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Singapore anti-harassment ad misses the mark

January 14, 2013 By HKearl

Image via buzzfeed.com

Sexual harassment and assault by men against women is pretty prevalent on public transportation worldwide.

Typically, the way governments deal with this is to tell women to curb THEIR behavior.

Many countries have women-only subway cars and buses, dictating where women should be as they ride public transportation. However, if women don’t ride it (and often, there’s only one or two subway cars available at rush hour, or only one or two bus lines), some men see them as “fair game” for riding in the mixed sex cars or buses.

Then there are victim-blaming signs, such as the one on the right in Singapore, that tell women they’re supposed to be the ones who shouldn’t “get rubbed the wrong way,” rather than telling men to keep their hands to themselves! This poster also advises women to not walk through secluded areas alone and to have an escort when it’s late, which is all impractical “advice” for women who have to work, go to school, and shop late or in secluded areas.

These initiatives do nothing to stop harassment or assault and they actually enable it to occur by always placing the blame on women.

Anti-harassment and assault initiatives must focus on perpetrators, not the victims/survivors!

How about harassers-only subway cars and buses?

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Digest of Street Harassment News: Jan. 13, 2013

January 13, 2013 By HKearl

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Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read street harassment stories on the Web at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Many of the Hollaback sites

Everyday Sexism

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* CNN, “7 men gang rape bus passenger in India“

* Huffington Post, “To New Delhi: A Letter Back, From Washington, DC“

* Tech President, “Mobile Apps to Combat Street Harassment Follow Brutal Delhi Gang-Rape Case“

* Ms. Blog, “Being Female in India: A Hate Story“

* Indian Country, “Rape, Kidnapping Being Investigated as Hate Crime in Thunder Bay“

 * The New York Times, “Is Delhi So Different From Steubenville?”

* Cosmo (UK), “You Said What?!”

* Hello Giggles, “Smile For Me, Pussycat“

* The Hindu, “Enough is enough“

* Jezebel, “SF Street Harassment Stabbing Is a Great Reminder That Catcalling Isn’t a Joke” | Hollaback SF’s response

* Business Standard, “Lecturer arrested for eve-teasing woman passenger in train“

* ZeeNews, “Haryana govt initiate efforts to check eve-teasing“

* The Independent, “The protests sparked by gang-rape in India aren’t the beginning and they won’t be the end“

* Cis White Female, “Wolf-whistle weight loss: Sexual harassment isn’t a compliment, Cosmo“

* Fit and Feminist, “Street harassment as weight-loss motivation? I don’t think so“

* Jezebel, “Singapore Anti-Groping PSA Features Terrible Puns, Victim-Blaming ‘Tips’“

* Women’s Media Center, “India Tragedy Seen as Transitional Moment“

* Mommyish, “After The Rape Stories From New Delhi & Steubenville & Everywhere, Women Are Tired – But Still #ShoutingBack“

* Fem2pt0, “We are #shoutingback against street harassment“

* Stylist Magazine, “Why women are #Shoutingback“

* Ebony Magazine, “‘I Stopped Telling Women to Smile (and You Should, Too)’”

* Three Inch Stitch, “Feminist Fridays // #1: Street Harassment“

* Left Standing Up, “40 (Un)Justifiable Reasons To Sexually Harass Me On the Street“

Announcements:

New:

* @TahrirBodyguard: Looking for volunteers to help us protecting women during the protests scheduled for 25 Jan. E Mail us. #endSH #Egypt

Reminders:

* Check out the new anti-harassment group in Sydney, Australia, “People Against Street Harassment“

*Follow Stop Street Harassment on Tumblr

* Read Jennifer Harrison’s dissertation, “Gender segregation on public transport in South Asia: A critical evaluation of approaches for addressing harassment against women.”

* Check out the Tumblr “Ish people say to me on my way to the train“

* HoodRules thebook is now available!

* Check out the project CATCALLED: the stories of 11 women in New York City from two weeks in August 2012, now online.

* Baltimore, MD, folks — take a survey about street harassment for Hollaback! Bmore

* METRAC released a free “Not Your Baby App” to provide responses you can use when experiencing harassment

15Tweets from the Week:

On Tuesday, @EveryDaySexism started a tweet chat about street harassment using the hashtag #shoutingback. Thousands of women have shared their stories!

1. @mujer_cita_MIA it would take me a month just to RT a small portion of the stories being shared on #shoutingback right now ~ #streetharassment

2. @iTingTrout @sarah_lafferty I hear ya. #BeingStaredLikeAnObject is a form of #StreetHarassment

3. @arthurstodgyn @EverydaySexism #ShoutingBack Street harassment. Twice in one evening.

4. @Watermarked Jeering from a car. Thanks assholes. #Streetharassment

5. @a_wonderlandd Last night I dreamt of being harassed but instead of being quiet, I fought back…this is symbolic of my new mindset & passion to #endSH

6. @Grammar_nazzzi @abhijitmajumder Every single Delhi girl has been a victim of street harassment Abhijit. Unless they live in their own utopian world.

