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Workshop Idea: Fight Harassmet 101

July 10, 2013 By Contributor

Here’s an example of a workshop you can hold in your community. Find more event & workshop ideas.

Fight Harassment 101 (FH101) was created to educate female Egyptians and non-Egyptians about harassment and the use of self-defense. Once a week at the American University of Cairo, 15 students would take part in FH101 for two hours for about 10 weeks.

Weekly, 2-3 young women as well as a black belt Judo instructor hosted the initiative. At the beginning of class, an information page was provided to the attendees, mostly copied from Holly Kearl’s website, Stop Street Harassment, that provided information about: what to do if harassed, what harassment is, and the contact information for the organization HarassMap in Egypt.

During the first 30 minutes, the young women would discuss harassment and any incidents they experienced in the past to encourage them to no longer feel ashamed or blamed for the harassment they experience.

The next hour and half focused on learning self-defense. Not all young women were active in exercise, but they were taught not only the basic defense mechanisms, but also more physicals ones such as how to punch, or throw a person over if they grab them from behind, et cetra. We did not expect these young women to be able to do this if they experienced a physical assault, but we hoped by providing these tools, they would feel more able to defend themselves and perhaps ward away any potential attackers.

Out of the 15 students, about 13 wore hijab, countering the notion that harassment is correlated with the way someone is dressed. Although these women were trained with the basics, it gave them a sense of empowerment to defend themselves in the worst-case scenarios. At first they were shy about sharing their experiences, but once they found it was a common occurrence and learned that it was not their fault, they felt the need to fight against it. Many did not know that in some parts of the world, sexual harassment is considered to be a human rights violation.

Here are two articles I wrote about the class.

1. Fight Harassment 101: Egypt’s Obstacle to Ending Sexual Harassment

2. Enough Talk on Harassment, Egypt — Do Something About It

Holly Dagres, an Iranian American, is an analyst and commentator on Middle East affairs. Currently living in Egypt, she is a researcher at the Cairo Review of Global Affairs and pursuing a master’s degree in political science at the American University in Cairo.

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“It is not normal. It is harassment.”

July 7, 2013 By Contributor

I have been subjected to a number of incidents over the years involving unwanted attention from men (both verbal and physical). It usually happens on a weekend night out. Unfortunately, it has gotten to the stage now where I actually enjoy getting ready to go out more than actually being out. What surprises and saddens me is that too many people (men and women) tend to dismiss these experiences as “over-reactions.”

I feel its time for us to speak up and say that this harassment is simply unacceptable. I have plenty of male friends who do not treat women in this way so why should this kind of behaviour be normalized?

It is not normal. It is harassment.

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

I think that men and women need to be educated more on personal boundaries and etiquette. Harassment is not acceptable. It is not “just a joke.” And it is not an “over-reaction” to call someone on their behaviour when it involved unwanted physical or verbal attention.  Also, let’s make victim-blamed a thing of the past.

– Anonymous

Location: Galway City, Galway. Ireland

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“I looked like a prostitute because I was wearing a red lipstick”

July 5, 2013 By Contributor

Early morning, going to work. In my bag are books. One car stopped in front of me. I turned my face and kept walking. Then on the next block he appeared again. Asked if was going to work. I said to him what kind of question was that. And continued walking. He came again apologized for himself saying he wanted to meet me. I told I was going to work and that I was not interested. I never stopped walking, he kept following me and finally offended me saying that I looked like a prostitute because I was wearing a red lipstick!

Serious? In 2013? Give me a break please!

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

I always refuse in a polite way, if the guy keeps bothering me I start to answer very loud, mainly at public places. I have a little knife in my bag and if I need it I sure will use it.

– Rosa

Location: São Paulo Brasil

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“I couldn’t shake the freaky feeling”

July 5, 2013 By Contributor

For my summer internship I have been traveling to and from DC via metro. As I texted my sister that I had reached my home metro stop, a man approached me and was very quickly four inches from my face. I looked up, startled, and asked if I could help him. Maybe he needed directions? He threw his hand towards me and said, “Hi my name is ‘uncomfortable street harasser’s name’ and I think you are beautiful.”

I had absolutely no idea what to do. My whole life I have been taught that if someone asks for a handshake, you reciprocate, and I had no desire to antagonize this crazed man, so I did. Immediately, I regretted it (and purelled later).

He said again, “You are beautiful” and added, “I am going to take you on a date.” At this point I had gained some composure and responded, “Thank you but I am not interested.” What the hell was coming out of my mouth? Why was I “thanking” him? This weirdo had come up to me while I was minding my own business and begun to harass me!

He then continued to ask me out on a date and tell me how much I would be missing should I reject him, which I already had multiple times. As I continued to politely deny him, I looked around to see where and what other metro stop people were doing. Was I safe? There was an older man with an LSU cap across the street giving my harasser a solid stare. He recognized that I was not comfortable and motioned for me to come over to him. But what if I was just exchanging one unwanted come on for another?

I went for Option C – excuse myself. I firmly told my street harasser that I had to make an important phone call and walked over to where others were waiting for a bus. The man eventually stopped staring at me and my sister arrived, but I couldn’t shake the freaky feeling.

I have to say. I am much more vigilant when waiting at the metro, even if I think I am safe in the sunlight.

– Katie

Location: King St. Metro Stop, Alexandria, VA

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“The situation is going from bad to worst”

July 5, 2013 By Contributor

Hi, all. I’m a transexual woman who lives in a small town in Spain.

While I am respected by the majority of neighbours, there is a a small group of lazy young people, maybe in their late adolescence, who sit on the stairs of the church who say all kind of insults, ranging from fagot, transvestite, whore, and ask, “Do you have condoms?”

Every day the situation is going from bad to worst, today they started to walk behind me while menacing me.

I’m considering seriously to start to walk the streets with the cellular recording video on and present a formal denunce to the police using the records as proof.

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

If you expect harassment in a concrete situation, put your phone in mode video and recording on. But avoid to do it in sight of the harassers, this could end in a physical aggression. Do it before the harassment, there are situations like mine where it is perfectly predictable.

– Amanda Azañón Teruel

Location: Las Navas del Marqués, Hermita de la Plaza del Cristo, Spain

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