In the morning, I go out for walks with my dog around 4:15-4:45 a.m. and because it’s winter in Australia, it’s fairly dark, so I always make a point of staying in well lit areas. I was on my way back, moving down a road that had cars frequently passing, and a petrol station across the road, and I was surprised by a car pulling up beside me. I made the mistake of walking with traffic rather than against it, so it took me by surprise as I had headphones on. In the darkness it was hard to read his facial expression.
I took off my headphones angrily (but deep inside I was very fearful and scared, my adrenaline pumping) and I said “Hello!?” in a stern voice.
He said, “Aww, did I scare you?” I just looked at him confused and as traffic approached he was like, “Pretty scary huh?” I assume implying that it was a scary time of day perhaps, but as he started to drive off I just said, “Uhh ya.”
I was fearful he might turn around or come back, and I was still 5 minutes from home so I hastily walked home (couldn’t run as my legs were too sore) and every vehicle that went passed was making my heart sink. I felt annoyed at myself for allowing this person to put fear into me and I was angry at him for feeling like he had the right to do that to a young female so early in the morning, especially when he acknowledged it was scary.
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Brighter lights perhaps, but being suburbia, that may not be possible. Possibly CCTV cameras at intersections would be helpful. Because the petrol station was so close, I felt as though I could have ran across the road to get assistance as I know the attendant well from visiting there so frequently.
– Anonymous
Location: Near Illawara Crescent North and Alexander Drive lights, Ballajura, Western Australia.
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