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Harassment on buses in Pakistan

February 2, 2010 By HKearl

Via Islamabad Metblogs

Sadly, many girls and women in Islamabad, Pakistan, report feeling unsafe when waiting at bus stops and when riding the bus. Bus drivers were commonly cited culprits in a Daily Times article, with girls and women saying they used their mirrors to ogle women and blasted sexually vulgar music. Women and girls who must sit in the front seat also can be groped or otherwise touched indecently by the driver.

Because taxis are expensive but they do not want to be harassed either, some women and girls try to wait until the buses aren’t so crowded to ride them, but then that can make them late and otherwise inconvenience them.

The article says the government has considered women-only transportation, a cop-out and band-aid fix many other countries have opted to have in their big cities. The downside of course is they do nothing to check harassing men’s behavior and still leave women who wait at bus stops or who do not live along women-only bus routes vulnerable.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: bus harassment, Islamabad, Pakistan, sexual harassment, women-only

Hey baby, baby/Whatcha want, you’re stalking me

February 1, 2010 By HKearl

Today I came across an anti-street harassment song called “Cat Calling” by The Dollyrots. Thoughts?

“No! No!
No! No!
No! No!
No! No!

Hey baby, baby
Whatcha want, you’re calling me
Dumb standing around the lunch truck so greedily

Hey baby, baby
Just another dog I see
Rolling in the dirt you’re barking up the wrong tree

So maybe you’re crazy
Never get a bone
Ooh you’re just too much man for me
Yeah maybe you’re crazy

Never catch me
You can’t make me

Had enough
I’ve had enough

Cat cat calling and I just don’t care
Cat cat calling so I’m out of here

No! No! Never gonna hear you
No! No! Never to be near you
Never to be near you

Hey baby, baby
Whatcha want, you’re stalking me
Bang bang your hammer
Caveman sensibilities

Hey baby, baby
Acting out a fantasy
I’ll get you so bad you’re crying for my sympathy”

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Filed Under: Resources Tagged With: anti-street harassment, cat calling, cat calls, feminist music, songs, street harassment, the dollyrots

Weekly Round Up Jan. 31, 2010

January 31, 2010 By HKearl

Stories:

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  • On this blog, a woman was harassed on her way to see “Avatar” in Peterborough and another woman is regularly harassed by a man in her town in Maryland.
  • On HollaBack DC! a woman is harassed by a screamer and another woman had a man yell “Booo!” at her.
  • On HollaBack NYC a woman videotapes a subway groper and another woman takes a cell phone pic of a man taking one of her!

In the News:

  • In Edmonton, Canada, 15-yr old girls help get their groper arrested.
  • Street harassment is a big problem in Morocco.
  • In Bangladesh, a young woman committed suicide and her note said it was because she was so humiliated by a street harasser.
  • A Washington Post writer polls his readers to find out how many are gropers.

Announcements:

  • Last day to vote for the HollaBack! phone app!!
  • Congrats to HollaBack DC! on their one-year anniversary.

Events:

  • Save the Date on Feb. 13 and Feb. 14 for the Vagina Monologues in Washington, DC — it’s a fundraiser to bring RightRides to Washington, DC

Resource of the Week:

  • Girls Fight Back

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Filed Under: News stories, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: sexual harassment, street harassment

Make it happen! – Last day to vote

January 31, 2010 By HKearl

Cross-posted from HollaBack NYC

You got us here, now help us seal the deal.  Give your five star rating to Hollaback and help us win the Knight News Challenge.

Over the past month 1,732 of you have checked out our application, making us the most viewed project of the competition.  Even more impressive, 102 of you have voted for our project, securing us the most votes.  But yesterday, our competitors showed their poor sportsmanship by slamming our project with one star votes and sinking Hollaback! from #1 to #15.  It’s your take-no-shit attitude that has made our project a success over the past five years.  So let’s rally on this cold winter day hollaback! at these haters to get this project funded.

This is your chance to fight street harassment worldwide. Vote now. Voting ends today.

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: hollaback, street harassment, vote

75 percent of women have been followed by a stranger

January 29, 2010 By HKearl

January is National Stalking Awareness Month. 3.4 million people over age 18 are stalked each year – a huge number! Most people are stalked by someone they know and about 10 percent are stalked by a stranger. One form of street harassment is being followed by a stranger, but being followed once by a person does not seem to characterize stalking, otherwise I think the stranger stalking statistic would be much higher.

In fall 2008, when I informally surveyed over 900 people in 45 states and 23 countries about their experiences in public spaces, 75 percent of the 811 women said they had been followed by an unknown person at least once. Anecdotally, I’ve received numerous story submissions for this blog from women who had a strange man follow them.

Being stalked or being followed once by someone can be characterized as romantic or flattering to the target, mainly if they are of the opposite sex. Both behaviors are not. In one of my survey questions where people could say how different behaviors they were the target of made them feel, most women said being followed made them fearful. Being followed was second only to being assaulted for how much it upset them. My scariest experiences have been when unknown men have followed me, too. You don’t know what they want or what they intend to do.

Have you been stalked? Followed once by a stranger? What happened? How did it make you feel?

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: following, national stalking awareness month, stalking, street harassment

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