I have had street harassment happen to me multiple times, but there is one that stands out the most.
The day was one of those days you just feel as if you are walking on air. I was in a used bookstore browsing among their selections when I noticed a man behind me. I thought, “Oh he must be trying to get to something in that rack so I will go over to another section and browse there until he is done” so I did that.
Yet he followed me over to where I had gone, that in itself was creepy, but then he said, “Excuse me this is probably inappropriate but I just had to tell you, you look really sexy in that outfit”.
For me this was extremely terrifying I was not wearing anything revealing and this one man with his one comment effectively ruined my entire day. I went and got my friend I had came with and immediately left. Later I cried and I will forever remember that violated feeling this one strangers comment caused.
– Anonymous
Location: Virginia
Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?
I think that people need to start seeing this as an issue not just one of those things that happens. I recently found a site called cards against harassment and believe it is a good way to confront your harasser without having to stick around.
Share your street harassment story for the blog.
See the book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers for more idea.