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Archives for February 2018

“I was in shock the whole night”

February 23, 2018 By Contributor

I was just finishing my shopping trip in NYC. I just left the store. I was wearing a light jacket and I had a small backpack on my back. I was holding one shopping bag from a store that is not a high end store at all. I wasn’t even all dressed up-I was wearing super casual clothes, my hair was in a bun and I just had eyeliner on. I looked super innocent. I did absolutely nothing and said nothing to anyone to have caused anything to have happened.

It’s kind of a blur in my mind how it all started, but all I could remember was someone cursing at me right when I left the store and was walking on the sidewalk. And then I think I kind of froze in fear because I didn’t know what to do. Then I was petrified that this person was going to hurt me, so I had my shopping bag all ready as my defense mechanism…I clearly wasn’t thinking at first.

Thank goodness my senses kicked in after that, and I then started to shriek and I ran as fast as I could. I ran into the first store that was still open because there were no cops on that street to be found. I told the store owners that I was seeking safety in their store. I was in such shock, my entire body was shaking like crazy and my heart was pounding so hard and fast.

The store owner asked me what happened and what the person looked like. I tried my best to recall, but it was a blur in my head. I don’t even know if it was a girl or boy. I was just really grateful that the store owner was really nice and he went outside to see if he could find anyone suspicious. He didn’t really know who to look for because I couldn’t describe the person to him. I then ubered home.

I was still shaking and my heart was still racing. Boy was I scared. I was in shock the whole night and then only a few hours it happened I started to cry from fear and shock of what happened.

I am tearing as I type this. I am still really traumatized from what happened. It feels good though to get this off my chest.

– Anonymous

Location: Broadway Street, NYC

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“The man grabbed her again”

February 22, 2018 By Contributor

I was in a store with a friend once when a man put his hands on her and made a lewd comment. I told him, “Get your hands off her.”

He pushed me into a stack of boxes which knocked me and the boxes over. The owner kicked all three of us out of the store into the parking lot.

The man grabbed her again. Again I told him to stop. Again he knocked me over. We ran to the nearest house and banged on the door. They let us in thankfully where we stayed until we saw the man drive away. SCARY.

Obviously, I’ll never forget that even though it was decades ago.

– Anonymous

Location: Atlanta, GA

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81% of Women and 43% of Men Have Experienced Sexual Abuse in USA

February 21, 2018 By HKearl

I’m excited to share that our new study was released this morning!

In January 2018, SSH commissioned a 2,000-person, nationally representative survey on sexual harassment and assault, conducted by GfK. It found that nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime.

While verbal sexual harassment was the most common form (77% of women and 34% of men), an alarming 51% of women and 17% of men said they were touched or groped in an unwelcome way, and 27% of women and 7% of men survived sexual assault.

This survey is the first to look at a range of sexual harassment behaviors, track the various locations where people experience sexual harassment and assault (from public spaces to homes to schools to workplaces to online etc), and identify who perpetrators are in relation to the respondents (e.g. strangers, coworkers, family members).

When the sample size allowed, the report breaks down people’s experiences by demographics like race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, household income, disability status, age, and region of the country.

READ: Full Report | Two-Page Executive Summary | Survey Questions | Press Release 

Pro bono data analysis for the survey was completed by the UC San Diego Center on Gender Equity and Health. Their team, the team at Raliance and a dozen advisory committee members offered input and invaluable help throughout the process.

Here’s the media coverage so far!

New York Times, “Numbers Hint at Why #MeToo Took Off: The Sheer Number Who Can Say Me Too.“

NPR, “A New Survey Finds 81 Percent Of Women Have Experienced Sexual Harassment.“

VOX News, “Measuring #MeToo: more than 80 percent of women have been sexually harassed or assaulted.“

Ms. Magazine Blog, “What the Numbers Behind the #MeToo Movement Show Us.“

Many thanks to our donors, board and advisory committee for helping make this happen, as well as our partner orgs!!

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Filed Under: LGBTQ, national study, News stories, online harassment, race, Resources, SSH programs, street harassment Tagged With: metoo, national study, research

“Sticking my middle finger up was a reflex action”

February 20, 2018 By Contributor

I was out in a shopping centre with my boyfriend when two guys catcalled me as they walked past us. I turned around and they looked back laughing. I stopped and stuck my middle finger at them, and one of them got angry and came charging back at me. He said I was being disrespectful and I shouldn’t have stuck my middle finger up at him.

