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Archives for October 2016

Canada: How to Make Cities More Inclusive and Safer for Women (Part 1)

October 24, 2016 By Correspondent

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The photos are from Women in Cities International’s 2016 Anti-Street Harassment Week activities

A talk with Kathryn Travers from Women in Cities International on Street Harassment and Urban Development

Alexandra Jurecko, Montreal, Canada, SSH Blog Correspondent

“Montreal is a lot safer than other cities, for women in particular,” says Kathryn Travers, “I can walk home alone, be at the office late, go by myself, and that’s a real privilege and freedom I have here.” However, daily forms of street harassment, such as catcalls and unwanted comments, are still a common occurrence. “We all know it. It starts off as a comment but where does it go next? It’s that quick moment when you think you’re given a compliment that, if the expectation that comes with it is not met, turns into anger and could quickly turn into violence.”

wci_2Kathryn is the executive director of Women in Cities International, a Montreal-based international network promoting gender equality and inclusion in urban environments. With a Bachelor’s degree in Criminology and Sociology and a Master’s in International Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution, Kathryn says she’s always been interested in gender issues. Then, while working at the International Centre for Prevention of Crime in Montreal from 2004 to 2006, Kathryn was introduced to Women in Cities International (WICI). In 2008, she officially joined WICI’s ranks and has stayed ever since: “The thing with working on gender issues, and specifically on women’s safety issues and street harassment is once you open your eyes to it, you can’t close them. Your understanding of what in our culture enables those things becomes broader and broader and then you just get more pissed off.”

wci_1WICI knows the importance of documenting street harassment. As part of their Gender Inclusive City Program (2009-2012), the organization has collected some of the first data on street harassment as it relates to the lack of women’s safety in urban contexts. “That was ground-breaking and really quite alarming,” says Kathryn. In looking at contributing factors of gender exclusion in urban contexts, WICI highlights women’s experiences of sexual assault and harassment in public spaces.

“In Montreal, street harassment seems more subtle than in some places, but definitely, there are a lot of comments. During International Anti-Street Harassment week this year,” remembers Kathryn, “I walked into the metro and this guy with his hands down his pants told me ‘Smile, Beautiful’, and I was like, ‘Really? On this day of all days?’ It was like scripted”.

wci_3Street harassment starts at a young age. During the 2014 Anti-Street Harassment Week, WICI conducted workshops with elementary school girls in Montreal. According to Kathryn, “much of the conversation was about street harassment. They were in grade 5, so about eleven years old, and all of them had stories. It was pretty shocking actually.”

“Being followed, not feeling safe, walking alone. Everyone has their own techniques, like crossing the street when you see someone walking your way, keeping your phone in hand or your keys. Virtually all women have a series of things they do, but men don’t and never even think about it,” explains Kathryn stressing that talking about these experiences can be eye opening.

Noémie Bourbonnais, Lucie Pagès and Kathleen Ellis from Women in Cities International interview Montrealer’s on their experiences with street harassment during the 2016 Anti-Street Harassment Week
Noémie Bourbonnais, Lucie Pagès and Kathleen Ellis from Women in Cities International interview Montrealer’s on their experiences with street harassment during the 2016 Anti-Street Harassment Week

“One thing we usually do with this kind of work, even with adolescents, is we separate boys and girls for this conversation,” says Kathryn. Afterwards, the points of discussion are shared within the entire group, and the boys are shocked: “They have no idea that how they speak to girls makes them feel the way it does. There is a huge disconnect. The sense of vulnerability that girls and women feel isn’t something that is shared by many men and boys.”

Kathryn sees many of the reasons for sexual harassment grounded in our culture: “I feel like we almost teach this to our kids. The whistling, for example, that’s even in cartoons. There is a level of ignorance there, but I think it’s cultural. I think it is the way our culture is and it’s by not speaking about these issues, by not making people aware and by not making people understand how others feel as a result of them”. For Kathryn, opening the conversation and introducing issues like street harassment into the dialogue is vital: “Acknowledgement is the first step. Of course, there is much work to do. It’s everywhere in your everyday, even in a city like Montreal.”

Alexandra is a freelance writer and recent graduate of Heidelberg University in Germany, where she earned a BA in South Asian Studies and English Literature. Having moved across the pond to live and work in Montreal, she now focuses on refreshing her French skills while volunteering her time to various community-outreach programs. You can follow her on twitter @alexjurecko.

