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“I deserve far more respect than this”

July 16, 2016 By Contributor

This has happened twice this week. Mere yards from my home, while I was walking down the sidewalk, people in their cars (all of them men) have wolf-whistled or catcalled at me, yelling rude things. In some cases, I wasn’t even 50 feet from the edge of my property. I feel unsafe in my own neighborhood every time it happens; like I can’t leave my apartment to go walk to the store without being bothered. It’s violating, it’s rude, and it leaves me angry and on the verge of tears. I deserve far more respect than this.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

I’m not sure at this point, other than finding a way to make these scumbags picture that their mother/father/priest/etc. is there watching them do it.

–  SS

Location: Westminster, CO, USA

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“She gets whistled at while walking alone along streets”

July 14, 2016 By Contributor

This did not happen to me, but to my girlfriend. I heard stories from her that she gets whistled at while walking alone along streets. These whistles come from men in cars as well as pedestrian passersby. Sometimes, hawker stalls owners compliments her and ask her for her name. It happens too in cinemas and public places.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

I hope that the awareness is raised in Malaysia about the rudeness of catcalling to a complete stranger. I believe that currently there is no act or law in place to curb this. I do want to help in preventing this happening to anyone, be it male or female. Thank you for your kind help. 🙂

– JH

Location: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

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This New Survey on Trans Bathroom Discrimination Should Alarm Everyone

July 13, 2016 By Contributor

Patrick Ryne McNeil, SSH Board Member

Toilet sign 4.pptxThis is a fact: LGBTQ people experience public harassment – and according to our spring 2014 report, LGBTQ people in the United States are more likely than straight, cisgender people to report experiencing it (both verbal and physical forms). The sample size in our research forced us to group the entire LGBTQ community into one category. While this lumping is not ideal and cannot account for the ways that intersecting identities lead everyone to experience the world differently, it did show that queer people – as past research has shown – are victims of public harassment.

Preliminary findings from the 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey, out this month from the National Center for Transgender Equality, show that trans people face one particularly dangerous form of public harassment: the kind that takes place in public restrooms.

According to the preliminary results:

  • 59 percent of respondents have avoided bathrooms in the last year because they feared confrontations in public restrooms at work, at school, or in other places.
  • 12 percent said they’ve been harassed, attacked, or sexually assaulted in a bathroom in the last year.
  • 31 percent said they’ve avoided drinking or eating so that they didn’t need to use the restroom in the last year.
  • 9 percent report being denied access to the appropriate restroom in the last year.

These findings should concern and anger everyone. In the same way that street harassment can force women and other marginalized communities into making consequential life changes – like adjusting their commute, moving homes, or switching jobs – harassment of trans people in public bathrooms, as the survey shows, can cause them to avoid using public facilities or can discourage them from drinking or eating in the first place. Those are harmful choices that no one should have to make.

While 12 percent reported experiencing harassment, attacks, or sexual assault, 59 percent have avoided restrooms because they’re afraid it will happen to them. That fear – even in the absence of harassment – is unhealthy. And bills popping up across the country to restrict restroom access aren’t helping.

The full U.S. Transgender Survey will be released later this year.

Patrick works in communications at The Leadership Conference on Civil and Human Rights, where he writes on a range of social justice issues. He is a board member of Stop Street Harassment and he wrote his thesis on the street harassment of gay and bisexual men at the George Washington University. He was awarded SSH’s Safe Public Spaces Trailblazer award in 2013 for his street harassment-related work.

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“I told him he needs to control his comments.”

July 7, 2016 By Contributor

Just yesterday, at a Family Dollar, I was harassed by a middle aged man. I was wearing a bandage skirt and he said, “I feel like I just want to grab that thing. You need to cover it up because I’m attracted to shit like that.”

I told him he needs to control his comments. He told me my man was an idiot for letting me dress like that. I felt very terrified, because he just threatened to rape me, technically.

– Betty Miller

Location: Broad and Girard Ave. in Philadelphia, PA

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“They continued trying to create a picture of me as the victim who deserved this act of violence”

July 6, 2016 By Contributor

I was driving into an outdoor shopping center a little after lunchtime when two men who were walking in my direction looked at me and yelled, “Hey” in a loud and not-so-friendly way.

When I didn’t look in their direction, they hit my car with metal pipes and yelled, “Hey, Bitch watch where you are going.”

I drove my car to a different area of the parking lot. When I walked out, they followed me in their car and yelled,”Hey, Bitch you really need to listen to us. You’re not that important.”

When I reported this incident to the police, they advised me to stay in the same parking lot while they sent a patrol car, which never arrived. They joked about it and asked me what I had done to encourage their behavior. When I finally decided to drive to the police station in Canoga Park on my own, the police officers asked me if I like it hard in the middle of their interview with me of the incident. They continued trying to create picture of me as the victim who deserved this act of violence. They behaved in the same way with another woman who was filing a report against a man who had assaulted her.

However, they were far too patient with a man who was talking about real estate laws because it allowed the police officer to gloat about the house he owned. It showed the dichotomy between the way the police officers treated the women and men in their precinct. There was not one single female police officer in the precinct and as I and the other woman told our story, the police officers in the front and back chuckled and laughed, because that is how much they valued our words.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Educate police personnel not to take this issue lightly. The police officers I spoke to on the phone joked about it and insinuated that it was somehow something I had done that caused the incident. Make sure there are enough female officers or well trained officers to deal with these types of incidents.

– Anonymous

Location: Shopping center on the corner of Topanga Ave in Woodland Hills

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