Making Public Spaces Safe and Welcoming
Learn about apps to address gender-based violence in this online panel organized by Red Dot Foundation.
Moderator: Holly Kearl, Stop Street Harassment
Panelists: Elsa Marie D’silva, Red Dot Foundation; Kalpana Vishwanathan, Safetipin; Kirthi Jayakumar, The Red Elephant; Ciera Blehm, Ciera
Dr. Gary Barker, President of Promund-US, did an interview with Mashable a few weeks ago about what men can do in light of the #MeToo movement and ending sexual abuse. Check out all 5 actions in the full article, as well as excerpts below:
“1. Listen to women. Women are sharing their stories, from just two words to details about harassment and assault. If you as a man feel compelled to comment beyond words of support, think twice. Women who’ve made themselves vulnerable by sharing their painful stories don’t need men second-guessing their accounts or making contrarian remarks. Before you do anything, listen.
2. Talk to other boys and men about #MeToo. If you can’t believe so many women have experienced sexual violence, other boys and men probably don’t realize it either. #MeToo is an opportunity for men to talk to each other about how those experiences are universal for women, and to talk about what men can do.
3. Call it out when you see it.* Too often men see other men harassing or abusing power and turn the other way. It’s uncomfortable for us to question other men, particularly when it’s a friend, a co-worker, or even a relative. Lots of other men knew what Harvey Weinstein did and said nothing. Take a stand and call it out even if it’s uncomfortable – and even if it puts you at risk.
4. Advocate for better education and prevention. Use #MeToo as an opportunity to advocate for long-term education and prevention efforts in schools, campuses, and workplaces. Meaningful change happens through multiple education sessions over time, institutional messages about prevention, and comprehensive training for staff and leadership. Boys and girls need to learn about consent, sexuality, and respect in open, honest ways.
We cannot let our silence be deafening as men. We cannot look the other way and pretend that it’s those other men. We need to speak out and take action today, first and foremost listening to women who have experienced harassment.”
Learn how Promundo is working with partners in the United States and more than 40 countries worldwide to challenge the root causes of sexual harassment and sexual assault and to promote gender justice.
Check out our male allies section and my books Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe & Welcoming for Women and Stop Global Street Harassment: Growing Activism Around the World for information specifically around what men can do to stop street harassment.
For programming ideas, check out Collective Action for Safe Spaces’ “Rethinking Masculinity” program.
Here is our annual round-up of some of the government actions, glorious activism, studies, and big news stories of 2017. And of course, there were hundreds of actions that took place in 40 countries over International Anti-Street Harassment Week, too.
Government Action:
The first mandatory legal mediation in the first ever street sexual harassment case in the country took place in Buenos Aires, Argentina.
Argentina’s Lower House approved a bill that will criminalize street harassment nationally and set-up a free hotline.
A new mobile app will launch soon in Belgium to help survivors and witnesses of sexual harassment.
The city of London in Ontario (Canada) is planning efforts to prevent street harassment.
In November, French President Emmanuel Macron unveiled measures aimed at educating the public and schoolchildren about sexism and violence against women, a national law on street harassment and more.
In India, the Alwar police formed an all-women team to crack down on people harassing women and girls on city streets.
New posters by the Dublin City Council (Ireland) say, “A sexist remark is not a compliment.”
A new cartoon character tells people to report street harassment in Japan.
There was a death penalty ruling in a forced public stripping case in Kenya.
The gang rape of a woman on a bus in Morocco led to protests and promises of action by the Prime Minister.
There’s a new sexual harassment hotline for transit riders in Kathmandu (Nepal).
A new fine and jail time will be enforced on street harassment in Rotterdam, the Netherlands.
In December, Rotterdam (Netherlands) became the first city in Europe to launch a mobile app that allows victims of sexual harassment to report the incidents instantly and anonymously. People can give their locations, a description of the harassment and any additional information they wish to share. The information will allow the city council to see where there are hotspots of harassment.
