So two assholes were walking by me in the store, and one says, “There’s your girlfriend,” and they chuckle.
This is like the third a couple of guys have done this. I think it’s because I look European and have those features, and that’s not what they consider pretty, Jack asses. Oh well, my husband loves me, as do my little little ones.
And oh yeah, this only happens when I’m out by myself, never with my husband and kids. I’m in my early thirties, but look around 20, so they probably think I’m closer to their age.
– Anonymous
Location: Alabama
Melinda says
Hi…I’m sorry that happens to you. It is definitely a form of harassment if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
But I’m curious, though. What do you mean by looking European? Do you mean Italian, German, or what?
And I look very young for my age too. Sometimes guys will harass women for that reason but not always. It sounds like the guys are simply immature, because when I was in school, it was a “joke” for them to do that.
Like one guy would say that to another about me and they would both laugh. Or one of them would say “there’s your girlfriend” about me and the other one would make some really hurtful, disgusting comment about my looks.
Try to hold your head high.