Here’s a street harassment survey being conducted by our friends Hollaback România – ia atitudine împotriva hărțuirii. It will be the first national study in the country.
The survey closes Aug. 31! You must be Romanian to take it.
Making Public Spaces Safe and Welcoming
By HKearl
Here’s a street harassment survey being conducted by our friends Hollaback România – ia atitudine împotriva hărțuirii. It will be the first national study in the country.
The survey closes Aug. 31! You must be Romanian to take it.
By HKearl
Here are two stories that make me cheer!
“They say New Yorkers are tough. But even by big city standards, nobody is as fierce as Deanna Carter, a woman who recently busted out her phone and confronted a man who tried to masturbate in front of her on the subway.
‘Rubbing your dick? What the fuck are you doing?’ Carter shouts in the mobile video. ‘Do it again and I’m gettin’ up out this chair and I’mma bust your fuckin’ ass on this train … you rub your dick when you get off the motherfucking train. Do we fucking understand each other?’
The man nods slightly, but Carter isn’t satisfied. So she tells him to get off the train at the next stop.”
“French brand Vodka Mariette has taken a stand against street harassment with a new campaign that will see its delivery drivers sign an oath to never engage in catcalling….
In a bid to raise awareness of the issue and “set an example of proper conduct”, the brand – a French girls’ name that translates as ‘little rebel’ – has launched its ‘Yes to Vodka, No to Catcalling’ initiative that will require all truck drivers transporting Vodka Mariette to sign the ‘Drivers of Change Oath’.
The oath, which reads as follows, has been made public in the hope that other brands will follow suit: “I, the undersigned, agree to never be engaged in behaviour considered ‘street harassment’ or ‘catcalling’ towards any individual at any time. Such actions are defined as, ‘unwanted comments, gestures, and actions forced on a stranger in a public place without their consent and is directed at them because of their actual or perceived sex, gender, gender expression, or sexual orientation’. I understand that signing below is purely a good gesture moving forward and is in no way an admission of prior poor conduct.”
By Contributor
I was getting lunch at Wendy’s and a guy who was hanging out there asked me, “Do you want him to give you a foot massage along with that burger?” when the employee brought me my food. I told him, “Leave me alone.” When I asked for more ketchup because the machine was empty, the same guy said, “Oh here honey, I’LL help you” and grabbed a ridiculous amount of ketchup packets and put them on my tray, even as I was saying, “No, stop it.”
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Don’t be afraid like I was! I should have confronted this creep more directly. What was he really going to try to do in the middle of the day in a busy fast food restaurant anyways?
– Anonymous
Location: St. Petersburg, FL
Need support? Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910
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See the book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers for ideas.
By Contributor
I was on my way from New York City, I take the train everyday from Penn Station. At rush hour, Penn station is busy and often people can find it overwhelming. It was a usual day, I was wearing some grey leggings, a white t-shirt and some sneakers. As usual I was waiting for my train’s platform to be announced so I stood in the crowd listening to my Ipod. Suddenly from behind someone grabbed my ass in a very aggressive and sexual manner. I was completely shocked and turned around quickly to identify who had done it. Penn Station is so busy, so I could not 100% identify who had touched me.
My first instinct was to go to the police who were standing relatively near me.. I told them I had been grabbed and they tried to help me identify who could have done it. As I was not 100% sure they said there was not much they could do. They made me feel safer and I was glad I told somebody, but I became increasingly upset and shocked. I had never experienced harassment like that before. The police escorted me to my platform in case my offender might follow me.
I got on my train a few minutes later and that was that. It was a horrible experience and I will never forget it. Since that experience, I have developed an increase in anxiety when navigating large crowds and being in busy public spaces.
– Anonymous
Location: Penn Station, NYC
Need support? Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910
Share your street harassment story for the blog.
See the book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers for ideas.
By Contributor
I was out hunting for Pokemon, barely three blocks from my house when a car drove by me and a man yelled that, “I’d F*ck you, n*gger!” It wasn’t even 8 p.m. on a Monday.
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I just wish it would stop happening to me.
– Cara
Location: Eugene, OR
Need support? Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910
Share your street harassment story for the blog.
See the book 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers for ideas.