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Archives for April 2016

“I heard him say all kinds of perverted things”

April 20, 2016 By Contributor

It was early in the night, I was minding my own business, riding my bike home (with my body entirely covered, not that it matters), when one of the guards in my neighbourhood saw me pass by his side. I was about to wave/nod at him since I’ve “known” him for years when I heard him say all kinds of perverted things at me, plus give a very dirty and unnerving look.

I turned around and kept my speed as I looked at him with an appalling look on my face so that he saw who I was (one of the people who pay him for making sure streets are safe, ironically).

I’d been greeting him with a smile on my face for two years and now I avoid walking past that block since I feel so ashamed for what he did and… he’s still there!

This is only one case out of an uncountable amount of harassment I cope with on a daily basis, which is very consuming of my time and energy and comes from both familiar and unfamiliar faces around where I live (which is a highly-regarded neighbourhood by the society…)

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Unfortunately, due to the amount of insecurity in the streets of Buenos Aires, I’ve been told by professionals to keep minding my own business so as to preserve my physical safety. I don’t know how to react anymore, which has negative effects on my mental health

– Anonymous

Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina

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“These particular occurrences stuck with me’

April 19, 2016 By Contributor

I have two distinct separate stories that stood out to me more than all the other incidents of harassment that I’ve dealt with.

The first one happened around the end of July of last year. I was walking to the shop on my dinner break from work whilst on my phone (literally tending to my own business) and this, I would say, 20 y/o guy in a car drove to a traffic light ignorantly playing his music way too loudly. I turned to look at the commotion briefly and then looked back at my phone. The next minute I heard the loudest wolf whistle at my direction (apart from a few maybe 10 y/o boys running past me and an old couple sat on a bench I was the only one there so I knew it was directed at me), I looked back at the guy with a blank expression, clearly with lack of interest and again tended to my own business.

The second story occurred quite recently. I was in Ibiza and stood in the terminal of an airport waiting to board my plane back to the UK and I was looking at nothing in particular when I glanced at this guy who was looking at me. I looked away thinking we had just awkwardly made eye contact and left it at that, five minutes later I caught the guy again, just looking me, and he made absolutely no effort to look away and he continued to just gawk at me for a good and heavy thirty to forty minutes or so. It just baffled me as to how, according to him, it was completely okay to just f*****g look at me up and down with a small grin, like as if he was enjoying it.

I know these stories aren’t that big of a deal compared to other bigger harassment incidents that happen, but these particular occurrences stuck with me more for whatever reason.

– Anonymous

Location: UK and Ibiza airport

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Pervical Beer Company Jokes about Street Harassment

April 18, 2016 By Contributor

By Britni de la Cretaz

No matter how many times women and other marginalized folks make the point that street harassment isn’t a joke, it seems that advertisers aren’t getting the message. Last week, a new local brewing company out of Boston, Massachusetts, aired their very first TV spot. It ran during the Red Sox game and, unfortunately, it was problematic.

The commercial begins with a woman walking into a liquor store, the camera (and the store clerk’s eyes) lingering on her butt. She buys two six packs of Percival Beer Company’s beer and walks home, being subjected to catcalls like, “Hey, let me get some of that!” on her way. When she gets home, she tells her male partner that she’s never doing that again due to the harassment she received. The ad then cuts to her partner buying the same beer and facing the same catcalls on his walk home, presumably for a laugh.

When I tweeted at the company about the ad, they at first tried to explain away why the ad was OK, telling me that the “video also shows a man being catcalled.”

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But as I (and another Twitter user) pointed out to them, men and women being catcalled are not comparable.

The thing is, when a woman is catcalled by a man, there is a power differential that doesn’t exist when a man is harassed by that same man. When women are harassed by men on the street, we legitimately fear for our safety. Often times, that harassment escalates into physical violence. Even if the woman is being catcalled about the beer and not her body, the intentions don’t change the impact of those comments. For a woman walking through public space, we don’t recognize the difference. What we hear is unsolicited commentary directed our way from men we don’t know. And this isn’t a funny hypothetical for us; it’s a reality that women and other marginalized people face on a daily basis when they walk down the street.

So while we can laugh at the man being catcalled, that’s an indication of the male privilege (and homophobia)  inherent in that interaction. He has the privilege to be taken aback and walk on from the harassment because it’s not seen as threatening to him, whereas, even in the commercial, his female partner makes it clear that the same interactions made her feel unsafe.

