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“Glasses look to keep Israeli women out of sight”

August 12, 2012 By HKearl

Even though this excerpt sounds like it’s from an article in The Onion, it’s actually from an Associated Press article!

“It’s the latest prescription for extreme ultra-Orthodox Jewish men who shun contact with the opposite sex: Glasses that blur their vision, so they don’t have to see women they consider to be immodestly dressed.

In an effort to maintain their strictly devout lifestyle, the ultra-Orthodox have separated the sexes on buses, sidewalks and other public spaces in their neighborhoods. Their interpretation of Jewish law forbids contact between men and women who are not married.

Walls in their neighborhoods feature signs exhorting women to wear closed-necked, long-sleeved blouses and long skirts. Extremists have accosted women they consider to have flouted the code.

Now they’re trying to keep them out of clear sight altogether.

The ultra-Orthodox community’s unofficial “modesty patrols” are selling glasses with special blur-inducing stickers on their lenses. The glasses provide clear vision for up to a few meters so as not to impede movement, but anything beyond that gets blurry – including women. It’s not known how many have been sold…The glasses are going for the “modest” price of $6.”

What a sad state of affairs. I guess the one positive is that the glasses don’t further restrict women’s mobility or rights…

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: August 12, 2012

August 12, 2012 By HKearl

Campaign volunteers used graffiti on Pyramid Street in Giza to speak out against harassment. Photo courtesy of "Atta Eedak" via Al-Shorfa

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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Street Harassment Stories:

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HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* Heeb Magazine, “A Woman’s Guide to Hasidic Street Harassment“

* New York Times, “For Women in Street Stops, Deeper Humiliation“

* Khabar Southeast Asia, “Nepali youth combat “Eve teasing” with awareness“

* Al-Shorfa, “Egyptian women organise against harassment“

* Ms. Blog, “Street Harassment Fuels a Viral Documentary“

* Powered by Girl, “My new perspective on street harassment“

* Good Women, “A Story On Confidence, Compliments, And Street Harassment“

* Feminspire, “A Letter To The Guy Who Catcalled Me On The Street“

* The Independent, “Whistling, pinching, “sweetheart” – it’s all harassment“

* Princess Lasertron, “how a collective of female friends helped me stand up to street harassment“

* Happy Paradox, “A Conversation About Street Harassment“

* The Onion, “Weird, Area Woman Wasn’t Harassed Today“

* Week Woman, “Twitter Reveals How Far We Have To Go Before Street Harassment Ends“

Announcements:

New:

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* Vote for Hollaback Philly’s transit ad project

Reminders:

* Activists in South Africa launched a new website about street harassment

* The anti-sexual harassment public service announcement signs are now up in several Washington, DC metro stations!

* Help fund a new film about street harassment

* The Stop Street Harassment book is available in paperback for $15.

* Submit art about street harassment for the VoiceTool Product exhibit in San Francisco, CA

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

15 Tweets from the Week:

1.@Sister_Storm #streetharassment is alive and well especially in hot weather. I wore these clothes so I wont melt in the heat NOT for your benefit #endSH

2. @Distorted_Moth Oh, French douchebags. It’s sure that if you whistle to me like you’re calling a dog, I’m gonna strip and suck your dick. #streetharassment

3.@puellaradical @sydneyanderson keep men on their own island so they can catcall each other

4. @maropetro I don’t know why I thought wearing a sweater on the way to the bus stop would keep me from getting hollered at. #endSH

5. @ellistuhler Surely the sidewalk-biker who craned his neck to catcall a teenager learned a lesson in karma when he subsequently crashed into a mailbox.

6. @adelin Sometimes I wonder when I make kissy sounds to dogs I meet on the street, if that’s the doggy equivalent of a catcall. #harassment

7.@BlondeonaBeach Why do men equivalent to my dads age feel its ok to yell/catcall/whistle at me and my friends..

8.@nualacabral Just had a dialogue with #Poppyn about #streetharassment. We have to engage the #youth if we want to see change. Powerful discussion. #EndSH

9. @SpookSquad Leaving store about to cross to parking lot, four dudes in black car stop in middle of road to block/yell at me. #StreetHarassment @hkearl

10. @plitter I will never understand why some men think it’s okay to catcall, or why some women are okay with being on the receiving end of it. #ugh

11. @demonista Belgium film on street harassment strikes a chord across Europe http://gu.com/p/39gxz/tw READ and WATCH THIS. “public” domain is still male.

