“How come your hand doesn’t slip over a hot oven?”
A guy on a bus in India thinks it’s funny to “accidentally” let his hand slip to touch a female passenger. His buddies seem to think it’s funny, too. Watch what happens when he tries to touch her a second time…
This video clearly shows how a bystander can end a harassment incident and help change the social acceptability of harassment, especially when the woman experiencing harassment may not feel able to respond. The bystander did not back down and he thought fast on his feet with his retorts. (Side note: I am against the use of violence if at all possible).
What other responses do you think the bystander – or the woman facing the harassment – could have given when “Romeo”‘s asserted that his hand slip was an accident?
New Indian study: 98 percent of women report street harassment
There aren’t a lot of studies out there about street harassment, so this week I was happy to read about two more. They were recently conducted in Korea and India.
#1: In a study of 828 salaried employees in an unnamed city in Korea, 43 percent said they experienced sexual harassment during their commute, and 79 percent were women. Via The Korean Times:
“Nearly 72 percent of the incidents occurred on subway cars, followed by buses at 27.3 percent and taxis at 1.1 percent. Nearly 60 percent said they experienced harassment between 7 a.m. and 9 a.m. when most workers are on their way to work, while 17 percent were between 6 p.m. and 8 p.m. while returning home from work.
About 61.9 percent said at the time of the sexual harassment, it was too crowded for them to move within the subway train or bus. In response to the harassment, 43.2 percent said they did nothing about it, and 25 percent moved to a different place. Only 18.2 percent strongly protested against the assailants and 6.3 percent shouted in anger.”
Unfortunately, the findings aren’t too different from surveys conducted in Chicago and New York City regarding harassment on the transit systems. The growing number of women-only transit around the world plus studies like these are a testament to the global problem of sexual harassment on public transportation.
#2: In the state capitol of Thiruvananthapurm in the south Indian state Keralaas, 1000 women were recently interviewed about street harassment. Ninety-eight percent said they had experienced it and 90 percent said the harassment was either physically or vocally violent. The harassment was notable on public transportation and 62 percent had experienced it there. Only seven percent had reported any of their experiences of harassment.
The study was part of UNIFEM’s safe cities project in India and once they have completed their studies they will work on solutions to make public places safer for women and girls. I met several people working on this initiative within the UN and Jagori at a recent conference in India. I am so grateful for the work they are doing!
Street Harassment Snapshot: December 19, 2010
Story Submissions Recap:
I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!
- Stop Street Harassment Blog: 4 stories from people in New York, Wales, India, and Chicago
- HollaBack DC!: 5 new stories
- HollaBack Israel: 9 new stories
- HollaBack NYC: 7 new stories
- HollaBack Toronto: 1 new story
Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:
- The Star Online, “Rapid Lady Bus for the fairer sex“
- News Blaze, “41 Countries Affirm The Need to Ensure Safety of Women“
- The Star, “HerSpace: Mideast women log on, speak out“
- Al Masry Al Youm, “678: Sexual harassment in a movie“
- The National, “Film shines spotlight on Egypt’s sexual harassment“
- Bikyamasr, “Safe Cities … Making Cairo safe for all“
- Emma, “Brull zuruck!“
- Fast Company, “Change Generation: Emily May, Executive Director, Hollaback!“
- TBD.com, “Holla Back DC! counts every catcall“
- Moojos.com, “The Pervert, Creep, and the Crude Oaf: Making Threat Assessments When Being Harassed on the Street“
- Feministing, “Making the links between street harassment, bullying, and toxic masculinity“
- A Very Rude Girl, “I Ain’t No Hollaback Girl“
- The Rhodes Project, “On Street Harassment and Blaming the Victim“
- Jezebel, “How To Shout Down A Perv: Tips And Tricks From The Subway Badass“
- Write-Sizing, “Street Harassment in 2010“
- F-Bomb, “Survival of the Fittest“
- Fully Engaged Feminism Podcast, “Episode 20 – Street Harassment, TV & ‘Sexy Dolls’”
Events:
- Join RightRides in NYC on Jan 4th @ Union Square 2-5 p.m. to pass out information on keeping mass transit safe for women & LGBTQ folks! http://tinyurl.com/NYFSTOutreach
Announcements:
New:
- Here are ideas for end-of-year-giving to organizations that work to make public places safer for women and girls, and you can also find a few gift ideas for people who care about ending street harassment
On-going:
- Did you miss the Dec. 11th Webinar about writing street harassment op-eds with journalist Elizabeth Mendez Berry? Here’s the recording if so!
- Consider buying the book Stop Street Harassment for a holiday gift.
- Are you in the Washington, DC – area? If you are, please take an online survey for HollaBack DC!
- Take a survey about your cab use-age for a researcher’s project
- Are you a college student or work on a campus? Take SAFER’s Winter Break Challenge and help improve campus sexual assault policies across the nation
- Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
- Have an iPhone? Download a new iPhone app that lets you report street harassers!
Tweets from the Week:
- JessiDG Welcome to the anti-#streetharassment scene @HollaBackBmore ! We’re glad you’re here to speak for Charm City.
- elmyra @bunnyrabble A do think a *lot* violence women experience is gender-based – both major like rape and minor like street harassment.