In November, two harasser police officers were the first ones tried under Quezon City’s anti-harassment ordinance (Philippines).
An anti-street harassment ordinance is under consideration in Manilla, Philippines, as of December.
An anti-harassment ordinance was proposed in October in Baguio City, Philippines.
The penalty for taking non-consensual upskirt photos increased in Thailand.
There’s a new dress code being enforced in Uganda, including against mini-skirts.
A Labour MP in the UK suggested women-only train carriages – but the idea is insulting.
The category of “gender hate crime” became recognized in Bristol (UK) in October.
Following the lead of the cities like Bristol and Nottingham, as of December, the whole of the UK may soon begin to classify sexual abuse (including street harassment) as a hate crime.
Upskirt photos and videos may become a crime in UK.
TFL and Met Police in the UK launched a ‘Report It to Stop It’ campaign to raise awareness about how to report sexual harassment on the London transit systems.
Legislation introduced in New York City would require police officers to undergo sensitivity training on dealing with sexual assault and street harassment.
The Los Angeles Metro launched a hotline staffed by professional counselors to help people facing sexual harassment on the transit system.
Grassroots & Organizational Activism:
Women in Argentina held a topless protest over men’s censorship of their bodies in public spaces.
Calls for bystanders to stop sexual assault in festival crowds in Australia.
A female-only ridesharing service launched in Queensland, Australia… but addressing root causes of street harassment is a must, too.
Women in Barbados, Trinidad and Tobago, Dominica, Guyana, Jamaica, and The Bahamas marched to protest sexual violence. #LifeinLeggings
A pop up exhibit at MacEwan University (Canada) showed men what it feels like to be catcalled.
Pressure is mounting for music venues in Canada to address sexual harassment.
Street artists in Colombia challenge sexism, street harassment with spray paint.
The new film “The People’s Girls” about street harassment in Egypt is now available.
The Egyptian anti-harassment initiative HarassMap is the subject of a new 17-minute documentary, The Campaign, shedding light on the advocacy group’s effort to mount a massive ad campaign.
Men in Egypt are working with other men to discuss their role and actions as bystanders, perpetrators and victims of violence, including street harassment.
Outraged women in an eastern Parisian district of France staged demonstrations and launched an online petition in May over a “male den” where women are subject to harassment and sexist remarks.
Women across France rallied against sexual violence under the #MeToo banner in October while a national law against street harassment inched closer to passage.
An anti-harassment hotline in France quickly had to shut down due to trolls.
TBILISI-Safari Union launched an anti-harassment campaign in Georgia, including legislation and education suggestions.
Activists in Guyana discussed how to address street harassment in their country. | Members of the Witness Project in Guyana put up posters that say “It’s Not a Compliment. It’s Street Harassment.”
School girls in India went on a hunger strike to protest the men who harassed them on their way to and from school and the lack of action by local officials to stop them.
Safecity (India) launched a mobile app for reporting incidents of sexual harassment.
In India, a female brigade helps women catch their harassers.
On Jan. 21, women across India marched to protest sexual harassment and misogyny using the hashtag #IWillGoOut.
Air India launched a women-only section of their airplane due to incidents of sexual harassment.
To commemorate the brutal gang rape and murder of Jyoti Singh in Delhi, India, Blank Noise organized action in parks for women to claim public spaces, safely.
From offline activism by girls in PLAN International to online mapping by Safecity, young women are leading the efforts to stop street harassment in India.
Rickshaw drivers in Delhi, India, are taking gender classes in the hopes of curbing harassment.
Women in Jakarta, Indonesia, are taking action against street harassment. | Activists in Indonesia began bringing attention to the widespread problem of street harassment.
Tambourine Army is a new organization fighting gender-based violence in Jamaica.
There was a new anti-harassment campaign in Lebanon, #mesh_basita.
Students in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, held street action against street harassment at Petaling Jaya city council square. They held signs with slogans like, “Cats are cute, catcalls are not”; “Don’t keep calm and stop sexual harassment”; “My name is not baby.”
