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#MySafetySelfie Project

February 25, 2015 By Contributor

Conceived by site-specific narratologist and writer Jay Pitter, #mysafetyselfie is a project that is curating selfies + stories from women highlighting spatial and social factors compromising their safety in public spaces. After establishing a career as a public funder and then a corporate marketing communications director, Pitter earned a graduate degree at York University’s Faculty of Environmental Studies.

Her experiences of compromised safety as a young person coupled with her passion for inclusive city building led her to focus her research on environmental design, crime prevention through environmental design (CPTED), and urban placemaking. Pitter is excited about the ways that #mysafetyselfies, can be used to create a space for women to participate in conversations pertaining to urban design, architecture, and public space policy. Also, she is adamant about presenting the stories of women in a high-quality, responsible and dignified manner. The goals of this project goes beyond the collection of selfies; Jay plans on creating an online platform, community engagement series, published work, exhibitions, and curricula.

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“I was afraid of being ignored or laughed at”

February 24, 2015 By Contributor

I was walking from Brixton Market to Brixton Road on a busy Friday at 8 p.m. I didn’t feel at risk because there were a lot of people around and I was walking along a well-lit street with shops.

As I was walking through the scaffolding which is currently lining part of Coldharbour Lane (which has the bad effect of cutting the path off from the rest of the street and giving it an alleyway-like effect) I noticed a man coming towards me. As I say, I had no suspicion or fear as, fortunately, I am accustomed to walking past men without adverse consequences. However as we walked past each other this squat man in his forties or fifties stuck his hand out and gave my ass a good squeeze. Unlike me, he had noticed that for a few seconds we were the only people in the street, and had taken advantage of the fact. I was so shocked and scared by his action and by how vulnerable I suddenly felt that I carried on walking (towards the main road) and only shouted some insults back at him.

A big group of people came round the corner straight after, and I considered telling them, because the man was still just walking casually along the road ahead. But I was afraid that they might laugh or refuse to do anything, and so add further to my humiliation.

I think it could be helpful to have posters in the street, encouraging people to take action against this kind of event – perhaps saying something like ‘GROPING AND VERBAL HARASSMENT ARE A CRIME AND ARE PUNISHABLE BY A FINE OF £— OR JAIL. PLEASE REPORT THIS CRIME TO THE POLICE AND HELP US CATCH THE CRIMINALS WHO DO THIS.’ If I had been sure that this is universally considered to be unacceptable and illegal, then I would have said something and perhaps they could have helped me to punish, shame or take the man to the police. Instead, I was afraid of being ignored or laughed at.

It is absolutely disgusting that some people feel like they can walk around taking whatever they want. Someone whose morals are so low as to enable them to touch a woman and take advantage of her vulnerability are surely not above rape. They should be dealt with as seriously as criminals, to clearly put out the message that ANY TYPE of unwanted sexual act is absolutely unacceptable.

– Anonymous

Location: Coldharbour Lane, Brixton, London, United Kingdom

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“I hope it doesn’t scar me forever.”

February 17, 2015 By Contributor

Today was the first time I was harassed. I just froze up. A group of boys who were younger than me were walking behind me and my friend. We were just walking to the subway, and they made loud comments about my body. I was disgusted, embarrassed, and scared. I could not believe an (about) 11 year old could do that. I tried to walk away but snow was on the ground. It has pretty much ruined my day. I just froze up. This has left me wishing I did more than freeze up. Apparently they thought it was funny. It’s not. I hope it doesn’t scar me forever.

– Anonymous

Location: On my way home

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“Why do you have to be that way??”

February 11, 2015 By Contributor

Random Man: Come on baby, give me a smile…

Me: [gives little smile]

Random Man: What, That’s it?! I don’t bite, just make my day better.

Me: [continues to walk]

Random Man: [grabs my arm and pulls me closer to him] Why do you have to be that way??

Me: There’s my bus, I have to get to class!
[rides a random bus for 30 minutes late and gets scolded for being late to accounting class]

Optional: Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

Education on what exactly street harassment is, maybe?

– Elizabeth

Location: State and Lake, Chicago, IL

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“The officer visited his house”

February 10, 2015 By Contributor

Being a young pretty model, verbal harassment happens often. Being from south of Russia originally I usually put them back in their place or publicly draw attention to them. However this time it was slightly irrational.

There was no one around and two lads stopped in a car just to tell me “You are shit you are really really shit f*** you!” It was so out of nowhere that I was scared to say anything back. So I came home and dialed 999. I had taken down his plate number. The inspector rang me back to make sure I know they take it seriously. Then after an hour a female officer came to see me. It turned out it was a crime as section 5 public order offence, besides it was gender-based. The officer visited his house, etc. He now has a criminal record. Ladies, you don’t have to take this shit!

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Mother’s in Britain should stop telling their daughters to ignore it or be a bigger person. If anything g ignoring makes you feel like a smaller person

– Nara

Location: Liverpool, UK

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