12.@colorlessblue A guy i actually liked smiled respectfully and i frowned at him in reflex before i realized it! STREET HARASSMENT RUINS EVERYTHING!

13. @nehedari wild goose chase in haifa. amazing how “romantic” street harassment is near arab bus station. “I will kidnap u, marry u, make many babies”

14. @habibahamid Hate it. Chased in cities, cars for miles, on foot RT Street harassment and power of hard evidence v @RizMC @helenlewis http://j.mp/NQyOjF

15. @silverspeakers Last night’s #streetharassment started w cat calls. Then… Me: “we’re not walking here for you.” dudes: “Boooo! Unghhh!”

 

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Sri Lanka campaign reached 30,000 commuters in one week

August 9, 2012 By HKearl

SHOW You Care Participant. Image via Sri Lanka Unites

A few weeks ago, I blogged about how Sri Lanka Unites in Colombo planned to to undertake an initiative called S.H.O.W You Care (S.H.O.W. = Stop Harassment of Women) to address sexual harassment on public transportation. Well, the campaign happened and this was sent by the organizers of the event:

“Hundreds of young men were given an informative training by Sri Lanka Unites and were split into teams of 3 with a mentor appointed to each team…

Starting Monday, June 25th, hundreds of young men boarded buses according to a previously formulated strategic plan. During the course of the campaign which lasted one week, over one thousand buses were covered, reaching over thirty thousand commuters in Colombo.

The young men, apologized to women in the buses for any harassment they have encountered in the past, providing them with information on legal recourse available to them if they experience such treatment in the future. Next they charged the men to take the responsibility to safeguard this right and the negative reflection on them, if they fail.

The response from the commuters on buses was astounding. Passengers on the buses, both male and female, were very responsive to the campaign. Many encouraged the efforts of the young men, asked for more information about the campaign and Sri Lanka Unites. The passengers were eager to engage in conversations regarding the issue of harassment on public transportation and were heartened by the efforts of the young men to attempt to resolve this problem in the city of Colombo.”

Total Number of Buses: 1225
Routes Covered: 49
Estimated Number of Commuters Reached: 36750

Well done!! It’s so important to engage men as allies and change-makers. This is not a “women’s” issue. It impacts all of us and we all have a responsibility to help end it.

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Filed Under: male perspective, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: commuter harassment, sexual harassment, sri lanka, street harassment

“How many daughters do you have?”

August 7, 2012 By HKearl

One of the best ways to deal with harassers is to say or do something that surprises or confuses them. I love how Lilit Marcus does this with some of her the men in her neighborhood in South Williamsburg, Brooklyn, New York. She also feels she’s able to successfully respond to them because they share a similar culture and she can use her knowledge of their culture to shame them. Here’s an excerpt from the full article in Heeb Magazine:

“I live in South Williamsburg, Brooklyn. More specifically, I live on Broadway, which divides a mostly Dominican and Puerto Rican community from a Satmar Hasidic one. My Spanish is better than my Yiddish. When I want a bagel, I choose a Dominican bodega over a Satmar shop, since the men will accept money straight from my hand and the women don’t cluck at my sleeveless shirts. In the past,when I got a catcall or leer from a hasidic man, I rolled my eyes and kept walking. But after a series of incidents where members of the Satmar community threatened women who rode their bikes through the neighborhood and even repainted bike lanes without permission, I decided that living-and-letting-live was overrated.

The first time I said something, he was a young guy, possibly in his late teens, standing about a block away from me. He looked past my Star of David pendant straight down to my breasts. “They’re nice,” he
said loudly.

“Excuse me?” I walked right up to him.

“THEY’RE NICE,” he shouted, pointing at my chest, as if the problem had merely been a failure to hear.

“Are you married?” I asked him. His face went bloodless. He scurried away like an animal who had been caught making a mess.

The next time I got bolder. When a middle-aged man whistled at me from the front door of a yeshiva, I marched up to him and said, “How many daughters do you have?” He didn’t answer, but he didn’t whistle again.

Since then, I’ve tried to find specifically Jewish ways to address street harassment. “The Torah says a virtuous woman’s price is above rubies!” I once yelled back, although he probably didn’t consider me virtuous what with my ankles sticking out all sluttily. “Would you do that to Devora? To Sarah? To Rachel?” I asked, not realizing that these men probably would have thought Rachel was a hottie. There is one move I still haven’t been bold enough to try yet, though: walking up to a dude, calmly touching his shoulder, and then announcing that I am menstruating.