Mexico City has a “sexist” seat on the subway to raise awareness about sexual harassment.
A college student in the Netherlands took selfies with many of her street harassers across one month.
Stop Straatintimidatie launched a new anti-harassment campaign in the Netherlands.
Teenage girls in Wellington, New Zealand, protested street harassment and other forms of sexual violence outside Parliament.
The punk band Sløtface in Norway is tackles street harassment and rape culture in their video Bright Lights.
In Punjab, Pakistan, the Women Safety Smart Phone App launched.
Three women’s groups urged Panamanian President Juan Carlos Varela Monday to sign a bill meant to prohibit and punish sexual harassment, stalking, sexism and racism in all areas.
Beauty pageant contestants in Peru gave PSAs about sexual violence, including street harassment.
A construction site in Peru posted a sign saying they are against street harassment.
Patricia in Spain launched a Change.org petition calling for studying and stopping street harassment in Madrid.
Bars and clubs in Switzerland are doing more to address sexual abuse.
Women in Trinidad asked men to leave them alone during Carnival.
From Uganda to Tajikistan, women are fighting to enjoy the freedom of bicycling.
A woman in the UK made a map of street harassment hotspots.
In the UK, a bar posted a sign to deter male customers from harassing the female bartender.
The “Unmute” badge fosters bystander action on public transit in the UK.
Thousands of people took to the streets of Manchester (UK) during the annual Reclaim the Night march.
Women in Bristol (UK) are mapping street harassment.
“Cheer Up Luv” is a new UK-based photo series project. “Road to Equality” is a seven-minute documentary about street harassment in the UK.
Womanability released a new video on women’s safety in public in Uruguay.
Through the The Talk Project, teens in California (USA) educate each other about sexual harassment and assault.
Prior to the Lightning in a Bottle music festival in Los Angeles (USA), there was a class offered for fans and staff about sexual harassment at festivals, “Creating Safer-Braver Spaces: Consent Culture & Social Care”.
A Sacramento (USA) artist did an audio art project on street harassment called “This is What It Feels Like.”
Student Elena Czarnik Deeter created a sound art piece based on catcalling called “Hear Us.”
The Muslim self-empowerment group WISE + two Muslim girls created a self-defense toolkit.
Women of color in Washington, D.C. (USA) organized against street harassment.
Latina and African American women in the USA created a choreo-film on street harassment.
With her project Catcalls of NYC, NYU student Sophie Sandberg has been using bold colors to chalk stories of street harassment. She said she hopes that writing down the harassment people endure will help them reclaim their own voice. “I want people who feel silenced, objectified or victimized, to understand that they can be agents of change,” she said. “One voice can contribute to a collective movement. With that, we have power and we cannot be silenced.”
Netflix launched an anti-street harassment campaign called #MyNameIsnt to go along with Spike Lee’s new TV show “She’s Gotta Have It.”
Studies and Reports:
The Global Mobility Report (by World Bank-led partner SuM4All) shows that “harassment and physical abuse are preventing women around the world from being able to use public transportation safely.”
A new study conducted in the MENA region sheds light on why men street harass.
A study published in the Australian and New Zealand Journal of Public Health found strong links between women’s experience of sexual violence – including street harassment — and poor mental health.
A study found that 23% of female commuters in Dhaka, Bangladesh, faces sexual harassment on the buses.
Reports of sexual harassment are up on Brussels’ (Belgium) public transport.
A study in the British Journal of Social Psychology shows street harassment negative impacts how women think about themselves.
In Egypt, the Central Agency for Public Mobilization and Statistics surveyed young people ages 15 to 29 in “informal urban areas of Greater Cairo” and 48% viewed street harassment as a problem.
France’s ONDRP found that 267,000 people (85% women) faced sexual harassment on public transport between 2014-2015.
43% of women in Germany have faced some form of sexual abuse, with most occurring in public spaces.
