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Archives for June 2016

“Will I get shouted at on the street today or will I be hunted down like an animal?”

June 12, 2016 By Contributor

My girlfriend (now ex) and I were sat at a pier close to the Snowdome. We weren’t holding hands or anything and a group of children suddenly started chanting “filthy lezzers!” at us and started throwing rocks at us. I managed to chase them off, but the annoying thing was that this area wasn’t even in a busy public place, it was our one safe place and it had been ruined by some bigoted children.

Other occurrences include a man slapping another partner on the ass and saying, “Ooooh I want in on that, a good shafting will straighten you f****ts out” whilst we were shopping in Farmfoods.

Even after I promptly asked what the hell was wrong with him, nobody stepped in, they simply stared as I tried to defend my partner. He just said, “Well you should’ve chosen to be straight ennit you’re just asking for it’ and promptly walked off.”

Furthermore I’ve had beer bottles/cans thrown at me from car windows whilst walking home (along Lower Gungate and the Ashby Road), the passengers would shout “f***ing lezzers piss off you c**ts” and other derogatory remarks to my partner and I, usually involving rape/death threats.

Children with water pistols and rubbish around where I live would try to assault my partner and I as their parents would sit and watch, doing nothing until I said something, but even then it would be, “Oi f**k off you pedo’s or I’ll phone the coppers on ya.”

In recent months, since I appear more masculine now, I’ve had men threatening to beat me up and rape me. Some groups of men have even tried to follow me home, which has resulted in some evenings where I’m forced to run down side alleys in order to get out of their sight so I can get away. I run home heart pounding in my chest and it makes me scared to even leave my own house as there’s been increased reports of abductions within our area It leaves me thinking, “Will I get shouted at on the street today or will I be hunted down like an animal?”

It just isn’t right, women and LGBTQ+ folks shouldn’t be being harassed at all. It’s 2016 for crying out loud, surely as a society we should be moving on from these everyday degradations?

JB

Location: Tamworth, UK

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Filed Under: LGBTQ, Stories, street harassment

“Harassed on a daily basis”

June 11, 2016 By Contributor

I am a female that is harassed on a daily basis where I am living, and it seems to be the entire neighborhood that is doing this to me.

If I’m not being attacked with sexually suggestive behavior, then I’m facing shame one way or another. I am treated as though I have no common sense and made to believe that everything I know is not how it is. When I talk to anybody, it’s automatically taken as if I am flirting as if I want them to have sex with me. When I say I’m not into it and didn’t mean to come across that way as politely as I can, then it turns to shaming me and calling me a whore, or thinking I must believe that they are not good enough for me.

– Tired of being harassed

Location: California

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Tunisia Street Harassment Study

June 11, 2016 By HKearl

In 2016 in Tunisia, the Center for Research, Studies, Documentation and Information on Women interviewed 3,000 randomly selected women, aged 18 to 64, from 200 urban and rural geographic areas across the country. 53.5 percent experienced psychological or physical violence at least once in public spaces between 2011 and 2015. Their experiences included being followed by men to being insulted or sexually harassed. 41 percent of women reported having experienced physical violence in public.

“A recent international study found that Tunisia is the only country in the Arab world and Africa where women report being harassed both for dressing religiously and for dressing too liberally. Street interviews conducted by Tunisia Live in April found that Tunisian women of various backgrounds consider street harassment “part of our daily lives.” “

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Filed Under: Resources, street harassment Tagged With: research, tunisia

Street Harasser Causes Traffic Accident

June 10, 2016 By HKearl

This street harasser caused an accident!!!!!! ‪#‎StupidandDangerous‬

Via Syracuse.com:

“Syracuse, N.Y. — A two-vehicle accident at North Salina and James streets this morning was caused by a man honking at a woman who was walking to work, witnesses said.

The man was driving a black Hyundai on Salina Street about 8:20 a..m. when he started honking at the woman, several witnesses said. The car then pulled out into the intersection and struck a pickup truck pulling a utility trailer, they said.

Minutes after the accident, the driver of the Hyundai lay nearly motionless in the road next to his car. Ambulances arrived within minutes and the man, who was conscious, was put on a stretcher.”