I’m not sure if my one-woman campaign against Satmar street harassment has made any impact on their community or on the way that they think about women. Most of the men simply run away from me or act like they suddenly have an important text message to look at, but a few have told me that I should be flattered by any attention from a man. I informed one of them that my Jewish boyfriend spoke to me in a much more respectful manner and treats me like a person instead of walking cleavage, but that didn’t seem to go anywhere.

Street harassment is, sadly, a fact of life in many urban areas. There are entire websites and smartphone apps (like the excellent Hollaback NYC) devoted to helping women take down harassers. But why was it specifically Satmar street harassment that finally inspired me to stop grinning and bearing it? It was something about the fact that it was coming from inside my own community. Being able to use Judaism and Jewish language against these men and force them to examine their behaviors was something I couldn’t do with other kinds of harassers. The phone call, you see, was coming from inside the house.”

 

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Street harassment, water balloon fights & anime conventions

August 3, 2012 By HKearl

I’ve known Shawna Potter, Director of Hollaback Bmore (and the frontwoman for the band War on Women) for a year and a half, and I’m always impressed by the creative ways she brings attention to street harassment!  Here are just two recent examples. 

Two weeks ago, she talked about street harassment with the girls from St. Francis Community Center and helped them relieve their frustration with street harassers with….a water balloon fight!

Then, last week, she led a group of activists in an outreach effort at the harbor during Otakon, a fan convention for East Asian popular culture (“anime”). Otakon occurs in Baltimore every summer.

The Indypendent Reader published an article about what happened:

“As one of the largest anime conventions, the city fills with costumed attendees –each one personifying their favorite anime (or other East Asian icon) character. For many, it is a delightful and fantastic sight and experience to behold.

Wanting to make the most of this highly populated opportunity, the activists trekked over to the Convention Center for some direct feminist outreach.The group set-up shop on the corner by the front doors. Stuffing their pockets with “Hollaback! Bmore” buttons, for an hour the predominantly female organizers confidently approached the hundreds of Otakon attendees streaming in-and-out of the Center.

Potter began the outreach. Grabbing a stack of papers, where people could share their harassment stories, she walked up to a costumed group of presumably  female-bodied individuals and said, “We’re documenting women’s and LGBTQ folks’ stories of street harassment. Has this ever happened to you?”

Soon the other activists were following her lead, passing out flyers, buttons, engaging in candid discussion on street harassment, and documenting written and video stories.

Brooks, the only male-bodied Hollaback! activist present, observed, “It’s interesting to do direct outreach at an event like this. When they see us, they think we’re part of the convention. Then when they start talking to us, you can see the realization that what we’re talking about is really very serious. And most of them, are expecting attention due to their costumes. So you can see the exact shift towards thinking about how attention can be incredibly unwanted.”

Many of the attendees were teenagers or of college age, experiencing street harassment in its first confusing waves. Some expressed the “behavior” as “annoying” but “harmless”; one young woman even stated the all-too-common conception that the “behavior” was complimentary. This is an idea that Hollaback! actively works to combat; aiming to expose women to the truth that they do not need to find their worth as sexual beings and people in this world from this form of the objectifying male conduct — that when they allow objectification they allow the oppression of their identities.Others stated that they were from small towns and didn’t recognize what was being discussed. It should be noted that much street harassment research conveys that it is prevalent regardless of location, whether urban, suburban, or rural. However, more data is needed; hence the need for more Hollaback! geo-tracking.

This being stated, many also engaged excitedly about the topic. They discussed their street harassment stories, filled up our pads of paper, and went on camera to tell their tales.

Some didn’t want to share their stories but vocalized their support for the movement. One young woman became emotional when an activist approached her, stating that she had been “jumped” just the previous night. The activist strongly encouraged her to seek support through a variety of means..

Next Steps

As the flyer collection diminished and handfuls upon handfuls of buttons were dispersed,the activists excitedly gathered to discuss their work. Immediately palpable was the organizers thrill to have interacted so intimately with so many about street harassment.

“We’re definitely going to do this more often,” reflected Potter.“So much of this movement is about education. This is a  simple yet obviously effective way to publicly discuss and bring awareness to such an often invisible issue.”

Great work!!

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, street harassment Tagged With: anime, baltimore, hollaback bmore, otakon, shawna potter

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