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Harassed while walking home from work

June 16, 2012 By Contributor

I was walking home at about 7 p.m. on a Friday. I walked past two men and a woman who were drinking on the street, very smartly dressed. As I went past, one of the men started to follow me and yelled that he was going to “shag me in the arse.”

– JS

Location: Surbiton, UK

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“Once you touch me without my consent, boundaries are crossed”

June 14, 2012 By Contributor

A man had asked my grandfather for money so he could get onto the subway. We had no change, so we apologized and said no. Minutes later, while stepping into the subway, the same man walked by, and slapped my ass.

I can deal with cat-calls, wolf whistles, whatever. It’s annoying, and disrespectful, but it’s not going to ruin my day. However, once you touch me without my consent, boundaries are crossed. As a result of childhood rape, I don’t like being touched by anyone, even (especially?) family.

All I had time for after this man slapped me was a gasp. I didn’t get to tell him “hands off,” or “get the fuck away from me,” or “back off, asshole!” Just a gasp, and I think the fact that I was too shocked to tell him off makes me angrier than anything.

– SF

Location: Washington, DC’s metro system

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“A mother breaking generational cycles of the silent acceptance of harassment”

June 13, 2012 By Contributor

I took self defense classes and taught Jasmine, my girlchild, what I learned. On an early evening we were walking on SE 14th St. in Springfield Oregon. To increase her independence, Jasmine, then 11 years old, was allowed to walk about a hundred feet ahead of me as long as she stayed in my sight.

A man on a ten speed bike was riding in our direction and I was surprised to see him stop, incline his head closely into my daughter’s face. It happened suddenly and I felt freaked out. All of a sudden Jasmine snapped back away from him, turned on her heel and sprinted back toward me yelling at the top of her lungs, “MOM, MOM, HE’S TRYING TO GET ME! HE’S TRYING TO GET ME MOM!” She continued yelling and I tore into him, also yelling, “HOW DARE YOU, BASTARD SON OF A BITCH, SICK EFFING FREAK STAY AWAY FROM MY DAUGHTER!”

I wondered for a moment “what if nothing happened,” but my instincts told me otherwise, and I remembered the warm breath of Tess Wiseheart, former director of Portland Womens Crisis line, when she was reassuring me about telling my story during my self produced workshop “little experiments, yes we exist.” Tess breathed words of life into me, “what if you’re RIGHT.”

In this moment with my daughter, I innately knew we were right, though pushing though the internalized oppression caused the old fears that I was “bad, stupid, ugly or crazy.”

What mattered most was my daughter felt safe enough in her own skin, and from the inside out, to immediately take steps for her own protection. As a mother breaking generational cycles of the silent acceptance of harassment and myriad abuses, I felt great! Girlchild knew she could come to me and that I would support and believe her. And across 4 lanes of traffic and two turn lanes, I saw people stop in their tracks, stare across the street in wonder at what our noise was all about.

– Rachel and Jasmine Cerise

Location: SE 14th St. in Springfield, OR

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“There must be a law that helps women deal with this.”

June 12, 2012 By Contributor

Everyday when I walk to my apartment after work, there is always at least five to ten guys hanging out on the sidewalk on the way to my apartment. No matter how many times I have done this, it never becomes easy walking through a group of disgusting men who get pleasure from making females uncomfortable. I have tried different routes, rushing home before a certain time, but no matter what they are always there. It is only on this block because the bodega located on the corner serves as a hangout for these drunken bullies who seemed to be unemployed, uneducated, and down right disgusting.

Now, I have given up and delved into a mini depression. There must be a law that helps women deal with this. Living in NYC, no matter what kind of neighborhood you are walking through, a woman will always some kind of sexual harassment. Ignoring is getting harder and harder since all these men want is a reaction.

Once I stuck up for for a woman that was getting horrible harassment and a young man told me I was stupid and that was not a smart thing to do. There is so much rage for such a trivial situation.

– Chiquita

Location: 672 Academy St., New York City, New York

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“I started carrying safety pins for that”

June 11, 2012 By Contributor

I experienced many times as a young girl in Greece. I was harassed many times walking alone to go swimming, by construction workers who hollered all sorts of disgusting wording to me. All I could do is walk faster.

Another time walking through a crowded area and I was pinched by a young man. I turned around and hit him in the back.

Another time I was at a bridge, just 11-years-old, and I looked down and I saw a man masturbating looking at me. When I rode the crowded buses, men would turn their hand to touch my behind. I started carrying safety pins for that.

Once I was at a movie theatre with my father, and the man next to me proceeded to masturbate. I told my dad nothing and that we had to go.

– Anonymous

Location: Greece

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