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San Francisco Man Stabbed after Intervening

March 15, 2016 By HKearl

Via SF Gate:

“A San Francisco man who tried to intervene when his friend was being harassed was stabbed with a kitchen knife Wednesday outside a grocery store in the Mission District.

The victim, age 30, had just exited the store about 4:30 p.m. when he saw an apparently intoxicated man harassing his female friend, a store employee. The suspect, a 57-year-old man also of San Francisco, was being “vulgar and rude,” said Officer Carlos Manfredi, a police spokesman.

The 30-year-old told the man to knock it off, Manfredi said, and the two got into an argument, which soon turned physical.

The suspect pushed the younger man and stabbed him several times in the leg and upper torso, then ran away, police said.

Paramedics arrived at the scene of the stabbing near 14th and Folsom streets and transported the victim to a nearby hospital. His injuries did not appear to be life-threatening.”

I’m grateful he took a stand and I wish him a speedy recovery.

It’s so hard to know what is the “best” way to respond to harassment one experiences or witnesses, we have a split second to decide. You never know when it may escalate.

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: bystander, harassment escalation, male ally, san francisco

5 Things to Prepare for Int’l Anti-Street Harassment Week

March 14, 2016 By HKearl

3.12.16 EndSHweek with EROC

From April 10-16, we are organizing the sixth annual International Anti-Street Harassment Week and already groups and people in 30 countries have pledged to participate. WOO!

The purpose of the week is to allow us to join together in solidarity and amplify each other’s voices and work so that the world listens.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION:

    1. Tell Us What You’re Doing!
      We want to know what you’re doing! Please either complete this form, or e-mail me, Holly, with info at hollykearl @ yahoo.com.  This is important. It will help us direct individuals to the relevant event/s in their area. It will also help us gain more media attention for the week/issue overall if we can share specific interesting events that will be occurring. Thank you in advance for your help.
    2. Ideas for Action
      Do you still need ideas for what you can do? Here are several. Also, see photos from our actions in 2015.  | Read the wrap-up report featuring events in 41 countries and 24 U.S. states!We especially hope to see offline discussions involving diverse community members of all genders and backgrounds. It will take EVERYONE to truly create safer communities.But at minimum, any individual can participate through simple acts like telling their street harassment story, writing chalk messages, and sharing information online.
    3. Tools
      We have a selection of shareable images and downloadable fliers on our website and will be adding even more updated 2016 items to the page later this week. They are available in a number of languages…but we’d love to have even more. Please email me if you are willing to translate a few sentences.2016FBcoverimage
    4. Write a Blog Post
      If you’d like to write a blog post for Stop Street Harassment (or have an entry cross-posted from your blog) that would be great! It can be for the week itself, or you can advertise what you’ll be doing for the week and why. Just reach out to me with a short pitch about what the blog would cover and the preferred date or time range you’d like it published.
    5. Tweet Chats
      April 12 will be our global tweetathon. Tweet about street harassment using #Endsh throughout the day.We are working to set up the daily tweet chats — If you are planning to host one but haven’t been in touch yet, please reach out so we can add it to the official list. Or if you’d like to host or co-host one, let us know! And in general, please plan to use #EndSH for the chats as well as for any relevant street harassment tweets throughout the week.

Feel free to reach out anytime with questions, suggestions, or information!

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“Their calls are unwanted”

March 14, 2016 By Contributor

Hi. When I walk by a house in my hometown the guys inside catcall when I’m alone but hide inside like cowards. Since it’s a public side street near the train station, I want to ask the harassers to come outside so I can tell them to their faces that their calls are unwanted. I would prefer to avoid getting the police involved but they may have to interpret.

– Anonymous

Location: Bound Brook, NJ

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“Goddamn bitch, you’ve got a fatty!”

March 13, 2016 By Contributor

While walking to the store, a man yelled out from a passing car, “Goddamn bitch, you’ve got a fatty!” I tried not to think about it afterwards, but it is still in my mind a day later.

I feel angry, disrespected, and wonder if there is a way to avoid it. Like maybe I shouldn’t wear the jeans I was wearing. I’ve put on a little weight, and my jeans fit tighter. I don’t want to be harassed just because I can’t afford to buy new clothes. I feel angry and frustrated. All I was trying to do was have a pleasant walk, get a little exercise, and enjoy the day. Maybe, he was trying to compliment me, but it made me feel awful.

– Anonymous

Location: Columbia, South Carolina

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“I guess they respect the man who is with you”

March 11, 2016 By Contributor

Between my best friend’s house and mine there is a building under construction. Whenever a girl passes by, the workers shout and catcall her. That happened to me a few times and it happened to a lot of other women. We live pretty close so I normally walk there daily, and it’s also my way to class. One day I realized the men recognized me as they knew I passed by everyday generally the same time and I started getting scared. Since then, I’ve asked my best friend to pick me up when I visit him and to go to class. I was never catcalled again. My best friend is a guy. I guess they respect the man who is with you.

– Anonymous

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