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South Africa: The Safe Ride Campaign

October 23, 2016 By HKearl

Nyasha Joyce Mukuwane, Johannesburg, South Africa, SSH Blog Correspondent

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Pictures courtesy of Sonke Gender Justice

taxiAbusive male passengers and taxi drivers can make riding public transport in Johannesburg a harrowing experience for a woman. More often than not, a woman faces harassment or sexual abuse aboard a taxi. Taxi drivers and the queue marshals have a notorious reputation for this and there have been many recorded and unrecorded incidents of verbal abuse, harassment, physical violence, sexual assault and rape of girls and women whilst using taxis. One lady spoke to me about how some men thought it funny to poke her breast and how paralysed with fear she felt as she could not stand up and leave the taxi. The other passengers simply looked on and ignored that she was being harassed.

Fortunately, there is a new campaign to change this.

taxi4taxi2Sonke Gender Justice is a NGO working  across Africa to strengthen government, civil society and citizen capacity to promote gender equality, prevent domestic and sexual violence, and reduce the spread and impact of HIV and AIDS. On the 17th of  August 2016, they partnered with the South African National Taxi Council (SANTACO), with support from the Danish Embassy, to launch the Safe Ride campaign. The goal of the campaign is to prevent and respond to the abuse of women and girls at the hands of taxi personnel, including drivers and queue marshals.

The Johannesburg launch of the campaign was the beginning of a year-long programme that will traverse the country to educate the taxi community about how they can help prevent and stop harassment and sexual violence against women and children. Over the next year, supported by funding from the Danish Embassy, the Safe Ride campaign will host events with taxi drivers, queue marshals and commuters in all nine provinces. They are also planning a few three day intensive training sessions for drivers and their assistants on gender-based violence, how to report such incidents and where survivors can go to for help.

This is one of the most innovative campaigns in Johannesburg to challenge patriarchal beliefs, change the way that taxi drivers deal with street harassment, and promote active citizenry against street harassment.

Nyasha is the public awareness coordinator at the Nisaa Institute for Women’s Development in Johannesburg, South Africa, where the main goal is counselling and sheltering survivors of domestic abuse. She has edited two books by survivors that are available to download for free from the website www.nisaa.org.za.

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“If we can’t back other women on this how anything ever change?”

October 23, 2016 By Contributor

Today while walking to the train after work, a man stepped away from his group of friends (around 4 other men and 2 women) and stood in front of me, blocking and stopping me from walking and asking me where I was going.

I immediately told him to get out of my way and yelled that he had no right to make me feel unsafe.

The two women with him laughed at me.

If we can’t back other women on this how anything ever change?

– Anonymous

Location: Flinder’s Street Station, Melbourne, Australia

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“I started yelling for help and crying as my little sister looked on”

October 22, 2016 By Contributor

I was 25 at the state fair one early evening with my 15 yo little sister. A group of guys approached us. We were near the main gate. As we walked towards them and my sister and I talked one of the guys grabbed my breasts very hard and twisted them in opposite directions like they were faucets. I have large breasts and have been a target so many times because of my physical appearance I couldn’t even recount them all. I screamed and yelled profanities at him at which point he and two friends poured their large drinks of beer over my head. I started yelling for help and crying all as my little sister looked on.

A cop arrived and asked what happened. I had a conservative empire-waisted cotton blouse on with a high neck and long sleeves. It was now completely transparent and totally soaked with beer as was my face and long hair. Cop pulled my sister and I aside and told me to calm down and go wash my face. He further said I shouldn’t be out un-escorted at night and not to wear such suggestive clothes. I was stunned shocked and speechless by the policeman’s caviler behavior tone and what he said to me. As I continued to cry and make a beeline for the exit, I looked back and saw the cop and group of guys looking at me and laughing.

I have never ever forgotten the humiliation and abandonment by the cop. It was like it was a private joke to all the men and the cop involved. My sister was terrified. I still think of it frequently and have dreams about how powerless I felt. I recently told my husband who was not really much interested and that stunned me, too. No idea about the pain from that night 25 years ago and why it would still bother me. I have thought about many times a day since this happened with Trump.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

I can’t answer this as I don’t know. I am still followed get disturbing things said to me in my own neighborhood on walks. I am always aware of my environment and what I can use for a weapon.

– WN

Location: California state fair in Sacramento

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“Abuse of anyone by another is wrong & cannot be tolerated”

October 21, 2016 By HKearl

As a young man about to enter the Marine Corps at the height of the Vietnam War living in Hawaii, I met a guy who was already in the Corps. He invited me to his home to talk about life in the Marine Corps. During our talk he physically assaulted me by saying that a certain physical exam was required, then he began by injecting a device up my ass with some device. I’ve NEVER told anyone of this before and I’ve been married, divorced and had numerous relationships with other women. I’m a straight 66 year old male who has felt shame, embarrassment & many other emotions as a result of this. Thank you for providing a platform where one can express what occurs to so many others.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

By continuing to share that abuse of anyone by another is wrong & cannot be tolerated.

– Dan

Location: Kailua, Hawaii

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