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Archives for September 2018

End of Summer 2018 SSH Updates

September 10, 2018 By HKearl

An alarming new study released last month found that nearly all Native women in Seattle, Washington, USA, have been raped or forced to have sex and 69% also reported experiencing street harassment. A study released this month in the UK found that 66% of girls and young women ages 14 to 21 have experienced street harassment.

In France, in late July, a man verbally harassed Marie Laguerre in Paris, France, as she walked home. When she told him to “shut up,” he physically and brazenly attacked her. A man in Iowa, USA, in July verbally harassed Mollie Tibbett during her run and when she threatened to call the police, he killed her. A man in Melbourne, Australia, raped and murdered Eurydice Dixon as she walked home from a comedy gig in June.

Street harassment continues to be a serious issue that affects most women and girls, it is connected to sexual violence and it can escalate into physical violence and even murder. This is why even seemingly benign “catcalls” can be scary and why so many of us “choose” to limit our time in public and curtail our lives in order to try to stay safe.

In order to create a world where everyone is safe and welcome in public spaces and everyone has equal access to the resources there, it’s important that we speak out against street harassment, that we support efforts to prevent it through education, training and awareness-raising, and that we model respectful interactions for the children and youth in our lives.

New Legislation

In late June in Washington, D.C., the Council of the District of Columbia passed the Street Harassment Prevention Act of 2018 (SHPA), the first legislation of its kind in the United States. It is one of more than 20 laws addressing street harassment to pass globally since 2012 (including laws that passed recently in France, Romania, Chile, and the Philippines. This month, a review is to take place into whether misogynistic conduct, including street harassment, should be treated as a hate crime in the UK.)

The SHPA, which our allies Collective Action for Safe Spaces took the lead in advocating for and we helped support, is groundbreaking for creating the first legal definition of street harassment in the United States, calling it “disrespectful, offensive or threatening statements, gestures or other conduct directed at an individual in a high-risk area without the individual’s consent and based on the individual’s actual or perceived … protected trait identified in the [DC] Human Rights Act of 1977.” It also uniquely focuses on prevention through education instead of criminalization.

As I noted in an article for Women’s Media Center, “Specifically, the SHPA establishes an advisory committee on street harassment that will propose model policies and training materials to be implemented in the District; require the Office of Human Rights (OHR) to conduct the first citywide survey on street harassment; and require OHR to conduct a public information campaign about street harassment. Further, grant money will be provided for street harassment awareness programs.”

In research I’ve conducted about laws against street harassment, too often there is no education component. (Indeed, the French activist organization Stop Harcelement de la Rue is disappointed in the French law because the lawmakers ignored their suggestion for mandating education.) Too often there is no money earmarked for training law enforcement or advertising the law. Too often the law is barely used and offers no real deterrent to harassers.

Hopefully educational campaigns, awareness programs and training in the DC-area can actually create change, especially when there is money to fund these initiatives. And if it does, I hope other regions of the world will follow this model of prevention legislation.

New Faces

I’m excited to share that Dr. Meghna Bhat, a former SSH blog correspondent, has joined the team as a volunteer social media and website manager! She’ll primarily be managing the twitter and Instagram accounts and content for our blog.

This month we also welcome five new board members, all from the Washington, DC-area. Meet them! I’m excited to work with them.

A few of our long-serving board members are leaving this month as their terms have ended. This includes two of our founding board members, Liz Bolton and Layla Moughari, who have contributed a great deal to SSH over the years, from fundraising to editing research reports and press releases to organizing events for Anti-Street Harassment Week! I am grateful for their help in establishing SSH as a nonprofit in 2012 and all that they’ve done since then.

Hey Baby VA Campaign Update

Our board member Lani’s “Hey Baby” graphic was used last year by a Veteran Affairs (VA) center in Chicago for an anti-harassment campaign. The campaign has reduced harassment at the facility. Jenny Sitzer, the program manager, that implemented the campaign will be attending and presenting the campaign success in an internal VA conference this fall. When Lani was in town this summer, they presented her with a certificate and showed her the banners.

Raising Awareness

In June, I gave a presentation to the CDC’s Intimate Partner Violence/Sexual Violence (IPSV) Workgroup about street harassment and our two research reports, and I wrote articles for HuffPost, Ms. Magazine, Women’s Media Center and New Moon Girls magazine (print).

