Simona-Maria Chirciu, Bucharest, Romania, SSH Blog Correspondent
Bucharest, the Capital of Romania feels like the capital city of street harassment too! Everyday women are harassed by strangers on the streets, on the busses and underground, in parks. No public space is safe for girls and women! This problem is completely invisible, ignored and trivialized in our society but street harassment constrains women’s choices to go where they please without fearing unwanted sexual attention or sexual assault.
I really love activism and I wanted to organize a march or a protest against street harassment in Bucharest. Volunteers of FILIA, an amazing feminist NGO, wanted to help, too. First we had to go through a legal procedure and gain authorization at the Bucharest City Hall. The procedure is not very complicated, but unpleasant because it takes time. One of FILIA’s volunteer and I went to get this approval. We were so nervous and anxious..
There was a large room, all men (important men – the Head of the Police, Head of Romanian Intelligence Service, Head of Gendarmerie (Jandarmerie) – a military branch of police forces) and other important men. They seemed nice at the beginning, but then they started with “harassment jokes” and stereotypes about sexual violence against women. They all assumed that women like to be harassed because they dress provocatively and act in a promiscuous manner, even because they simply go outside! The cherry on top was when one of them made an “innocent” joke about inviting us for a juice. My volunteer, who is a feminist too, and I glanced at each other with sheer horror and disgust. After a couple of days we received our march authorization for the Center of Bucharest. We were so happy!
Next, some of my volunteers and I worked on banners and slogans for the march and we did a good job. We used slogans like “STOP street harassment!” “Harassment is violence!” “My body is not a public space,” “We don’t need your validation,” “I don’t feel flattered to be harassed!” “I don’t walk on the street for your amusement” and “It is NEVER ok to harass people! So stop doing it” We really wanted to make our voice clear and loud!
The solidarity march against street harassment took place on 19th October 2014, across two hours and gathered approximately 100 people: women and men including persons of many sexual orientation, and 1-2 pets J.
I organized the march through FILIA with their wonderful volunteers and we were supported by feminist and women’s rights NGOs like the Association for Liberty and Gender Equality (Asociatia pentru Libertate si Egalitate de Gen), FRONT Association, AnA Society for Feminist Analyses (Societatea de Analize Feministe AnA, Centre Partnership for Equality (Centrul Parteneriat pentru Egalitate), E-Romnja Association.
The march was peaceful, quite nice and without incidents. People on the streets interacted with us, greeted us, and asked questions about our march: “Hey, do you think a march will solve the problem? Boys need to be educated or legally punished for doing this.” Yes! Maybe a march doesn’t solve the street harassment issue, but it can raise awareness and is empowering for the march participants.
Unfortunately, after the march, on her way home, in the Center of Bucharest, one of the participants was sexually harassed on the street by a stranger. He addressed her with obscene words, violently pulled her hair and punched her in the face when she wanted to get a picture of him with the mobile phone. None of the bystanders did anything! After the incident, she went to the Police station to make a complaint.
There, a Police officer – a woman – said to her that she wasn’t even dressed in a provocative way. Wow! Such a horrible way to interact with a woman who was just harassed and hit in the face by a violent man and comes to you for seeking justice! Sadly, this is an example of how stereotypes about sexual violence and victim-blaming attitudes are very internalized and hard to eradicate.
Shortly after the incident, the women’s rights NGOs who are part of the informal network “Breaking the Silence about Sexual Violence” (FILIA, ALEG, FRONT, AnA, E-Romnja, CPE, Transcena Association, Sensiblu Foundation, East European Institute for Reproductive Health) wrote an open letter to authorities and especially to the Bucharest Police, demanding a proper investigation of this case, to identify the aggressor and press charges on him. In the open letter, we also asked for a warning campaign for people living in Bucharest, to be alerted about this violent harasser and to get informed about street harassment against women as well.
This incident showed all of us that street harassment can escalates into violent aggression, so street harassment is a major and urgent problem all around the world! The streets are public spaces and we all need to feel free to use them, without fear, without compromises and without back-up plan in case we get sexually harassed! October 19 was an ordinary day, a day when girls and women were harassed on streets but also a day when feminism and activism confronted street harassment! And that was just the beginning of it. We plan to hold another event during International Anti-Street Harassment Week in April.
Simona is the Vice President of a feminist NGO – FILIA Center and a PhD student in Political Sciences, working on a thesis on street harassment in Bucharest. You can follow her on Facebook.
