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Interview: Flier Project

August 24, 2011 By HKearl

Autumn, a fourteen-year old trans woman and feminist who lives in New Jersey is working on an anti-street harassment flier project and she agreed to answer a few questions about it.
Stop Street Harassment: What inspired you to create and post fliers about street harassment?
Autumn: While I was in New York, I saw a very impromptu flier rebuking street harassers and misogynists in general. I thought this was a very clever idea, and a very easy way to start voicing my opinion in an open forum. So, I took a few nights of making very minimalistic, blunt posters on a number of issues that feminism focuses on.
Stop Street Harassment: What messaging is on the fliers?
Autumn: I made multiple fliers, actually. In my first, I tried to give the reader a general summary of feminism, dispelling stereotypes of feminists and trying to assert what actual feminism means. The second one was exclusively against street-harassment, and the third is against slut-shaming. I purposefully tried to make them very minimalistic and bare, with only text and such, as I felt if I put too much graphic decoration in them, it would take away from the message.
Stop Street Harassment: Where are you posting them and what do you hope the outcome will be?
Autumn: Luckily I live adjacent to Manhattan, so one of these days I am going to print and copy about one hundred and spend a day posting them in the subway, bus terminals, traffic light poles, really anywhere they will be seen. I also plan on taking them to Slut-Walk. I have them in PDF format, and I invite anyone who wants to download and post them in their respective city as well – it can’t hurt! I’m not really trying to get people to become radical feminists, but rather I just want people to realize that street harassment and slut shaming are not acceptable things.
Stop Street Harassment: Anything else you want to add?
Autumn: I’ll be attending the Slut-Walk in New York in October, and if anyone has a Tumblr, mine is autumn-and-gomorrah.tumblr.com. Though it’s not exclusively a feminist-dedicated blog, probably ninety percent of my posts are about feminist topics or anarcha-feminism.
Check back for a follow-post with an update on her project.
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Serial slasher stalks and marks girls in shopping malls

August 23, 2011 By HKearl

Lisa Kaplan Gordon via McLean Patch

Great opinion piece on McLean Patch by Lisa Kaplan Gordon about the “butt slasher” :

“Since February, a serial slasher has cut at least nine of our girls as they shopped in local malls – stalking and marking them, like an animal.

The youngest victim to step forward – I’ll call her Jessica, to protect her privacy – is the 15-year-old sitting on my couch, sipping water, talking in a soft quiver teenage girls use before they find their strong voice.

Jessica’s story starts around 7 p.m. on March 11, when she and a couple of friends did what ninth graders do on a Friday night – sail in and out of stores in Tysons Corner Center, trying on outfits and sampling lip gloss.

The girls were checking out H&M, a clothing store with good prices, when Jessica noticed a paunchy Hispanic man shopping alone, eyeballing her. She saw him again walking behind her posse as they made their way upstairs to a cosmetics store, and then for the last time when he dropped something beside her, which she stooped to pick up.

“I’m sorry,” Jessica said, eye-to-eye with the creep, repeating her go-to phrase whenever something seems amiss. She stood up, returned to her shopping, and then sensed a burn in the middle of her left buttocks. When she reached around, she felt a tear in her black leggings, and then saw her hand was covered in blood.

By the time Jessica realized she had been slashed, the creep was long gone.

“I don’t want people to think it’s some kinda big deal, or that I’m scarred for life,” Jessica says, trying to regain that teenage balance of standing out while blending in. “I don’t need or want pity for this. It hurt. It’s over. It’s fine.”

At 15, you think life either sinks you or leaves you unscathed.

At 50, you know every event has impact; that even the slightest turn of the wheel can change your direction entirely.

During the hour we talked, Jess said five times that her attack was no big deal. And, a lot of people seem to agree.

National media calls the creep a “serial butt slasher,” because “butt” at once titillates and trivializes the attacks, casts them as a bit of local color, like Italian men who pinch tourists cooling off at the Trevi Fountain.

Internet gossip monger Perez Hilton embedded a video of the slasher in a section labeled “Wacky, Tacky & True,” as though the attacks were publicity stunts or akin to wearing white after Labor Day.

I heard an ABC reporter say “the most serious injury was actually treated with a Band-Aid,” hinting that the slashes were benign because they hadn’t opened an artery, yet.

Even though Jess covered her two-inch wound with a Band-Aid, it bled all night and should have been closed with a couple of stitches, a doctor said in late July. That’s when Jess, after hearing about other attacks, worried about a possible blood infection from a dirty razor or box cutter and finally agreed to medical help.

“I was embarrassed about it,” Jess says, explaining why she didn’t see a doctor or report the attack to police for four months: Her mother did contact Tysons Corner Center security soon after the slashing, but never heard from mall security again.