To their credit, when faced with two women who were unhappy with their commercial, Pervical Beer Company responded that they are “still growing. Making mistakes but learning.” But these kinds of mistakes don’t need to happen. These kinds of mistakes happen when there are no women at the table to say, “Hey, this isn’t actually a good idea.” Mistakes like this are an indication that companies need to diversify their staff behind the scenes so that things like this don’t happen in the first place.

It’s even more disheartening that this ad is airing during Red Sox games, as the last people that need to have the idea that street harassment is a joke reinforced is the largely male audience that watches sporting events. Intentional or not, this commercial is harmful.

We need our advertisers to do better than this if we ever hope to end violence against marginalized folks in public space. So advertisers, the next time you think you want to make a joke about street harassment, I have some advice for you: don’t.

Britni de la Cretaz is a freelance writer, feminist parent, and Red Sox enthusiast living in Boston. She has been organizing against street harassment locally since 2011. Follow her on Twitter at @britnidlc.

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: beer commercial, Boston, catcalling joke, offensive ad

Bonus Day: International Anti-Street Harassment Week

April 18, 2016 By HKearl

Even though April 16 was the official end of International Anti-Street Harassment Week, a few more events took place on April 17.

Women for a Change held a workshop for youth in Buea, Cameroon.

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Hollaback! Ottawa hosted a chalkwalk in Ottawa, Canada.

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Also, many virtual campaigns took place across the week:

OCAC Bolivia:

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Hollaback! Cuenca, Ecuador:

4.12.16 Hollaback Cuenca - Ecuador 9 4.14.16 Hollaback Cuenca - Ecuador 2 4.14.16 Hollaback Cuenca - Ecuador 9

HarassMap in Egypt:

4.11.16 Imprint Movement - 'It's ok' won't help her getting her right back, an official complaint will get it 4.12.16 Imprint Movement - 'The law in on your side... Speak UP' 4.13.16 HarassMap Egypt - 82 percent of bystanders dont intervene bc they think SH is not a big deal

Stop Harcelement de Rue, Paris, France:

4.12.16 Paris, France 8 4.12.16 Paris, France 4 4.12.16 Paris, France 3

OCAC Guatemala:

4.13.16 OCAC Guatemala 2 4.13.16 OCAC Guatemala 3 4.13.16 OCAC Guatemala

OCAC Nicaragua:

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Safecity India, #MySafeCity:

 4.16.16 Our Program and Outreach Officer in Mumbai, Anu Salelkar's safe city is one where more women and girls occupy public spaces. India, Safecity  4.16.16 Soumodeep's safe city treats accidents as crimes and not as political issues. India, Safecity  4.16.16 Elsa Marie D'silva. India, Safecity
Touching - India 4.14.16 Safecity India Verbal Harassment - India

Mexico. 20 women living in Mexico City from different ages, occupations and backgrounds worked together towards the development of a campaign against sexual harassment, “Space is public, my body is not”. The artwork consists of a series of photographs created by the visual artist Cerrucha :

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Nepal. #VoicesinCrisis:

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The Philippines, Stand Up, Speak Out- From Streets to Schools – a campaign of the Game Changers with the UN Safe Cities Metro Manila Programme:

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“Come here gorgeous”

April 17, 2016 By Contributor

I was walking home from a friends house when I was about 13 and I was in my school uniform; shirt, trousers and blazer, when two middle-aged white men came up behind me and started talking about my arse. They started getting closer to me until they were right behind me and they were trying to touch me. Needless to say, at 13 I was terrified, having never dealt with this before, and not in an area where I was familiar, and so I started walking faster, turning every time I could, but they continued to follow me.

I then ran down the street and ended up knocking into a lady walking home with her shopping bags and asked her for directions back to my school so that I would know where I was going to get home. This made the men behind me drop back and eventually I got away from them.

I then arrived on the road opposite my school and as I was walking down (it was a dual carriage way) a man in a van started yelling at me from his window and leaning half of his body out of it, trying to grab at me saying, “Come here gorgeous”.

That was the first time I was ever harassed on the street, but from the age of 11, men I didn’t know catcalled me.

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It depends on how you feel at the time. At first I was too scared to do anything and so I ran away, but when it was boys from my school doing it, I reported it to my head of year. The next time it happened on the street I kicked the man and ran away because he had his head in my boobs. After a while you get used to having to deal with it, but the best you can do is to report it to someone who can actually do something about it.

– SKA

Location: London, UK

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