A new study of boys in Mumbai (India) shows they think “good girls” don’t experience street harassment.
In an informal survey conducted in Myanmar, more than 80% of women had faced street harassment.
Karachi’s (Pakistan) Urban Resource Center found most female commuters experience some form of sexual harassment while using public transport.
Eighty-four percent of women experience sexual harassment in Rotterdam, Netherlands, including street harassment.
A survey conducted by United Nations Population Fund found that 90% of women and girls in Sri Lanka have faced sexual harassment on public transport.
In the UK, a poll showed that younger women face higher rates of harassment and are more likely to see wolf-whistling as unacceptable compared with older women.
Almost 80% of women and 26% of men ages 18 to 24 have been sexually harassed during “a night out” in the UK.
In the UK, 34% of teenage girls worry about being followed by a stranger and many girls cited experiences of street harassment.
Reports of street harassment are on the rise in Cambridge, UK.
An undergraduate poll shows that 48.2 percent of female-identifying students report facing catcalls at least once a month while at Brown University (USA).
A new survey shows 1 in 3 men don’t think catcalling is harassment (USA)
A high percentage of Missoula (MT, USA) patrons experience sexual harassment.
A new report from Harvard Graduate School of Education found that 87% of women in the U.S. have faced sexual harassment. Among 18 to 25 year olds, most said they had faced sexual harassment, including 41% saying a stranger had touched them without permission.
A new study says sexually objectifying a woman, including through catcalling, can lead to aggression towards women.
Story-Telling and Op-Eds:
How #MeToo turned into a cultural moment.
The Silence Breakers of 2017 who have spoken publicly against sexual harassment and sexism are the “TIME person of the year.”
A CNN article in November traced statistics on sexual harassment globally. The U.S. statistic was from SSH’s 2014 study!
BBC’s global 100 Women campaign included harassment on public transit.
Women in Afghanistan weigh the pro’s and con’s of speaking out against street harassment and other forms of sexual abuse they face daily.
The VICE Arabia offices asked their women staff about their experiences of street harassment.
A woman in Adelaide, Australia, wrote about being scared to walk the streets of her own town after dark.
Women in Brazil shared their stories of harassment and abuse by taxi and rides-sharing drivers.
Young women in Egypt face harassment in public spaces and restrictions at home.
A woman in Hong Kong spoke out against people who victim-blame women facing street harassment.
Women in India shared their street harassment stories using the hashtag #NotMyShame.
The powerful Irish spoken word piece “Heartbreak” addressed street harassment.
A teenager’s account of harassment went viral in Italy.
A growing number of Jamaican women stood up to abusers, using social media as a platform of empowerment through the creation of hashtags such as #metoo, #weknowwhatyoudid, #saytheirnames and #dearJamaicanmen.
A New Zealand woman wrote an open letter to all cat-callers.
In Pakistan, sisters Zara and Zoya Khan stood up to street harassers, garnering national attention.
A woman in South Africa wrote about wishing she was a man so she didn’t face harassment.
Best-selling author and comedian Jen Kirkman tackled street harassment in her stand-up special Just Keep Livin’?.
In the U.S., Feminista Jones began responding to strange men who “complimented” her by agreeing… and then the men get mad. She said in an interview: “For a man to be comfortable sending an unsolicited comment about your body via text or Tinder or Bumble or whatever, or to feel comfortable yelling some shit at you on the sidewalk, he has to feel — at least in some small way — like you exist for him. If you take those compliments in stride instead of blushing and cooing and being the Good Modest Woman he hopes your mother raised you to be, you’re proving you don’t exist for him at all. Your “great body” belongs to you, and of course that’s gonna piss this exact type of dude off.”
What it’s like to be street harassed while seven months pregnant.
“Where do Harvey Weinsteins come from?”
“Russell Simmons, R. Kelly and Why Black Women Can’t Say #MeToo.”
“My daughter got her first catcall [at age 11, from an adult man], and I didn’t know what to tell her.”
