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Archives for December 2016

Story-Sharing Opportunity for Black Women in Cleveland-Akron!

December 13, 2016 By HKearl

“Hi, my name is Cierra Whatley and I am a doctoral student in Counseling Psychology at the University of Akron. I am seeking Black women in the Cleveland-Akron area to interview for my dissertation, “Black Women’s Experiences with Street Harassment: A Qualitative Inquiry.”

Through this study, I will be seeking Black women’s opinion and experiences with street harassment. Your participation in this project would involve one in-person interview, lasting 1 hour. I will provide you with an informed consent letter that will explain more about the study and allow you to make an informed decision about your participation.

If you are interested in learning more about this study and/or participating, please email me at ckw12@zips.uakron.edu and we will schedule our meeting at that time.”

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“I had never thought such a thing would happen to me”

December 13, 2016 By Contributor

It was a cool summer night in Florence, stores were closing, people stood huddled in groups outside their shops discussing the day’s events. I was returning from the dinner party thrown by my college for the graduating students. I was alone walking back for about 20 minutes. I was wearing stilettos which were rather difficult to walk in on the cobbled streets. All along the way I met several men who glanced and glared at me, saying things in Italian which I didn’t quite understand. I was feeling rather uncomfortable by now, however I was just a few minutes away from my place. “Almost there” I reassured myself.

As soon as I reached the crossroads before my street, a man selling umbrellas started pursuing me, trying to talk. Asking generic questions like where I was from, if I would like to buy an umbrella etc. I didn’t respond much. He kept following me. There happens to be an alley you’ve to go through to get to my street. As soon as we reached there, there weren’t many people, he started getting too close. In an attempt to get away, I started walking faster. But alas! My stilettos! I caught my shoe on something and hurt the side of my foot, almost broke my metatarsal and tore a tendon, nearly tripped when he caught me tightly around my waist and gripped my arm. I forcefully pushed him away and continued walking on the sidewalk.

My foot was shaking and hurt horribly but I couldn’t afford to stop. He closed in, saying stuff like, “I young, you beautiful, I love you” and started to feel me up. He rubbed my behind, and I lost my cool. I’m a peace-loving person. I didn’t feel up to it but thought I just had to fight back. I raised a finger & threatened to beat him in a quivering voice (impaired sense of judgement in the moments of crisis I guess). I thought he’d take me away. I was scared, and angry and overwhelmed, trying to make sense, anticipate what he might do next. He didn’t back off so I punched his jaw, just then a couple happened to walk by, he saw them, muttered something and walked away.

I quickly got home and sat in one place till what had happened could sink in. I had never thought such a thing would happen to me.  wondered what would have happened if the couple hadn’t walked by that day. if he had countered my hits and hit back. I was no match for him. The illusion of safety shattered. I saw how vulnerable I was. I had felt helpless, weak & out of control in those moments – like anybody could do anything to me against my will.

I was alone in a foreign country in one of the safest cities. The feeling of being looked at and groped by a hungry, lustful touch made me feel the most disgusting I had ever felt in my entire life. I had to catch a flight and get back to my country the next day. Busy days ahead. My foot ache didn’t get better for weeks, reminding me of that night every time that i took a step forward, reliving those moments. It hurt more psychologically than physically.

– Swara J.

Location: Florence, Italy

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“I wish I could tell them what they are doing is harassment”

December 12, 2016 By Contributor

I constantly feel uncomfortable and scared walking alone, walking my dog, and stopping at red lights. I avoid eye contact and walk away but I wish I could tell them what they are doing is harassment. It takes a toll on how comfortable and safe I feel in public. Always being whistled at and hit on makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Initiate more protests and or public communication about this issue

– Anonymous

Location: Broward County, Florida

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Canada: Promoting Right to Space on University Campuses

December 11, 2016 By Correspondent

An interview with Arianne Kent and Dina Al Shawwa from Women in Cities International’s Right to Campus Campaign

Alexandra Jurecko, Montreal, Canada, SSH Blog Correspondent

Right to Campus Team, Arianne and Dina
Right to Campus Team: Arianne and Dina

Arianne Kent and Dina Al Shawwa met this summer during their research internship at Women in Cities International. In June, they started work on their own project, Right to Campus, which brings WICI’s goals and tactics to McGill University in Montreal. Both Dina and Arianne are students at the university, with Dina being in her fifth year of Civil Engineering and Women’s Studies, and Arianne in her third year of studying Sociology and Women Studies.

“The idea is to take what Women in Cities International does and bring it onto campus,” says Arianne. “More broadly,” adds Dina, “we’re implementing the concepts of the larger Right to the City movement”. “What we want to do is to create more inclusive spaces on campus,” Arianne goes on, “Campus space should be equitable and safe for everyone. No one should have to bend and mold and make themselves uncomfortable to fit in the McGill space.”