SSH was covered in a range of media outlets, including BBC, Yahoo, Morning Dose, and Next City. In exciting news, SSH’s hotline was mentioned by CNN and “Ask Amy” and our latest study has been used by legislators and journalists.

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Two New Books

September 10, 2018 By HKearl

Dr. Fiona Vera-Gray has a new book about street harassment out called The Right Amount of Panic: How Women Trade Freedom for Safety. I got to offer a review for the jacket back: “By reinterpreting women’s daily safety strategies as successful forms of resistance, this book presents fresh ideas for sexual violence prevention.”

Soraya Chemaly, a long-time supporter of SSH, has a new book out tomorrow called Rage Becomes Her, and in one chapter (“Smile, Baby”) she writes about street harassment. It is a book we all need to understand our anger and “transform it into meaningful change.” #RageBecomesHer

 

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Welcome Our New Volunteer!

September 9, 2018 By HKearl

I’m excited to welcome our new volunteer social media and website manager!

Meghna Bhat, PhD (she/her/hers), a former SSH blog correspondent, will be helping SSH for the next few months, primarily managing our twitter and instagram accounts and the blog! Yay!

Meghna is a pro bono gender and social justice scholar and educator whose work is informed by being a survivor of sexual violence and street harassment, a first-generation immigrant from India, and South Asian woman. Meghna has 14 years of extensive work experiences both in campus and community settings, ranging from interdisciplinary gender violence research and writing, program administration and consultation, education, and community organizing.

She worked at the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault (CALCASA) in the PreventConnect program for a year. Meghna is honored to have recently joined the Board of Directors at the National Girls and Women of Color Council, Inc. She received her PhD in Criminology, Law, and Justice from the University of Illinois at Chicago (UIC) with a specialization in Gender and Women Studies.

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“Scared that something bad might happen to me”

September 3, 2018 By HKearl

This evening, I was walking from my apartment to retrieve my car that was parked in our ‘first come first served’ lot located behind some residential buildings a couple minutes away. Just when my car was finally in my sight, I was alarmed to hear the sound of a man wolf-whistling some distance behind me. I was alone and scared that something bad might happen to me. I pretended not to hear it and did not look to see the culprit until I was safely in my car. Now I feel an immense amount of anxiety and shame when coming to and from my car.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Make forms of street harassment such as catcalling and wolf whistling a punishable crime. Hold residential buildings accountable for the way their tenants act towards others while on their property, such as parking lots.

– Ashley

Location: Residential parking lot located on the grounds of a BMHA (Buffalo Municipal Housing Authority) public housing building

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“I know you want it.”

September 2, 2018 By Contributor

It was my junior year in high school, and I was in my car, window down, about one block away from my private catholic school, where a casual “welcome dance” was taking place. I was wearing all red, including red lipstick, because that’s what juniors had to wear, and due to the amount of kids walking along the sidewalks in the area towards the campus, it was very obvious that I was an underage student. I was playing the song “take on me” from my car window to embarrass my friends when I entered the parking lot, and I was excited.

Then it happened. A man, clearly over 18 (I would argue late 20s), pulls up next to me in his car. He rolls down his window and says, “Hey there sexy, aren’t you something to look at.”

I was uncomfortable, and genuinely afraid when I heard this. I avoided eye contact and stared straight ahead, silently begging the light to turn green. He then continued, despite seeing my obvious discomfort, saying, “You know, I love that red lipstick of yours…” and proceeded to tell me in explicit detail where exactly he wanted my lipstick to be.

I was disturbed, afraid, and horrified. I was underage, and had very little experience with boys in general, so It hurt even more. I started to roll up my window, he grew angry, telling me, “I know you want it” followed by yelling profanities such as “sl*t, c*nt, and b*tch.”

Police were around me, as they were headed to the dance as well for security, and they didn’t notice or, if they did, they did not care. When I arrived to the dance, I took off my lipstick, crying, and blamed myself. I was wearing was a T-shirt and red lipstick, I was underage, I was in the safety of my own vehicle.

How did this happen? I blamed myself, when this man, who thought it socially acceptable to say these things to me, was the one at fault. I hoped I would never experience something like this again, but unfortunately I’ve dealt with harassment multiple times since then. We need change, it needs to stop.

Long term, we need to change the thought that women are at fault for street harassment, and end rape culture. To do this, although difficult, we could try to push for laws against street harassment.

– Anonymous

Location: California

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