“On being a woman alone in the woods.”
“Why it’s never okay for men to ask women to smile.”
“I recorded every time I was catcalled this summer: Here’s what I learned.”
When fellow women are your first line of defense on Muni.”
“My body doesn’t belong to you.”
“The thrill and fear of ‘Hey, Beautiful’”
“I don’t accommodate uncontrolled men”
“9 types of street harassment you’ve probably experiences if you’re a woman”
“After fighting off mid-run attack, she’s using her voice to help others”
“12 moms share gross stories of getting catcalled while with their kids”
What it’s like to cycle as a woman in various parts of the world.
The exhibition El Tendedero/The Clothesline Project, at the National Museum of Women in the Arts, tackled sexual harassment/abuse.
Other News:
Hundreds of men sexually assaulted women in Bangaluru, India, on New Year’s Eve. Among those speaking out afterward were those advocating for education and socialization of children to be respectful.
In Dallas, Texas, LeDajrick Cox, who just graduated from high school, and two male friends and a female friend were out celebrating. In a 7-11 parking lot, three men in another car started street harassing their female friend, and Cox intervened to defend her. Eventually, Cox and his friends left but the three men followed them and shot into the car. Cox and the two other young men were all injured and Cox died from his injuries. A young life is needlessly over. I applaud him for doing the right thing and am so saddened he is dead.
In Portland, Oregon, a white supremacist began harassing two young women on a train, using anti-Muslim slurs. One woman was wearing hijab. When three men intervened to help the young women, the man attacked, killing two of them and injuring one. Again this is just unbelievably horrific and sad. There have been many news stories about the tragedy and praise given to the three men. I glad they intervened but feel so saddened that for two of them, it cost them their lives. That never should have happened.
In College Park, Maryland, a white supremacist seemingly randomly stabbed and killed a recent African American college graduate near the University of Maryland campus.
In Manchester, UK, a suicide bomber attacked an Ariana Grande concert that was mainly attended by teenage and tween-age girls. More than 20 people died and even more were injured.
A teenage boy defended his teenage female friends against a 47-year-old street harasser, only for the man to pull a gun on them. Fortunately, the teens were safe, and the man was arrested.
A man in his 20s or 30s repeatedly grabbed and harassed teenage girls near their school in Flagstaff, AZ.
A Detroit woman was maced and beaten after rejecting the advances of street harassers.
A runner in Salt Lake City stabbed a man with the knife she carries running after he groped her.
A man in China stabbed a woman on the bus after she protested his harassment.
42 gay men in Nigeria were arrested simply for organizing a HIV awareness event in a public venue. Sign a petition for their release.
Female students at the University of Delhi (India) were locked in the dorm due to fears of sexual harassment at the Holi festival.
Why street harassers speak the same language across the USA.
A guitarist in the USA stopped his performance after witnessing sexual harassment in the audience.
Pakistani singer Atif Aslam called out and interrupted an incident of sexual harassment happening at his concert in Karachi
A man in Florida called out a street harasser – that man then punched him and sent him to the hospital. The harasser/assailant was arrested.
Most U.S. cities were designed around men and it’s time for that to change.
“Paying to stay safe: why women don’t walk as much as men.”
Saturday Night Live’s “Welcome to Hell” skit focused on street harassment and other forms of sexual abuse.
Are you looking for a way to be involved in ending street harassment in 2018? We have a great volunteer opportunity for you: apply to become a Stop Street Harassment Blog Correspondent!
The requirements are to write one article (500-800 words) per month from January to April 2018. Applicants can hail from any part of the world, represent any gender, and write their piece in their chosen language. More info. Deadline is January 7!
Here are some of my favorite stories about people standing up to street harassers this year, cross-posted from our annual blog post at The Pixel Project’s website!
