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“Spray-painting “I’m a harasser’

October 27, 2012 By HKearl

Quick story via AP about street harassment activism and resistance to it in Egypt yesterday:

“CAIRO (AP) — A group of Egyptian men had a mission for this year’s Eid al-Adha, Islam’s biggest holiday, which began Friday. They wanted to make some effort to stop sexual harassment of women, which in past years has spiked in Cairo during the holiday celebrations with the crowds of rowdy men in the streets.

Their idea was simple: to patrol downtown Cairo and shame men who harass women by cornering them and spray-painting “I’m a harasser” on their backs.

That proved pretty much impossible, however. The small group was outnumbered by boys and men who mocked them, some of them blaming women for bringing harassment by the way they dress.

Gathering on Friday afternoon on Tahrir Square, the epicenter of Egypt’s 2011 revolution, about 20 men — mostly university students — donned neon yellow vests marked “Anti-Harassment.”

They steeled themselves for confrontation with the throngs of young men and boys who had taken to the streets with spending money they received as holiday gifts on the first day of the four-day Eid, or Festival of Sacrifice, celebrated by Muslims worldwide. Many in the crowds were blaring air horns and other holiday noisemakers.

“There’s no solution but grabbing them and trying to stop them,” said organizer Shadi Hussien, 19. “If there were (anti-harassment) laws, we could discuss those. And if the police did their jobs, then we wouldn’t be here.”

Hussien and the group of mostly strangers who he organized through Facebook and Twitter say their effort is a last-ditch attempt at forcing the new Egyptian government to respond to sexual harassment, a reality of daily life for Egyptian women.

Notably, no women showed up to join their group. “No women are coming today, it’s too dangerous,” Hussien said. “They might be attacked.”

The only two women that showed up were Egyptian journalists covering it. “I expect there will be problems today because of this event,” said Aya Dabis of the Egyptian paper The Seventh Day.

In past years, the Eid has seen major instances of harassment, with crowds of young men groping passing women — so heavily that women had to flee into shops, and for days afterward newspapers decried the mob attacks.”

Bravo, to the male allies for taking a stand!

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“You’re a Dude, Talk to your Dudes”

October 26, 2012 By HKearl

Yay, I love it when I can end the week on a positive note — watch Kamau tackle street harassment in a very funny way on his show “Totally Biased with W. Kamau Bell”!

“The women of NYC are sick of being harassed on the street so Kamau tries something different—treating them with respect. Afterwards, Kamau provides tips for men who want to make a change.

Watch “Totally Biased” all new Thursdays at11:30 p.m. only on FX!”

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“Catch a harasser for a harassment-free Eid”

October 25, 2012 By HKearl

Demonstrators in Damanhour (Photo: Ahram Arabic News website)

Once again, I turn to Egypt for inspiration.

Yesterday, about 25 members of the new “Catch a Harasser” movement and members of the Egyptian Democratic Institute in Baharia held a silent protest in the northern Delta city of Damanhour (near Alexandria) to speak out against street harassment, which increases during holidays.

Via Ahram Online:

“Contributors, women and men, carried signs declaring slogans such as ‘no to harassment’ and ‘catch a harasser for a harassment-free Eid.’

During the event, which lasted about an hour, participants also distributed a statement to drivers and passers-by, ‘Do as you please; you reap what you sow.’

The statement addressed those who sexually harass women saying, ‘I’m your sister, your mother, your wife, your daughter. Do you stand for my humiliation and the loss of my dignity?’

‘If you dislike my clothes or my walk, is that an excuse to molest me? If that was so, why do you still harass me when I’m veiled or fully veiled? All the aforementioned are just justifications you use to explain your shameful actions. I would like to walk freely and safely. I want your respect. No to harassment. No excuse for harassment. Harassment is a disease. You reap what you sow.'”

I love it!

Meanwhile, the women’s complaints office at the National Council for Women set up the hotline number 08-008-883-888 that people can call if they are harassed during Eid al-Adha.

Via the Egypt Independent:

“In a statement, the council said the operations room of the Egyptian Company for Metro Management & Operation would also collect harassment complaints at 16048 and 25-747-295, as will Fouada Watch, an initiative launched by youth to counter harassment, at 01-150-118-822.”

I’m glad these initiatives are underway and I hope they can help more people enjoy a harassment-free Eid.

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Weight Gain and Street Harassment

October 24, 2012 By HKearl

Today one woman shared with Ebony readers how she turned to eating and weight gain to lessen the street harassment she experienced as a young teenager.

She wrote,

“In high school, the boobs came in, followed by some hips and a nice little butt.  However, I wasn’t moved one way or another by this development since; at that age, I was more concerned with Video Music Box than being a ‘video vixen’ or chaising boys.  But while I was busy being the child I was, the men in my neighborhood began getting busy with fantasies of the woman they felt my newfound body made me to be.

It started off subtle at first. Lingering stares and comments under the breath that you couldn’t quite make out. I couldn’t understand why these men were speaking to me that way.  I may have had breasts and hips, but I still looked like a child.  I tried to hide my budding womanlyness under oversized baggy clothes, but that didn’t work.  After I turned 16, it got unbearable/ I literally had men grab me, pull at me, hiss and whistle at me.  I felt like everyone knew I had breasts and hips and thighs, everyone knew I was a woman.  But I didn’t want to be a woman. I hated it, I hated the men and I hated me.

I longed for a way to fade into the background. One day the answer came to me like an epiphany: food.  See, those lustful men didn’t have eyes for the chubbier ladies.  They were pleasant with them, laughed and joked with them, but those girls were spared from the constant hissing and cat calls.  They became my idols and I wanted to be them. So I ate. And ate and ate. I didn’t even realize that food became my new baggy shirt, until one day on a break from college one of my childhood male friends stopped me in the street and said “What happened to you?  You got big!”

Victory.

I was finally free.  I was just another girl walking down the street and I loved it…..

I realized that the food was my way of physically stuffing down of all the emotions I felt over being sexualized and treated like a piece of meat by men as a child. I didn’t know that the issue wasn’t me and my womanlyness, but the men and their lack of respect for my body. I bore their cross as a burden and allowed it to weigh me down in more ways than one.

I now understand where my struggle with weight comes from and even though getting it off is a day-by-day process, I know that with every pound I work to lose, another piece of that emotional weight I’ve been carrying comes off as well.  I’m learning to love myself despite my flaws.  I’ve decided that I no longer want food to be my baggy shirt and I’m shedding that for good.  My happiness is no longer about food or men; it’s about me and finally learning to love my body for what it is.  A Heaven-sent, honorable and worthy vessel of life and of love.The body of a woman. “

She isn’t alone. Ten percent of the 811 women who took a survey for the Stop Street Harassment book said they had purposely gained weight to try to avoid experiencing street harassment.

This brings up a lot of issues: the devaluing of fat bodies in our society, the downside to having a body that is valued, and the measures people will take to try to keep themselves safe in a society that thinks street harassment is a joke or a compliment.

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Thanks, Some E Cards!

October 24, 2012 By HKearl

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