I was waiting for the bus with a friend. A car driven by an old man stopped by to ask information about a street. I gave him this information, then he said ‘Do you enjoy sex?’. I was very embarrassed and I didn’t know what to say, then I realized that this man was asking me where he could find sex workers. Then he asked, ‘Does your boyfriend make you come?’
I had the strength to ask pointedly, ‘Do I have to call the police?’ and he left.
It was awful to stay silent, neither my friend could talk, we were speechless.
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We can’t shape minds already poisoned by rape culture, but we can teach new generations to treat people with respect.
– FM
Location: Bus stop
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