7. @MissDC2009 I am happy to report that @Cosmopolitan removed the article supporting street harassment cc: @SafeSpacesDC @hkearl @StopStHarassmnt

8. @Moominmamma12 @EverydaySexism When I studied in France in the 90s the street harassment far outweighed anything I’d experienced at home & could be scary.

9. @MNM103 They disgust me.Their street harassment is not complementing at all.I don’t think ANY girl takes it as a complement. It’s highly annoying.

10. @ashish0712 #Help, Anyone in Goa “@makeysitlhou: Worst case of street harassment just happened. Anyone know people in the law enforcement in Goa?”

11. @CromulentGamer Don’t get why men think they can demand phone #’s. Who wants to go out with a man who intimidated them into a date? #ShoutingBack #logic

12. @fyeahmfabello #StreetHarassment doesn’t make me feel attractive, desirable, or worthwhile. It makes me feel degraded, devalued, and scared. #ShoutingBack

13. @TheBestDefense To the men on my feed: We have the power to stop street harassment. Don’t do it. Don’t let other men do it. #ShoutingBack @EverydaySexism

14. @MsEntropy I was sexually harassed/assaulted wearing this. Was it my clothing? #EndSH pic.twitter.com/5DcLNcD8

15. ‏@jessica_alice_ The #shoutingback hashtag documents the aggressive street harassment faced by women every single day. Reason #8124274 “why we need feminism”

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India: Another gang rape on a bus

January 13, 2013 By HKearl

Trigger Warning

I woke up to the news that there was another gang-rape on a bus in India this weekend. A 29-year-old woman boarded a bus in the Gurdaspur district in Punjab. The bus driver and his helper waited until she was the only one left on the bus and then drove to a place where five other men joined them and they all violated and hurt her throughout the night.

“”They threatened me with a sharp edged weapon and did wrong things with me,” the victim told CNN‘s sister station, CNN-IBN. “They kept me confined all through the night and forced me to do what they want.”

The next day, the suspects dropped her off at her village, where she informed her family and alerted police, according to authorities.”

The police caught six of the seven men.

While it was amazing to see the tens of thousands of people march to protest the Delhi gang rape in December and it was encouraging to hear about all of the changes the police and government want to make to address gender violence, this incident is a clear reminder that these efforts are not enough. There must be a gender revolution, an end to women’s second-class citizenship, and also long-term, multilayer efforts to end gender violence.

I am sad. I am frustrated. I am outraged. How many more women must endure such violence, hate, and pain before this revolution happens?

My heart goes out to the 29-year-old woman. May she recover, heal, and still go on to live a happy life.

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Resources for Talking with Boys about Gender Violence

January 11, 2013 By HKearl

Trigger Warning.

With the world still reeling from the brutal gang-rape and murder of the young woman in India by six men, and with the United States divided over the rape in Steubenville, Ohio, allegedly perpetrated by two high school football players and then laughed about by other male students, the time to talk to boys about being respectful and nonviolent is NOW.

In direct response to the Steubenville incident, Chris Menning, the Editor of ModernPrimate.com, created this passionate video about rape culture. He asks: “Is it possible that these boys didn’t question what they were doing because of the attitudes of their role models in school and society as a whole? Furthermore, can pre-emptively teaching them not to be creepy also teach them not to commit rape?”

I do think conversations about healthy masculinity and consent are important, as are conversations about entitlement (someone who is trying to look attractive isn’t necessarily doing it for YOU and if you see someone too drunk to talk coherently, it’s not your right to harm them) and how not to be a creeper. I also think the earlier adults have these conversations with boys the better.

Here are a just five examples of relevant programs and resources that parents, teachers, coaches, and other adults who work with youth or can be a good influence on them can use.

1. Men Can Stop Rape‘s youth development program, the Men of Strength Club, is the country’s premier primary violence prevention program for mobilizing young men to prevent sexual and dating violence.

2. The Futures Without Violence program Coaching Boys into Men (CBIM) provides men with a playbook/toolkit they can use to talk with boys about street harassment, domestic violence, and sexual violence.

3. The International Center for Research on Women (ICRW)’s Parivartan program teaches boys in India about healthy masculinity, respect for girls/women, and anti-violence through the unifying sport of cricket.

4. Roger’s Park Young Women’s Action Team compiled their work on addressing gender violence with boys in the Where Our Boys At? A Toolkit for Engaging Young Men as Allies to End Violence.

5. Jake Winn, a Peace Corps volunteer and a youth development facilitator in northern Azerbaijan helped his male students make an Anti-Street Harassment video. The title, “Ay Gardash! Kishi Ol!”, can be translated to, ‘Hey man, be a gentleman!” He also developed a companion lesson plan:  Street Harassment Lesson Plan (English) | Street Harassment Lesson Plan (Azerbaijani)

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“Don’t be a Creep”

January 10, 2013 By HKearl

“A series of anti-sexism posters by “Solidarity Against Patriarchy” appeared on the streets of Vancouver, Canada on or around New Year’s Eve, 2012.”

The group is comprised of mostly men who are working for gender equality and against sexism. Thoughts?

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