We ended up walking away from the situation, but I cried in frustration that this has happened over and over again since I turned 13.

I shouldn’t have stooped down to their level and ruined a lovely day out, but as an advocate for equality for women, sticking my middle finger up was a reflex action. Women should not have to go through this and then be made to feel like the bad person for retaliating. I just wish guys like that could be more respectful to women and keep their comments to themselves.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Better policing.

– Sami

Location: Xscape centre, Milton Keynes, UK

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USA: Harassment Doesn’t End on the Street

February 19, 2018 By Correspondent

Nearly Half of Working American Women Face Harassment in the Workplace, and 75% of Workplace Harassment Victims Faced Retaliation When they Spoke Up

Patrick Hogan, Chicago, IL, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

“With My Headphones On… With My Headphones On” by Norsez via Flickr

Street harassment is generally an interaction between strangers. The victims, trying to mind their own business; and the harassers, strangers intent on degrading and endangering people they may never see again. The harassers enjoy a sense of anonymity: they will not have to face their victims, nor any retaliation. Women may face harassment on the streets by strangers while walking to work, but at least they are safe in their work environments with people they hold professional relationships with, right?

Unfortunately, wrong.

A poll conducted by the Wall Street Journal and NBC News found that 48% of working women in the United States are victims of workplace sexual harassment. The poll found that 56 percent of working woman under the age of 35, 44 percent of working women between the ages of 35 to 44 years old, and 40 percent of working women over the age of 55 faced harassment in the workplace.

What happens if these women speak up against their harassers? Quite probably retaliation. According to a 2016 report by the US Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), 25% to 85% of working women experienced workplace harassment (the disparity in percentages a result of different responses to different surveys). The study goes on to state that only between 6 and 13 percent of workplace harassment victims file a formal complaint. Why wouldn’t victims file formal complaints? According to the EEOC’s report, 75 percent of women who made complaints about their workplace harassment were retaliated against in some form or another.

When women filed complaints they were met with retaliatory behaviors such as disbelief, humiliating remarks, social stagnation, and continued harassment by employers and coworkers alike.

I interviewed Dr. Amy Blackstone, Professor of Sociology at the University of Maine, on her research on workplace harassment. When I asked her about the effects of retaliation against working women, she explained: “Retaliation is not limited to targets of harassment. Even women who are not themselves harassed, but who spoke up when they saw it happening are sometimes targets of retaliation so they too could be bullied for speaking up against harassment.”

This harassment and retaliation directly affects potential for career progression. Dr. Blackstone described to me a 2017 research paper she and others published:

“We were looking at women in the early point in their careers, and what we found was that indeed experiencing harassment early in your career does have or can have a derailing effect. We found this one example that women who experienced harassment are six-and-a-half times more likely than those who are not harassed to change jobs after harassment– and often not even just change jobs, but change entire career paths. In addition to our survey data, we interviewed a number of women and we learned in the interviews that some sought out jobs that they thought they would be less likely to be harassed in. And oftentimes that meant choosing jobs…that are not on the fast track to getting promoted; jobs where they could kind of be alone and not have to risk interacting with too many people because of the fear that they might be harassed again.”

But what of women who are in leadership roles or positions of power in their workplaces? According to Dr. Blackstone, they may not be free from harassment either. She stated: “Women who try to move up in the workplace may be targeted [for harassment] simply because they’re trying to move up in the workplace.” She explained that, “Harassing women who are supervisors is a way of ‘putting them in their place.'”

Dr. Blackstone provided an example: “A woman I interviewed who is a manager in a manufacturing firm was the only woman in management at the firm. She attended a dinner with some clients and some colleagues of hers and, in this case, it was a client who was harassing her by groping her and making sexual comments about her and to her. This is a woman who had a position of power in her workplace, but she was experiencing the kinds of behaviors that we often hear about happening to women with less power in the workplace.”

It is clear that workplace harassment is not merely a terrible phenomenon—it is an all-too-common occurrence. It affects women trying to advance in their careers and even women in positions of power. We live in a world where many women face harassment on their way to or from work and also cannot be at work without worrying about their safety. Then they cannot even report harassment without fear of retaliation. Something needs to change.

Patrick is an undergraduate student majoring in anthropology and minoring in Islamic World Studies at Loyola University Chicago, preparing to continue onto law and graduate school. He is particularly interested in legal anthropology and the ways victims are viewed by legal systems.

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