Most of the time, Jess waves off the attack, mock-brags that the story is trending on Twitter, laughs when friends call her a “serial butt slashee.”

“It’s better to have them think it’s a joke,” she says, “than have to explain.”

But somewhere in suburban D.C. the sadistic creep is still at large. He’s following our girls, getting his sick kicks from slicing their skin, changing their lives in incalculable ways.

And there’s nothing funny about that.”

I agree, the term “butt slasher” makes it sound funny or weird instead of a serious crime. Maybe if the media called it assault there would be more outcry over the fact that a predator IS still at large attacking girls with a knife.

(Thanks to loyal reader MRH for the news tip)

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: "butt slasher", assault

45 women report gropes on the street in Astoria, NY

August 23, 2011 By HKearl

On the heels of the arrest of the alleged Upper East Side Manhattan groper, the problem of men groping women in public is back in the news after a series of groping reports in Queens, New York.

From the Queens Chronicle:

“If you have breasts, you get hit on. That’s how this neighborhood is,” said Nicolle Loayza, 26. She was talking about Jackson Heights, where she was born and raised. A man accused of groping three women in the neighborhood on two different occasions last July is still at large, said Councilman Danny Dromm (D-Jackson Heights) this week.

On the heels of these attacks and a spate of separate groping incidents reported in Astoria and the Upper East Side, council members Julissa Ferreras (D-Corona) and Dromm stood on the corner of 90th Street and Roosevelt Avenue to pass out fliers with the police drawing of the Jackson Heights groper last week.

In Astoria, various groups, including the New York Anti Crime Agency and the office of Councilman Peter Vallone (D-Astoria), have mobilized to make community members more aware of the problem and help women in the neighborhood.

At least two different men accused of groping Astoria women have been arrested, according to Vallone’s office. Published reports have identified these two men as Miguel Hermenegildo, 33, and Dennis Bryan, 22. A different Queens man, Jose Alfredo Perez Hernandez, 18, has been arrested in connection with gropings on the Upper East Side.

The issue first came to attention last July because of Kate Salute, an Astoria woman who blogged about being groped on “Why Leave Astoria?” prompting an outpouring of similar stories from other women. Salute wrote in an email that some 45 women have since come forward…

In Jackson Heights, Loayza pointed to the spot on Roosevelt Avenue where she said men often wait just to look up women’s skirts when they climb the stairs to the 90th St. 7 train.

She described the time a man grabbed her crotch a few blocks away when she was just 12 years old, and said men often follow her home from the train, catcalling her along the way. However, she has never reported a single incident.

“I’ve learned to deal with it,” she said. “You just walk around the block and try to lose them.”

But Ferreras thinks this is precisely the problem.

“It’s not just about shrugging it off or avoiding a corner,” Ferreras said.

Dromm, Ferreras and Vallone are encouraging women in their districts to continue coming forward.”

At what point does this constitute a hate crime?! 45 women have been groped in one area just for being female in public. What the hell.

I’m glad local leaders are taking action and working to fix the problem and that there was an awareness rally last week. Ladies of Astoria, keep sharing your story!

I’m not surprised Ferreras is one of the individuals speaking out; she called the first-ever street harassment city council hearing in NYC last year. She’s a great advocate for ending street harassment.

Now, the outcry needs to continue until the groping ends.

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: Astoria groper, Julissa Ferreras, street harassment

Street Harassment Snapshot: August 21, 2011

August 21, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog

How Many Women Find Street Harassment Flattering?

Hollaback

Hollaback Berlin

Hollaback Birmingham

Hollaback Buenos Aires

Hollaback Chandigarh

Hollaback Czech Republic

Holla Back DC!

Hollaback Des Moines

Hollaback Dortmund

Hollaback Israel

Hollaback Istanbul

Hollaback NYC

Hollaback Philly

Hollaback Queretaro

Hollaback SoCal

Hollaback West Yorkshire

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

* Psychology Today, “‘Hey Baby’ Hurts“

* Essence, “Real Talk: Protecting Our Girls From Predators“

* NPR, “‘Holla Back DC!’ Calls Out Street Harassment“

* Bell Bajao, “Don’t Call Me, ‘Eve’”

* Richmond.com, “Hollaback! Network Comes To Richmond“

* The Third Estate, “Walk this way?“

* Te Waha Nui, “Women harrassed in the street start to holler back“

* Queens Chronicle, “A different groper in Jackson Heights” and YourNabe.com, “Lawmakers warn residents of E. Elmhurst groper“

* Jezebel, “Woman-Only Earphones are Strong Enough for Him But Made Just for Suckers“

* Yahoo News, “American girl in Italy: 60 years later” and my response on Stop Street Harassment, “‘American Girl in Italy’ DOES Depict Street Harassment“

* Groundswell Voices, “Jonell on Sexual Harassment, Street Harassment and “Hey Shorty!””

