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Street harassment survey for Toronto Org

October 29, 2010 By HKearl

HollaBack is partnering with a group called METRAC to do a survey on street harassment.  They are hoping to use the results to build an iPhone app in their hometown of Toronto, Canada.

Please take the survey! Thanks

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: METRAC, sexual harassment, street harassment

NYC Street Harassment Hearing is a Success!

October 28, 2010 By HKearl

Today I had the honor of testifying with 17 other women and men at a city council hearing about the problem of street harassment in New York City. Those who testified included representatives of groups like HollaBack, Girls for Gender Equity, RightRides, NYC-NOW, and Center for Anti-Violence Education, journalist Elizabeth Mendez Berry, the amazing 14-year-old performer/singer The Astronomical Kid, and many community members (including my mother). Every single testimony was powerful, heartfelt, and important.

Each person had about 5 minutes to speak, and I was asked to talk about the global problem and offer policy suggestions. I’m working to collect the testimonies of everyone who spoke to post here so people who couldn’t attend can read them. The official testimonies won’t be available for weeks. To start, here is my testimony and here is the testimony of high school student Grace.

[Update: View or read 10 testimonies from the hearing on my Stop Street Harassment website page for the hearing]

I was able to record all or part of several testimonies and I uploaded them to the Stop Street Harassment YouTube Channel:

Watch testimonies from the hearing

This is historic because it is the first time a major U.S. city has held a hearing on this topic and NYC is one of the largest and most influential cities in the world!!

Julissa Ferreras chaired the meeting and she truly understood and heard us on this issue, as did the other council members. I am grateful to her for organizing the hearing. By the end, she said they would like to pursue the first city-wide study of street harassment and launch an awareness campaign. This is huge. This is social change.

Here’s the HollaBack recap.

Many members of the press were in attendance, including someone from the AP. AP journalist Sara Kugler Frazier wrote an article and already the following media outlets have picked up the story: Washington Post, MSNBC, Boston Globe, NY Post, Salon, Yahoo, Huffington Post, Canadian Press, AJC, USA News, and Kansas City Star. The NY Metro, AM New York, the NYC CBS News, TampaBay.com,  Fox News, and Gothamist also wrote stories. I spoke with a blogger for Ms. so I know it will be covered there, too.

This is amazing coverage for this important issue. I hope every city takes notice and considers holding their own street harassment hearing and working on community solutions for making their city safer and more welcoming for women!

Fox News NYC City Council Street Harassment Hearing Clip
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Filed Under: Events, News stories Tagged With: catcalls, emily may, hollaback, holly kearl, NYC Council hearing on street harassment, stop street harassment, street harassment hearing

“I should really have a talk with my sixty-three-year-old mother about her slutty boots”

October 27, 2010 By HKearl

I’m in graduate school and am 30 years old. I wore the knee-high, black sweet boots with a chunky heel (my mother’s) to school last week with a sundress and black suit jacket over it. As I was walking home, the following exchange occurred:

Man working on the street: “[KISS NOISE] Hello!”

Me: “Did you just make a kiss noise at me?”

Man: “No.”

Me: “OK. Good. Just checking.”

And I walked on by, not missing a beat. For the first time.

Was it the boots? I should really have a talk with my sixty-three-year-old mother about her slutty boots that communicate a desire for sexual advances from strangers (as if that would grant permission). I should have a talking-to with that suit jacket, too.

– Rachel

Location: New Haven, CT

Share your street harassment story today and help raise awareness about the problem. Include your location and it will be added to the Street Harassment Map.

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Goodbye, miniskirt?

October 26, 2010 By HKearl

In a push to “restore urban decorum and facilitate better civil co-existence,” Luigi Bobbio, the mayor of the Italian seaside town Castellammare di Stabia, wants to ban “anti-social behavior.” Okay, so probably sexual harassment, racial harassment, bullying, and so forth, right?

No.

The mayor claims he wants to target people who are “rowdy, unruly or simply badly behaved,” and to him, this entails people who are sunbathing, playing football in public places, engaging in “blasphemy,” and…. wearing miniskirts and low cut jeans.

What?

There’s a lot one could say about this, but I’m going to focus on what is street harassment-related.

First, I want to say that I’m pretty tired of people (including other women) blaming women’s clothes for causing the harassment and violence men perpetrated against them. I heard that a lot in the past two weeks when I was traveling through California, Alaska, and Iowa, talking about street harassment. (“…Well, the way girls dress these days…”) This is flawed logic because women experience harassment and assault no matter what they wear (men have harassed me the most and the most explicitly when I’m wearing bagging running clothes, sweaty and red faced) and the idea that some clothes are provocative and others are not are cultural constructs that vary by culture! The problem is not women or their clothes.

