about violence against women in their country and what they will do about it.
Ministers and Deputy Ministers from 17 countries talk talk about violence against women in their country and what they will do about it.

For the last two days, I’ve had the honor to attend — and today present at — a global conference on ending violence against women (VAW) in Istanbul, Turkey, organized by UN agencies and the government of Turkey and timed to fall within the end of the 16 Days (there’s been lots of orange everywhere!).

Via UN Women’s website:

“The two-day meeting will be held 20 years after the landmark Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action – Violence against Women, was adopted by 189 countries in 1995. Turkey, being the host of the international meeting, echoes the leading role the country has played as the first government to ratify the Istanbul Convention, which sets legally binding standards to prevent violence against women and girls, protect victims and punish perpetrators.

Meeting objectives include reviewing progress and challenges since the Beijing Declaration; sharing the latest data and good practices to prevent and respond to violence against women and girls; and, importantly in light of the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) adopted by world leaders in September 2015, to get fresh political commitments from Governments to end violence against women.”

UN estimates 300 people from around 70 countries attended. Ministers and deputy ministers of 17 countries attended and made statements of commitment to ending VAW.  We heard from the Prime Minister of Turkey yesterday and tonight at the closing reception, we heard from the mayor of Istanbul.

I took a lot of notes and will write about the highlights during my long flight home tomorrow. In the meantime, here is a UN write-up about the first day, yesterday, which includes this message:

Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women
Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women

“Violence against women and girls remains one of the most widespread and tolerated violations of human rights – but it is not inevitable, and we can prevent it. We are here today to say that this is enough. Now is the moment for coherently executed, decisive action to eliminate violence against women and girls for good,” said Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women, at the opening session.

This evening at the closing reception, she said, “In the 19th century, the world abolished slavery. In the 20th century, we ended colonialism. Now, in the 21st century, we will end violence against women. It is an idea whose time has come.”

Yes, it has!

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