* Tip of a Tongue, “Open Letter #2.“

Announcements:

New:

* Are you in Baltimore, MD? A Goucher College student is looking for focus group participants to talk about street harassment as part of her thesis research. Details.

Reminders/On-Going:

* Do you have a stare that can turn #streetharassers to stone? Then participate in the Medusa Gaze Project! http://tinyurl.com/6fhh3tz

* Sign Mend the Gap’s petition to address subway harassment in Delhi, India

* Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers

* Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

1. shani_o: No, old guy on the street that I do not know, I would not like to go to lunch with you

2. wardasahra @e_Chill I speak as a girl, and those street ‘flirts’ never make me smile or grin. They are never welcome and I view it as harassment.

3. sydmosley Despite the fact that #streetharassment sucks, there is a sisterhood, comraderie, mutuality in shared experience that is empowering.

4. femmeniste “Man, I need to get me a white girl,” says guy on the street while pointing at me. #Subtle #streetharassment #comeahhhhhhn

5. clairesgould Thursday night with a side of #streetharassment. Ugh. Come on, DC. The count is getting a bit high for August.

6. sallyzohney Been told harassment verbal n physical in #hussein skyrocketing in ramadan,almost no tourists around,street beggars all around. Sad!@EngyG

7. Salencita Still can’t describe how sad, yet comforted, I am that this tumblr exists howmanywomen.tumblr.com Street Harassment Sucks.

8. FeistyFeminist1 Don’t stare at me until I’m uncomfortable, say “Hey, Baby”, and then chuckle as I scoff & walk away. Asshole. #streetharassment

9. CharriseRenee It’s definitely not polite to beep your horn incessantly or catcall a young lady… #NoBueno

10. evachen212 Just heard a guy catcall a girl (not me, thank god) by shrieking “hey, sugar booger”. men, please note: that is not at all appealing

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“Hey Baby” Hurts | Psychology Today

August 20, 2011 By HKearl

Dr. Kathryn Stamoulis writes a column for Psychology Today and yesterday she poignantly wrote about why addressing street harassment matters:

“Leers and derogatory comments are familiar to many women, especially those who live or work in an urban environment. Blasé attitudes towards cat calls, with reactions such as, “it’s no big deal” or “take it as a compliment” act to downplay what is in actuality a form of sexual harassment. Recently I was confronted with the story of a young teenager whose experience reminded me of the serious psychological implications of street harassment.

14 year-old Sarah* was brought to my counseling office by her concerned parents who were worried that she wasn’t exhibiting enough independence for her age. Sarah, they said, was often hesitant to run errands on her own and wanted to be escorted when she walked to and from school. I met with Sarah one-on-one to get her reaction to her parents concerns, and after a few minutes she blurted out “I don’t like old men saying things to me”.

Sarah had been keeping a secret from her parents. On an almost daily basis, men were making sexual comments to her when she was on the street or taking public transportation. These comments ranged from “hey baby” to explicit remarks about her body. To cope with the harassment she had developed strategies such as wearing headphones or pretending to talk on the phone. Despite her resourcefulness, Sarah was forced to become aware of the sexual way in which some men viewed her, when she just wanted to go to her friend’s house or walk to school…..

The frequency of this form of harassment is both shocking and serious in its implications. In Sarah’s case, she was restricting her behavior and fearful of being alone. At a critical stage of development, this fear was hindering her ability to gain confidence by completing tasks independently. She even turned down a job offer to walk her neighbor’s dog, something that could have increased her sense of responsibility and self-esteem.

Aside from its effects on her independence, this harassment could also have an effect on how she views her own body. A study in the Journal of Social Justice Research found that street harassment was related to self-objectification. Self-objectification is a process by which girls learn to think about their own bodies as objects of other people’s desires. Instead of appreciating the body for its abilities, its strengths or its pleasures, a person sees it as something for other people’s enjoyment. Multiple studies have linked self-objectification with an increase in rates of depression, anxiety and eating disorders as well as lower academic achievement.

Harassment and self-objectification are linked to lower academic achievement because they rob a person of valuable cognitive resources. For example, the time Sarah spent being vigilant and pretending to talk on her cell phone was time not spent processing the events of the day at school or mentally preparing for an exam.

Aside from all the negative effects of harassment noted above, most simply the harassment Sarah faced made her enjoy her time less, and that alone is a tragedy….”

(Read the full article)

When I began researching street harassment for a book, it was when I realized just how much street harassment negatively effects women’s and girls’ lives that I decided to channel my passion for equality into this issue. It really is a big deal, especially when we think about its impact on teenage girls.

It’s time to change things.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: kathryn stamoulis, psychology today, street harassment

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