H/T Donna Seymour

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: dangerous, harasser causing accident, ny, syracuse

USA: CTA Ad Campaign is a Step in the Right Direction

June 10, 2016 By Correspondent

Hope Herten, IL, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Frequently, like the rest of society, I have to leave my bedroom, stop browsing through social media and watching old episodes of Sex in the City, and go outside, whether or not I am going to class, work, or anywhere else. Going places is a general requirement for being a person and when you live in a city without a car, any mode of transportation you choose is a part of the public sphere. Whether I am riding my bike, taking a cab or ride share, or on public transportation (the “L”), I enter an environment where I am surrounded by other people and in doing so, I unwillingly become the target of stares and comments by strangers.

Normally, it is a relatively uneventful experience, aside from near-death experiences on my bike, erratic cab drivers, and less than pleasant smells on the train or bus. All in all, the majority of my commute is devoid of unwanted encounters. Despite not being the majority of my experience, harassment as I am “making my way downtown” occurs frequently enough for it to stick in the back of my mind no matter where I go. As one of my friends said, “I’m a human that needs to get places and I won’t let a male stop me. (Assuming the street harasser is a male). That doesn’t mean I’m not cautious. I’m especially cautious at night or when I see a group of males around, even if it’s in the middle of the day”.

I am not one to let fear keep me from doing what I want, I am not about to let an experience or stories from friends keep me from venturing to different parts of the city, but that doesn’t mean I am not aware.

I have had more than my share of harassment experiences while on my way to work, which for me is one of the most troubling types of harassment. Not that I welcome harassment on my days off, but there is something about being yelled at or cornered on my way to work that makes the rest of the day horrible. On my bike men have yelled at me from the street and, to my horror, from their cars, pulling up beside me to say something. Less so cab drivers, but there are a handful of times that while I am using ride shares like Uber and Lyft that my driver has repeatedly hit on me and refused to give up when I denied to give them my number.

By far though, my experiences of harassment on the “L” are the most frequent and frustrating. On the train, I have been approached by men who are alone and by groups of men, telling me what they think of how I look or asking for my number. These situations are often frightening and never feel good. On one occasion when I was traveling to work a group of men, the only other people in the train car, were yelling at me, as I continued to ignore them they approached me, threatening me by asking, “Who do you think you are to ignore me?” Luckily, my stop came and they did not follow me, but it was difficult to go through an eight hour workday doing customer service after I was so shaken.  It was actually this experience in particular that motivated me to seek out organizations like Stop Street Harassment and Hollaback! to see what people were doing to stop street harassment.

When asking my friends about their experiences on the “L”, they shared similar experiences: men coming up to them, sitting next to them, relentlessly pursuing them until they are forced to leave the car. My group of friends and I must not have been the only women who have experienced serious harassment while on public transportation, because recently the Chicago Transit Authority (CTA) began an ad campaign to bring awareness to the issue.

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Ads on the trains and buses encourage passengers to not just sit by and watch fellow riders be harassed or threatened during their commute.  A CTA official told the Chicago Tribune in an interview that they are aware that the vast majority of harassment cases are not reported, “One of the main reasons for this campaign is that we want customers to report incidents they experience or witness.”

As the campaign is relatively new, many of the people with whom I spoke had not noticed the advertisements, but upon viewing images of them, they agreed that they would be helpful.  Many people agreed that bringing any sort of attention to the issue is good and could encourage bystanders to intervene and victims to report cases, but a few people whom I interviewed expressed concern that since they hadn’t noticed the ads, the efforts should be expanded and that the ads should be more eye catching. I carry the same sentiment as many of my peers, but this is definitely a step in the right direction.

Maybe one day I won’t have to practice my resting bitch face in the mirror before heading to work.

Hope is a full-time undergraduate student studying public health and Spanish in Chicago, IL. During her time in Chicago, Hope has participated in many protests and events trying to call awareness to women’s issues on campus and in the broader Chicago community. Follow her on Twitter @hope_lucille or check out her public health blog.

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Filed Under: correspondents, street harassment Tagged With: chicago, CTA, transit

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