Empowering Response #1: Street Harasser Selfies – Amsterdam, The Netherlands
For a month, 20-year-old Noa Jansma, a student from Amsterdam, took selfies with every man who catcalled her to show how often it happens. Her 30 photos taken with men who willingly stood with her and didn’t seem to understand that their behavior was inappropriate or wrong went viral. Her project was covered by every major media outlet, bringing lots of attention to the topic. Only one man even asked her why she wanted the photo. She was harassed more than the 30 times, but other times felt too unsafe to ask for the photo or the man was already gone.
Empowering Response #2: Reporting an Upskirting Creep – Washington D.C., USA
A woman riding an escalator at a Metro station in Washington, D.C. felt a man’s hand go up under her skirt. She later filed a report at www.wmata.com/harassment and when the transit police reviewed the CCTV footage, they saw the young man had taken an upskirt photo of her. They also saw him do it to other women across that day at the same location. Later, thanks to her initial report, they were able to arrest him.
Empowering Response #3: Publicly Humiliating A Harasser – Chicago, Illinois, USA
CG was walking her dog in Chicago when a man in a work uniform knelt down to pet her dog. When he got up to walk away, he slapped CG’s ass. At first, she was stunned, but then she followed him for 10 minutes yelling that, “THIS GUY JUST ASSAULTED ME WITHOUT MY CONSENT” and “THIS GUY’S A PERVERT.” When he turned around and yelled that CG was “crazy” and “should go home and act like a lady,” she really let him have it. She said, “I’ll bet he thinks twice before he assaults someone again.” She suggests to others: “Calling them out on it. LOUDLY. And if you’re on the street and someone is calling a harasser out, go to her and ask if she needs help. Just be there in case the asshole tries to retaliate.”
Empowering Response #4: Publicly Humiliating A Harasser – Los Angeles, California, USA
Anonymous was getting onto a bus in Los Angeles and her husband and friends were boarding behind her. As she looked for a seat, a man stood up and pulled her onto a seat next to him and said, “You’re sitting HERE!” When she tried to get up, he pushed her back down. Anonymous said that’s when she lost her temper and yelled at him and pointed out that she wasn’t alone. When the guy turned to look, she stood up and shoved him across the aisle. His instinct was to look at her husband and worry he was going to hurt him, but the husband laughed and said it looked like his wife could take care of herself.
Everyone on the bus laughed at him then and the guy went to the front of the bus and waited to get off at the next stop. The bus driver yelled at him when he exited, “Don’t ever come back and leave women alone!” Anonymous said, “That was when I finally stood up for myself…I stopped tolerating harassment a lot after that.”
Empowering Response #5: Shutting Down A Pervert – Anonymous
One day as FM was waiting for the bus with a friend, a car driven by an old man stopped near them and he asked for information about a street. She gave him this information, and then he questioned her, “Do you enjoy sex?” She was very embarrassed and didn’t know what to say. Then he asked several other questions about sex before she asked pointedly, “Do I have to call the police?” and he left.
Empowering Response #6: Making Street Harassment A Crime – France
France’s secretary of state for gender equality, Marlène Schiappa, who has experienced street harassment directly, has spent the past few weeks working to make street harassment a national crime. Her efforts have raised a lot of important conversations about street harassment in the country.
Empowering Response #7: Cream Cakes Against Harassers – Scotland
FL was walking along a busy street in broad daylight in a town in Scotland. She was 14-years-old. A man who was part of a group of men walking behind her came up to her and stuck his hand up her skirt and groped her. She turned around, shocked and saw that they were all laughing. She immediately took the cream cake she was eating and smacked it in her assailant’s face.
Empowering Response #8: Calling Out A Pest – Texas, USA
Sarah in Texas was walking from her office to the bus stop when a man kept pestering her, following her and trying to get her attention. She said that finally, after another “just want to talk to you” comment from him, she turned to him and very loudly said, “I don’t want to talk to you!” He got the message and walked away.