I am certain that banning types of clothing alone will not cut down on “unruly” behavior. Most women in Yemen and Egypt, most of whom are veiled and otherwise modestly dressed, experience harassment in public spaces. That makes it crystal clear the problem isn’t women’s clothes but societies which encourage and allow men to harass women without consequence. Until that changes in Italy, they can ban miniskirts all they want and the harassment will continue.

The people who harass the sunbathers or women wearing miniskirts and low cut jeans are the ones whose behavior needs to change. Perhaps the mayor and the town should spend their time launching awareness campaigns about treating people with respect, no matter what they are wearing, and making sure that is taught in schools.

I’m glad that the NYC Council is holding a hearing on Thursday to discuss street harassment and what we can do about it in a logical, thoughtful way, instead of trying to ban certain clothes. Or segregate women from men like some countries have resorted to doing on public transportation because the harassment is so bad there. If you’re in the NYC area, come out at 1 p.m. on Thursday to share your street harassment experiences and ideas for making the city safer for women and girls!

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Filed Under: Events, News stories Tagged With: Castellammare di Stabia, Luigi Bobbio, miniskirt ban, NYC Council hearing on street harassment, street harassment, victim blaming

Weekly Round Up: October 24, 2010

October 24, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

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  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: 6 new stories from women in New York (1 & 2), Wales (1 & 2), Belize, and Leeds (UK)
  • HollaBack DC!: 2 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 4 new stories
  • HollaBackLDN: 5 new stories
  • HollaBack PGH!: 1 new story

In the News, On the Blogs:

  • CNN, “Man accused of assaulting airline passenger“
  • Hello Ladies, “Personal Responsibility“
  • Small Strokes, “Street Harassment. While Driving“
  • June Bug Talk, “Street Harassment and the Problem of WWF (walking while female)“
  • Men’s Anti-Violence Council, “Street Harassment Event“
  • Penultimo, “Ultimo v. East Harlem: some thoughts on sexual harassment“
  • DiamondBack Online, “Washington group tells students to ‘holla back’“
  • The Daily Iowan, “Lecturer discusses street harassment“
  • Stop Street Harassment, “What we wish street harassers would really say“

Announcements:

London anti-street harassment meeting
  • The UK Anti-Street Harassment Campaign met with HollaBackLND & the Guardian‘s Rosie Swash to hold a community anti-street harassment meeting. They also launched a community art project.
  • Is the book Stop Street Harassment at your library? If not, request it! You can also buy it online at Amazon or Barnes & Noble.
  • HollaBack NYC is hiring a Program Director & had a new website!
  • HollaBack DC! is looking for a graphic design intern
  • RightRides is looking for interns & volunteers in NYC

Upcoming Events:

  • Oct. 25: HollaBack DC & NYC & RightRides talk at Barnard, NY, 6:30 p.m.
  • Oct. 28: Public hearing on street harassment in NYC, 1 p.m.

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • snakesforhair To the sleazebag men of the world: if you whistle & fucking catcall at a woman & she ignores you, this doesn’t mean you should do it again.
  • pedestrienne @cardiffbites Don’t let it go unnoted! Report #streetharassment here: http://www.stopstreetharassment.com/ Victimising women must stop.
  • missystark past few days i received 2 wolf whistles & 2 other assorted types of street harassment…i didnt know wolf whistles were still in style…
  • iHollaback Slideshow on #streetharassment with a little Ani DiFranco in the background. http://youtu.be/7yxEA9IwTKA
  • StephieMae Getting ready to prep for a discussion of street harassment in tomorrow’s class…
  • BLANK_NOISE #blanknoisethisplace site of violence isnt fiction. take a pic of place u experienced #streetharassment http://bit.ly/buNHFy
  • nwilborn19 @carolynedgar she’s a baby, that’s horrible. I’m not a fan of street harassment of grown women. Its infuriating to see it happen to children
  • Darrenissane RT @rm_phoenix: Street harassment is a really important issue, for both women & men. Please check out @lashcampaign & @hollabackLDN Retweet
  • kimi2710 Today I finished writing an essay about sexual harassment at work and in public!
  • JessiDG I’m decided. Protester shadowing a woman, muttering and “counseling” her = #streetharassment. It’s not speech; it’s intimidation.
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: hollaback, sexual harassment, street harassment

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