Their first effort on campus was to incorporate the Right to Campus principles into the training for the university’s orientation week. “I was an orientation leader two years ago,” explains Arianne, “and I saw a lot of problems with this. As orientation leaders we’re kind of on the front line, we’re the first people who meet all these incoming students and we have a huge responsibility of conveying what’s acceptable behaviour as a McGill student. That covers everything from consent, respect, anti-discrimination, safety, all these complicated concepts that you’re trying to relay to these incoming students and we weren’t equipped enough to do so from our training.”

In preparation for the event, Dina and Arianne worked alongside the orientation development coordinator: “We were trying to reframe the entire training in terms of space,” says Dina. “We were working within the system to improve the training itself. We thought if we reframe it in terms of space, we can explain that excluding someone from a group is taking away their right to space within that group.” According to Arianne and Dina, it is crucial to change the space itself to be accommodating for everyone rather than asking people to fit in. “The space needs to be comfortable for everyone in order for people to even want the right to space,” they explain.

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McGill Community Engagement Day and the safety audit Arianne and Dina organized with the help of volunteers.

For orientation week, they prepared a Frosh zine and guidelines that could be applied to different scenarios, as well as a summary of campus and Montreal resources. During Community Engagement Day in September, the team lead a series of safety audits to explore issues of security and use of space on campus. “We recruited volunteers and walked them through the process of a safety audit which involves looking at different features of the social environment and we got their feedback and opinions,” remembers Arianne. “McGill security does their own official safety audits checking whether lighting is up to par and whether everything is technically safe, but we thought it would be interesting for students to do it as well since they are the ones who primarily use the space. And, student opinions might differ vastly from those of adults and security personnel.”

The group has since been invited to join McGill campus security on their annual safety walks and they are further planning on writing up a report covering the findings from their student-led safety audits: “We’re talking to them now about perhaps using our checklist for safety audits, which is based on the principles of design for safety, on their walks.”

Inter-University Parking Day in Montreal. McGill students are explaining why having equal right to space is important to them.
Inter-University Parking Day in Montreal. McGill students explain why having equal right to space is important to them.

Right to Campus’ first goal is to get students involved and talking. “We want to make campus safety everyone’s responsibility and not only women’s responsibility,” stresses Arianne. “Too often the message is that it’s women’s job to make sure they are safe, but men pay an equal part in this.” Arianne and Dina hope that through starting the conversation and by engaging people through their on-campus events, they will establish their ideas for campus safety and right to space among their fellow students: “We think that’s where tangible things grow from.”

These themes occupy Dina and Arianne also in their own academic research. As a Civil Engineering student, Dina wants to explore how to implement safety in people’s minds as well as in the physical environment. “I’m especially interested in the role of Engineers in the built environment that determines people’s perception of safety,” explains Dina. “I’m using safety audits to understand how people’s identity influences how they perceive safety on campus and at the same time I’m trying to understand how identity plays a role in that perception.”

rtc_5For their next project, the Right to Campus team is planning an art show in spring next year. “We want to ask people what right to space means to them. It can be any personal interpretation of space”, says Dina, “how they feel in space, how they navigate that space.” In the long run, Dina and Arianna are hoping to expand Right to Campus from McGill University and implement the campaign on university campuses worldwide: “We want to take the Right to Campus toolkit to other universities in Montreal, Canada and across the world and make it a resource for students everywhere.”

Alexandra is a freelance writer and recent graduate of Heidelberg University in Germany, where she earned a BA in South Asian Studies and English Literature. Having moved across the pond to live and work in Montreal, she now focuses on refreshing her French skills while volunteering her time to various community-outreach programs. You can follow her on twitter @alexjurecko.

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“I was appalled, and intimidated by this man”

December 10, 2016 By Contributor

One day I sat down on the metro bus near a man and a few of his friends, it was one of the last places left to sit. As I sat down he asks me, “hey pretty baby, how are you doing?” I was 15 at the time and did not know how to confidently respond, so that he would leave me alone. I mumbled something about being fine, but not being a “pretty baby.”

Rather than taking my insecure clue, and leaving me alone, he proceeded to question me. Baby why aren’t you smiling? Where do you go to school? How old are you? I responded to this question of age, hoping that if he heard how young I was he would understand that he should leave me alone. This was not the outcome. Instead he responded with something along the lines of, “Damn, baby, you aren’t even legal! (Referring to the idea that you cannot legally consent to sex with someone over the age of eighteen until you are sixteen).”

I was appalled, and intimidated by this man, and the fact that his friends only encouraged him with their “Damns!” and “Oohs!” and laughs did not help the situation. I left the bus that day feeling violated, not because this man harmed me physically, but because his words undermined my personal confidence, as well as taking away a place I had always felt safe.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

By teaching bystander intervention, as well as showing community members the direct consequences that street harassment has.

– Ellie M

Location: The Metro Bus

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