Empowering Response #9: Flipping Off A Catcaller – Wokingham, United Kingdom
Heather in Wokingham, UK, said she was cat called by a man who sat in the passenger seat of a white van when she was walking to her car after work. She noticed there was a girl’s school very nearby and she worried whether he did that, or worse, to the girls. She gave him a withering look, turned around and showed him her middle finger before taking down the license plate of the van and reporting it to the police.
Empowering Response #10: Butts Are Not For Leering At – Alaska, USA
When anonymous was 16-years-old and in a store in Alaska with her mom, an older man let them pass by him. Then he said, “I let you go in front of me so that I can watch you from behind. Oh, I’m sorry, that was a compliment, you should take it as one.” Anonymous said she felt scared, embarrassed and disgusting, but her mom turned to him and told him off.
Empowering Response #11: Pregnant Woman Pushes Back
Anonymous was walking down the street in Washington while 35 weeks pregnant. She noticed a white unmarked van driving very slowly behind her. Once the van was alongside her, the driver leaned out the window leering at her. He then said, “Oh yeah baby, daaamn.” She told him that she thought he was disgusting.
Empowering Response #12: Bus Driver Takes Action – Manchester, United Kingdom
RP was 17-years-old and riding a bus with a friend in Manchester, UK, from school to band practice. An older man in his 40s kept leering at her and smiling creepily. When the girls got off at their stop, he got off too. RP and her friend got on different buses at that point and the man got on RP’s bus. The bus was pretty empty, and yet he followed her and sat right by her. She got up and ran to the bus driver and told him she thought the man was following her. Her stop was coming up and it was in a remote area and she worried what he’d do next. Thankfully, the bus driver believed her and when she got off the bus, he didn’t allow the man to get off at that stop. Some of the other passengers assisted the driver. RP made it to her destination safely. She wrote, “All I can say is thank you to that bus driver and fellow passengers who stopped him following me inside the primary school. I’m also thankful I wasn’t headed home as he doesn’t know where I live.”
Empowering Response #13: Hauling Up The Police – Quezon City, The Philippines
When a 21-year-old woman experienced catcalling at the hands of police in Quezon City, The Philippines, she filed a police report. Street harassment is illegal in the city under a 2016 ordinance. The two men were charged with violating the ordinance and while they wait for sentencing, they have been put on leave from their jobs. This is the first case filed under the new ordinance.
Empowering Response #14: A Comforting Hand – Rome, Italy
A man grabbed AC and he kept trying to pull her toward him on the street in Rome. When she broke free, she ran across the street into traffic to escape. She said when she reached the other side, “An elderly woman gave me a kind smile and patted my arm without saying anything. That gesture did so much to comfort me and helped me know that I’m not invisible.”
Empowering Response #15: Intervention With Luggage – San Francisco, California, USA
When AH was riding the train in San Francisco, she noticed a man standing too close to a woman. She stuck her luggage between them and he moved and found a new target. AH kept trying to get his attention, but he ignored her, so she tapped the young woman on the shoulder and pointed out what was happening. He got angry and shoved AH’s bag, but he did exit the train. AH wrote, “I was very shaken up. I had never called someone out for harassing another person before, but I felt very protective of other women in that moment. People came up to me afterwards and said I did the right thing and they would have backed me up. The first girl also thanked me because she wasn’t sure what had happened until she saw him do it to someone else. I hope that my choice to step out will cause others to be aware of their surroundings and to speak up if they see someone being harassed.”
Empowering Response #16: Male Ally Does Good – Texas, USA
Kensa was walking in Texas when a man on a motorcycle pulled up next to her and began paying her “compliments.” At first, she said thank you to appease him, but then he kept demanding she get on his bike and take a ride with him. He got angry when she refused and repeatedly pestered her until a man nearby intervened, saying, “You can clearly see that she is not interested. You’re scaring this poor girl.” This did not deter the motorcyclist at first and he kept telling her to get on, but the bystander stayed with Kensa and kept telling the man, “She’s not interested.” Finally, the motorcyclist left.
BONUS STORY: Teresa, San Francisco Diaries, “When fellow women are your first line of defense on Muni.”