- JustFemmeMedia “Bangalore is definitely safe for women” – C K Meena, Journalist & author #pEtEmaatu http://ow.ly/3nV29
- hkearl Girl commits suicide after sexual harassment in Jharkhand http://tinyurl.com/2aocpoq #streetharassment #VAW
- shantique http://tinyurl.com/22vr5bd Street Harassment or How I Spent My Summer Vacation!
- WomensRights: Intl Violence Against Women Act passed in the Senate Foreign Relations Cmtte! (via @amnesty) http://bit.ly/fYUGlL #VAWJustFemme Street sexual harassment: The men who speak out http://nblo.gs/bOHvN
- tameshadps85 http://ping.fm/sygWr No writing on street harassment is complete without an examination of the role of male bystanders. In this condition,
- sasaragor How many women do you see goobing on the street day-to-day? Now how many men? Whose streets? #streetharassment
Support anti-street harassment efforts this holiday season
Lately, I’ve been inundated with e-mails and letters from every organization I donated to during their year + their best friend organizations, asking me to donate again. As much as I obviously care about most of those organizations if I’ve already donated to them, my end of year giving is going to two organizations that do anti-street harassment-related work, RightRides and RAINN. You may be interested in donating to them, too.
Right Rides for Women’s Safety: For more than six years RightRides has been giving free rides home to women and male members of the LGBQT community on Friday and Saturday nights in New York City. This free service is particularly helpful to people who cannot afford a cab and are reliant on buses and subways and feel unsafe waiting for or taking these late at night. RightRides has a page about the many ways you can become involved. A new feature is recurring gifts. $10/month can cover rides home for 12 people that year and $25/month covers about 30 people’s rides home. Any amount helps.
- RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Individuals across the United States can seek immediate assis
tance and advice if they or someone they know are survivors of rape and sexual violence via RAINN’s national phone hotline and online chat feature. While most people know their attacker, about 25 percent do not, and many of those cases are strangers in public places who harass and attack them. When too often survivors of sexual violence are blamed for it and thus are silenced and don’t know what to do, RAINN’s services are very important. RAINN also works on prevention legislation and programming. If you donate by Dec. 31, your donation will be matched dollar for dollar, so you can make double the impact.
Here are additional suggestions for organizations whose work makes public places – and the world in general – safer for women and girls. Not only could you do end-of-year giving to them, but you could make a gift out of donating in honor of family members and friends who care about ending and/or are impacted by street harassment.
- Blank Noise – Support work in India to raise awareness about and end eve teasing/street harassment through performance art and online activism
- Defend Yourself – Support the work of a Washington, DC organization that holds community workshops and classes that teach skills to stop harassment, abuse and assault. They particularly focus on girls, women, and LGBQT folks.
Girls for Gender Equity – Support a NYC organization that empowers teenage girls and has tackled street harassment through surveys, documentaries, conferences, and books- Helping Our Teen Girls – Help fund the programs of an Atlanta, GA, organization that empowers teenage girls and has tackled street harassment through workshops and music.
- Hollaback – Support the NYC-based organization so they can fund new Hollaback websites around the world
- The Line – Help fund programs to raise awareness of healthy sexual boundaries, important work that can help prevent street harassment and sexual assault.
- Men Can Stop Rape – Support rape prevention programming in middle and high schools and colleges that focuses on providing boys with a safe place to talk about masculinity issues and learn healthy definitions of manhood.
- The White Ribbon Campaign – Support an international organization that works to educate young men and boys about gender equity, respect and healthy relationships.
- Women for Women International – Help fund programming that helps women in war-torn areas gain skills and resources necessary to rebuild their lives and increase their safety in their community. You can also sponsor an individual woman as a sister.
And are you looking for other last-minute gift ideas? I can suggest a few:
Books:
- Back Off: How to Confront and Stop Sexual Harassment and Harassers, by Martha Langelan ($0.01 – $24)
- Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe and Welcoming for Women, by me ($22 – $44)
- Hey, Shorty!: A Guide to Combating Sexual Harassment and Violence in Schools and on the Streets, by Joanne Smith, Meghan Huppuch, Mandy Van Deven (available for Pre-Order) ($10)
- The Good Men Project: Real Stories from the Front Lines of Modern Manhood, edited by James Houghton, Larry Bean, and Tom Matlack ($15)
- The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help, by Jackson Katz ($6 – $13)
- Men and Feminism, by Shira Tarrant ($6 – $10)
- Unexpected Allies: Men Who Stop Rape, by Todd Denny ($11 – 17)
- Documentaries:
- Hey…Shorty! by Girls for Gender Equity ($20)
- Hip-Hop: Beyond Beats and Ryhmes, by Bryon Hurt ($150 – only the educational version is available)
- The Good Men Project: Real Stories from the Front Lines of Modern Manhood ($15)
- War Zone, by Maggie Hadleight-West (depending on the version and length, $25 – $200)
Music (MP3 Downloads)
- “Stop Looking at My Moms,” by the Astronomical Kid ($.99)
- “The Story,” by Ani DiFranco ($.99)
- “U.N.I.T.Y.,” by Queen Latifah ($.99)
- Video Games
- Hey Baby, by Suyin Looui (play online for free)
- Prints (postcard size through poster size):
- Street harassment comic by Barry Deutsch (ranging in price from $2 – $22)
Do you have other suggestions?


