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Get a life

January 13, 2010 By HKearl

To anonymous story submitter of today: Submitting fake stories to me saying you were raped and then going “hahahah jk” is not funny.

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Weekly Round Up Jan. 10, 2010

January 10, 2010 By HKearl

Now that I’m done writing my book, I’m back to doing a weekly round up blog post on Sundays. This is my first edition since August, welcome!

Stories:

Share your street harassment story today and help raise awareness about the problem. Include your location and it will be added to the Street Harassment Map.

  • On this blog, a woman in Manchester, UK, tells about a time a man harassed her and a friend on the bus and then the man slapped her behind. A woman in New York City says that “dressing professionally” doesn’t stop men from harassing her. Another woman tells how a man stalked her at a bookstore in Norristown, PA.
  • On HollaBack DC! a woman shares how a man harassed her when she was eating a salad at a restaurant and another woman shares how her new response to harassers worked out.

In the News:

  • A man who masturbated in a Starbucks in Chicago while staring at women patrons was charged with indecent exposure.
  • A man in Portland was arrested after he gave unwanted haircuts to fellow female bus riders.
  • A draft anti-sexual harassment law was introduced in Egypt this week.
  • An Egyptian woman writes an opinion piece about how being veiled doesn’t prevent men from groping women.
  • Learn how groping happens, from the Washington City Paper.

Announcements:

  • Want an easy way to report harassers from your phone or want to receive a report showing all the places harassment has recently occurred? Then vote for HollaBack 2.0! This is a proposed project by HollaBack NYC and RightRides and they’re in the second round of a competition for funding to make this a reality.
  • After more than two months, I updated my HarassMap with the stories people have submitted to my blog. Check out the map to see all the places where street harassment is occurring.

Events:

  • Eight weeks of self defense classes through Defend Yourself begin Jan 26. Learn more, sign up.

Resource of the Week:

  • A Question of Law: Massachusetts School of Law professors discuss street harassment

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Public masturbation…not funny

January 10, 2010 By HKearl

A man at a Starbucks in Chicago was charged with public indecency after being reported (and caught on video) fondling himself while staring at women patrons.

The Consumerist covered this story, and, as people who write online comments are apt to do in response to stories about street harassment, sexual assault, and all things gender-based, most people made light of this incident. They said things like “He was just practicing safe sex. Don’t hate. Masturbate.” and “As a regular starbucks customer, I am much more careful about my secret perversions & fondling.” and “Hey if someone wants to rub one out at Starbucks go for it. i wonder if that will end up as part of the froth to the next capp they serve.”

As far as I can tell, most comments were from men and they (unsurprisingly) neglected to consider how disgusted, disturbed, and even threatened a woman can feel as the recipient/target of such actions. Instead they treat what happened as a big joke. I like jokes. I don’t like men treating women in public spaces as though they exist to serve as their personal masturbatory tool. In the context of gender inequality and rape culture, I just don’t see the humor.

Thanks for the story tip, B

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: consumerist, masturbation, sexual harassment, starbucks, starbucks perv, street harassment

A bus is not a hair cuttery

January 7, 2010 By HKearl

Jared Walter, via true crime report

Okay this is weird. In at least three reported incidents, a 22-year old man in Portland, OR, decided to give unwanted haircuts to women riding his bus. The woman whose hair he cut on New Year’s Eve called 911 and he was arrested. He’s being charged with interfering with public transit, disorderly conduct and harassment (and also robbery because he’s a suspect in a string of neighborhood break-ins).

Umm creepy!

thanks to MRH for the story tip.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: creepy bus guys, hair cut, oregon, portland, street harassment

Vote for phone app & make it easier to report street harassers

January 6, 2010 By HKearl

Cross-posted from HollaBack NYC:

Thanks to the 3,800 of you who voted for Hollaback 2.0, we made it to the second round of the Knight News Foundation. Now we are asking you to vote again.

If you want to stop worrying if you could run in those heels if you needed to, vote again.

If you want to slap the next man who tells you to “smile,” vote again.

If your head scarf, puffy coat, and winter boats still aren’t making you harassment-free, vote again.

Each story you submit is read by 1,000 people: now that’s leadership. Your stories, your vision, and your commitment got us here. Now it’s time to step up our game and build a platform that uses today’s technology to make even easier to Hollaback. We’ve never been able to do it without you, so we’re not going to try now. Vote again.

It’s your future. Make it harassment-free.

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